r/MuslimLounge • • 21h ago

Discussion Brother and sisters. PLEASE MAY ALLAH BE PLEASED WITH YOU. READ THIS. PLEASE.

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As-salamu alaykum brothers and sisters, I’m typing this with tears in my eyes because my family has reached our absolute breaking point. My father has poured everything into trying to move abroad, but every door keeps closing, and watching my family suffer like this is breaking me. There is nothing Allah cannot do—He owns the earth and every path. Please, I beg you from the bottom of my heart, take just one second to make a sincere dua for Allah to work a miracle and open a way for my father instantly within this year. Please write 'Ameen' for us; your one prayer might be the answer we need. May Allah answer your deepest prayers, too. 🥺🙏

Please. Just pray for me with your whole heart ! 😭


r/MuslimLounge • • 18h ago

Question why do a lot of christian preacher's full time job is to talk about islam than Christianity ? 😂

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Hi, i watch debates and religious talks ex: street dawah, and so on. I see so many christian prechers/scholars or whatever ... there 99% of the video are about islam. like why the hell they focuses solely on islam ? not a single videos on polytheism, idol worship, or anything. its just islam.

NOTE - i already know that there is nothing in bible to prove its a true guidance but just asking. May be a christian here can answer ?


r/MuslimLounge • • 11h ago

Support/Advice please make dua for me

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wallahi my grades not looking good. Please make dua for me, please also make dua that i can get a healthy job that pays well and can be in my schedule with my high school life, And please overall pray for my wellbeing and everyone elses, Thank you.


r/MuslimLounge • • 18h ago

Question Got hit by a car and now am so grateful

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Assalamualaikum,

I am a 17 year old boy, so basically today was happened was I met with an accident while I was on a bike. Alhamdulillah looking at the severity of the accident, not much happened to me. I got bruises, cuts on my knees and thats it. Before leaving from home I recited the dua, read quran before leaving, and was reciting surah fatiha while driving. I got hit, I fell down and my life flashed before my eyes. All I was seeing was blaze from my scooter from the scraping of my scooter on the ground. As soon as I stopped, the first thing that came out of my mouth was Alhamdulillah.

I agree I have done abit more than usual sins the past week, could Allah be forgiving my sins through this accident??

What lesson should I learn from this??


r/MuslimLounge • • 5h ago

Other topic If you never struggled with suicidal ideation…

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Don’t comment on suicidal people’s post. Don’t tell them they’re going to hell for it, stop making mentally ill people feel worse than how they already feel.

You don’t understand the struggle, the heavy weight, the pain it is to wake up every day. If you’ve never been through that then why are you commenting on a post about it?

And stop making it seem like Allah wouldn’t understand, He is the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate, the All Seeing. How can you be so sure He would condemn to hell a suffering soul? It’s sickening how some people think they know what Allah would do or think. Stop talking like you are Allah, you are not and you certainly aren’t compassionate enough.

To my brothers and sisters who struggle with themselves everyday, I understand you, I have felt the same for over a decade. But, as a revert Muslim, who barely knows anything about Islam because I’m so new to it, I know Allah knows your pain, sees your suffering, He isn’t mad at you, He understands you. Do not despair of His mercy, do not despair of His help. He knows what your heart conceals, what you can’t say out loud.


r/MuslimLounge • • 23h ago

Quran/Hadith The prophet said , “All the sons of Adam are sinners, but the best of sinners are those who are given to repentance.”

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Explain of Hadith :-

Mistakes and sins are part of human nature. A person may have weak willpower or be overcome by desires, but this does not justify continuing to commit sins. Instead, one should not despair after making a mistake, but strive to improve oneself. The best of those who sin are those who frequently repent and seek Allah’s forgiveness, regret their sins, resolve not to return to them, and renew their repentance whenever they fall into sin


r/MuslimLounge • • 20h ago

Support/Advice Dua request

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Salam. I just had my exam and result comes out in January. I worked rlly hard and gave it my best but im still very scared pls pray i get an A. JazakAllah


r/MuslimLounge • • 22h ago

Support/Advice Please Make Du’a for My Stepfather’s Grandmother Who Passed Away

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Assalamualaikum everyone. My stepfather’s grandmother recently passed away. I kindly ask you to make du’a for her.

May Allah forgive her sins, shower her with His immense mercy, illuminate and expand her grave, protect her from the punishment of the grave and the Hellfire, accept her good deeds, and grant her Jannatul Firdaus. May Allah also grant my stepfather and his family patience, strength, comfort, and peace during this difficult time.

Jazakum Allahu Khayran for keeping her in your prayers. Ameen.


r/MuslimLounge • • 3h ago

Support/Advice I can’t stop feeling like a hypocrite

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I grew up in a non practicing household, so it was a struggle growing up as a Muslim and trying to keep myself in check. Eventually around high school I thought I had it all figured out. I wore the hijab, prayed all my salahs plus the sunnah, and read Quran every single night before bed. I didn’t have any opposite gender friends, didn’t curse, I practically did everything right to the point where if someone said anything bad about me no one would believe them. I was held at such a high standards since then. And I can’t stop feeling like a hypocrite for it because I am not that person anymore.

I stopped praying, and recently started talking to a guy, a Muslim man. I thought it was all cool and stuff because we both had the same final goal, marriage. But we ended up eventually sexting and exchanging nudes. My brain still can’t process what I did. And I can’t stop feeling this guilt. He still says he loves me and that he wants to marry me regardless. He also regrets it. He said he’ll bring his parents next week to meet mine. And we’ll go from there. I am aware Allah forgives all sins but i genuinely can’t forgive myself, especially since everyone around me still hold me at such high regards.

Everyone still come and ask me for religious advice, and if their iman is low in the one who they come too. Parents hold me as the standards. Even the imam at my masjid praised me the other day for my modesty especially in our day and time. I feel like I am deceiving everyone, like I didn’t hold my values. I don’t even want to wear the hijab anymore because every time I put it on before leaving the house I can’t help but feel like I’m a hypocrite who doesn’t even deserve to be a Muslim. I can’t even bring myself to pray out of embarrassment of standing in front of Allah after I did what I did. I don’t know what to do, I just want Allah to take my soul and throw me into jahanam before I commit any more sins.


r/MuslimLounge • • 10h ago

Aren't you afraid...

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You miss your prayer like it's nothing. "I will start praying later". What if there is no later. How are you soo sure you have time to change. Salah is the second pillar of Islam. Why are you treating it like

it's not a big deal. you can't even give Allah 5 mins. While Allah is still giving you time.

Go Pray


r/MuslimLounge • • 19h ago

Support/Advice Advice from ladies please

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Salaam sisters,

I'm married and very lucky to stay home and have a really amazing marriage alhamdulillah.

The issue is my health, I have endometriosis adenomyosis and a few other conditions that are slowly reducing my life to nothing. I've had surgeries and take more medication than I ever imagined (opiates too which I really despise) - I understand how lucky I am to have treatments etc Subhanallah.

We tried for a family for a year but I miscarried in march and became very sick, I needed three surgeries and was in hospital for a long time. It was a very traumatic time for my husband and I but alhamdulillah it is done now.

We have decided maybe we should not try again for children as drs have said I'm still high risk for miscarriages and complications. And we are both happy to foster/adopt in the future inshallah.

One of my options for my next surgery is to have a total hysterectomy - I'm not taking this decision lightly and my husband will not have any comment on it (he refuses to comment on my body choices from hijab to surgery in anyway so I don't make choices based off his opinions, which I adore).

But I can't help but feel complete terror of waking up realising I will never, ever carry a child. I'm mortified this is even an option I have to consider but it is looking more likely by the month as my pain is just most days now taking morphine/tramadol, if I don't I'm being sick from the pain.

Alongside all of this, the constant guilt of being a awful, sick, useless wife is getting to me, we are only 27 and I feel as though I've ruined his life. He has never complained once, he's showered me, brushed my hair, done more for me than I could ever dream of, even though he's got a really intense job and his masters. I feel so lucky but so heartbroken all at once.

Have any sisters had a hysterectomy and been able to cope afterwards? Or dealt with guilt of health issues whilst married?

The only thing holding me together right now is my faith, alhamdulillah. But it's not easy, I'm scared.

Jazakallah Khair for any advice or help💖💐💖


r/MuslimLounge • • 20h ago

Support/Advice Please make Dua for me; I really want to start praying again.

8 Upvotes

Asalamualkium,

I haven’t prayed once in the last year. I’m married, and my husband has the same issue. I’ve wanted to start praying again so we can both get back to it. I have the push of wanting to pray so badly; but I can’t. I can’t I don’t know why. I tell myself just do it; one rakaat even. I physically can’t, my mind won’t let me even make Wudu, it’s not prioritizing it enough to externalize it. I don’t want my heart to be covered, I’m scared of losing my deen.

I want to connect with Allah again. I feel so lost. I feel so incredibly lost. I need the push to pray; I’m so severely depressed and I know that I need to reconnect with my creator. I just don’t have the push, Astaghfrillah. I know I’m just a stranger, but I have a request please make Dua for me, because I really want to start praying again, I want the need of prayer that I used to have. Everything around me alhamdulilah is everything I’ve wanted at this point, but we all know that a life without prayer is not a way to live; it’s depressing and nothing can change that but prayer.

Jazakhallah


r/MuslimLounge • • 17h ago

Discussion Unity among Muslims

8 Upvotes

How can Muslims be united again to eradicate racism, hatred and discrimination among Muslims?


r/MuslimLounge • • 17h ago

Question How to ask Allah to end my trials?

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Salam Alaikum, dear brothers and sisters,

I make Du'a everybody's doing well.

I've been suffering for some time now and wanted to ask if there's any Du'a that I can make in order for these trials to end; It's getting unbearable rn and tired of hearing "Just have Sabr" again and again.

Nothing seems to be working out for me and I just feel lost. It feels as though I am hitting my head against a brick wall as every day feels the same.

I am tired of this misery and hate this cycle of gathering strength just to break down again; I don't want to displease Allah, however, I become frustrated and impatient and then complain to Him again.

My heart becomes heavy and I feel somewhat ashamed and ungrateful after I complain to Allah about my situation; I just feel as though I am displeasing my Rabb through it.

Your help would really be appreciated.

Jazakumullahu Khairan wa Salam Alaikum ❤️


r/MuslimLounge • • 21h ago

Question Do you learn in school about scholar from the Islamic Golden Age in your country ?

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r/MuslimLounge • • 21h ago

Support/Advice I’m a hypocrite

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Acting all awesome cause I’m so convinced that I’m morally right about everything while I can’t even practice my own beliefs.

I don’t pray at all.
I don’t do it and i don’t know why and whats wrong with me.
I’m wearing the hijab and that’s all I do.

I sometimes watch these videos of Muslims exposing fake ex Muslims and they ask them obvious questions, but I don’t even know the answers to those. I feel like an imposter.

I don’t even know how to pray, I keep using this stupid app and don’t even bother to memorise the smallest thing.

I went to London a year ago and went up to a Muslim stand of guys that were open for questions about Islam. I wondered if they sold any Quran’s, cause didn’t buy anything in London and thought it would be good to have a Quran at home as a Muslim. They looked at me confused and said this stand is for non Muslims interested in Islam. And I didn’t know what to say. I felt like I should be standing there and listening. I felt like the non Muslims going there knew more about Islam than I did. I just said that I converted recently and I don’t have a Quran yet.

I lied. I didn’t convert recently. I converted 4 years ago. They were kind and gave me a Quran and a few posters for Muslim woman and how to wear the hijab right and stuff like that. I said Ty and left.

And now? A year has passed and that Quran is still sealed in plastic wrap. Never opened. Never read. I’m a waste of kindness. I feel like I took away someone’s Quran who could’ve used it. And now it’s just in my room along with my prayer mat collecting dust.

I just feel like everything is too much. I can’t even keep up with school or chores. Not even mentioning cooking. I never cook food anymore, I always make instant noodles, cause it makes me full and doesn’t take too much energy. I’m scared to use my clothes cause I don’t want to wash them. I just rott away at this point.

I miss my mom a lot.

I just want to go back in time and live my life right this time. and now everyone is going to say you can make it right now, I swear I’m trying but I don’t know why I can’t get myself to pray.

My mom had a stroke on Friday and I asked Allah to keep her alive and couldn’t say anything more, cause I felt like such a hypocrite. Like someone who never reaches out until I need help for my selfish self.

Idk man.


r/MuslimLounge • • 3h ago

Question Any Muslim revert 🥹

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r/MuslimLounge • • 3h ago

Support/Advice Hey I am from India, i want to revert but have so much confusion need guidance

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r/MuslimLounge • • 9h ago

Discussion Made a video On Abu Lahya - Breaking down his claims

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Assalamualaykum. I've made a video on Abu Lahya. In sha Allah, it will break down the things he says and what he doesn't say, and examine the marketing behind it.

He is not the only muslim course seller, so please be careful when you see people on your feed promising halal income. I'd recommend watching the video, or at least the important parts, which I've pinned in the comments.

Heres the link: https://youtu.be/2Fp-6D5c5Lk

(Yes I know it's long 😅)


r/MuslimLounge • • 23h ago

Discussion What's your opinion on Muslim vegetarians

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Hello just wanted to know what most of the Muslim communities opinion on other Muslims that are vegetarian, since we do come from a culture that predominantly eats meat etc . I've heard some mixed views 🤷‍♂️


r/MuslimLounge • • 41m ago

Support/Advice How do I learn to recite quran beautifully

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How do I learn to recite quran beautifully as I can recite normally and I want to learn by myself how to do it and I can't go to any quran teacher please could you guys give me some advice of how I can learn to recite quran beautifully


r/MuslimLounge • • 4h ago

Other topic Are there mobile games with Muslim community around? I really want to hang around the right people you know?

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r/MuslimLounge • • 5h ago

Support/Advice How to deal with overwhelming loneliness

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Salam,I've always felt lonely and that caused me lots of issues in the past. However now i started a new job it's lowkey stressful plus I still feel lonely. I don't know what to do it genuinely have no one.


r/MuslimLounge • • 5h ago

Support/Advice Feeling down and Dua request

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Assalamu alaykum,

I had gotten bad grades in the past due to poor time management. I remember this affected me really poorly, and I was feeling very stressed at the time.

I did hope to do better in these upcoming courses this year, as I want to graduate soon with a high gpa and get accepted into a good teachers college program.

This year, I was hopeful to do well in my courses. Right now, I saw my grades on 2 tests, and felt really dissapointed. I got some low grades. Maybe I should not have checked right before I slept as now im struggling to sleep, and feel bad.

I want to request if any duas can be made for my situation. Im feeling down. I have another upcoming test coming up too. Please make dua that I do well on my upcoming test, and that Allah helps me so I receive high grades on my courses. Pls make dua that Allah brings forward a miracle, helps me so I receive high grades in my courses, so all my school affairs go well with khair and I get accepted into a good teachers college program soon.

If there is any perspective that could be shared, I would appreciate it. Pls keep me in your duas. May Allah grant us goodness in this dunya and in the aakhira. May Allah be pleased with you.

Pls also make dua that Allah grants me peace in my heart and mind. I am really feeling bad..

Alhamdulilah Allah is the only one we call upon and the only one our hope lies in. May Allah help us all out.


r/MuslimLounge • • 9h ago

Discussion what do you guys do to maintain fitness?

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Salam everyone!

As the title says, what do you guys do to maintain fitness?

doesn’t necessarily need to be building muscle or strength training, but just making sure you’re not unhealthy

like me personally, i like to go out on a walk for at least 20 minutes a day (+ walking around at college campus everyday)