I have been in dire need of some physical intimacy. I’m 27 and the last time I was intimate with someone was when I was 19. Never been much of a dater and honestly have no desire to marry or have kids so it just never took priority for me but lately I’ve really missed it. I finally feel comfortable enough to pursue a casual relationship on my own terms but my god, what the fuck is going on 😭. No one has been rude but like damn would it hurt to at least ask what my goddamn favorite color is? Every fucking conversation is me asking them about their jobs and interests and hobbies. And its radio silence on their end. They could honestly care less about what I do in my free time or what kind of music I like. But are quick to ask what i’m wearing or what I smell like. Every fucking day its do you want help me jack off. Motherfucker I’m seeing you on SATURDAY. I’m not even asking to be taken on a date but like woah would it hurt to have some normal fucking conversation for a few days??? I’m not asking for a relationship but just because I want to fuck you doesn’t mean I’m in the mood 24/7 and willing to drop everything to help you get off when I’m not even in the mood.

Good morning. I’m curious how many other women keep their bra on during sex? I don’t do it all the time, but sometimes it just feels more comfortable to support the girls, especially if I expect we’re going to be a bit more energetic. If it’s just a quickie I usually take it off - depending on my mood lol

We've been dating for a little over a year. His personality outside the bedroom is just a big softie, and at first that's how he was in bed as well. I get really turned on by being submissive and letting a man sort of take charge, but his personality just isn't naturally that way and I don't think he'd ever been with a woman like that.

But he's getting more confident! Last night I told him I wanted him to get on top of me, grab my head and stuff his dick as far down my throat as he can. The first couple times he got towards the back and pulled out. I told him I'd tap him on the side when I wanted him to stop but to please keep going until I do. Finally he did what I actually wanted and grabbed my head and forcefully stuffed in it as deep as it would go, thrusted a few times, and held my head firmly until I tapped out.

I was so ridiculously turned on by how forceful it was. I don't know why I'm like this but few things turn me on more than submitting to my partner like that. The sex is already good but if he's gonna be less shy and more forceful...🤤🤤🤤

I don’t know why, but sometimes I find it hotter to just stare at my face in my phone screen reflection rather than watch porn, I don’t think I’m particularly the prettiest but something about it makes me really appreciate my appearance, and I think I look really hot 😭 Does anyone else do it? i don’t think about my body really, more just my expressions and admiring myself I suppose.

I used to struggle with self image a lot so I’m happy I’ve gotten to this point HAHA!

Do you just schedule time for fun, in and out?

Or do you actually hang around, talk about life, and go out doing friend stuff?

Do you all hang out together with other people? Do they know about your FWB activities?

My relationship with my body makes it nearly impossible to truly enjoy sex. I (26f) hate my vulvas appearance, hyperpigmentation, and now I've put on a little weight to make matters worse. I've been having sex with the same person (first piv sex and second ever partner) for a year now. I haven't had an orgasm yet. Even when I try to rub my clit during I just psyche myself out of it or it doesn't feel pleasurable in that moment. And I think it's mainly because I'm preoccupied with how I look and am being perceived during sex. He says that I'm hot, but I personally don't feel that way. He has also slipped up three different times in regards to my appearance, which we've talked about plenty of times before, which I still believe he feels negative about.

Given that we're not romantically involved, I'm thinking of seeing someone else. I'm talking to another guy who is sexually interested, but I'm lowkey turning him down because I am terrified of how he'll view my body. I'd be just his second partner with an outie. He has a desire to go down on me, but I feel very apprehensive about it. I think overall he'll be disappointed, and just thinking about the act in reality is making me sick. I don't wanna be someone's experiment.He mentioned wanting to see how pretty it is. Some women have pretty outies. I wouldn't consider mine pretty. If I wasn't insecure about my body, I know that I would enjoy sex. I desire sex but when someone shows interest, it scares me. I don't understand how people can just easily have sex without having to consider all these things. I'm jealous.

I recently ended a nine-year relationship. The last year had been really difficult, and although I tried everything I could to make things work, I eventually reached a point where I had lost hope and knew I needed to move on. I found it really hard to let go, but I feel like I had already grieved the relationship while I was still in it, and my therapist agrees.

It's only been four days since the breakup, so I'm obviously sad, but I also feel relieved. The situation had become painful for both of us, and we seemed to be stuck in a place where nothing was changing and we weren't moving forward in any direction. As much as it hurts to end a relationship after so long, I think part of me is relieved that we're no longer stuck in that cycle.

We got together when I was 19, so I've never really experienced adult life outside of a relationship. I've never been with anyone else or had sex with anyone else, and now I'm curious about exploring that side of life.

I'm not necessarily looking for another relationship right now. I think I'd like to meet new people, experience new things, and figure out what I like and want outside of the relationship I've been in for so long. But I honestly have no idea where to start or how to navigate dating and casual relationships, especially after being with the same person for so many years.

I'd love to hear from people who've been in a similar situation. How did you approach dating or exploring your sexuality after a long-term relationship? Did you find it better to take some time for yourself first, or did you just put yourself out there and see what happened? I know there's no right or wrong way to do this, but I'd really appreciate hearing about other people's experiences and advice.

Have you noticed the difference or have at least felt the swelling and throbbing?

hi! i always feel awkward starting a post lol..

i have issues with masturbation as a whole anyway (never being able to orgasm or feel much pleasure) but a big contributior to that in my opinion is the lack of wetness during. i drink a lot of water (around 3L per day sometimes more) and i never really seem to get wet no matter the foreplay or circumstance. even when i use spit. it just dries up super quick and i don’t know why or what to do about this issue or if it’s really even a issue?? please lmk any info you do have cause it kinda worrying me!! thank you