I think younger me assumed that if I ever got to have a boyfriend, the big moments would be the ones that mattered. First kiss, meeting the parents, all that stuff.

But the other day my boyfriend texted me to pick up dish soap, and I stood in the supermarket for five minutes trying to remember which scent he hates.

On the way home it randomly hit me that 16-year-old me would've been absolutely floored by this. Not the fact that I have a boyfriend, exactly. The fact that having one has become so normal that we can have a minor domestic disagreement about lemon-scented dish soap.

I spent years imagining what being with another guy might look like. Somehow I never pictured the boring parts, and those are turning out to be some of my favorites.

Anyone else have a completely ordinary moment that younger you would've found unbelievable?

Pretty sure the guy next to me in the gym showers was jerking off the way he was moaning and panting, there were stalls so I didn't see him, it did give me a hard on. My question is can you get in trouble for it? Even though it is a business, technically nobody can see you right?

Can be any type of animation whether it is Western animation or anime

Need some feedback (good or bad).

Training in gym. Not that it’s important but i am 26. One day I asked a guy to spot and since then every time we cross paths in gym we train together. We also text each other so now and then outside gym. Funny and sometimes a bit spicey talks.

After a while, I discovered via X / Twitter my new gymbuddy has some ´naugthy’ side activities. Bumped into some shorts with him and other ´actors’´as publicity for their onlyfans channel(s). He does not know I know (or at least i guess) and honestly I did not care (see below) as that part is part of his life - not mine.

But now it comes: he texted me last night that from the beginning he thought I was a nice guy, completely his type and asked me to go on a date with him to get known each other better and outside gym.

That feeling is mutual, but I already know i could never date someone active in porn. How would you react? (Personally I think i am just going to be honest to him about it).

EDIT : First of all thanks to all contributors for sharing their opinion (good and bad). So what I did: I called him up this morning (instead of texting). Told him I was flattered when receiving his text - apologized I did not react immediately. Told him I do not see any harm in doing something together outside gym, but as two people who might become friends instead of pure gym buddies & instead of two guys going on a date - so we decided to go for a drink and some tapas, to watch The Odyssey in theaters (still on both our list) and maybe go clubbing afterwards if we feel like it (like people do over here on a Friday). Might have to slip in that message again on the moment itself, but if he can cope with it, this could be the start of a good friendship (and I don't have the intention to talk about OF, unless he spontaneously starts about it)

So recently got a job on a remote station in Australia teaching 3 kids. The divorced father hired me for a 3 month contract. Problem is, he is gay and we ended up together in his bed. To make things worse i dressed as a cd for a month in his ex wife's clothes. I acted as his wife. It was amazing. I thought it was just a kink and move on. Now he has asked me back using my female name he gave me. I think hes in love. Not sure what to do. This is not what they taught me in teachers college.

As the title states it was horrible. I cum EXTREMELY hard to the point it looks like I’m having a seizure. I told the guy I cum really hard and that I can’t control what I do/noises. He had me sneak in through his window which happened to be on the second floor since his parents were asleep which was funny. Anyways we do the deed and I told him I was about to cum and I latched onto him similarly how people act when being tased and my nails made him bleed. I also farted which has never happened before whilst finishing. Anyways after he told me to get out which was whatever and he texted me and said he thought I was dying since I was convulsing and that it was super weird to see and me farting was disgusting. I never hookup because of how embarrassing it is when I finish and this experience literally solidified it even more.

Idek why I’m posting this I just feel like never meeting up again because every guy I get with says it sounds hot but then bashes me for it. I guess my question is how do I finish so I don’t scare people or get talked down upon.

EDIT I BITE MY NAILS THEY HAVE NO LENGTH

I'm on an early morning flight in grey sweats. Just woke up from a nap and am sporting a raging hard on. Dunno how long it's been going strong and obvious. Got me thinking, flight attendants do you see a lot of hard ons going up and down the aisle?

Does anyone know what happened to Jake Cruise? I remember him filming a scene in his own studio with all the well-known porn stars back in the day. Is he even still alive?

when i was 16 i had a crush on my neighbour's son. he was 26. Tall dark handsome. i was pretty much sure that i am gay by my age of 16.

I am talking about the year 2010s. i was so confident as i always listen to britney spears song lol. i told him and wrote a letter.

he just tear that up and told me he is straight and had no feeling for guys.

i had a heart break but i gathered up myself within 3 days. i shifted my Energy to do creative work and study.

after 2 month he called me on my mobile and told me he wants a meet me after 11pm. i went there and he dropped his pants. he told me to give him a bj. i was keen. i started and he came like in 30s. i didn’t like that. he was so small (4 inch). i never did anything before that.

so those thing happened 4/5 times and he was very fond of me by next year. i was a free catch i know.

i left my hometown by 2012 and we never talked about it. we never had a proper sex.

Im 23, have been thinking about going to a gay bar/club but am a bit nervous about it ngl. Doesnt help that I am introverted and also not in the best physical shape. But ever since I came out a year ago ive been telling myself to go out to gay spaces more.

When did you guys start going?

I have recently entered a new relationship and everything is going great besides the frequency of sex. We only have sex about one time a week because to me, anal is mentally exhausting. i know not really but it feels like so much goes into it because im so conscious about what i’m eating, when im eating, if i take my fiber pills, the prep, making a mess etc… it’s just very overwhelming to me and it makes me not want to have sex as often as i would like. so, how do people in relationships have sex SO often? what are you doing to mitigate the concerns i’ve mentioned ? how are you so carefree when it comes to anal?

to make it clear i do not feel pressured by my bf in any way and even if there were a mess he is super gentle and understanding and would never make me feel weird about it and has constantly reassured me.

Anyone else get off watching themselves bate or fuck?

What are some considerations do you take (did you take) when you had you topped for the first time?

I go first, Harry Styles.

I personally wear an undershirt, long sleeved crewneck, boxer briefs, and comfy long pants when i go to sleep. even during the summer

and especially during the winter I bury myself under like three throw blankets and cuddle with even more and I don’t feel constricted or hot at all. in fact I still feel cold and want to cuddle with a guy and warm myself up with his body heat…

previously when this has been asked, everyone else says they sleep nude so I’m just curious if there’s anyone like me who wears more clothing to be comfortable?

What outfit you rocking for Halloween? Creative? Slutty? Obscure?

I'm 24 ,I haven't leak a small amount of precum naturally ever since my teenage . Can release good amount of precum only by stimulating prostate through anal. And without stimulation can release a small drop rarely when not jerked of for a week and very horny . Is there any way or something that can develop the cowper gland function naturally?

Just came here to say this is a complete lie. My friend has some of the worst resting bitch face ive ever seen and also doesnt like dancing much, genuinely looks so unhappy on the dance floor. BUT IT DOESNT MATTER because for some reason guys will yank him out of the crowd to go dance with them just because abs. Just have abs bro, its literally the only requirement apparently.

Honestly i am so confused regarding my first, this is going to be my first time with a guy i really like and i am nervous about I might not last long.

Wha should be the average time? And what was your first time like?

I’ve been dating this guy for a few months now we’ve had a sex a dozen times, after the first 3 I have trouble staying hard. He gets really mad about it but still ends up finishing, there’s a lot of times his after care really sucks he’ll literally will finish in me then leave the bedroom to go on his phone or something in the living room. He’s a lot older than I am (18 and 28) so maybe it’s something that comes with age idk. Any help would be great tho

So I've heard it does the job and I'm not super girthy or anything. So advice on how to make the most of it like positions etc.