i’m doing group work at uni, one particular guy who’s in the group with me keeps calling me things like “bro” “mate” “big man” etc. i’m not sure if this is deliberate misgendering or if he honestly thinks i am someone who wants to be referred to as a cis man

it’s worth saying my voice does not pass, it’s a kinda fem leaning fagcent, and my name is androgynous

but yeah what do you think? is he deliberately insulting me or does he genuinely think that’s how i want to be addressed?

variety of pictures for a clearer idea of how i look

Hi!! I don't usually wear clothes like this but yesterday I was shopping and I found this top. While trying it I could not help noticing how prominent my clavicles were in this blouse. Is this a sexual dimorphism that hints to male anatomy or makes me clocky?

I know my hip to waist ratio is also clocky but I'm aware of that and consider it while picking outfits. Just want input on the clavicle question.

20 months HRT.

I get gendered properly almost always, but that comes down to my voice and clothes screaming femme.

What can I do to pass more?

It's crazy seeing so many beautiful girls on here doubtful if they pass or not 😭

I'm 33, been on HRT 2.5 years But I do genuinely feel like I don't pass and when I ask my friends they are just being nice and lying to me. I do Drag and started way before I realized I was trans, so I've been really trying to figure out every day makeup, but it's been challenging.

I've only taken estrogen and t blockers, nothing else yet (I super want facial hair removal)

The very last pic(orange top no makeup) is a year older than the one right before it (orange top with makeup)

Please if I don't pass I completely am okay, I just wanna know if my friends are just sharing my feelings or not

I'm very afraid to post my photos, but nevertheless I really need an outside opinion.

I'm autistic and I don't perceive my appearance as feminine or masculine... I just can't perceive my appearance as a whole and because of this I don't know how to dress, make up, etc. I also haven't really understood I'm non binary or autigender. Please write the first thing that came to your mind when you looked at my photo, without analysis, only the first impression: girl/guy/androgynous🙏🌙thank u!
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I'm new on reddit, sorry if i said something wrong.🥹

I pass a huge majority of the time in public. I moreso just worry about being clocked because of my chest (I’m an A-cup though, and don’t really need to bind) and not having much facial hair yet (I have a baby stache but not thick enough yet to really be noticed far away). I get the occasional she/her, but mostly at my job where I’m dealing with drunk white women.

Progress is slow... Trying to decide if I should grow out my hair.

I didn’t transition yet I just put my hair in a bun and hid it under my hoodie but when I posted online when I was a woman I constantly got questions asking if I was a boy or a girl. I was wondering if I look like a boy here?

Couple notes, I’m not really wearing that much makeup, just what I do for work,mascara,eyeshadow,blush and usually a lip gloss. Also this is after work so makeup has faded, mostly the blush.

I added a lip stick for these pics personally I like the color but idk.

Also I’ve posted before with the wigs and was told it obviously looks like a wig, I realized that I wasn’t pulling them down in the back🫠😭😞 I’ve done that now, so I’m wondering does it look better now.

Also I know the wigs are a little frizzy I didn’t fully brush them out or put wig de frizz spray on them.

Didn’t take a pic with my real hair I forgot to before doing wigs so my hair doesn’t look amazing atm, it’s flat and I need to wash it again anyway so yea

I’ve never gone in the men’s restrooms, I’m too scared to. But I get weird stares in the women’s

(Reposting cuz it got stuck in mod queue 😔) 22 months into HRT, started at 26 and turned 28 3 days ago. Long hair pics are a wig, mixed in pics with makeup and without as well as a side profile as it's the weakest view. I'm well aware I don't pass, but I would like advice on what I can do, if anything, to change that in the long term. Any feedback is welcome, please mention any specific features you think make it most obvious. If you think passing is unattainable please say so, ty.

Done/Active Procedures: - full body laser for last year - face electrolysis for the last several months - lost 157 lb in last 2-3 yrs, working on 50 more - began workout routine the last few months - Grown out hair the last 2.5 yrs and worked on hair routine - Recently learning how to straighten hair - Out everywhere except work - Seeing voice therapist weekly

Planned Procedures: - Upper Third FFS in 1 month (Dec 2nd, will decide exact procedures in 2 weeks) - Double Jaw Surgery to fix severe overbite (was moved to Summer of 2027 due to complications, so FFS took its place above) - Ear piercings

Future Procedures: - Middle third FFS on nose n such - Lower third FFS if jaw surgery is insufficient - Body feminization/contouring with simultaneous loose skin removal - Others are dependent on where I am 2-3 yrs from now

Hello yall 🙏🏾 to preface I’m 2 years on hrt (mtf) sorry if it looks like I’m not trying lol on a slow transition journey and honestly not sure what to do to be more femme

I’m debating if I need more ffs, I had my first one in 2025 and it’s been about a year now. I love the changes but I think my biggest hurdle is my lower face. My chin and jaw is very big and blocky and particularly hate it when I smile.

My face is pretty much what’s keeping me from presenting more femme, I’m super self conscious about it. What surgeries can I get to fix this? And do yall think I have hope of passing (sorry for the icky pics)

Got FFS like 2ish years ago now so swelling is all gone. I went more conservative but now feeling like I shouldn't have, so I'm thinking about going for round 2.

I don't get misgendered (not sure if cuz blue state or I just do, but hey bottom line is the same) so it's not suuuuper critical I get it.

And if you're curious these pics are all from a trip I took recently which was very fun :)