Hi r/ForeverAloneDating! 👋

I'm Jess, a tech marketer based in the USA. Currently on the West Coast but moving back to the East Coast in a few months. I've had my fair share of Reddit chats, connections, experiences, but figured I'd try again to see if something more long-term is out there.

I'm ultimately looking for a long-term, monogamous, romantic connection. Location doesn't really matter to me at the moment but it's not something I'd want to do forever. Ultimately looking for someone that adds to my life and makes it even more fun than it already is.

So, what about me?

I'm an eldest daughter, have a cat, enjoy a pretty robust social life, and a decent chunk of hobbies. I will also add I am an ambivert, but can skew more social, and am the general organizer of my friend groups. My friends would say I'm loyal, witty, caring, kind, and definitely a nerd. Some of my interests include:

Reading (recently finished Demon Copperhead), though the TBR is never-ending and See You Next Tuesday is vying for some reading and the audiobook at the moment is One Hundred Years of Solitude. I pretty much read most genres but enjoy contemporary fiction, historical fiction, romance, and sci-fi/fantasy.

Travel, which I still don't have my next trip planned outside the US but there's plenty I want to explore! Next non-work trip is with a friend to NYC to see a bunch of Broadway shows. Which I'm very excited for. My last international trip was to the UK in October last year and I can't wait to go back.

Miscellaneous events, but not limited to pub trivia, working out (getting back into running and strength training so that's a big focus right now), hiking, exploring restaurants, being by the water, movies, gaming, 60s-80s TV, dancing, and probably some other things I can't think of right now.

But that seems like enough. What am I looking for? Someone who:

• Is between the ages of 30-40.
• Prefers to live in a city (sorry I am a visit the country person)
• Is not racist/sexist/homophobic/a general asshole
• Does not want (or currently have) kids -- this is dealbreaker
• Enjoys chatting over voice notes or video calls
• Is okay with a partner that socially drinks or consumes edibles

I'd also want to exchange pictures fairly early on. If you've gotten this far -- hope to hear from you!

Thank you for stopping by stranger! This might be a bit lengthy buuuuuut... I am really serious about wanting my forever person and therefore have a lot to say! I date with intent and warmth and am very curious to get to know you! ^_^. I'm hoping to find someone who is equally interested in engaging conversations that make you forget to look at the time and that leads to something real. 💞

Physically I am 196cm (6'5), I am slim and I really wanna gain more weight. And then I wanna go back to the gym. I wanna be more buff :3. And I'm working on that slowly but surely right now.

Here is a picture of what I currently look like: https://imgur.com/a/ekCHvkk

I love engaging in conversations. Of course, this goes for everyone but what I mean is that I am very passionate about having talks. I'm not a ''hi, how are you?'' kinda guy. I wanna know the ins and outs of who I'm talking with. Tell me something thats been on your mind and I wanna know more about the situation or how it makes you feel. I think a big part of bonding is understanding each other on a deeper level.
I am someone who values connection deeply. Compassion and care is very important to me. I like to be affectionate, make my partner feel comfortable. Knowing you're having fun or hearing you laugh gives me lots of joy ^_^
Intimacy is very important to me. Especially so online. I enjoy voice notes or calling because it's just a way better form of communication to gauge emotions, but of course I wanna get to know you first!

While this can't really be done online I would also like to mention my major love language is physical touch. I like to grab your hand unprompted while we're out. Raking my fingers trough your hair and falling asleep in each others arms. I'm a very protective guy, and I think healthily possessive ;3. I like being a provider too. It makes me glad when I can provide comfort and warmth to my partner. ❤️

Other than that I highly value emotional intelligence and maturity. If you're someone whose especially caring or supportive, that would be great. It really helps me strive to work hard for us.
I would say I'm emotionally mature. My closest friend has told me I have a very ''sober'' view on things and often appreciates my compassion and thoughts.

I put great emphasis on caring for my partner and making you feel loved. That flutter in your stomach when you see each others names pop up from a message. Feeling your cheeks get warm after complimenting each other. Hanging up a call and catching yourself smiling and things like that is what I wanna invoke and I hope you'll do the same for me.

In my free time I partake in nerdy hobbies! I enjoy playing games. Mostly cozy stuff or progression games where you get stronger and stronger.I just bought a few new games that I'm looking to try soon. Hades, Dying Light 2, Ori and the Will of the Wisps, Unpacking and some others. I would love to game with you as well as I think it's one of the best ways to connect long-distance. Especially when working towards a shared goal. I'm also very social and stream on Twitch as a hobby for almost a decade now. Speedrunning is something I enjoy as well. I get really passionate and nerdy about some games and I love to learn all kinds of tidbits and facts 😊

Anime is another big hobby of mine. I think its a cool medium and has amazing stories to tell. I'm in an Attack on Titan rewatch right now. I also collect various anime figures which I take great care of. I enjoy making my living space cozy and inviting.

On top of than I'm working on my first cosplay and am so excited to go to a con with it. If you're someone that would love to share in that with me, or even wanna cosplay together that would make me immensely happy <3.

Last but not least I recently got a drawing tablet and wanna get more into digital art. If you have a creative itch yourself that would be a big plus.

I hope all of this was captivating. If you hesitate, don't! Just write me. You miss all the shots you don't take ;3

Before messaging me:

We all have our preferences or deal breakers so I do wanna point out a few things I would wanna avoid. I never like making people feel like they need to meet ''requirements'' but it would be disingenuous for me to pretend otherwise. And it would be a shame to really get along only to find out later it's not gonna work out.

That being said, keep the following in mind:

- I am looking for someone that would be open to meeting somewhat frequently. Of course depending on the distance/costs that could be complicated. At the bare minimum I wanna meet in the next 6 months and see each other a few times per year. I wanna visit you and I'd like you to visit me. If you live close (Europe) I would love to meet way more frequently then that. Like I said, I am dating with intent and rather meet up sooner than later if there's a spark :3

- I would like to move in together within 2-3 years. Not a hard limit if we see each other often though. I am open to relocating but I really like it here in the Netherlands. We're very prosperous and well organized as a country. There aren't many countries I'd be willing to move to. (I won't move to the USA. Love to visit though!)

Some things I'm simply not attracted to:

- Smokers and vapers
- Drug users
- Heavy drinkers (people who drink socially and can pace themselves are fine)
- People who can't go a day without downing an energy drink.
- I am not religious and not looking to become religious ever. Please no one with strong religious values that limit what I can or can't do in a relationship.
- I'm generally not attracted to women with very dark complexions. I love a good tanned/olive skintone though. I just wanna be honest about this. Also, please no people from southern Asia.

- If you're below 165cm (5'5), please only reach out if you think this post speaks to you strongly. I generally don't care about height but if we're more than a feet apart it just starts to feel too weird to me.

Some of these might seem harsh but I'm really looking for a soul to share the rest of my life with. It would be disingenuous to waste each others time.

I hope all of this has caught your eye and I'm looking forward to your message. ^_^

Please include your age and location when sending a message and give me something to work with. Not just ''hey''. If your intro is at all serious, I will respond in kind 🥰

Hi! I feel nervous and shy putting myself out there, given how convoluted the dating scene is. I'd like to skip past all the nonsense and build a real connection with someone, uninfluenced by our pasts and the world around us. I crave meaningful conversations, silliness and genuine affection. I just want to find my introverted weirdo with a dark sense of humor, interests and values similar to mine. Someone to match my freak, so to speak. Really sort of like finding my other half, and coming home. Someone to look forward to everyday. I want to live a quiet and adventurous life where we travel and immerse ourselves in all the world has to offer, yet still savor the comfort of quiet, cozy days at home most days.

Writing about myself is the bane of my existence, so here I will display the stats: I'm childfree, atheist, and politically left-leaning. I'm black American, plus-size, around 5'6" (167 cm) tall, long dark brown hair, big dark brown eyes, and always wearing glasses. (See here.) I'm curious about the world and about people I care about. I'm someone who sometimes has too many thoughts, but doesn't like to fret over the small things in life. I may sound really serious, but I'm actually quite goofy and non-serious on the inside. 😄 Some of my interests include technology, writing, photography, horror, psychology, video games, anime, true crime, philosophy, history, astronomy, sociology, biology, reading, and traveling. Music-wise, I adore alternative/indie pop, electronic pop, classic rock, hip-hop and R&B.

I like to be romantic and affectionate with my partner.

Emotional intelligence, communication, empathy, patience, and understanding are incredibly important to me.

I adore shy, reserved, tall, tech/science nerdy men who love to write, and yap once they open up.

I'm (non-negotiable) looking for someone who is: single, monogamous, childfree (meaning no offspring and no desire for offspring), never m arried, emotionally available (including not being hung up on a past romantic interest, or recently out of a relationship), politically left-leaning, and non-religious. Near my age (25-33—not younger, not older.)

I'm currently in the southeast US, but I'm not really attached to the area, or like the stereotypes. Whether my niche person be somewhere across the sea, or somewhere closer to home (but just so happens to be reading this post..) I'm fine with distances, but please be able/willing to meet in-person, and from the USA, Canada, or Europe.

If this resonates with you and you think we might match, send me a message! Tell me about yourself, maybe include a photo of yourself, and the phrase "over the moon!" somewhere in your message so I know you've read this post in full.

I look forward to getting to know you. 🌹✨

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for my other half. Someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.

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Hello , im Tiffany .

Born and raised in Canada.

If you're not into or attracted to black women please don't message me (:

I’m 32, work in healthcare, and love fitness, reality TV, concerts, and a good romance novel.

Please don't ghost if you're not interested or if things progressed, its 2026 like let's have consideration and use our words (:

Send message via start chat icon (:

To keep things simple, please send an introduction and a picture it helps both of us see if we’d like to continue chatting! I’m not a fan of small talk, so this makes things easier.

I prefer to keep conversations PG. I’m demisexual, so I’m not comfortable with intimate topics early on. If you frequently post or comment in certain spaces related to that, we likely won’t be a good match.

What I'mlooking for:

Age: 28-38

But open if you are a year or two younger or older (:

Not interested in anyone that have children (:

Looks: Beards are a plus!

Must be open to moving to Canada because I'm not moving

Personality: Sense of humor, family-oriented, and emotionally mature, respectful and honesty

liberal views /

Bonus: British accents get extra points! 😍

I’d prefer someone from Canada, the U.S., the U.K., or maybe Australia if there's a spark.

I really value meaningful connections, so I appreciate good conversation, effort, and reciprocity. If you're someone who puts 100% into friendships, work, relationships, and self-care, we’ll probably get along great!

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Hiii, my name is Yeli. I’m 21 (my big age) and my little age is 8. I’m looking for a CG who is a little older than me preferably between 22 and 30 who truly wants to take care of me and help me feel safe, loved,

When I’m in little space I love to draw, then curl up with my blankie and my teddy. I want a cg who gives gentle rules and soft structure, who calls me the sweetest pet names, and who talks to me a lot. I really need someone who checks in often throughout the day so I never feel alone.

I struggle with bipolar 1, PTSD, and ADHD. Some days my brain feels really messy and overwhelmed. On those days I need extra softness, patience, and reassurance. I’m looking for a cg who understands that and still wants to care for me even when I’m not at my best

A lot of people say I’m sweet and innocent, I just want a cg who can help me feel little and protected,

I’m only looking for female CG Someone who enjoys giving soft rules and structure, who uses lots of gentle, sweet pet names, and who likes checking in and talking a lot. I prefer Discord.

Preferably someone from the USA, and especially Arizona if possible. I want someone who’s an open book honest, real, and willing to share about themselves too. I don’t want to be the only one opening up. I want a real connection where we both feel safe being ourselves.

If you’re a soft, caring cg who wants a sweet little to look after, I’d love to meet you. Dm me if you think you might want to be my forever cg. I promise I’ll try my very best to be a good girl for you 😇🥺

Hi there! I’m 27F in Phoenix, AZ. I am seeking someone in Arizona. I am looking for something serious !!

About me: office job, cat. Leftist, monogamist, childfree. I am plus-size (5’6”, 230 lbs) and white/asian (but look white). Currently living with my family (cannot host shenanigans). I enjoy baking, music and concerts, video games, crafting, and going new places.

Ideally looking for: someone local to Arizona. someone who is also leftist, monogamist, and childfree. Someone who is interested in building up to a relationship. I prefer under 33.

Some more fun info to sound less intense: I love cozy gaming and grew up on farming sims. I would love a horror/thriller movie cuddle buddy. I work in science!

Feel free to send me a message or chat (:

Disclaimer: I am only looking for people local to areas around Seattle/Everett/Bellevue!

I am a curvy INFJ lady on a pilgrimage to finding a new social group and a relationship! I figured I'd give it a shot here.

A little bit about me:

I recently moved from San Diego and am now a resident enrichment coordinator/manager at a memory care community where I am working to better the lives of people who will never truly remember me! It's all fine an dandy, we have a great time regardless. In my free time, mostly Fridays and Saturdays, I'd love to find someone to game, voice, and commit shenanigans in the city with. I have two degrees in Psychology and Communication, and am debt-free, moisturized, and in my lane, existing! I own a senior cat and he continues to defy death at the ripe age of eighteen. I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or party much! I am like a little decrepit old hag trapped in the body of a young woman, slaving over a hot stove (cast iron only.) I am on the expensive zepbound, so I can't eat as much as I used to!

Values:

Time, Kindness, stability, structure, mindfulness, empathy, ambition, communication and of course, humor~

What I am looking for:

I love to voice! It's so important to have great verbal chemistry. I'm hoping to meet someone who loves to talk as much as they enjoy sitting in silence doing their own thing, sharing each other's company when we're just flat out exhausted. Ideally, we can roleplay, game, go out on the town, and maybe do a little bit of movie watching too! I love to watch period dramas, animes, horror movies and comedies alike. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into anything, as I'd rather meet someone and see where things lead. My ideal life is living right outside my small town in the woodlands, in a two bed two bath house with wifi and enough ice water / freeze dried mangoes to satiate me. Boring is sometimes good in the realm of predictability and structure.

Age wise, someone between the ages of 28-38 is ideal, past their college years, and looking to build a life of comedically predictable bliss!

Superficially, I'm really into someone who could tower over me and defend my pizza takeout from the downtown midnight scallywags. I have a huge weakness for a good sense of business functional fashion!

Deal Breakers:

Not enough time to invest, anger issues/yelling of any sort, smoking, drinking to cope (social okay), drugs, lack of communication, financial irresponsibility, polygamy, dishonesty, racism, overly religious, I do not wish to have kids.

Games:

No Rest for the Wicked, Elden Ring Seamless Coop, Second Life, Stardew Valley, Witcher 3, Guild Wars 2, Warframe, Assassin's Creed, Peak, Divinity OS2, Baldur's Gate, Valheim, and much more!

Hobbies:

Roleplaying (one person only), Going to carnivals, rock hounding, (I want to hike but don't yet.), tons of games, writing my own lore/world, exploration, travel (if I can afford it), design, cooking (lots of different cultures!), volunteering, creating a cozy existence, and more to uncover!

Here is my face! <3 https://imgur.com/a/26bO3EO

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Hey there, beautiful stranger, welcome to my circus.

I’m a 28 year old guy from the world famous country of Bosnia and Herzegovina (just pretend you’ve heard of it, small place, big energy). I come with terrible jokes, random pocket tools and snacks, and just enough trouble to keep things interesting.

I love art and music (my playlist is a mess, Bach and Tupac jamming to Eminem while Bob Marley is chasing pirates or something so please don't ask about it). Jazz clubs, museums, and mountains are where my heart lives. I like visiting new cities, trying new cuisines, and finding moments of tranquility amid the chaos. Also, I absolutely love movies and books (wow, super unique, please be impressed) . Physically, I'm tall, my eyes still kinda work, and girls said I have a nice butt. You could also check my post history to get better idea about my looks (spoiler alert: no butt pictures tho, gotta leave something to the imagination.. or later). I'm also open for a photo exchange so feel free to send some my way if that's your cup of hot chocolate.

I also have a cute hamster named Captain Hamsterstein. He’s small, judgmental, and impossible to compete with but you’ll try.

As I'm still kinda not sure about all this and have no idea how anything really works here, I'll keep my options open for whatever. So, looking for a friend? I'm your man. Need a shoulder to cry? Still your man. Memes exchange? Hell yeah! Relationship? Tell me what kind of restaurant you fancy for our date. Wedding? The suit is ready. Nonsense flirting? Count me in. Serious talks? Let me put my smart face on.

Simply put, I’m looking for someone to vibe with. Someone I can talk to about anything, tease a little, laugh a lot, and also get serious with when the lights go low. Someone who challenges me, sharpens me, and upgrades my meme collection. Also, If you have a cat, I’m already all yours (don’t tell the Captain).

I'm not really good at talking about myself (duh) so I'll just leave that part for you to ask about whatever you're interested in.

Also (yeah, I say “also” too much), If you’re still reading, I’ve gotta ask: what’s wrong with you?

(Whatever it is… I like it.)

Keep in mind that our timezones may be different so there's a possibility that I won't be able to answer immediately but I'll try my best to get to you as soon as possible.

Message me whenever, however you want, just know there’s a high chance of flirting, sarcasm, and late-night conversations that go a little deeper than planned. Just behave yourself cause I am legally allowed to handcuff you (again, don't ask).

Meanwhile, have a lovely day or night or whatever and take care!

PS, don't text me if you're only into my kidneys, I have only 5 left. And no, you can't have them.

Tall, handsome SWM, accomplished and secure is seeking his forever flower. Enjoy jogging, scuba diving, sports, daily meditation, working out, and sharing my girl with many of life's pleasures. I do not drink, smoke, nor drug, eat healthy, cooks, is creative and smart. I am esoteric spiritual, Sapio/demi/ very open minded sexually. Seeking a single, goal oriented, open sexually, woman of substance and beauty inside and out, for an extraordinary life of fulfillment. SERIOUS ONLY. Love a woman who enjoys being enjoyed.

Hello, I am a 24 year old living in Hokkaido (near Sapporo). I am looking for a woman in the age range of 18 to 30. Trying to find someone who is willing to get to know me and someone I can share my time with. Going on dates, eating food and playing video games would be fun. I prefer a slower relationship to see if we are compatible. It takes 2 to make it happen so I will try my best to match the effort you put in. I have never been in a relationship before so I will try my best. If you need to know what I look like. I don’t send photos immediately if I see that a connection is possible then photos sharing is possible. I would prefer to meet somewhere public like Sapporo station or a cafe. I prefer someone in Japan. America (California) and Japan only.

More about me
My hobbies include kendo, hiking, traveling and anime figure collecting. I have done many combat sports in the past like Boxing, and wrestling. The current sport right now is Japanese sword fighting (Kendo). I am an eagle scout so I excel in outdoor survival skills and hiking. I have been to more than 16 countries so I like traveling and learning languages.I typically spend my free time working out and going to local festivals and looking for new restaurants. My favorite food is Mexican food and hamburgers. I cook sometimes and I make some good pasta. I speak English and Japanese. I like doujinshi authors and their art so I collect figures from my favorite artists. I like anime and manga. Some of my favorites being Frieren, Chibi Maruko-chan and To love ru. I am east asian, 160cm tall, 5Ft 3in.  

Start a chat with me if you’re interested, thank you. Serious people only please. I don’t respond to low effort messages. Provide some information please.

Hi! I'm a 38-year-old guy living in London.

Outside of work you'll usually find me geocaching, out with my camera, or buried in a book. I mostly read history and fiction—everything from espionage novels by John le Carré to books on European history. If you've got recommendations, I'm always looking to add to my ever-growing reading list.

Photography is probably my biggest hobby. I enjoy wandering around London (and further afield) looking for interesting architecture, landscapes, and street scenes. If you're curious, here's some of my work: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/

I'm also into geocaching, which has turned out to be a brilliant excuse to explore places I'd never otherwise visit. There's something satisfying about finding hidden corners of cities and countryside alike.

Travel is another big interest. So far I've explored Belgium, Germany and Denmark, and I'd love to see more of Europe over the next few years. I'm equally happy discovering a new city, finding a great museum, or simply sitting in a café people-watching.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys conversations that can wander from history and travel to completely random topics. Bonus points if you're happy to join me on a photography walk, a geocaching adventure, or help me decide where my next trip should be.

If any of that sounds like your kind of day, send me a message. Tell me about the last place that surprised you, your favourite book, or the best hidden gem you've discovered.

I had a post on here before, but it was very cringe. I promise that this one will be better. Or at least, less cringe, feel free to enter my dms though if you do like cringe.

Hi, I am a 36 year old man from the Netherlands. I don't think long intro's are the best so I will drop a couple of things about me. I love history and socioeconomic topics in general, culture, language, I love it. I would really like it if you are able to hold a conversation on those topics as well. It would be a bonus if you are world wise enough to be able to pinpoint at least half of the worlds countries without having to guess. But I'd settle for a quarter. I know how to barter.

I used to live in Malaysia for a spell, I worked remote, but reddit filters the word for what I did, so if you are curious just hit me up and ask. I work in cybersecurity, radically changed my carreer, worked out, somehow in this economy I found a job, blessed. Though with that job I will be stuck in the Netherlands for the foreseeable future, so an international relation is very tricky and not really my desire. And by international I mean outside of Europe, Europe is easy, it's not that big and migration easy. If you're farther away we can still chat, flirt, the likes, but a relation is tricky.

I am quite a bit nsfw though, my libido hasn't caught up with my age just yet! Neither has my hairline thank God.

Hey! I'm a 23 year old guy from Austria, and I'm looking for something pretty simple, a genuine, long-term relationship with a woman where we actually love each other and want to be part of each other's lives. I'm looking for love, and I want to give that love back.

A little about me:

I'm an affectionate, curious, energetic, patient loyal idiot who enjoys making dumb jokes and generally doesn't take himself too seriously. My hobbies are pretty varied: I read fantasy books, mangas and manhwas, go on walks, swim, cycle, cook and bake, and play games on PlayStation. I'm also a huge fan of One Piece, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars and How I Met Your Mother.

I love the idea of travelling on my own. I've already done a solo trip once and definitely want to do more of it. I'm also currently figuring out what I want to do with my life. I started university but eventually realized it wasn't the right path for me, so I'm taking some time to find something that actually feels right.

As for what I'm looking for in you:

You: A woman around 19–25, preferably from Austria or somewhere else in Europe. I'm also open to someone outside Europe if you're already planning to move to Europe, because realistically I'd like us to have an actual chance of meeting and building something together.

You don't have to look a certain way. As long as you're reasonably healthy, your appearance isn't something I'm particularly worried about. Personality matters much more to me.

I'd love someone who's loyal, curious, affectionate and maybe a little goofy. Someone who actually wants to communicate, gets excited about things, can joke around and isn't afraid of showing that she cares. If you're a dry texter, though... I'm probably going to disappear faster than my motivation to go outside on a Monday. 😅

I'm not interested in smokers, heavy drinkers/alcoholics, drug users, etc. And seriously, NO DRY TEXTERS. 😂

Most importantly, I don't have some perfectly scripted idea of how a relationship has to work. I just want two people who genuinely like each other, choose each other, communicate, support each other and gradually figure the rest out together.

If any of this sounds like you, don't worry about coming up with some incredibly clever opening message. Tell me something about yourself, what you're currently obsessed with, your favorite fictional character, or even just what made you stop scrolling on this post. Give me something to work with and I'll do the same.

Maybe we can start with a conversation and see if there's actually a spark. :)

So to start, I'm not great at talking about myself. But I'm looking for someone I can be hopelessly in love with like in "How I Met Your Mother"

I'm real into baking and sewing, while loving to play video games (My big three being Monster Hunter, Gears of War, and Pokemon). I listen to music that's all over the place with Citizen Soldier, songs from RWBY, or nerdcore. I've got both a cat and dog. I am a bit autistic and have difficulties with reaching out to others unless I know them well enough.

All I'm looking for in a girl is within three to four years of me and to be kind.

If you do see this and do want to get to know each other than dm me with either your biggest pet peeve. (I'm posting this before bed so sorry if any respenses are late)

Hey, hey! 👋🏻

As the title says, I’m a guy from Sweden, poking my head in here to see if I can find someone to strike up a good conversation with, and maybe make a connection, see where things go! ☺️

SO, jumping right in, here are some things about me!

🕹️: I’m a gamer, mostly Nintendo & PlayStation stuff. Also a collector of video games. Anything retro gets me excited!
👻: Big horror fan. Movies, stories, books, games,
analog horrors, anything creepy, I dig it. I love the little bit of an adrenaline kick you get from a good movie!
🍔: I’m a foodie. Love all kinds of food. I really enjoy cooking, and baking, although the baking part is still a.. work in progress, but I could definitely cook us up an awesome meal!
🎧: I love music. Not really scared of any genres. I can bounce between hip hop, hardcore punk, heavy metal, smooth R&B, etc etc, all in one listening session. I also produce a bit myself!
🫢: I’m a sensitive person. All for goofing around and being playful, of course, but I also like having space to be sensitive, and ‘deep’, if you will!

I don’t really share my picture right off the bat. I don’t mind doing it early on, I just like getting a good vibe about someone first- but a quick description would be.. I’m around 6 feet tall, give or take. Currently I have long hair past my shoulders, slightly wavy. Typically I wear colorful headbands to go with it. Uhh, I wear glasses, usually clean shaven, too. I’m ever so slightly chubby, but working on trimming it off! My clothing style is.. a little grunge-y, a little goth-ish.. generally leans in the alt-direction of things!

I value someone who’s similary creative, or nerdy, or at least appreciates someone who is. Everyone has a type they like, so hopefully not sounding too shallow when I say I find people on the curvier side attractive. Obviously no deal-breaker or a must!

If you have any questions, just send me a message and ask away! Thank you, if you took your time reading this! ❤️

Also, yes, I do have Discord if you prefer chatting there!

Hi,

I will start off by saying I am a huge cat person and do not see myself having kids, been pretty ambitious my whole life and worked very hard to get where I am now and maybe the ADHD helped a bit too. Born and bred in Leeds. Also 5"11', and have been told I have a calming voice and naturally long curly eyelashes.. Been an engineer for over 6 years so you could say I am good with computers but also terrible with spiders.

Now living in Canada, I used to travel alot to the states for work and been around to places like Iceland and Greece but I got tired of travelling alone and I am more of a homebody now.

Always generally had a smaller group of friends. I have quite a nerdy side, enjoy board games and the odd OSRS content. I love older 80s/90s movies. I also enjoy reading about ancient history or cosmology relate topics and maybe get into astrophotography sometime. Currently being reading through a book called The Short Story of the Universe.

I would love to be with someone who loves cats as well and I will say I do find it attractive when someone is either really ambitious or well educated or both. I do enjoy being supportive and putting in the effort to learn things to be able to have a proper conversation about something related to your work as an example.

pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/jmGnSJm

Hello, I am a 39 year old single white male looking for a serious relationship. I am single and don’t have any kids. I bought a home here in Las Vegas. I have a good paying solid job here and am able to support a partner.

I’m looking for a special someone in my life, preferably with traditional values and ethics. In my free time I enjoy weekend road trips, wine tasting, shooting, reading, drawing, investing, writing, boardgames, computer games, and a few other things.

Message me back if you’re interested in getting to know each other. I’m looking for a serious relationship for the long-term.

Hello, I'm looking for someone to have a lifelong relationship together. I am not sure about wanting to stay in my country, so eventually relocating is something I'd be willing to do if you think that's a realistic outcome that could work for us, and because of it, it's probably better if you're from North America or my country (although probably I want to leave my country). I am open to males, non binary, and transgender people, however I slightly lean towards femininity or androgyny (this pretty much is in regards to little-to-no facial hair, but I'm not strict about it).

If you care about the MBTI indicator, last time I scored as an INTJ-T (and type 5 for the enneagrams), so if you are very introverted as well, that should work out the best. Need to add that I currently do not have a job, however I am trying my best in order to do things/courses and furthering my education/résumé.

I believe that being fairly compatible is an important aspect for a relationship to work in the long run, so I'm searching someone who is:

• Ideally vegan, plant-based, heavily leaning towards it, or in a serious path to become one (if you absolutely think that you cannot become one after having tried, for health/equally important reasons, I'll understand).
• Drug/smoking/drinking/disease free (as I am) and keeps a reasonably healthy lifestyle at the very least.
• Monogamous and loyal, who wants a lifelong relationship, and believes that is feasible for us to finally be together at some point.
• Relatively close to my age (it's flexible, but +/- 2 years from my own seems reasonable).
• Childfree (doesn't have nor want kids).
• Not a ghoster (if you don't like something, just say so; if you're going to ignore/block/disappear randomly & without notice, please don't message me).

Now these are the things that would describe me: I am very shy and introverted, and have never had a romantic relationship; I greatly value loyalty, love and understanding in someone, so if you give me that, you'll also receive it. Physically speaking, I am about 5'3'', wear glasses, and look average, although I don't have the best hairline if that's what you care about (so you should assume that I would shave). I need to add that I have atopic skin, and have some form of dermatitis on my face, so sometimes around my eyes it's slightly red (it sucks); to my understanding getting rid of this permanently may not be possible, so consider that.

I'm plant-based, so essentially I follow a vegan diet and do not intend to change that, which ties back to one of my standards in regards to health, that even though I can be somewhat lazy when it comes to exercise, I pay close attention for being in a healthy range for height/weight, so it is important for me and should be for my partner as well (reasonably speaking, I'm not strict); nowadays I'm in the range of 130-140 pounds. In addition, I lean towards people with a feminine side as I mentioned above, and I'm not very inclined for facial hair if at all, not even on myself. I have explored the idea, or at least thought of the possibility that I may be more comfortable if I were femme presenting, at least in private maybe, for fun. So essentially crossdressing, although I've never done it, I'm just thinking outloud.

I'm slightly left-leaning/moderate and don't tend to like extremes when it comes to politics, so I have to add some remarks: if this tells you anything about me, I very much dislike the main political parties (left & right) in the US, and of course the ones in my country; I'm in favour of equality, which means that I heavily dislike sexism, modern feminism (vast majority of people I've found online and IRL that professed this were sexist, so I have no interest in that), and toxic movements like 4B; I'm also not searching for someone who is heavily into identity politics or is violent. In regards to religion, I am atheist/agnostic so I'd probably get along better with someone who is as well.

My hobbies are typically indoor, which includes things like relaxing with music, sometimes doing digital art, watching movies or shows, browsing stuff on the Internet, and reading some stuff. I'm currently not much of a gamer, but if that's your thing or hobby, when we meet I'd definitely be willing to play with you. I'll also be happy to join you in doing casual exercise if you enjoy doing that, but I am by no means a hardcore gym-enthusiast.

My intention is to have, firstly, a LDR in order for us to get to know each other better and see if we're compatible, and if so, then it would hopefully develop into a healthy, loyal, and honest relationship. Not only that, but I'll also want to be your best friend, which means that I'll want to do all kinds of things together, from day to day stuff, to cuddling, to sharing hobbies, etc. That's the main idea for having this relationship, an intimate life dedicated to us and the things we love.

If you think this could actually work, feel free to send me a PM and tell me a bit about you! Have a nice day!

Trying this again! Have had some great conversations with great people on here so far so I’m remaining optimistic that I’ll find my person on here. Please make sure you’ve read the whole post before you reach out, if you decide to. If you decide to reach out then please tell me about yourself (your age, where you’re from, your interests etc). Please don’t send a one word message like “hi” as I receive a lot of them and it’s incredibly frustrating to deal with when I’ve put a lot of effort into communicating who I am and what I’m looking for.

About me:

- I’m 23 and live in the UK not far from London.

- I’m childfree by choice, have known for the majority of my life that I don’t want to have kids, to be honest as far as “types” of childfree people go I’m definitely more on the don’t like kids at all side, I don’t hate them but I’d never choose to be around them. I am planning to get a vasectomy in the future, I don’t have an exact timeline on when I’ll get it yet but I WILL be getting one. I’m not opposed to getting a pet in the future but I wouldn’t want to have lots of them, I’m definitely not someone who goes crazy over animals.

- I’m 5’10 or 178cm, I’m not particularly athletic or sporty, I enjoy long walks and swimming a lot, I usually swim lengths for an hour a few days a week.

- I currently work in a pub, I enjoy it but long term my goal is to be a software engineer, I have a computer science degree and am currently just getting my CV ready to start job hunting, just getting my programming skills back up to scratch, building projects and all that good stuff. Job market right now isn’t great so I don’t expect to find a job quickly but it is what it is.

- I’m not a very family orientated person, I do have a good relationship with my parents but I’m not close to most of my family, my life in general isn’t heavily based around family and I would like a partner who has the same mindset.

- I’m neurodivergent and an introvert, I’m definitely someone who values their quiet time and likes to spend a lot of time just chilling, gaming, watching my favourite shows and all that good stuff. Relationship wise I have very little tolerance for yelling at each other. I want the kind of relationship where we can both feel safe around each other and discuss things calmly if ever we need to resolve an issue.

- I’m quite nerdy, I play a lot of video games, recently I’ve just been catching up on some old cod campaigns that I haven’t played yet and I’ve been also playing through red dead redemption 1 because I want to finish it finally before gta 6 comes out, my favourite game series is definitely the Yakuza games. I’m a halo fan as well and I’ve always wanted to play through the campaigns with my partner so that’s something I hope to do with you, whoever you are! I’m a big Star Wars fan although I haven’t kept up much with the shows recently, I love horror movies as well.

- I’m very affectionate both physically and verbally, I love cuddling and just existing together.

- I like travelling, I’ve been to 7 countries so far in my life, I’ve been to Spain many times, Germany a lot since I started going on solo trips, I’ve also been to Ireland, Turkey, Sweden, the US and Poland. I want to travel all around the world in future, I enjoy both sightseeing and relaxing resort type holidays and definitely want a good mix of both in the future. It might sound a bit odd but I wouldn’t say I’m a very adventurous traveller like I’m not really into doing crazy activities or staying in sketchy places or anything like that.

- I do drink alcohol from time to time but I don’t smoke or take drugs.

- I’m financially literate and responsible with money, I would like to retire early in the future if possible.

- I’m an atheist.

- I would like to live in a big city in the future or at least within commutable distance to one (which I already do but I don’t want to live in this specific area forever).

- I don’t really have any preferences for my partners body type, I’ve dated skinnier girls and plus size girls in the past and enjoyed both. I’m not particularly bothered about looks, I care far more about my partners personality and how they treat me.

- I would like to get (can’t use the world here but should be obvious) in the future (it will likely be a necessity anyway if we’re not in the same country) however I do NOT want to have a “normal” wedding, I absolutely want to elope just the two of us. I know that’s very forward to say right away but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if that’s something that’s important to them.

What I'm Looking For:

- You’re 18-23 years old and live in the UK, it doesn’t matter where in the UK you currently live as long as you’re willing to potentially move in the future, I’m also open to moving in the UK if that’s the best option for us. I’d also be open to people in other European countries, we can visit each other as much as we can and then eventually close the distance.

- You don’t want to wait forever to meet in person and don’t want to wait a very long time for the relationship to become a serious one, while I’m not expecting us to make a lifelong commitment to each other instantly, if we’re compatible and the chemistry is there then I do just want us to make a real go of it.

- You’re firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you want to get sterilised in the future that’s a plus although it’s not a hard requirement.

- You are not religious.

- You are not very family orientated.

- You want to get (again can’t use the word here) in the future but also don’t want a “normal” wedding/don’t care about having one.

- Last but not least you want or are willing to play video games with me and also especially if you’re not British (but even if you are) you’re willing to watch all my favourite British shows with me.

If you’ve read to the end regardless of whether you match what I’m looking for or not then thank you! If you do match what I’m looking for and decide to reach out then I look forward to hearing from you!

There is a kind of quiet I have grown used to. It has been faithful company, and most days I am genuinely content on my own.

But there is a difference between being comfortable alone and being at peace with the idea of never being truly known by someone.

I made a post here a few weeks ago, but it didn't bring the connection I was hoping for. Lately that feeling has grown quieter, and I have stopped arguing with the part of me that wants to share a life with someone.

I am 32, 5'11", more of African than American, with no relationship history. I do not say that with regret or embarrassment. It is simply how I have lived. I waited because I have always believed that giving a woman your heart should mean something. If I ever do, I want to do it fully, not out of curiosity or loneliness, but with the intention to build something lasting. I do not smoke, do not womanize, and do not drink.

I was raised in a home that took character seriously, and I still carry those lessons with me. Kindness, self-control, honesty, and responsibility have never felt optional. Life has taught me how to listen, remain steady when things are difficult, and keep going when more is asked of me. I have also learned that the past cannot be fixed, so the focus has to be on building a better future. I am finishing my nursing degree because I want a life built around both purpose and family, and I want to be responsible for the people who matter to me.

I am quiet by nature and find most of what I need in stillness, meaningful work, and a sense of purpose. I do not need constant excitement to feel alive, and I have come to value peace more than chemistry that burns brightly and disappears just as quickly.

What I want is simple, even if I know it is rare. I want a woman who is genuine and steady, feminine without needing to perform it, ambitious without being restless, and clear about what she believes. Someone who values a lasting commitment not just as an idea, but as something worth protecting.

I picture a life together that feels like shelter—a place where two people can tell each other the truth without fear, pray together, build something real, and raise children who know what steady love looks like. I believe peace does not mean a life without difficulty. It means choosing kindness and understanding even when things are hard.

I want the kind of love where we repair what is broken rather than walking away when things become uncomfortable, and where we wake up the next morning and choose each other again.

I do not expect perfection. I want a love that shows itself in practicality and action more than words alone. A love that looks past race, color, or status and is aligned with goals, purpose, and the belief that there is a real future ahead.

I am looking for someone who is willing to understand, grow together, and remain committed when love requires patience. I am pure in heart and soft in kindness.

If that sounds like the kind of life you are hoping for too, I would like to meet you.

Hi there! I'm 33, white, 6'2 with curly dark blond hair and light blue/grey eyes. Currently overweight but actively dieting and exercising and going down thankfully. I'm CST (specifically NW corner of Arkansas) and would prefer to meet someone who is within ~5-6 hours drive of the area, so we can plan visits. I'm pretty introverted and shy (in person at least, less shy online) and a homebody. So nights in gaming with friends or watching TV is my typical go-to, but I will absolutely jump at a museum or impromptu road trip, as long as there's time in between to recharge! I work as a school bus driver, and if possible would love to go back to college in the future to pursue a degree in Astrophysics. I've also spent a few years studying Japanese, and can stumble through some simple conversations though it's difficult. My love languages are touch, quality time, and food.

Most days outside of work, I spend most of my time either playing with my dog, reading webcomics, or playing video games (PC for life) with some friends. I've been learning how to cook for a few years, and am always on the look out for something new to try to make over the weekend whenever I can, always fun trying new dishes! My main game is WoW, and I would *LOVE* to find someone who shares my passion for that game, though it's certainly not a deal breaker! I've been trying to play more horror games lately, but I'm a bit of a scared y cat, so it's been an interesting experience. I greatly enjoy fantasy/adventure style shows, movies, and anime, but to me watching things with my partner is a very emotionally intimate activity, so I have not watched much lately.

I enjoy texting and video calls, either while gaming together, watching shows together, or just doing our own stuff. If we're close enough then planning trips to visit IRL is also high on the list, once we become comfortable enough with each other to get to that point. Sharing our days, discussing cooking and making the other jealous of our awesome food, etc.

Thank you so much for reading, and have a great day! :)

Hey, I'm David. I go by Slad or Salad online, whichever you prefer.

I'm a pretty introverted guy who spends most of his time at his PC. I've been gaming since I was a kid, and at this point I have over 700 games on Steam. I'm a variety gamer, so my interests are all over the place: RPGs, MMOs, survival games, shooters, co-op horror, random indie games, emulators, and plenty of other stuff. Lately I've been playing Marvel SNAP and Project Zomboid.

Outside of gaming, I spend a lot of time on YouTube, listen to music (System of a Down is my all-time favorite band), and quote an unreasonable amount of old Vines and internet memes. I'm not much of a TV or movie person.

I'm pretty low-energy and quiet sometimes, especially in voice calls. I'm more of a listener than a yapper, unless something gets me going. I can also be pretty clingy when I really enjoy someone's company, so there's that.

As for why I'm here, I'm looking for an actual romantic relationship with a woman. Ideally, someone I can get to know over time, talk to regularly, play games with, and eventually meet in person if things work out. I'm not expecting instant chemistry or trying to force anything, but I am interested in dating rather than collecting another online friend.

I'd like someone who's honest, communicative, and willing to put effort into getting to know each other. I'm not expecting constant attention or messages every waking minute, but I don't want to be the only one trying to keep a conversation alive, either.

Being a gamer yourself would be a big plus since it's such a huge part of my life, but we don't have to play the same games. I'm happy to learn about your interests, too.

I'm a bit of a shut-in and don't get out much, so I'm definitely open to giving a long-distance relationship a try. I'm generally awake from the afternoon until the early morning hours CST, and my schedule is pretty flexible. I'd be happy to start online and see where things go, with the possibility of meeting in person down the line if we hit it off.

If you're interested, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. What do you do for fun? What games do you play, if any? What kind of relationship are you looking for?

Please give me a little more to work with than just "hey" and we'll see how we get along.

Hi, before starting, just skip this post if you don't like these keywords, it might save you tons of time: Possessive, obsessive, clingy, Irreligious, skinny, virgin, no tattoo, <25 yo.

Let's just call me K for now, I'm 19 yo. I live in Vietnam and am a college student.

I live for love, and to me, love can only be built on three core components: Appearance, Personality and Time.

- About appearance: I'm really skinny, wear glasses, just your typical skinny Asian lol. I'm 170cm (66,93 inches) tall, have short black hair and black eyes. I can be ugly or handsome depending on your taste, at least I'd say I like my face. So I expect you to be able to like your face as well (you have to love yourself first, right?). It would be really nice if you have and like long hair. Short hair can also be cute but... yea, I love long hair the most. It's fine if you are a little chubby or too skinny, as long as you are not satisfied with it and are trying to change. That's what I'm doing as well. I don't really like earrings (mostly because you have to hurt your ears to wear them) and I especially hate tattoos. If you like or have those then just skip this post. I also don't like makeup. I admit that it makes you more beautiful, but I want to like your "real" face more. So if we hangout or live tgt, I don't want to see you wearing makeup. I have heard people say things like appearance doesn't matter. But idk, maybe it's because I have never truly loved someone before, I just can't imagine loving a person whom I don't find attractive.

- About personality: Hobbies are not considered personality traits, but I'll just put it here since it's really important to me. I want us to be able to enjoy doing things together. So it would be really nice if our hobbies match.

I like reading Light Novel (I also like some novels from Korea), manga (manhwa and manhua), and anime. Most of them all have the romance tags. My favourites are 86, Psycho-Pass, No Game No Life (anime), Death Game Manga no Kuromaku Satsujinki no Imouto ni Tensei shite Shippai shita (manga),... I like Minecraft (bedrock), that's the only game I play at the moment but I can play some other small games with you as well (only if I enjoy it and I am... a really picky person). I'm a mobile player, I don't have a pc anw. I listen to several kinds of music, except for folks and Vietnamese music (try listening to VOICE - English Ver. by Tacitly).

I have trust issues. To me, your actions say it all. So I only believe in it. Don't just tell me you enjoy spending time with me or like doing something with me. If you really do, you will never let me lead the conversation all the time, never let me be the only one who always texts first. And if your reason is because you are shy or pretty much anything else, just skip this post then.

I am reaaaaaly obsessive and possessive. So unless we are really incompatible, it normally doesn't take long for me to become like that. I want to put you above literally everything and I want you to do the same too. "Literally everything", I mean it. I'm also really clingy, I want to know what you are doing all the time. If we are chatting and you suddenly have to leave, even if it's only for a short time (like you wanna get some water or go to the bathroom), I want you to tell me. Of course I'll do the same too. And for the record, I'm not looking for someone who can accept my possessiveness and all, I'm looking for someone who is also the same, possessive and obsessive. So if that's not what you are, just skip this post.

I don't consider myself a good person in general. I have friends, but I don't consider any of them my friends, I just friend them because they are useful (since I don't want to share any of my feelings with them). So if you think you are a "good" or "kind" person, who always wants to help people or things like that then now you know how incompatible we are.

I'm also kind of controlling. Sometimes I'd tell you to do something that I consider "good" for you (like wake up when you are lazy). But I'm not a god, I could be wrong. When that happens explain and prove me wrong, just don't forget to comfort me after that. This doesn't mean I am the one who holds the leash here or anything, you could also be obsessive and controlling. We can both hold each other's leashes, that's what I want actually (I'm a switch).

Since I'm a college student, I'm often really busy. But I should still be able to update you about my activities or just stick with you whenever I'm free. I'll try my best to never let you feel lonely. If you want to call, I'm afraid It will take a long time for me to feel comfortable doing that, and it'll take even longer if you want to have a video call. Probably years, it depends.

Since I have never truly loved someone before, I'm still a virgin. That's what I expect in you too. Well, maybe you have loved someone before, but I don't want you to have memories of some other guys frcking or kissing you. That's more than enough to boil my blood.

I'm Irreligious. I find some of them quite interesting though, like Christianity. However, please only dm me if you are Irreligious as well. As for the reason, make a guess then tell me about it first when you dm me (then you can say hi or anything to me later) so I know you are really reading all of this carefully.

- About time: Even if you think you are perfect for me, and I think so too, let's just take it slow. The faster you walk, the more painful it will be when you fall. And if you love someone right away just because of their looks and their personality, you could also love someone else for the same reason, right? So the time we spend together will be the only thing that makes us special to each other compared to anyone else.

Okay, that's pretty much everything. You can ask me for more if you are not sure. Thanks for reading.

Feeling very lonely and just want to chat with a woman. Hell, you can even pretend to be a woman or catfish me or whatever you want, just lead me on so I don’t know the difference. Interests include books, board games, doing good in the world, politics, brainstorming how to fix our broken ass society. Let’s conversate.