Hi! I feel nervous and shy putting myself out there, given how convoluted the dating scene is. I'd like to skip past all the nonsense and build a real connection with someone, uninfluenced by our pasts and the world around us. I crave meaningful conversations, silliness and genuine affection. I just want to find my introverted weirdo with a dark sense of humor, interests and values similar to mine. Someone to match my freak, so to speak. Really sort of like finding my other half, and coming home. Someone to look forward to everyday. I want to live a quiet and adventurous life where we travel and immerse ourselves in all the world has to offer, yet still savor the comfort of quiet, cozy days at home most days.

Writing about myself is the bane of my existence, so here I will display the stats: I'm childfree, atheist, and politically left-leaning. I'm black American, plus-size, around 5'6" (167 cm) tall, long dark brown hair, big dark brown eyes, and always wearing glasses. (See here.) I'm curious about the world and about people I care about. I'm someone who sometimes has too many thoughts, but doesn't like to fret over the small things in life. I may sound really serious, but I'm actually quite goofy and non-serious on the inside. 😄 Some of my interests include technology, writing, photography, horror, psychology, video games, anime, true crime, philosophy, history, astronomy, sociology, biology, reading, and traveling. Music-wise, I adore alternative/indie pop, electronic pop, classic rock, hip-hop and R&B.

I like to be romantic and affectionate with my partner.

Emotional intelligence, communication, empathy, patience, and understanding are incredibly important to me.

I adore shy, reserved, tall, tech/science nerdy men who love to write, and yap once they open up.

I'm (non-negotiable) looking for someone who is: single, monogamous, childfree (meaning no offspring and no desire for offspring), never m arried, emotionally available (including not being hung up on a past romantic interest, or recently out of a relationship), politically left-leaning, and non-religious. Near my age (25-33—not younger, not older.)

I'm currently in the southeast US, but I'm not really attached to the area, or like the stereotypes. Whether my niche person be somewhere across the sea, or somewhere closer to home (but just so happens to be reading this post..) I'm fine with distances, but please be able/willing to meet in-person, and from the USA, Canada, or Europe.

If this resonates with you and you think we might match, send me a message! Tell me about yourself, maybe include a photo of yourself, and the phrase "over the moon!" somewhere in your message so I know you've read this post in full.

I look forward to getting to know you. 🌹✨

Hey! I’m 28, from Valtellina in northern Italy. I’m an introvert, and my friends would probably describe me as smart and opinionated (I’ll let you decide whether that’s a good thing 😄).

I’m into everything from Tchaikovsky to Pantera, Tool and Death. I love David Lynch’s films, my favourite movie is Wild Strawberries, and I spend far too much time playing strategy games. I’ve also watched every F1 race since 2013.

I’d love to meet someone to watch movies with, cook together, eat ice cream while wandering around a city, travel across Europe and have long conversations about what’s happening in the world.
I’m childfree but I would be open to having kids with the right person and looking to meet someone aged 24–32 who’d like to see where things go, hopefully leading to a long-term relationship.

I’m based in northern Italy, open to meeting someone elsewhere in the EU, Switzerland or Norway, and willing to relocate for the right person.
If you think we might get along, tell me a little about yourself! What’s a movie, song or topic you could talk about for hours? :)

Hi there! I’m 27F in Phoenix, AZ. I am seeking someone in Arizona. I am looking for something serious !!

About me: office job, cat. Leftist, monogamist, childfree. I am plus-size (5’6”, 230 lbs) and white/asian (but look white). Currently living with my family (cannot host shenanigans). I enjoy baking, music and concerts, video games, crafting, and going new places.

Ideally looking for: someone local to Arizona. someone who is also leftist, monogamist, and childfree. Someone who is interested in building up to a relationship. I prefer under 33.

Some more fun info to sound less intense: I love cozy gaming and grew up on farming sims. I would love a horror/thriller movie cuddle buddy. I work in science!

Feel free to send me a message or chat (:

Hello to everyone reading this,

Thought to give this a try and see if I can find someone whom I can annoy, pamper and pour my love on.

I am not really good with writing about my thoughts, I used to be amazing but life happens to all of us.

Soooooo, here I go..

I am 33 Years old Man who is decently tall, I’m 6’1 (185 cm), and Someone who has seen the harder part of the life more than the good but I still believe. I think of me as a person who is humble and open minded.

I do take a little time to get comfortable. But once I feel totally comfortable with someone, they will probably discover the goofy, affectionate, cheesy and cheeky, mildly chaotic version of me hiding underneath. I am very cheeky tho, so consider yourself warned lol

I genuinely want to fall in love. I'd rather meet someone, build a friendship, fall in love, and slowly create a life together.

Totally a 90s kid at heart. I value loyalty, consistency, effort and simply being there for someone I am a weird mix of old school and modern thoughts and ideologies.

Photography is my way to express my emotions and I am planning on doing more of it. I love photographing places, people, random moments and little details that usually go unnoticed.

I’ve recently been laid off, lost my job and looking for a new job actively. I've also realised that I don't want my entire life to revolve around work, designations or milestones.

Soo these days I’ll also actively pursue things like riding my bike, checking out some new amazing cafés, going for a long walk, travelling somewhere for a week or so or watching a good series.

I love gaming, I used to do Competitive CS gaming when I was 15 yrs. old with my friend. I love travelling, I wanna travel more in coming years, both planned and unplanned trips. A road trip, a new place, good food, a great playlist and the right company can make even a fairly ordinary weekend memorable. Solo travelling is also a plan.

A lot of what I understand about women, their respect, kindness and treating people well comes from watching and learning from my sister.

Now comes the part where I tell what I am looking for,

There is never a perfect fit, I don’t want my woman to fit into my life, I really want her to have her own life too, Its better that way when freedom is not taken away just because some things don’t sit well.

I would really want both of us to have our own careers, friendships, ambitions and identities, while still choosing each other every day. Her dreams would matter to me just as much as mine. I would want us to encourage each other, challenge each other when needed, celebrate each other's wins and be each other's safe place when life gets difficult

I'm not looking for perfection. Honestly, perfect sounds exhausting.

Kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, loyalty and genuine effort matter much more to me.

Initial attraction for me matters a bit to me, people who say that looks don’t matter for then are most probably lying, I would want someone to complement me. Its not everything but it’s something.

To have someone with whom I can talk about life late at night. Someone who can be my partner, but also my best friend. Because I genuinely believe that when friendship exists underneath a relationship, you have something much stronger to hold on to.

I'll remember something you casually mentioned months ago and bring it up when you've completely forgotten telling me.

And if I really like you, unfortunately, you'll probably receive an increased dose of my nonsense. Consider yourself warned.

I don't think relationships are about getting everything right all the time. People change. Life gets messy. Sometimes we're going to misunderstand each other, have bad days, disagree over stupid things and occasionally drive each other crazy.

I'm not looking for a fairy tale life but I would like to have a good life with the person I get to choose.

I look for someone who believes effort should go both ways. I’ve been a victim of unrequited love.

I think I’ll stop here as it has gotten way long. My apologies

If anything from what I wrote made way to your heart or resonated with you, feel free to say a HI.

Lets have a good conversation. . Thanks for Reading, I hope you’ll have an amazing day

Disclaimer: I am only looking for people local to areas around Seattle/Everett/Bellevue!

I am a curvy INFJ lady on a pilgrimage to finding a new social group and a relationship! I figured I'd give it a shot here.

A little bit about me:

I recently moved from San Diego and am now a resident enrichment coordinator/manager at a memory care community where I am working to better the lives of people who will never truly remember me! It's all fine an dandy, we have a great time regardless. In my free time, mostly Fridays and Saturdays, I'd love to find someone to game, voice, and commit shenanigans in the city with. I have two degrees in Psychology and Communication, and am debt-free, moisturized, and in my lane, existing! I own a senior cat and he continues to defy death at the ripe age of eighteen. I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or party much! I am like a little decrepit old hag trapped in the body of a young woman, slaving over a hot stove (cast iron only.) I am on the expensive zepbound, so I can't eat as much as I used to!

Values:

Time, Kindness, stability, structure, mindfulness, empathy, ambition, communication and of course, humor~

What I am looking for:

I love to voice! It's so important to have great verbal chemistry. I'm hoping to meet someone who loves to talk as much as they enjoy sitting in silence doing their own thing, sharing each other's company when we're just flat out exhausted. Ideally, we can roleplay, game, go out on the town, and maybe do a little bit of movie watching too! I love to watch period dramas, animes, horror movies and comedies alike. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into anything, as I'd rather meet someone and see where things lead. My ideal life is living right outside my small town in the woodlands, in a two bed two bath house with wifi and enough ice water / freeze dried mangoes to satiate me. Boring is sometimes good in the realm of predictability and structure.

Age wise, someone between the ages of 28-38 is ideal, past their college years, and looking to build a life of comedically predictable bliss!

Superficially, I'm really into someone who could tower over me and defend my pizza takeout from the downtown midnight scallywags. I have a huge weakness for a good sense of business functional fashion!

Deal Breakers:

Not enough time to invest, anger issues/yelling of any sort, smoking, drinking to cope (social okay), drugs, lack of communication, financial irresponsibility, polygamy, dishonesty, racism, overly religious, I do not wish to have kids.

Games:

No Rest for the Wicked, Elden Ring Seamless Coop, Second Life, Stardew Valley, Witcher 3, Guild Wars 2, Warframe, Assassin's Creed, Peak, Divinity OS2, Baldur's Gate, Valheim, and much more!

Hobbies:

Roleplaying (one person only), Going to carnivals, rock hounding, (I want to hike but don't yet.), tons of games, writing my own lore/world, exploration, travel (if I can afford it), design, cooking (lots of different cultures!), volunteering, creating a cozy existence, and more to uncover!

Here is my face! <3 https://imgur.com/a/26bO3EO

Howdy, the name's Chance, I'm a 25 year old Indigenous Canadian who loves Music, Worldbuilding and Gaming.

About Chance:

• I'm a huge melophile, with a particular love of music that came out before I was born, anything from the 60s to 80s and a little bit of 90s, I love. Only downside, I'm not quite fond of today's music, though there are some outliers, but for the most part I'd rather comb through obscure or underrated r&b bands of years past.

• I love Worldbuilding, I enjoy coming up with story ideas, characters and worlds for those characters and stories to be set in, I have several story ideas, and worlds I'm still developing, please ask me about them.

• I'm a gamer, that's no secret, I'm mostly a fan of singleplayer story driven RPGs but I frequently play multiplayer, currently I'm playing Marvel Rivals, Fallout 76, Dead By Daylight, The Finals, and sometimes Fortnite. I play on PC, Xbox, and have a PS5 that i play Outlast Trials on, feel free to ask for any of my usernames for either console, I would definitely love a Player 2.

• I'm also looking to get into TTRPGs like DnD so if you play and have any tips or even want me to play in a campaign, i would love to join, I'd need help though since I'm less then a novice.

• I'm not really sure how to describe my personality, that's really up for you to decide, however I do try to be respectful, and not ask too many personal questions, and people I hang out with often say I'm kind and chill, so there's that.

• In terms of what I'm looking for, I'm not picky, as long as you're respectful, and kind.

• Though if you we're to have the same interests, or at least share some interests, you might honestly be the one.

• When not listening to music, playing games, or worldbuilding, I'm watching anime or reading manga, I'm not much into stuff like JJK, Dragon Ball, AoT, Tokyo Ghoul or Chainsaw Man, I'm more into Slice-of-Life, Comedy, Romance and maybe some Supernatural stuff. My guilty pleasure has to be Isekai/Fantasy Slop, just the most generic formulaic overpowered MC garbage, i can't get enough.

• Also the Hughie from The Boys thing comes from my growing collection of band shirts, I'm literally a walking advertisement for some of my favorite bands.

My Flaws (I feel you should know about these beforehand):

• I'm very self conscious, and frequently overthink, I worry about what people think about me and often talk bad about myself. It's bad I know and I'm trying to take steps to stop myself from being like this.

• I'm very forgetful, I often forget stuff people tell me a few minutes prior, and if you tell me something important I may get distracted by something and completely forget what I was just told.

• I'm a very socially awkward person, I'm not the best at conversation, I also fear I'll say the wrong thing and make things awkward, so if it happens, let me know otherwise I won't notice.

• I'm very inexperienced in romance, I wasn't exactly popular in high school so I never really got to experience anything like it, and when I did it didn't last, so I would appreciate it if you could be patient with me as I'm still trying to learn.

Don't know if I'll find anyone, but this will be here in case someone stumbles upon it and I pique their interest.

I am a great many things, but at the moment, I am tipsy.

Good morning, from CST.

Who am I? There isn’t a simple definition here, so I’ll just start listing facets of myself and you can decide if I’m worth your time.

I am a nerd, currently invested in how Bleach finally ends, given I’ve never read the manga.

I am Messianic Jewish, so I’m down with the whole “Gifts of the Spirit” thing.

I enjoy Metal! \m/ Tony Danza Tapdance Extravaganza dropped a new single and it’s great, even if it eats my speakers.

I write well, specializing in fantasy-ish stories with a heavy emphasis on gritty realism and real-world trauma and the overcoming there-of.

I adore fountain pens and know more about inks and paper than any man probably should.

I have sung liturgies for 20,000 people through Facebook Live. Yes, really.

I have copy-edited the Bible.

Ico and Shadow of the Colossus are some of my favorite games. But I enjoy murdering strangers in COD on occasion.

I dress well, and learned color theory/fashion by trying to make my FFXIV character look better.

I have found beauty in any number of strange places, and I’ve yet to find anyone who sees it like I do. I dream of finding someone who understands.

I love boots. I love polishing and brushing shoes in general. It’s therapeutic, and I look fine as hell.

I am too smart for my own good. Indeed, being smart has done me very little good in and of itself. I’d be very interested in hearing the exchange rate for IQ points and “Motivation.”

I am not for everyone, and that’s fine—I’m monogamous after all—but someone to chat with today would help me a lot, so I thought I’d try reaching out.

I’ve no expectations of a response. I will dream of one regardless.

Tall, handsome SWM, accomplished and secure is seeking his forever flower. Enjoy jogging, scuba diving, sports, daily meditation, working out, and sharing my girl with many of life's pleasures. I do not drink, smoke, nor drug, eat healthy, cooks, is creative and smart. I am esoteric spiritual, Sapio/demi/ very open minded sexually. Seeking a single, goal oriented, open sexually, woman of substance and beauty inside and out, for an extraordinary life of fulfillment. SERIOUS ONLY. Love a woman who enjoys being enjoyed.

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for my other half. Someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.

28M4F Looking for someone as my forever wedding date / someone to do the dishes for. #NYC and or #online

Putting #online since I’m figuring why not it’s a big wide world out there.

I’m 28 M in NYC so locals are welcome but so is Antarctica.

I’m horrible at the about me stuff so I’m going to be my best:
Yes I have J.O.B so I’m not covered in Cheeto dust doing nothing like Reddit would suggest.
10 countries and counting and all around the USA
I love running, following sports \\\[ let’s go Knicks we did it yay \\\] , reading is my passion and aiming for 7 books a year if work doesn’t get in the way.
Currently obsessed with weekend food crawls to try new dishes and expand my pallet away from the typical just chicken and beef on rotation.

I’m happy to swap photos on connecting or waiting a bit but brief descriptor im 5’9 \\\[175cm\\\] and in good shape. Brown hair and eyes and white.

If you’re interested shoot me a message here on the chat feature and I look forward to connecting. Just shoot me a brief hey I saw your post and your age and we can get to yapping.

I’m originally from South India, currently pursuing my grad school in US. I’ve always been academically inclined and ambitious, but I try not to make my career my entire personality. Career-wise, I’m happy with where things are heading and excited about what’s next.
Outside work, I enjoy working out and playing badminton and maintaining an active lifestyle. I love travelling, exploring new cities, trying different cuisines, and experiencing different cultures. Living in the US has given me plenty of opportunities to explore, and there’s still a long list of places I’d love to visit.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as curious, ambitious, open-minded, and fairly easygoing. I enjoy intellectual conversations, but equally appreciate random, silly discussions about absolutely nothing. I value independence and personal growth, but also believe life is much more enjoyable when you have someone to share the little things with.
What I’m looking for:
Someone who’s ambitious, independent, emotionally mature, and genuinely kind. I find intelligence and curiosity attractive, but I think being able to communicate openly, laugh together, and understand each other matters even more.
Ideally, I’d like a relationship where we’re both pursuing our individual goals while being each other’s biggest supporters. Someone I can travel with, explore new places with, have deep conversations with, and also just spend a lazy weekend doing absolutely nothing.
I believe mutual attraction, emotional compatibility, and shared values are all important. I’m looking for something genuine and long-term rather than something casual.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM! Happy to exchange pictures and get to know each other. :)

Hey everyone, hope you're all doing well!

A bit about me:
I'm 21, 6'2", gothic, and based in Edinburgh, Scotland. I'd describe myself as blunt, easygoing, relaxed, and someone who likes to go with the flow.

What I'm looking for:
I'm open to making friends, but I'm mainly looking for a relationship. I'd particularly like to meet someone who's goth or alternative, shares some of my interests, is honest, knows what they want, and has common sense.

I've had a couple of relationships before, but they felt more like flings than genuine connections. This time, I'd like something meaningful built on trust, respect, quality time, and mutual effort.

I'm also fine with online dating as long as the connection is genuine. Distance isn't necessarily a dealbreaker.

My hobbies and interests:

• Gaming, especially War Thunder and DCS, but I also play GTA, Red Dead Redemption 2, Hot Dogs, Horseshoes & Hand Grenades, Minecraft, Brick Rigs, People Playground, and plenty of other games.
• Airsoft, including collecting pistols and rifles.
• Collecting historical artefacts, swords, and knives.
• Building model ships and tanks.
• History, particularly naval warfare, battleships like HMS Warspite, battlecruisers like HMS Hood, tanks, and historical weaponry.
• Photography, swimming, and coffee.
• I'd also love to get into LARPing, cosplay, and historical reenactments when I can afford to.

I'm a bit like a magpie when it comes to collecting things!

A few other things about me:
I'm autistic, have ADHD and fetal alcohol syndrome. I'm around 280 lbs at 6'2", and I'd like to get fitter and work on my health.

I'm also a musician and would love to make a career out of music, although I'd be happy doing something related to my other hobbies and interests.

If we share some interests, especially gaming, history, or collecting, feel free to message me! My Discord is qwertowsky. You can also message me here on Reddit, but I'm much more active on Discord.

Want someone to get closer to you than anyone ever has? Someone who digs deep and wants all the details? Want to pour out everything to someone who will listen?

Do you want me to ask about everything? How much do you want me to know? What if I learned everything about you? Could you teach me how you want to be loved? Tell me how to make you fall in love? Maybe it could actually work. I’m looking forward to hearing from you. Tell me whatever you’d like

I have a lot of anxiety and depression from being abandoned that prevents me from reaching out. Being alone is a terrible, depressing feeling though, please understand these.I want someone who is affectionate and caring. Please just be 22-49 though.

So here's some facts about me:

•I'm 36, 5'7, red hair, blue eyes, and 185bs. I'm from Central Florida, United States.

•I'm primarily a meat eater(Turkey, Beef, Venison), I also enjoy pizza, I have found a love for CHEEZ-IT Hot n spicy + Eastanbul pizza seasoning, apples(LOVE Cosmic Crisp), mashed potatoes, I've been eating much healthier and will likely drag you into it too!(Only because I care, but I am not vegan, I like my meat) politically right leaning, Christian. I'm open to 1, maybe 2 children.

I don't need someone to be the same as long as they're respectful, and have love in their heart.

•I'm pretty introverted. I don't drink at all, use drugs(420 friendly though), or party(Though I do love parties, bring your Elf Rogue or Half Orc Barbarian!). Also definitely monogamous.

•For interests, I really like watching various animes, Star Wars, Doctor Who, Star Trek, Lord Of The Rings, pretty much Fantasy/Scifi, video games, 3D printing, history, I like some horror's, love Zombies, Aliens, Vampires/Werewolves and certain mythologies, and a good conspiracy theory(the truth is out there!) Marvel, DC, I have other interests, but we'll get to those is time.

•I don't mind if you live with family and I have a cat.

I want to go out to theme parks and movies with you, maybe thrifting? sailing the yard sales yarr!, I want to fall asleep next to you watching movies or talking or playing games!, I want to go out with you! Let's start here, *star trek theme plays*Please be prepared to talk as often as possible so we may get to know each other :).

•If you call yourself asexual, or are part of that kind of grouping, please, do us a favor and do not contact me, while I don;'t want it right away(I want to make sure we're right for each other) I will want it, I want someone to face life together, make sure you've read my post before you contact me, I put the same energy you give me, back into you! so lets make it count!

Preferable we meet within the year!!!!

Mellon translate this so I know you read my post! don't skim! I swear I'm worth it!

IF you've read my post, you'll know where it comes from.

Side note: I am REALLY getting burnt out.. I am tired of constantly being ghosted, abandoned, so please, take your time and decide:"Do I want a guy who'll message me daily?" or "Do I want to get to know more about this guy?" or, "Do I want to make the first move?" if so, message me!

I've already poured my heart out, as much as I can bear to anymore, come on, bring something to the table, I'll go ahead and say, ask yourself these exact questions BEFORE messaging me:

Can I deal with a guy sending me good morning and good night texts?

Do I want to get to know this guy more?

Do I want someone serious about finding a relationship?

Can I keep up a conversation on our shared interests?

if you answered yes to at least 3/4, the message button is right there! if you answered no to half or more, please, kindly pass me along and find someone else.

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Hey! I'm 25 and from Bareilly, Uttar Pradesh.

I'm someone who enjoys reading, music, singing, and playing guitar. I love meaningful conversations, but I can be equally happy laughing at the most ridiculous things. I enjoy talking about books, philosophy, life, and all those random things that somehow turn into hours of conversation.

I'm working towards my career goals and figuring life out along the way. I don't have everything sorted, and I don't expect you to either.

I'm a vegetarian who appreciates kindness, empathy, and the little things that make life beautiful.

I'm hoping to meet someone aged 23–26 who's kind, loyal, emotionally mature, and genuinely looking for a serious connection. I'd love to start with friendship, get to know each other naturally, and see if we can build something real. Someone who has her own dreams but also wants a partner to share life's little moments with.

I'd love to exchange songs and book recommendations, go on long drives, explore new places, and have those late-night conversations where neither person notices how late it's gotten. I'm open to long-distance if we're both willing to make the effort.

I'm not looking for perfection or a fairytale. I just want mutual effort, honest communication, affection, and someone who doesn't give up on us the moment things get difficult. Someone who wants to build a future together, one step at a time.

If any of this resonates with you, DM me! Tell me about yourself, your interests, or even a song you've had on repeat lately. Let's skip the awkward interview and just talk. :)

Because once I'm with you, I'll find my way back to you every time. ❤️

Hey I’m B, I’m a nerdy ginger with glasses looking for someone to talk to while going through college. Just started anatomy and am hoping to go into radiography, so I’m still far off from my goal. Perfectly fine with any type of person just want someone to talk to and maybe play some games with.

For hobbies obviously like games, been playing some grounded 2 and would love to play it with someone. I also like games like stardew valley and Minecraft, or some roguelikes like the binding of Isaac or FTL.

I’m also big into anime and manga, recently watched and read smoking behind the supermarket with you was pretty good. Also recently started reading jujitsu kaisen. But I’m usually watching anything from isekai to shounen fight animes.

I also really like horror stuff, from horror movies to creepy stories on YouTube. This coincides with my love for true crime stories, from murder cases to missing person cases. Love anything weird and mysterious really.

Another little bit about me is I love metal and classic rock. Always really liked System of a Down and more recently gojira. For classic rock I’ve been listening to men at work more recently love overkill a lot.

If you’re interested just hit me up, tell me a little about you and let’s talk about anything really.

Hello everyone I'm a alt nerdy guy who hopes to find his special someone. I want to be the Watson to your Sherlock, The Sam to your Frodo, the ghost to your guardian. I want to be at your side on your adventures and through life. Loyal and willing to go with you to the end. I want to help lighten your burden and be there for you when you need it. After all a relationship is more than being there for each other through the good times.

I'm willing to move. Whether that's a different state city or a different country.

I love history. I think it's incredibly important otherwise we're doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past. I also love to learn mythology and other beliefs. It gives such a fascinating view and insight into our world. Along with having a deep interest in philosophy throughout the ages too.

I adore going to conventions. I've been going to the one in Phoenix since I was 8 and have only missed one year since then. I've also been to the one in San Diego and two in Savannah Georgia while I attended college there for two years. I'm currently trying to get into cosplay.

Now a bit about me. I'm sure you've guessed that I am indeed a bit of a nerd. I'm a sucker for gaming both board and video. I love reading, especially comics. I do hope one day to be a published author even if it only a short story or a few comic issues. I'm also an artist. I draw, sometimes paint, and every now and again create some 3d art out of things lying around. I enjoy shows and movies as well. Of all kinds. I try to explore as many genres as I can in all forms of media. You never know when a new piece in a genre you wouldn't typically try will become a favorite. Or change you.

As far as comics go, John Constantine is by far my favorite character, especially his original Vertigo run. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy Batman and Captain America. But I just love how dark, weird, and interesting more obscure characters like Constantine can be. Though V for Vendetta is my favorite story followed closely behind by DMZ.

I adore horror. I love the feeling of adrenaline it gives. The way that even slashers depict female characters. Often being far more complex and interesting then many of their other counter parts. From the likes of Ripley to what you'll find in 10 Cloverfield lane, Smile, Prey and so many others. To horror's willingness to explore controversial parts of life that no other media seems willing to touch such as mental health. I love how well it mixes with other genres such as historical fiction, comedy, Fantasy, Sci Fi. I also adore a good mystery. A story that unfolds as it goes along.

And for games I have so many different ones I love. But to name a few the BioShock franchise. I adore Mass Effect going so far as having ink for it. Life is Strange. Halo, Dead Space the franchise which awakened my love of the horror genre. To co-op ones like Space Marine 2, Destiny and many others. Lots of RPG's too. Mass Effect, Dragon Age, Avowed, BG and many more. I play on Xbox, PS5, PC, and switch.

I adore alternative music like Grandson and Royal and the Serpent. And I love going to concerts. Though my musical taste can be all over the place. From Alt to Soundtracks to Phonk to lo fi to classical. Bring me The Horizon is so good too.

I also love going out and exploring the world with others. Especially someone special. Seeing Museums, galleries, parks you name it. Learning new history and subjects. Seeing new places and countries when I can manage it. Love going to concerts.

As a person though psychically I'm on the short side. I'm fit with some muscle though definitely leaning towards a more feminine body type. I'm definitely alt with asymmetrical long hair. Plenty of tattoos and piercings and plans for more. I usually wear a lot of black and grey. With some color depending on the situation. I've been told I have very pretty eye lashes. And I'm willing to trade pics when we're both ready.

For personality I'm an odd mix of pessimism and optimism. I can very peppy for the people I care about. I will always be there for them when they need me. Whether that's listening to them and giving advice. To spending time with them or to helping them out. I take great pride in helping others and one day hope to work with young adults with trauma and are neurodivergent. I've been told I'm very good at it and it's a field in need. I am also myself Neurodivergent which is worth putting out there.

I'm about as liberal as it gets And agnostic. Which doesn't mean I have any problem with those that are religious. I just ask that you respect me as I will you.

I'm a big supporter of women's and LGBTQ rights. We are all human and deserve to be treated as such. They deserve every single right that I do as a man.

If I sound like someone you'd be interested in I hope to hear from you. And I do have a discord we can shift to eventually and most of the other messaging apps. Or if not but you still took the time to read this. I hope that you have a great day and you find your someone. Though there doesn't seem to be quite an option for a tag. I am also okay with Trans men and none binary folks. And thank you if you're read this whole thing. I realize it's a bit long. but I figure it's better longer then shorter. that way you know what you're getting into it if you're interested.

Hello, I am a 24 year old living in Hokkaido (near Sapporo). I am looking for a woman in the age range of 18 to 30. Trying to find someone who is willing to get to know me and someone I can share my time with. Going on dates, eating food and playing video games would be fun. I prefer a slower relationship to see if we are compatible. It takes 2 to make it happen so I will try my best to match the effort you put in. I have never been in a relationship before so I will try my best. If you need to know what I look like. I don’t send photos immediately if I see that a connection is possible then photos sharing is possible. I would prefer to meet somewhere public like Sapporo station or a cafe. I prefer someone in Japan. America (California) and Japan only.

More about me
My hobbies include kendo, hiking, traveling and anime figure collecting. I have done many combat sports in the past like Boxing, and wrestling. The current sport right now is Japanese sword fighting (Kendo). I am an eagle scout so I excel in outdoor survival skills and hiking. I have been to more than 16 countries so I like traveling and learning languages.I typically spend my free time working out and going to local festivals and looking for new restaurants. My favorite food is Mexican food and hamburgers. I cook sometimes and I make some good pasta. I speak English and Japanese. I like doujinshi authors and their art so I collect figures from my favorite artists. I like anime and manga. Some of my favorites being Frieren, Chibi Maruko-chan and To love ru. I am east asian, 160cm tall, 5Ft 3in.  

Start a chat with me if you’re interested, thank you. Serious people only please. I don’t respond to low effort messages. Provide some information please.

Heya, I’m Joe, 33, from Cardigan in West Wales. I’m 188cm / 6'2" tall 😊

I’d love to meet a woman around my age for an affectionate, monogamous, long-term relationship. Someone to flirt with, share ridiculous running jokes with, and gradually become part of each other’s everyday lives.

I’m a quiet introvert and a good listener. I enjoy hearing someone get carried away talking about what they love, and I’ve got my own thoughts and enthusiasm to share too. I’m comfortable with silences, so we can enjoy each other’s company without having to force conversation.

Gaming is a big hobby of mine. I mainly play on PC, alongside a PS5 and Switch 2. Nintendo has a special place in my heart, and Ocarina of Time has been my favourite since childhood. Hearing its music at a Zelda symphony in London is still a lovely memory.

The rest of my top five are Donkey Kong Country 2, Paper Mario: The Thousand-Year Door, the original Resident Evil 4 (although the remake is very close!) and a heavily modded Fallout: New Vegas.

I’d love to share favourite games and discover new ones together. I’m patient when co-op goes spectacularly wrong and happy to laugh and try again. I will absolutely steal your Mario Party stars, though 😏

I’m also a bit of a night owl. I love the kind of voice chat where we’ve finished playing, someone says “I should probably head to bed,” and somehow we’re still talking half an hour later. Tell me about your day, show me something you’ve made, or introduce me to your latest obsession.

Music-wise, it’s usually game soundtracks, drum and bass or synthwave. The Midnight are my favourite band, and I’d happily exchange favourite songs with you 😁

Away from gaming, I enjoy woodland walks and hiking somewhere with a view. I also like baking, although that’s mostly an excuse to make homemade pizza! Making one together, then curling up with a horror film, sounds like an excellent evening. The Thing (the one from 1982!) is my favourite.

I live alone in a cosy flat and I’m very close with my small family. I also do two hours of Pilates every week. Apparently gaming posture doesn’t correct itself 😆

I’m autistic and comfortable in my own skin. I appreciate clear, kind communication, playful teasing and affection that goes both ways.

I enjoy fixing electronics. I’m currently not working and am looking into training as an electrician.

I’m particularly drawn to feminine women, and sharing my enthusiasm for gaming would be a big plus. Ideally, you’d be based in the UK. I’m open to distance if there’s a realistic way for us to spend time together in person, with calls and games between visits. I don’t currently drive, so I’d be travelling by bus or train. Eventually, visiting Super Nintendo World together would be a lovely adventure.

Tell me a little about yourself and a game or song you’d love to introduce me to 😊

P.S. Here’s a photo of me and a voice preview if you’re curious.

hi hi lovely people!! I'll cut straight to the meat and potatoes, I'm in search of something long-term. In a nutshell, my ideal relationship would involve role reversal and the cg/l dynamic. I love the idea of being stay-at-home, taking care of household chores, working from home and doing whatever I can to make my partner's life easier! I'm definitely a bit on the sensitive side, and I really like being babied and cared for. I think I also get pretty clingy once I'm attached to someone.

I'm quite flexible appearance-wise, I can do both masc and fem styles pretty well and don't mind dressing however you'd like me to. The only thing I wouldn't want to change about my appearance is my long hair!

I find a lot of value in the little things like spending time together, and I think games can be a great way to bond. I play mostly on PC and love hanging out in open-world co-op exploration/puzzle games, going on cute virtual dates and just having a good time while talking on a call! ^^

To name a few, lately I've been enjoying playing Peak a lot, I love the Alpine map! Some other games I enjoy are Big Walk, Raft, Fall Guys, Scrap Mechanic, Human Fall Flat, We Were Here, probably a bunch more I can't recall. And I'm often too scared to play certain games alone, like The Forest and Phasmophobia, but I like playing them a lot with friends! I also like watching TV shows, I recently got done with Ludwig, and I've now been watching The Celebrity Traitors UK!

I'm a pretty big computer nerd and electronics hobbyist, have my own homelab, love building PCs, messing around with networking, virtual machines, RC vehicles, hardware hacking, you name it! I'm also very careful with my privacy, I don't use any service along the lines of google, apple, social media or even a SIM card for that matter :P

Oh! And did I mention how much I love cats? I don't have any pets for now unfortunately, but every time I'm outside and see a kitty, I have to go pet it! Sometimes I meet super clingy cats that don't let me go back home hehe. I really like geckos too, they're so adorable.

Anyways, hope it wasn't too long of a read, you can probably tell I'm a professional yapper, but I do know how to keep my mouth shut, I promise! Toodles <3

First, to be clear about location: I'm based in the Southeastern region of the USA. It would be amazing if my person is within driving distance in the same region, but for a number of reasons I have my doubts that's true. Country music, fashion, and that accent some of you may think is specific to Texas if you're reading this from another country, are all very common here and sadly those are all turn offs for me. That said, I think if my soulmate is even in the USA, she's probably in the north, west, or midwest. If by the end of this post, you think you might be the one I'm looking for and I might be the one you're looking for, you don't have to be in the USA to find out. 😁

(My profile is tagged because of one of the places I post this to since some have actually had luck finding something serious there. Figured it's worth a shot, haha.)

I'm searching for the kind of wonderful woman who shares most of my interests below in addition to her hobbies and interests, who's also goofy, likes to playfully insult each other, and also believes in open and honest communication. I believe with that, we can work out any problems when they arise. 💛

• I'm a gamer, car guy, and maybe one day, a musician too. I enjoy anime, nature, going on little adventures, swimming, traveling... I wanna see the world with you.

- Current games I've focused on lately are R.E.P.O., Deep Rock Galactic, and trying to 100% Doom Eternal, but this changes and there are tons of multiplayer games in my library! I would also eventually like to play other things together like Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Terraria, etc.

- My taste is music is nearly everything except country and today's rap. To name a few bands/musicians I really love: Led Zeppelin, Arctic Monkeys, Tame Impala, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Queens of the Stone Age, Mac Demarco, Them Crooked Vultures, and Metronomy.

• I want to dance with you. In the living room, bedroom, back yard, in the park, almost anywhere. I enjoy doing romantic things and expressing my love. I love deep conversations that distract us from the passing of time.

• I'm a dog person because my allergies chose to target cats for whatever reason, so there's that. 😅

• I'm monogamous and don't have children currently, but they're in my future plans. I want to spend plenty of time with you, and enjoy the best of life as a couple, and then as spouses, traveling and whatnot, before we start a family. 🤗

• I'm really hoping to find someone who's also into dirty humor (amongst other forms of humor) and has mutual...interests 😏 so we have even better compatibility in the bedroom (and sometimes away from home too). I usually have a high libido, but making sure we both feel safe and trust one another first is crucial. 😁

• Specs for those who would like them:

- 6 feet tall (about 183 cm).

- 190 lbs and dropping (about 86 kg).

- My figure is very dad-bod at the moment, but apparently it comes with a nice ass (so I'm told).

- I'm targeting somewhere around 170 lbs (about 77 kg).

- Brunette/dirty blonde, kept relatively short.

- Blue eyes.

- Caucasian.

• My type? If I had to describe my type, I guess Caucasian or East Asian ranging from petite to average body type. I don't love going to the gym, but if you have or want a membership I wouldn't mind going together. 😁

I apologize if my preferences differ from who you are. You're all beautiful people, regardless! Please love yourself and enjoy the time you're given in life! 💛

Chat with ya soon! 😁

Hi r/ForeverAloneDating! 👋

I'm Jess, a tech marketer based in the USA. Currently on the West Coast but moving back to the East Coast in a few months. I've had my fair share of Reddit chats, connections, experiences, but figured I'd try again to see if something more long-term is out there.

I'm ultimately looking for a long-term, monogamous, romantic connection. Location doesn't really matter to me at the moment but it's not something I'd want to do forever. Ultimately looking for someone that adds to my life and makes it even more fun than it already is.

So, what about me?

I'm an eldest daughter, have a cat, enjoy a pretty robust social life, and a decent chunk of hobbies. I will also add I am an ambivert, but can skew more social, and am the general organizer of my friend groups. My friends would say I'm loyal, witty, caring, kind, and definitely a nerd. Some of my interests include:

Reading (recently finished Demon Copperhead), though the TBR is never-ending and See You Next Tuesday is vying for some reading and the audiobook at the moment is One Hundred Years of Solitude. I pretty much read most genres but enjoy contemporary fiction, historical fiction, romance, and sci-fi/fantasy.

Travel, which I still don't have my next trip planned outside the US but there's plenty I want to explore! Next non-work trip is with a friend to NYC to see a bunch of Broadway shows. Which I'm very excited for. My last international trip was to the UK in October last year and I can't wait to go back.

Miscellaneous events, but not limited to pub trivia, working out (getting back into running and strength training so that's a big focus right now), hiking, exploring restaurants, being by the water, movies, gaming, 60s-80s TV, dancing, and probably some other things I can't think of right now.

But that seems like enough. What am I looking for? Someone who:

• Is between the ages of 30-40.
• Prefers to live in a city (sorry I am a visit the country person)
• Is not racist/sexist/homophobic/a general asshole
• Does not want (or currently have) kids -- this is dealbreaker
• Enjoys chatting over voice notes or video calls
• Is okay with a partner that socially drinks or consumes edibles

I'd also want to exchange pictures fairly early on. If you've gotten this far -- hope to hear from you!

Hello! My name is Kevin, and if I had to describe myself in one word, it would be bad at following directions. I have a black belt at saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. I’m big, hairy, and unintentionally loud. I’m hangry in the mornings and a cuddle powerhouse in the afternoon. I may look intimidating, but I’m actually a big softy on the inside. 

I give the best hugs, and 9/10 cats say I make a great cuddle partner. The tenth cat is a real jerk. I don’t like confrontation, but come after my people and I’m a force of nature. Napping is a top five favourite activity. Feed me and I’m loyal to you forever. Back scratches are accepted currency in my life. I have experienced the many flavors of abuse and trauma, and would rather die than have someone in my life go through similar experiences unsupported. I am fiercely protective of those in my circle!

I give off real “That is the nerdiest lumberjack I’ve ever seen” vibes. That, or I reignite belief in cryptids like Sasquatch & Bigfoot. It is what it is, hence the bear metaphor fitting nicely. I’m 6’4” and have a pretty well developed dad bod. I’d much rather be cold than hot, so bring on the winter weather! I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

This hairy goof is looking for a lovely woman to connect with, be it over the internet or in person. Long chats into the early morning hours, movie nights, fun outings, trying new restaurants or recipes, I’m all in. Let’s get cozy cuddling under some blankets or playing some games online and see where things go?

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

As for some other interests I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! I run an active tabletop gaming group every Sunday. I’m the kind of nerd that builds and paints models to escape from the world for a while. 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life!