r/ask_transgender • • 48m ago

Image Post What name vibes do I give? :)

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r/ask_transgender • • 14h ago

How to stay strong for medical job?

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r/ask_transgender • • 16h ago

Electrolysis in early stages

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r/ask_transgender • • 1d ago

Text Post Care package for someone getting FFS?

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r/ask_transgender • • 1d ago

I’m planning to take estrogen and start Hrt, but I’m worried my breasts will grow and become noticeable.

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Hi,

I wanted to start hormone therapy, but the only thing holding me back was the concern that my breasts would grow and my mother or anyone else would notice.

That would have caused me a lot of problems.

I found out that I could take Nolvadex (10 mg) tamoxifen, which is SERM

which would slow down or completely stop breast growth.

Does this medication actually slow down or halt breast growth?

Would you recommend I take it while starting estrogen?

And what is the appropriate dosage?

If I were to take one tablet of Climen daily,

and two tablets of Noractone (25 mg)

I’d really appreciate it if someone could help me out, as this is a pressing matter.
i want to be a femboy as long as i can before being a woman in the far future


r/ask_transgender • • 1d ago

Do trans ftm go through menopause?

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r/ask_transgender • • 1d ago

Any suggestions for things I can do.

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r/ask_transgender • • 2d ago

Text Post What am i??

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I was confused about my identity most of my life and nothing really sticks with me

Basically im amab and present as feminine and look as feminine as possible, but i do not go by she/her and i don't want to get chest or bottom surgery, i get no dysphoria from being a guy, but i feel euphoric from looking like a girl and from people mistaking me as a girl

my end goal is looking like a girl but kinda confusing people at the same time, i was at some point in life and it felt great, but since i got older i started looking more like a man

I considered myself a femboy most of my life, but i think there might be something that describes me better, i thought i might be genderfluid, but it doesn't stick well either

Any thoughts?


r/ask_transgender • • 2d ago

One step closer

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I am scheduled for my Orchiectomy in two weeks. nervous and excited. finally my estrogen will not have to big of an obstacle to overcome.


r/ask_transgender • • 2d ago

Why is this in the mail

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For the actual trans out there, why, I am straight


r/ask_transgender • • 2d ago

Text Post what is happening??

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r/ask_transgender • • 3d ago

Text Post Those who have 'completed' their transition... what does life look like now? What does the future hold?

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r/ask_transgender • • 3d ago

A supportive parent of a transgender adult child looking for support/community/guidance.

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r/ask_transgender • • 3d ago

Is it transphobic ?

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r/ask_transgender • • 3d ago

Need help to transition FtM (19F)

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r/ask_transgender • • 3d ago

Image Post What can I do to look more fem?

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mtf 26 1.5 years on HRT. 25 weeks (5 sessions) laser hair removal.


r/ask_transgender • • 3d ago

Text Post Spontaneous nipple discharge?

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For the past week or so I've had spontaneous nipple discharge from my right nipple. The liquid is completely clear. It happens without me touching my breasts or anything. It's really worrying me because I'm afraid of breast cancer. Has any other trans girls experienced this?

I'm 20 months on E


r/ask_transgender • • 4d ago

FFS Advice

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Do the jaw or leave it alone?

2.5 years HRT. I’m 35.
I’m going for a second round of FFS after a brow bone reduction last June.

Last pic is before any surgery/botox.

I love how feminizing the brow bone reduction and change in gaze was. I tried to hold off on jaw work and opted for masseter botox instead, but it just made my cheekbones look less proportioned to my face.

I’m going for a lip lift, that’s for sure, but I’m unsure about jaw work. I had chat gpt do my before/after (sorry bout it 😅), but I’m not sure if it’s an accurate representation. I love the after though! 😹

I’m dysphoric so I don’t have much perception of how I’m perceived. I haven’t been sir’d since, but I can tell when people interact with me that they’re taken by surprise. I’m also 6 foot, so who knows…

I want to be able to find a job and travel without need to take my transness into account.

Objective advice, please .


r/ask_transgender • • 4d ago

Text Post What kinds of advice are rude coming from a cis woman?

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Hi there! I'm a cis woman, and a few years ago one of my friends came out as MTF trans. She's not my first trans friend, or the first trans woman that I've known, but she's the first one who I've known before her egg cracked. We were friends for years before she came out, and it was only last month when she came out to everybody in her life, so for the past... I don't even know how long, she was out to us, but still needed to boymode, so I didn't want to suggest anything which might raise questions or put her at risk.

Once before the DM'd me to ask if it'd be okay if she comes to me for fashion advice, and I told her absolutely she can, but I don't know if it's better to wait for her to ask, or if I can send suggestions when she sends us pictures of her outfits (it is a purely online friendship).

I did once give unsolicited advice about her hair, because in a picture she sent it was looking really dirty and when I asked how she was washing it, she answered she was only applying conditioner to her roots. She was grateful for my advice to instead only condition her mids and ends, and now when she sends pictures of her hair it looks really nice. Even though I was nice about it, it still felt sort of weird, because it was something which felt like on the line of "do not comment on people's appearances"

I don't want to overstep any boundaries or make her feel badly about herself, but she was also lamenting to us about how she didn't get to experience girlhood as a child and now she's learning everything late. Part of girlhood, to me, was thee experience of talking with my older sister and her giving me advice, but I don't want to overstep and hurt my friend.

I feel like the solution is, "Go and ask her what she's comfortable with, have a conversation with her," but I don't know how to bring it up. All of my other friends have been trans masc, the other trans women I've known were a few decades older than me so I never had a friendship dynamic with them.


r/ask_transgender • • 4d ago

Finally starting my HRT journey! (PH)

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r/ask_transgender • • 4d ago

Bottom Surgery Questions

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r/ask_transgender • • 4d ago

I’m struggling. Please give feedback/answers ❤️

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r/ask_transgender • • 4d ago

Image Post Beware of homophobic/transphobic tattooer

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r/ask_transgender • • 4d ago

Text Post Sorry to be such a pain in the ass

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r/ask_transgender • • 4d ago

Image Post Is it just me or has HRT done very little to my face? Impressions wanted!

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Hiya! Left photo is me pre-hrt 2022, and the right photo is me as of yesterday. I've officially been on HRT for 2 years, and it's been a good but difficult experience. I'm nonbinary, butch-like in gender expression, so, even though I'm a transfem, I'm not super insecure about my physical femininity or lack thereof. I'm just curious about impressions! Would you say I look female-leaning or male-leaning?

My main problem is that I'm autistic and can't really gauge my social perceptions by other people very well when I do go out and socialize a little bit (I prefer to stay home!). Because I struggle with interactions and verbal communication when I am out, I think most people are too busy being off put by my social struggles rather than anything relating to me being transgender.

I know that I'm physically not the worst off, and not the best either. I just want to know if people see much of a difference in my appearance beyond skin quality. Sorry that the photos are a bit overexposed. I'm wondering about people's off-the-cuff impression of me in right photo, not considerations about my gender expression like makeup, hair, facial hair, or anything.

I'd really appreciate it!

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