I think younger me assumed that if I ever got to have a boyfriend, the big moments would be the ones that mattered. First kiss, meeting the parents, all that stuff.

But the other day my boyfriend texted me to pick up dish soap, and I stood in the supermarket for five minutes trying to remember which scent he hates.

On the way home it randomly hit me that 16-year-old me would've been absolutely floored by this. Not the fact that I have a boyfriend, exactly. The fact that having one has become so normal that we can have a minor domestic disagreement about lemon-scented dish soap.

I spent years imagining what being with another guy might look like. Somehow I never pictured the boring parts, and those are turning out to be some of my favorites.

Anyone else have a completely ordinary moment that younger you would've found unbelievable?

Pretty sure the guy next to me in the gym showers was jerking off the way he was moaning and panting, there were stalls so I didn't see him, it did give me a hard on. My question is can you get in trouble for it? Even though it is a business, technically nobody can see you right?

Can be any type of animation whether it is Western animation or anime

I'm on an early morning flight in grey sweats. Just woke up from a nap and am sporting a raging hard on. Dunno how long it's been going strong and obvious. Got me thinking, flight attendants do you see a lot of hard ons going up and down the aisle?

Does anyone know what happened to Jake Cruise? I remember him filming a scene in his own studio with all the well-known porn stars back in the day. Is he even still alive?

As the title states it was horrible. I cum EXTREMELY hard to the point it looks like I’m having a seizure. I told the guy I cum really hard and that I can’t control what I do/noises. He had me sneak in through his window which happened to be on the second floor since his parents were asleep which was funny. Anyways we do the deed and I told him I was about to cum and I latched onto him similarly how people act when being tased and my nails made him bleed. I also farted which has never happened before whilst finishing. Anyways after he told me to get out which was whatever and he texted me and said he thought I was dying since I was convulsing and that it was super weird to see and me farting was disgusting. I never hookup because of how embarrassing it is when I finish and this experience literally solidified it even more.

Idek why I’m posting this I just feel like never meeting up again because every guy I get with says it sounds hot but then bashes me for it. I guess my question is how do I finish so I don’t scare people or get talked down upon.

EDIT I BITE MY NAILS THEY HAVE NO LENGTH

Need some feedback (good or bad).

Training in gym. Not that it’s important but i am 26. One day I asked a guy to spot and since then every time we cross paths in gym we train together. We also text each other so now and then outside gym. Funny and sometimes a bit spicey talks.

After a while, I discovered via X / Twitter my new gymbuddy has some ´naugthy’ side activities. Bumped into some shorts with him and other ´actors’´as publicity for their onlyfans channel(s). He does not know I know (or at least i guess) and honestly I did not care (see below) as that part is part of his life - not mine.

But now it comes: he texted me last night that from the beginning he thought I was a nice guy, completely his type and asked me to go on a date with him to get known each other better and outside gym.

That feeling is mutual, but I already know i could never date someone active in porn. How would you react? (Personally I think i am just going to be honest to him about it).

What are some considerations do you take (did you take) when you had you topped for the first time?

I personally wear an undershirt, long sleeved crewneck, boxer briefs, and comfy long pants when i go to sleep. even during the summer

and especially during the winter I bury myself under like three throw blankets and cuddle with even more and I don’t feel constricted or hot at all. in fact I still feel cold and want to cuddle with a guy and warm myself up with his body heat…

previously when this has been asked, everyone else says they sleep nude so I’m just curious if there’s anyone like me who wears more clothing to be comfortable?

Just came here to say this is a complete lie. My friend has some of the worst resting bitch face ive ever seen and also doesnt like dancing much, genuinely looks so unhappy on the dance floor. BUT IT DOESNT MATTER because for some reason guys will yank him out of the crowd to go dance with them just because abs. Just have abs bro, its literally the only requirement apparently.

I have recently entered a new relationship and everything is going great besides the frequency of sex. We only have sex about one time a week because to me, anal is mentally exhausting. i know not really but it feels like so much goes into it because im so conscious about what i’m eating, when im eating, if i take my fiber pills, the prep, making a mess etc… it’s just very overwhelming to me and it makes me not want to have sex as often as i would like. so, how do people in relationships have sex SO often? what are you doing to mitigate the concerns i’ve mentioned ? how are you so carefree when it comes to anal?

to make it clear i do not feel pressured by my bf in any way and even if there were a mess he is super gentle and understanding and would never make me feel weird about it and has constantly reassured me.

Honestly i am so confused regarding my first, this is going to be my first time with a guy i really like and i am nervous about I might not last long.

Wha should be the average time? And what was your first time like?

What outfit you rocking for Halloween? Creative? Slutty? Obscure?

So I've heard it does the job and I'm not super girthy or anything. So advice on how to make the most of it like positions etc.

I go first, Harry Styles.

Hey, im 21 and new to the community. im someone whos very regulated and very goal oriented.
I met this one guy, physically hes not my type but i gave him a chance cuz hes fun. Then i found out he smokes which personally is not something i like, i mentioned it. Then later i found out he drinks, does weed and drugs. His sex drive is high, weird unhealthy kinks, hes never sober, and warned me about him being evil. Surpsingly, hes not as disregulated as im describing him. Hes on top of his class and i like him cuz he shows genuine care in me. Where is this going :/? Very cliche but can i fix him or will i go down with him…

My new BF stuck it in for the first time the other night without asking and I tried to tell him I didn’t prepare but he ignored me. It was very hot and no accident happened.

I’ve been dating this guy for a few months now we’ve had a sex a dozen times, after the first 3 I have trouble staying hard. He gets really mad about it but still ends up finishing, there’s a lot of times his after care really sucks he’ll literally will finish in me then leave the bedroom to go on his phone or something in the living room. He’s a lot older than I am (18 and 28) so maybe it’s something that comes with age idk. Any help would be great tho

Hello everyone,

i live outside of the US and am thinking of moving there in a year or two. One of my options is wilmington, North Carolina. My main reasons are year round weather and beach acces among others. I work online so job market isnt an issue for me. I've never been to the US so i've only been able to go of off what i can find in the internet and despite my best efforts i can't seem to find any gays in wilmington. There obviously are gay people there so my question is:

Is this town homophobic or is it just that its too small of a town to have a gay presence in it?

Im young (mid 20s) so i would enjoy having nightlife or at the very least the opportunity of social activity. Personally i've never had many gay friends since where i have always lived is a lot more homophobic but i would definitely enjoy having the opportunity to make gay friends and date men. Other than that i dont mind having straight friends as long as i dont have to hide who i am.

Dom top here. I find the best sexual experiences on my end, are had when my bottom is able to relax and enjoy themselves. That usually comes after we've taken the time to have a convo to get to know each others turn ons, boundaries, and to just get to know each other as people a little bit. Sometimes that's a coffee date before we fuck. Sometimes that's just a 30 minute conversation on the couch before clothes come off.

Ofc, there're all sorts of other things we can and should be doing as doms and tops to help our bottoms relax and enjoy the experience. Like taking the time to eat the ass well, or coaching them to breathe deeply to help them relax their anal muscles, or, if they enjoy it, being verbal and praising them for being sexy af.

What do you do that helps make a bottom feel safe enough to really let go? Bottoms/subs, what did a top do that helped you have the best fucking time ever?

Anyone else get off watching themselves bate or fuck?