r/AskWomen • u/belindabellagiselle • Sep 04 '26

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT: We are NOT accepting posts about the Lindsay Clancy case.

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Asking about the Lindsay Clancy case/trial breaks many of our rules and will not be permitted.

If you have questions about our rules, please reach out via modmail.

Mod Post Mate Free Monday

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Due to popular demand, every Monday from 12am ET and (-5 GMT) until 12am on Tuesday, submissions related to dating, relationships, or attraction will be removed.;

Examples of things we'll remove:

What do you look for in a partner?
What does your SO do that you love/annoy you?
Are you attracted to [feature]? (Includes celebrities)
Would you ever date noted guitarist Slash?
Is [thing] a red flag/yellow flag/dealbreaker/white flag?
What do you think about men who eat muffins alone in coffee shops? How about the sexiest way for them to remove a jacket, or zip up hoodie?
Any question involving sex, attraction, or romanctic relationships.

If you have any questions about these supplemental rules, please message the moderators and we will be happy to discuss it with you.

~The AskWomen Mod Team

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How do you feel when someone refers to you as a "girl" instead of a "woman"?

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What’s it like to have sex with your SO/partner everyday? What are the pros and the cons?

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Who is the most elegant and graceful person you know and what makes them so?

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r/AskWomen • u/Atmosphere_Enhancer • 9h ago

Do you send a follow-up message after a first date? Why or why not?

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Say you meet on a dating app and meet in person. After the date, do you tend to send any kind of message, or wait for them to send something?

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for girls who use non-winged pads, why do u prefer it over winged ones?

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r/AskWomen • u/cinnamonlurker • 4h ago

Women who casually dated multiple people at the same time, how did you eventually narrow it down to commit to one person?

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r/AskWomen • u/Ok_Pomegranate8097 • 14h ago

When have you believed you met the right person at the wrong time? Does this truly exist?

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Those of you who got overwhelming romantic attraction, how could you decipher who is the right person for you?

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r/AskWomen • u/No-Following3172 • 1d ago

Conventionally unattractive women, what was life like for you?

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r/AskWomen • u/GalateaMerrythought • 10h ago

Women with no independent financial stability, how did you leave your long term/marriage and start again?

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r/AskWomen • u/Obvious_Chocolate • 15h ago

How do you define positive/good masculinity?

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r/AskWomen • u/Careful_Check5763 • 19h ago

How often do you text your SO who doesn’t live with you?

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I’m curious how often people text in new relationships on the day to day. especially those in their late 20s. max hours between texts and average

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r/AskWomen • u/hahahahashenme • 3h ago

How did you deal with a partner that was unhappy with you being friends with your opposite sex coworker?

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r/AskWomen • u/lone-souls • 16h ago

How do you feel when someone speaks on your behalf without being asked?

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I'm curious whether you like it, and what makes the difference between feeling supported and feeling patronised when someone speaks for you?

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girls what's everything you hate doing while on your period?

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r/AskWomen • u/Consistent_Fly_4433 • 10h ago

Who are the Heroines around the World?

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Who are women around the world who have dominated their craft but we're overshadowed by a man who stole her work. Whose story needs to be told?

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How did growing up with multiple brothers (if you did) affect your personality and how you deal with problems?

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How do you navigate a marriage where you feel pull from a third person?

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r/AskWomen • u/ProllyOverthinkingg • 1d ago

Women who wanted but couldn’t have kids, how did you cope/deal with not having them?

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Whether you tried IUI, IVF or other options, when was it you decided you’re done? And how did you come to that decision? How do you feel now?

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What's one thing you want to overcome or master this year?

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