Im just wondering if thats a thing that happens on hookups. I consider myself a bottom also im a virgin so who know really. just asking if this happens alot like do tops let you know when they are about to finish so you can match climax or be somewhat close. Reason im concerned ish is what if the top finishes before you and doesn't help you after. Id like if both got satisfied idk if im over thinking this or what not.

Verse here with nipple play kink and 6m5 inch cock

bi curious with huge roleplay and verbal fetish/fantasy. anyone with the same or experience of message me

I am from 🇵🇭 and I’ll be traveling to Osaka on vacation starting November 5th to 19th.

For those of you who have been to Osaka, how’s the hookup scene there and which app do people use?

I am not into bar or clubs and haven’t tried going to public baths yet (but open to it).

He's 19 and I'm 24. Is the age gap concerning? It was my first time to try a relationship with someone younger than me because most of my past relationship are older guys. Honestly, we kinda hit it off like we had a lot in common. I'm just worrying if I'm too predatory about the age gap that I even asked him about it lol. He said he was cool with it and we're both consenting adults.

Is Iced coffee not the gayest drink, or is there something else?☕️

I’m a tall black bottom, not very hairy (unfortunately), and on the submissive side. I’m most attracted to white or north african men with who are hairy, masculine, dominant, and shorter than me. In other words, I’m attracted to men who are pretty much my complete opposite, both physically and in terms of personality.

On the other hand, when someone shares similarities with me, particularly my skin color and the submissivness, I tend to feel no attraction to them.

Is it the same for you, or is it the complete opposite? And why? (Would love to know if there is any biological or psychological theory behind)

I'm 18m and I'm a lil insecure about my dingus size, it's 8 cm when soft and 12cm when erect.

please let me know!!

Need advice on how to approach my kinks with my boyfriend. I want to get into bully/humiliation/bondage/ball busting etc… We have good sex but I wouldn’t say either of us are the most assertive but would love for him to get on board every now and then as I predominantly am the bottom and he is the top.

Hello, im Zain. 25. I have a question pertaining to body hair. Specifically on the male private parts. Both the penis and the butt/anus. Do you prefer a guy who has a bush but no butt hair? Clean on both sides? Are hair butts attractive to you? And the same for the anus? I know everyone can have their own opinions about this, so im happy to hear everyone's response. I guess im more or less trying to gage an overall perspective. Thanks in advance for any replies.

Today I hooked up and gave oral sex to a guy I met on an app. At first, I went to his place, and he seemed a lot older even though I'm way taller than him. When I went upstairs with him, I genuinely started getting scared because of the age gap—he was 35 and I'm 21. When we sat down, he told me to come to the other room; it was dark, honestly, but not too dark. Once I sat down, he asked if I wanted to hook up, so I took off my underwear. He started licking my balls while kneeling down, grabbing my dick with his hand and sucking on it. But I told him to deepthroat it, and he said he couldn't, even though he claimed he'd given head to two guys before me, but with you... your dick is too big, I can't. I even asked if he could take half of it, and he said no, honestly. When he started sucking again, I pushed my dick a little bit into his throat, and he started gagging and told me, 'Please don't do that, I'm about to throw up.' I said fine, and he started licking the head of my dick for about 5 minutes. When he finished, I asked him to let me cum inside him, and he said no, I can't, your dick is too big. Then he stood up and said, 'I can't do this, I can't.' I told him just 5 more minutes, and he said no, I really can't do this, oh god. I said alright, even though he was the one who said he wanted to suck my dick. Honestly, I was surprised—seeing an older guy with a strong personality kneeling in front of me like a little slut, choking on my dick while I was completely in control of him, to the point where he was sucking my balls in his mouth. After that, I went back home.

I can't understand (or accept) my sexual orientation. It’s a very long story, but I can say that last spring I finally accepted the fact that I’m gay, even though I thought I might be bi because I had a very faint attraction to girls—but I decided to just ignore that fact at the time, and overall, things stayed pretty much the same for about a year. But this past September—I don’t know—I started thinking more about the idea that maybe I’m not attracted to guys but in reality, I just didn’t feel manly enough—not “man enough”—and that’s why I liked other guys. But actually, I didn’t want to be with them; I wanted to be like them. I also started spending hours arguing in the gender wars (tiktok, twitter), and overall, I started to feel repelled by the idea that, like, if you’re gay, you’re supposed to only have girlfriends, and there are a lot of other stereotypes about how “every girl wants a gay besty” and that made me feel a little bad about myself because it was like I wasn’t a guy but a toy. With all that said, I want to point out that my theory was partly right—like, I started getting less turned on by guys and more by girls, and if before the ratio was about 95 to 5 in favor of guys, now it’s about 60 to 40 or 50-50—meaning it’s it’s unclear who I’m attracted to. Well, everything remains very confusing, and I also don’t know about the issue of masculinity—logically, I understand that if I’m bi or gay, it doesn’t mean I’m any less of a guy, but logic doesn’t help.

So maybe a weird one, I don’t know. I’m a 26 year old guy. I still consider myself straight in a way. But I’m probably closer to bi-curious. I’ve experimented in every way you can online. And I’ve found I really really like one certain thing above all. Which is when a gay or bi guy sends me sexy photos of female celebs and pornstars. I honestly really enjoy when it’s a full on gay guy, not bi, and even more when they’re feminine and really get into it with me. It’s a bit dynamic, I send a list of women I like, they go pick out the photos, we get to know each other. And we dirty talk and I’m more than happy to return the favor - get into some mildly gay dirty talk and show off my cock. I know it’s probably weird to most, but it’s a really good blend of my sexual curiosities and I enjoy it.

My question is, what is the best way to go about asking a guy online if he’d be into this?
I’ve had a hard time explaining it properly. And have gotten some confused or rude replies when I’ve asked.
And if anyone knows any specific communities on here or elsewhere that would suit this well?

I'm 24 ,I haven't leak a small amount of precum naturally ever since my teenage . Can release good amount of precum only by stimulating prostate through anal. And without stimulation can release a small drop rarely when not jerked of for a week and very horny . Is there any way or something that can develop the cowper gland function naturally?

It's been like nearly a year since I even touched another dude. I was busy and stressed with college to the point that I could not even bring myself to arrange a meetup.

Free Grindr sucks, I can't never find someone I'm genuinely into + everyone is fucking incapable of taking good photos of themselves on there

Being blue-balled makes me think about sex all the time, unwillingly.

And given my luck and track record, the odds of having a good night things went right vs a shit night is not in my favour.

THIS SUCKS.

Rant ended.

What’s the taste of a leaking(cum oozing)hole?

So recently got a job on a remote station in Australia teaching 3 kids. The divorced father hired me for a 3 month contract. Problem is, he is gay and we ended up together in his bed. To make things worse i dressed as a cd for a month in his ex wife's clothes. I acted as his wife. It was amazing. I thought it was just a kink and move on. Now he has asked me back using my female name he gave me. I think hes in love. Not sure what to do. This is not what they taught me in teachers college.

28 bisexual vers, someone please advise me

I am 28 bisexual vers. I have enjoyed being a vers or vers bottom for 4 to 5 sessions. But whenever I try to Top and insert my dick in asshole, I fail to penetrate. I have tried 2-3 times and have not able to penetrate. I am usually hard when I do foreplay, bodyplay, oral sex and other things. but when I go to insert it in the ass, I am not able to and lose my errection.

Is there something wrong with me?

I have not done sex with any girl yet, I am scared will I be able to perform with a girl?

All my clothes were stolen from a u haul. I wá. Moving and somebody stole the truck. All my clothes, my underwear collection ALL GONE. Yes I work to pay my bills . but things are so tight I can't even get myself new stuff. So here I am. Save the shit talking for someone else. .

Not sure if this is the right spot to ask this question… over the last 6 weeks I have lost both my grandmothers and a great uncle. Today I found out that a friend has also passed away yesterday due to her breast cancer returning. My friend’s death is particularly hard to process today.

A death on its own, I have time to process and grieve but to have had four deaths in quick succession I feel the grief is just building up. I will most likely go speak to a professional to work through some of these feelings but I’m also interested to know if anyone has had similar experiences.

What is compounding everything is that I am single and don’t live near my family so am also leaning a lot on my friends at the moment too.

Just curious — has anyone here hooked up with or dated guys who are 20–25 years older?

How was the experience overall? Any pros/cons you noticed? Would you do it again?

i have recently done 4 times so

It’s starting to feel unbelievable that some people would even want to go for a walk, have coffee, or just chill. It’s not even “almost like” anymore; it’s almost certain that most people don’t want friendship unless they can gain something from it. In my experience, it’s almost always sex. Most people probably can’t even remember my age…

It’s starting to feel unbelievable that some people would even want to go for a walk, have coffee, or just chill. It’s not even “almost like” anymore; it’s almost certain that most people don’t want friendship unless they can gain something from it. In my experience, it’s almost always sex. Most people probably can’t even remember my age.