Long time lurker first time poster. Struggling with this. Our boy is 12 years old. Great health bloodwork wise and mentally. However, he has been diagnosed with DM. The official diagnosis came in JUNE 2026 but we suspect symptoms started around October 2025.
OCT 2025 we noticed him hopping more than running. Our boy has been active all his life and we would take him on morning walks 1+ mile every day. We started noticing he wasnt quite running anymore. No big deal hes old prob joints, stiffness , etc.
Fast forward to 2026 and we started notice the knuckle dragging. Back legs dragging against the pavement occasionally then gradually constant. We noticed hair missing from his back legs and took him to the vet which was when he was diagnosed with DM. Vet recommended no more walks so we sidelined him. He didnt seem to mind as he knew it was prob more painful to walk vs sitting.
Well heres the point of this whole post, the disease has progressed very rapidly. He struggles to go up stairs , jump on the couch , loses all traction on any surface not a rug. we have planned around him as much as possible, laying carpet down , harnesses to help him up the stairs. Hes still a puppy in his mind, he wants to get into bed with us, wants to jump on the couch, etc.
Managing him has been..............interesting. But , now, we notice him struggle to defecate. He goes, but you can tell he is shifting all his weight to the front legs. Vet said the next thing to go will be his front legs.........we tried every supplement, every treatment out there but mostly nothing is going to work. Its a degenerative disease so accepting it for what it is has been stressful.
Hes ........a shell of his formal self. He tries to engage and get up and def struggles to stand but is still able. Wants to play with his toys knowing he cant really move or do anything. Hes still hungy, wants to eat, begs for treats but , my wife and I are aware that his movement is getting worse and worse. He constantly pants when he stands or lays down due to the effort it takes for him to engage his rear legs.
We are debating when its time. Its such a painful disease because ........hes there, in his mind, but his body is not. Vet says hes prob late stage 2 of DM. Im just looking for insight, if anyone went through this what they experienced. Im struggling to know when to put him down.
Sorry for the long post , prob just posting to get my thoughts out there as its been weighing on me, i dont know what to do for him.
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