r/atx4atx • u/Throwawaybird99 • 12h ago
Friends 41F seeking parent figures
Yes you read that right. Yes this is admittedly weird. Yes I’m likely to take it down.
I didn’t come from a loving family and I would really love for 1-2 parents to unofficially “adopt” me. Like maybe we could do some holidays together and have dinner sometimes and I could call you when I have a bad day. I am not seeking financial support of any kind, at all, ever.
About me: employed, own my home, volunteer, read a lot, gym regularly, have a dog from AAC, have a lot of wonderful friends, very left leaning, LGTBQ+, don’t really drink alcohol. I would really like to call you mom or dad.
About you: loving, open minded, accepting, emotionally mature, politically left, gentle, safe, age 60+, feeling like your life could be richer if you had an unofficial “child”.
Transparently, I feel safest around women but could be open to a “dad” figure if he is deeply sensitive and self aware, or gay.