r/transpositive • • Aug 11 '22

Announcement Just a reminder, please don't self-promote or post any porn here. If you want to post porn on reddit, please use a separate account.

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Howdy, folks. Just a quick reminder, we've got two rules on the sidebar which deal with self-promotion and porn:

No soliciting/fundraising/advertising: We want you to enjoy the community and be part of all the warmth there is to offer. We don't, however, want you to exploit the community in an effort gain followers or subscribers. Any form of the above is prohibited and posts subject to removal (including instagram promotion, surveys, gofundme links, etc)

No chasers/fetishists/porn accounts: To keep this community clean and a safe space, all users who make creepy or lewd comments, who fetishize trans people, or who are generally only on Reddit for porn will be banned without notice. Unfortunately, we cannot stop creeps sending you chats/PMs even when they're banned from here; you will need to block them directly.

We have a big problem with people who want to post porn on reddit and then go to our trans community subreddits and also want to share photos and casually direct people to their profiles. They do this as a way to use the traffic on our large trans subs for their personal profit. They usually have links to their OnlyFans in their profiles and they tell people to check their profiles for more pictures or they ask folks to send them DMs, and they just so happen to have links to all their porn on their profiles.

We don't mind if y'all want to post porn on reddit. That's fine, go right ahead. The problem is when people start spamming our communities to spread it.

And the spam goes both ways, unfortunately. Creepers and predators follow these porn accounts into our community subreddits, where they harass our users, prey on our minors, and treat people like we're just a fetish. It creates a ton of trouble.

Someone described it the other day as "The mods are trying to keep out the flies, but then OP walks in here covered in honey."

If you want to post porn on reddit, use a second account to do it. Not only will this be safer for you, but it will also help keep our communities safe, too. If something goes wrong, you can delete your porn account in a hurry, while keeping your community postings separate. This also makes it easier to protect yourself by keeping your personal details away from your followers on your porn posts.

This is the Internet, and these are large, public forums. You never know what sort of stalker or creeper might be following your posts and gathering your information, so please be careful with it.

You can think about these creepers as fleas on a dog. We're happy to provide a safe and healthy community where y'all can share and mingle, but we don't want any fleas in our dog park, so please help keep the fleas out of our spaces.

Thank you!


Edit: Obviously, if you see any creepers or fetishists wandering around the comments section of our subreddits, please report those comments or message a mod and let us know. Thanks again!


r/transpositive • • 15h ago

About a year ago this community helped me brainstorm picking my first sari fit for my best friend's wedding, and I never shared the final look. So here they are 💙

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It was such a great experience putting these pieces together with my mom, aunts, and cousins. Sharing clothes/jewelery are such an integral part of sister/womanhood I realized.


r/transpositive • • 4h ago

12+ years HRT. Finally got FFS nearly six weeks ago. Very joy about that

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r/transpositive • • 11h ago

My Halloween costume minus the wings do you like?

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r/transpositive • • 12h ago

Experiences Witch do I look better in - skinny or curvy?

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Skinny - 3 years ago
Curvy - present


r/transpositive • • 5h ago

Having fun with my femininity!

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r/transpositive • • 10h ago

hi everyone !! ☺️💗

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r/transpositive • • 1d ago

I think we scrub up nicely

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My fiancée (28NB) and I (29FTM) at a spring ball over the weekend


r/transpositive • • 14h ago

Story Been trying my best lately

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Got outed a couple days ago by unforeseeable events. Family says if I can’t get a corporate job “while cross dressing” then I have to detransition and leave my black wife because they don’t agree with her culture or lifestyle and believe she is “influencing” me.
The racism extends far beyond just that with the words they have now shared with me about my wife after finding out about my transition.
They are trying to drive a wedge between us and are acting like “oh I’m going to take this material thing away from you if you don’t be a boy again” 😒
It’s driving us up a wall but at least her family is extremely supportive.

I’ve made it abundantly clear to everyone that I’m never detransitioning, and never leaving my wife.

I just never really imagined it would expose so much in my own home overnight.

Has anyone else been through something like this? I could use any kind words atm tbh.
Love you all 💕


r/transpositive • • 16h ago

Been long since I last posted here! This was me as alice madness returns for a halloween party at a friend's house this last weekend

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r/transpositive • • 11h ago

Experiences Almost 6 months on HRT

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Hi! I’m new here and ofc new to my transition as well. I have been almost 6 months into transitioning (13th of Nov, will be 6), and have experienced a little bit, but a lot…?

A lot of what I’m experiencing and have experienced, are pretty much aligned with what most other Trans-individuals, have experienced.
Months 1-2, were HEAVILY emotional. Like, I cried at the end of Shrek Forever After 💀. I also started feeling a shift in my libido, and “budding” close to the end of my 2nd month.
Months 3-present, is mostly, more breast development (biddies getting bigger), and a significant drop in libido. I have also found that, throughout this whole process, I haven’t gotten angry, or annoyed as easily, HOWEVER, I have developed? Mood swings, and can have one day, where even the smallest thing goes wrong, and I’ll just cry. Literally for no reason.

My friends and family, have been super supportive as well, and I have just recently, publicly embraced my identity, thanks to the help of my friends and their amazing encouragement. Best part of everything? I was called “Miss”, “Ma’am”, “Lady”, and “she”. It honestly was a very amazing experience, and very comforting! Next thing up, is a haircut, and my friends suggested a “wolf cut” :)

I have so much more I would LOVE to say, but I am also about to play some Deadlock soooooo…kinda gotta pick and choose 😎


r/transpositive • • 16h ago

London MCM comic-Con

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Went to London MCM Comic-Con on Friday and cosplayed as a female character for the first time. I cosplayed Jester from the Mighty Nein as Critical Role were at con 😁 i got to meet Jesters voice actor Laura Bailey, along with Matthew Mercer and Sam Riegel. It was such a great day and it was amazing to meet them. I thought i would be so nervous cosplaying as a female character, but I actually felt quite confident and absolutely want to do it again 😊


r/transpositive • • 18h ago

got to live my 10yr old fantasy ☺️✨

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r/transpositive • • 15h ago

Finally feeling good about how I look. (Androgynous tips appreciated!)

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r/transpositive • • 18h ago

Fall outfit of my dreams 🍁🍂

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I can't pose for shit but how did I do?? 🤭☺️


r/transpositive • • 23h ago

Story Dress Go Spinny

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I have improved my diet lately and have lost weight as a result. I thought I might be able to fit into one of my first evening gowns, which I have not been able to wear for awhile. I need to lose a little more weight before it will fit better, but it fits well enough today.

I could not resist making this video.


r/transpositive • • 17h ago

Hoping to be cute on my new ID card

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r/transpositive • • 1d ago

Hi everyone ☺️💖

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131 Upvotes

r/transpositive • • 23h ago

Trying a skirt and a bow for the first time. (Pre tf)

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It feels so liberating, skirt is so cuteeeee, though the socks are killing me.

I wish I could step into outside with this but anyway this is a big first step for me.


r/transpositive • • 1d ago

hello friends!!

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feeling good about myself today except for my hair which is struggling with this weather and awful water quality


r/transpositive • • 7h ago

Could I pass

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Just turned 61 been on hormones 3.5 yrs. No surgeries just coming out . Nervous to go out in public


r/transpositive • • 1d ago

Who else loves being in the club?

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r/transpositive • • 2d ago

Those are Erika (a trans woman and politician) and Lula (current brazilian president) celebrating his victory for the presidential election in Brazil yesterday were she played a major role in his campaign. Its possible ppl, the world can change, never give up.

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r/transpositive • • 1d ago

Experiences Been half stealth and half open about being trans and I’m debating on which side to embrace more? 🏳️‍⚧️

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Do I save myself the conversations or just embrace being a t girl?


r/transpositive • • 1d ago

(32 MtF) Day 1 of HRT Versus 1.5 Years of HRT

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