I think younger me assumed that if I ever got to have a boyfriend, the big moments would be the ones that mattered. First kiss, meeting the parents, all that stuff.

But the other day my boyfriend texted me to pick up dish soap, and I stood in the supermarket for five minutes trying to remember which scent he hates.

On the way home it randomly hit me that 16-year-old me would've been absolutely floored by this. Not the fact that I have a boyfriend, exactly. The fact that having one has become so normal that we can have a minor domestic disagreement about lemon-scented dish soap.

I spent years imagining what being with another guy might look like. Somehow I never pictured the boring parts, and those are turning out to be some of my favorites.

Anyone else have a completely ordinary moment that younger you would've found unbelievable?

I'm on an early morning flight in grey sweats. Just woke up from a nap and am sporting a raging hard on. Dunno how long it's been going strong and obvious. Got me thinking, flight attendants do you see a lot of hard ons going up and down the aisle?

Honestly i am so confused regarding my first, this is going to be my first time with a guy i really like and i am nervous about I might not last long.

Wha should be the average time? And what was your first time like?

Just came here to say this is a complete lie. My friend has some of the worst resting bitch face ive ever seen and also doesnt like dancing much, genuinely looks so unhappy on the dance floor. BUT IT DOESNT MATTER because for some reason guys will yank him out of the crowd to go dance with them just because abs. Just have abs bro, its literally the only requirement apparently.

I have recently entered a new relationship and everything is going great besides the frequency of sex. We only have sex about one time a week because to me, anal is mentally exhausting. i know not really but it feels like so much goes into it because im so conscious about what i’m eating, when im eating, if i take my fiber pills, the prep, making a mess etc… it’s just very overwhelming to me and it makes me not want to have sex as often as i would like. so, how do people in relationships have sex SO often? what are you doing to mitigate the concerns i’ve mentioned ? how are you so carefree when it comes to anal?

to make it clear i do not feel pressured by my bf in any way and even if there were a mess he is super gentle and understanding and would never make me feel weird about it and has constantly reassured me.

I go first, Harry Styles.

Does anyone know what happened to Jake Cruise? I remember him filming a scene in his own studio with all the well-known porn stars back in the day. Is he even still alive?

So I've heard it does the job and I'm not super girthy or anything. So advice on how to make the most of it like positions etc.

When I’m really horny and stroking, I sometimes just lick the precum off the tip.

Is this something a lot of guys do or is it kinda rare?

Curious what you all think / if you do it too.

Need some feedback (good or bad).

Training in gym. Not that it’s important but i am 26. One day I asked a guy to spot and since then every time we cross paths in gym we train together. We also text each other so now and then outside gym. Funny and sometimes a bit spicey talks.

After a while, I discovered via X / Twitter my new gymbuddy has some ´naugthy’ side activities. Bumped into some shorts with him and other ´actors’´as publicity for their onlyfans channel(s). He does not know I know (or at least i guess) and honestly I did not care (see below) as that part is part of his life - not mine.

But now it comes: he texted me last night that from the beginning he thought I was a nice guy, completely his type and asked me to go on a date with him to get known each other better and outside gym.

That feeling is mutual, but I already know i could never date someone active in porn. How would you react? (Personally I think i am just going to be honest to him about it).

Pretty sure the guy next to me in the gym showers was jerking off the way he was moaning and panting, there were stalls so I didn't see him, it did give me a hard on. My question is can you get in trouble for it? Even though it is a business, technically nobody can see you right?

i wish speedos were more common here. spent enough time seeing european beach pics to realise how normal they are there, while everywhere else men seem to wear swimming shorts that reach their knees.

not sure when speedos became such a big deal, but i find them really attractive. there’s something about a man in a well-fitted speedo that long shorts just don’t do for me.

anyone else feel the same? or are there actually men here who wear them?

My ex-boyfriend and I recently broke up after I found out he was cheating on me. To make matters worse, I later discovered that the person he cheated with knew full well he was in a relationship and simply didn't care. It really makes you wonder what people's thoughts are on this. Personally, I could never knowingly participate in something like that; I find it deeply selfish and a major red flag. I'm not just saying this because I'm the one who was cheated on honestly, crossing that boundary is something I've never been willing to do.

I unfortunately haven’t seen any but im interested to hear your stories!! And also explain how you got in that situation

Can be any type of animation whether it is Western animation or anime

As the title states it was horrible. I cum EXTREMELY hard to the point it looks like I’m having a seizure. I told the guy I cum really hard and that I can’t control what I do/noises. He had me sneak in through his window which happened to be on the second floor since his parents were asleep which was funny. Anyways we do the deed and I told him I was about to cum and I latched onto him similarly how people act when being tased and my nails made him bleed. I also farted which has never happened before whilst finishing. Anyways after he told me to get out which was whatever and he texted me and said he thought I was dying since I was convulsing and that it was super weird to see and me farting was disgusting. I never hookup because of how embarrassing it is when I finish and this experience literally solidified it even more.

Idek why I’m posting this I just feel like never meeting up again because every guy I get with says it sounds hot but then bashes me for it. I guess my question is how do I finish so I don’t scare people or get talked down upon.

EDIT I BITE MY NAILS THEY HAVE NO LENGTH

My new BF stuck it in for the first time the other night without asking and I tried to tell him I didn’t prepare but he ignored me. It was very hot and no accident happened.

I personally clicked on the gay catogry in ph and thought it was hot af

For me personally, id say long hair. Doesn't matter how styled it is, i just love seeing men with long hair.

What outfit you rocking for Halloween? Creative? Slutty? Obscure?

Is it just me or is being gay and single extremely isolating ,especially as someone who isn't part of the "community". Im fairly introverted and the gay bars in Dublin seem to be on the extreme side, and just not for me.

I watch alot of porn and all the guys have really big cocks, I sometimes envy them and wish I had a dick that big, but sometimes I appreciate the inches I have, it's a nice length and width. Just wondering how guys feel about their junk.