Tonight I wanted to have someone over to have a good time. I found this guy close to my age, decent looking and quite friendly, so I invited him over. Everything was fine, we chatted and had a good time together. But right after we finished having sex I asked him to leave and he refused. He suddenly got angry about guys always kicking him out after sex and only getting used for sex. I immediately felt a very bad vibe from this, so somehow I came up with the excuse that I was meeting a friend for some drinks and I had to go. He calmed down then but asked to stay until I left, so I had to get ready to go to this pretend friend’s place. After I got ready, we left my house and stood in front of the main door. He offered to give me a lift but I told him that my friend’s place was close, so he offered to walk with me. This situation was overwhelming me at this point. I told him that I just wanted to walk by myself with my music on, so I said goodbye and started walking away while he stood in front of my door. I turned the corner but I kept thinking that he was probably following me instead of getting in his car and going home, so I went in a corner shop close by and told the staff that a weird guy was following me and if I could hide in there (the guy from the shop knows me, I normally shop there). He told me to ring the police but I said no, I just wanted to wait a bit to see if the guy was gone. I rang my housemate to ask him if the guy’s car was still there and it was. After a bit, the guy walked in the shop asking for me. Thankfully the cashier acted oblivious and he left and then drove off.
I’m so scared right now, I don’t even want to go outside tomorrow for work just in case he is around. I’m definitely not meeting anyone from Grindr in a good while…