r/bullying • • 9h ago

I need help please

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I'll put a picture of my eyes below and I need your help to find out whether they are hooded or not.

I also get bullied a lot in my school because of my eyes . Does anyone have any idea as to why that happens I used to think that my eyes were normal but now I'm paranoid and just hate them . I would also appreciate if you could tips that could help whatever is wrong with my eyes. Also I have a prescription of -6.5 in my right eye and -5.5 in my left eye

Thank you!


r/bullying • • 15h ago

Life After Bullying As An Adult

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I have a question to pose to the people here who experienced severe bullying as a child or teenager. How has life worked out for you, do you still carry that trauma and how has life turned out for your bullies.

For me I find I still have that trauma from young, the feeling of isolation, being powerless and it really affected my relationships and feeling of self worth. It took many years to realise I deserve love and respect. As for the people I knew who were bullies growing up alot of them ended up in low level jobs as guards etc. and got into crime.

I myself have a mortgage now and a stable job. I see life way different from the average person though as I see how human beings treat others when they are different and there are no consequences to their actions. I would like to hear some others experiences.


r/bullying • • 9h ago

My daughter's bully gets a special cool chair. The kids he hurt get nothing.

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Last year, this kid was suspended more than he was actually in school. Sexual harassment. Bullying. Harassment that crossed every line a kid should know not to cross.

This year, he's back in the classroom. And now there's a special, cool chair with his name on it. Prizes he's earning for good behavior — prizes the other kids can't earn.

Meanwhile, the kids he hurt? The kids who show up every day and do the right thing? They get nothing. Not an acknowledgment. Not a reward. Nothing.

This is what schools call behavior management now.

We are teaching kids that if you act out enough, you get prizes. And if you just quietly behave? You're invisible.

Here's the thing — it is not a school's job to discipline our children. That's on us, as parents. It's the school's job to teach. But when they reward the behavior instead of correcting it, they're not managing the problem. They're creating the next one.

And the kids who lived through last year already know how this story goes. They're just waiting to see if any adult in that building proves them wrong.


r/bullying • • 19h ago

17 M, About Ragging ..

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So in our school today afternoon I was coming from cleaning my lunchbox and somebody from another class guy asked about my license because I came school with my bike by shortcut and I didn't go to school for 3 weeks due to personal reasons.and one of my friend asked did I get licence then I said no and then his friend came and asked me this so i didn't look at him but I responded same no .he wasn't a friend of mine ,I always give him respect but he didn't seem to understand that so I stopped and then I was going to my class then he told his friend smiling at me asking his friend about ragging (bully me)in school.and I kinda feel uncomfortable because I never hurted anyone for no reason and I am the most introverted guy in school i don't talk usually to anyone only if someone asks.and sorry if my english don't get it.


r/bullying • • 23h ago

Bullies disguised as ‘professors’

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F(25) study in a dental college.
Department of endodontics , of my college is a BIG BULLY. Each and every staff there bullies students. I and few other batchmates were having a bad day today and just wanted help from professors, literally all of us were on a verge of breakdown (anyone could tell from our faces), we went there so they could guide us, i regret going there because of what they did. They bullied us with some nasty remarks like ‘you’re ugly atleast study well’ ‘no one will pass you in exams you look this ugly’ ‘atleast take bath’ , they went on to pressurise a fellow batchmate to show the reels he posts on Instagram, mocked and laughed at his account. One of a male faculty, grabbed my arm and shook me agressively and said ‘look at your hair, looks like you dont even wash your face’, my hair was in a bun and just a strand of my hair was out. He then goes on to mock me saying ‘do you even understand anything? Make her understand ma’am (said this to another staff) , i dont think she gets it’. Then started asking about my father’s profession. This went on for good 40 minutes, they judged us, laughed at us, made nasty remarks.
I was on the verge of crying, i have not been doing mentally well, all of this that has happened today is 1 % of what i have been suffering in college, but today is the first time i feel like ending my life, it never gets better


r/bullying • • 4h ago

Minha família está zombando de mim

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Cara, estou sofrendo bullying criminal msm, estão tirando fotos de mim, estão sendo sarcásticos contra mim e praticando Gaslighting.... Estão me olhando estranho na rua, e minha família está sendo falsa comigo mentindo e espalhado isso pra todos que podem, eu presciso de ajuda urgente 🥺.

Ocasião: na minha primeira tentativa de suicídio foi hj, e quando eles viram isso, eles ficaram com uma cara de bunda e de culpa.


r/bullying • • 5h ago

Victimization Quote

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Being victimized only means that you’re the innocent party in the situation. It is not synonymous with being weak—Tanya Young