r/ShortCervixSupport • • Jan 23 '26

The Bed Rest Debate for Women with IC

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I've been following this subreddit for over a year, since my loss occurred. During that time, I've noticed that women from South Asia, the Middle East, and other parts of the world often describe very different treatment protocols for incompetent cervix than what doctors in the West recommend. This difference has probably left many of us confused and wondering whose advice to trust.

I live in America and had my first appointment with my MFM yesterday. She told me that bed rest doesn't help improve outcome for women with IC. She explained that research suggests bed rest makes women prone to depression and blood clots, so they don't recommend it. This got me thinking: what exact research was she referring to, and how strong is the evidence? I know the American medical system is overloaded and doctors have limited time with each patient, so I think it's important for us to do our own research and ask questions when something doesn't seem to fit our personal situation.

After spending time looking into the actual studies, here's what I discovered:

The major research cited against bed rest includes (UPDATED):

  • Cochrane Review (2004, updated 2015): Found no clear evidence that bed rest prevents preterm birth. The reviewers concluded that due to potential adverse effects and healthcare costs, bed rest shouldn't be routinely recommended.
  • CIPRACT Trial - Netherlands (Althuisius et al., 2001): This Dutch study compared cerclage + bed rest versus bed rest alone in 35 women with short cervix. Both groups used bed rest, so it doesn't actually test whether bed rest is better than normal activity - but notably, 7 out of 16 women (44%) in the bed-rest-only group delivered preterm before 34 weeks.
  • U.S. Study (2013): Compared modified Shirodkar cerclage to bed rest alone for extremely short cervix (≤15mm). Cerclage patients were less likely to deliver preterm and had longer latency periods compared to bed rest alone. Again, this doesn't test bed rest vs. normal activity.
  • Note on blood clots and depression: The concerns about these risks come primarily from observational data and clinical experience with prolonged bed rest in general, rather than from randomized trials specifically testing bed rest for cervical insufficiency.
  • BUT - A 2019 Canadian systematic review (Matenchuk et al., CMAJ Open) found something interesting: In developed regions (North America, Europe), bed rest showed worse outcomes - shorter gestations and increased risk of very premature birth. However, in developing regions (specifically studies from Zimbabwe), bed rest was associated with babies being about 100g heavier at birth. The researchers noted this could be due to bed rest itself OR could be confounded by the effects of hospital admission (better nutrition, medical care, etc.).

Here's the important part: Nearly all the research saying "bed rest doesn't work" was conducted exclusively on women in Western countries - primarily the US, Canada, Netherlands, and other European nations. I could not find well-designed studies conducted in India, the Middle East, or other regions where bed rest is routinely prescribed.

The Missing Piece: Your Ethnicity and Context Actually Change the Risk-Benefit Equation

This is what surprised me most. When I searched for data on the specific risks my MFM mentioned - blood clots and depression - I found that these risks vary a lot by ethnicity and social context:

Blood Clot Risk by Ethnicity:

  • Asian and Pacific Islander women: Have a 70% lower risk of blood clots (VTE) compared to other groups
  • Hispanic women: Have significantly lower risk than White women, but higher than Asian women
  • White women: Moderate baseline risk
  • Black women: Have 30-60% higher risk of blood clots compared to White women

Depression Risk and Social Context:

While clinical depression rates are similar across ethnicities (about 8% for major depression, 23% for all depressive disorders postpartum), the context in which bed rest occurs matters a lot:

Western context (where studies were done):

  • Nuclear families, often isolated from extended family
  • Both partners typically working with limited paid leave
  • Expensive or unavailable childcare and domestic help
  • Bed rest = isolation, financial stress, inability to care for other children
  • Result: Higher risk of depression and anxiety

South Asian/Middle Eastern/other contexts:

  • Extended family living together or nearby
  • Cultural expectation that family supports during pregnancy
  • More accessible domestic help
  • Bed rest = supported rest with meals prepared, children cared for, constant company
  • Strong spiritual/religious frameworks providing meaning and hope
  • Result: Lower risk of depression

Why This Changes Everything About Bed Rest "Efficacy"

The Western studies concluded: "Bed rest doesn't improve outcomes AND causes harm (blood clots + depression), therefore don't recommend it."

But here's what they missed: If the harms are minimal or negligible for certain populations, the entire risk-benefit calculation flips.

For example, if you're South Asian with strong family support:

  • Your baseline blood clot risk is 70% lower than the populations studied
  • Your depression risk is reduced by family support and spiritual grounding
  • The "costs" of bed rest that drove the Western recommendations simply don't apply to you in the same way
  • Even if bed rest provides only modest or uncertain benefit to pregnancy outcomes, it might still be worthwhile because the downsides are so much smaller for you

Meanwhile, if you're a Black woman in an isolated Western context:

  • Your baseline blood clot risk is 30-60% higher
  • Bed rest adds risk on top of already elevated risk
  • You may have less built-in family support
  • The costs are genuinely high, so bed rest would need to show substantial benefit to be worth it

The research isn't wrong - it's just incomplete. It studied one type of woman in one type of context and applied the findings universally.

What This Means for You

I'm writing this to encourage all of us to think about our personal situations before simply following "research-based evidence" recommendations. The evidence might be strong for the populations studied, but that doesn't automatically mean it applies to you.

Before accepting or rejecting bed rest, consider:

Your ethnicity and baseline blood clot risk - Are you in a low-risk group (Asian, Hispanic) or higher-risk group (Black, White with family history)?

Your support system - Do you have family who will help with everything? Or will you be isolated and struggling alone?

Your mental health resources - Do you have strong spiritual practices, family encouragement, and emotional support? Or are you prone to isolation and depression?

Your financial situation - Can you rest without severe financial stress, or will it devastate your family?

Your work situation - Do you have a physically demanding job, or do you work from home?

What alternatives your doctor is offering - Is she recommending cerclage, progesterone, or monitoring? Or just saying "stay active" with no intervention?

It's entirely possible that bed rest is the wrong choice for your friend but the right choice for you - or vice versa - based on your ethnic background, risk profile, and social context.

I know nobody wants to be on the wrong side of their doctor, but I think it's fair to have these conversation with your MFM:

  1. "What's my personal risk for blood clots based on my ethnicity and health history?"
  2. "The studies on bed rest were done primarily on Western populations - how does that apply to my specific situation?"
  3. "Given that I have [strong family support / am isolated], how does that change the depression risk calculation?"
  4. "Are there ways to modify activity rather than strict bed rest that might reduce risks while still being cautious?"
  5. "What's your clinical experience been with patients from my background?"

The women in Asian counties and the Middle East whose doctors prescribe bed rest aren't being given outdated care. Their doctors might be seeing genuine benefits in their patient populations - populations with 70% lower blood clot risk and strong family support systems - that wouldn't show up in studies done in Boston or Amsterdam on isolated Western women.

I know some people here have faced multiple losses and the heartbreak they have to go through each time. If something like bedrest is possible and saves your child and keeps you in good health, I think they should do it.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • Jun 18 '19

Subreddit Info/FAQ

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Welcome! This subreddit was created to share information, personal stories and ask questions about pregnancy related cervical insufficiency (also known as Incompetent or Weak Cervix).

User Flair is available for you to create to let us know where you are on your journey.

Before commenting, please remember to be kind and respectful. Every person is unique, and there will be varying treatment plans prescribed by medical professionals.

FYI: Acronyms and More (suggestions welcome!)

Bed Rest

PR - Pelvic Rest: Nothing goes in the vagina, possibly also including no lifting or bending.

MBR - Modified Bed Rest: Sitting, standing and walking for brief periods of time.

SBR - Strict Bed Rest: Laying down unless using the bathroom or briefly showering.

HBR - Hospital Bed Rest: Laying down in a hospital setting with very limited movement.

Cerclage: Surgical procedure in which the cervix is sewn shut. There are three types: McDonald, Shirodkar and Transabdominal.

Prophylactic or Preventative Cerclage: Cerclage procedure is performed while cervix is closed during late first or early second trimesters, typically for patients with a history of second trimester loss.

Emergent or Rescue Cerclage: Cerclage is placed after diminishing cervix length or dilation.

Arabin Pessary/Pessary: Silicone ring placed around the cervix used in place of or with a cerclage.

Suppositories/Pessaries (UK): Progesterone supplement inserted vaginally.

P17/Makena: Intramuscular or subcutaneous progesterone injection to prevent preterm labor.

MFM - Maternal Fetal Medicine Specialist, also known as a Perinatologist. Responsible for the diagnosis and care of high risk pregnancies.

RE - Reproductive Endocrinologist, aka Fertility Specialist.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 2h ago

Shower in strict bedrest.

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Hi everyone,

I'm 22 weeks and 3 days pregnant on strict bedrest with a cerclage. I have some cervical opening/funneling. My water balloon amniotic sac WAS previously down. Luckily, it is NOT down right now, but I am terrified of doing anything that might make it come down again.

My doctor cleared me for quick warm showers to avoid infection, but my anxiety is very high. I have very long, thick, heavy hair, and I am scared that sitting or standing to wash it for half an hour will put dangerous downward pressure on my stitch.

How did you manage washing heavy hair while keeping pressure completely off your cervix? Did you use a shower chair, or did you wash it while lying flat in bed with help? Looking for any quick tips or shortcuts to stay clean without the panic.

Thank you!


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 10h ago

2.3cm at 19w

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Can anyone who had short cervix and also pcos tell me if they had success with progesterone alone? They found my short cervix at my anatomy scan at 19weeks 3 days and i started 200mg daily progesterone the following day. It’s been one week. This is not an ivf pregnancy and it’s my first baby. I’ve never had LEEP or LLETZ and have no idea why this happened to me. I’ve seen that there’s a small link between short cervix and pcos so I was wondering if any of you who had short cervix and pcos ended up needing a cerclage or if progesterone was enough? I’m worried sick. I already had health anxiety and this sub unfortunately makes me feel hopeless


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 8h ago

If you’ve had a rescue cerclage then a preventative cerclage….

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When did you go into labor each time?

I had a rescue cerclage with my first at 25&1 (9mm cervix with funneling, 1cm dilated). It was removed at 36&3 and I went into spontaneous labor at 37&6, he was born 38&0.

I’m currently 36 weeks with my second, got a preventative cerclage at 13 weeks. Getting the cerclage removed next week at 37&1 - I wanted to wait as long as they would let me.

Just curious if people had a similar timeline of going into labor each time, especially with the preventive vs rescue.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 10h ago

Currently admitted in hospital after 22 week scan. In shock

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Second pregnancy (first was a MMC). Everything has been normal so far then today went for my second anatomy scan and my cervix was measuring under 1 cm but no opening/membranes.

We were told to go to hospital and get monitored for next morning procedure. I just got back from a trip abroad, my husband is still abroad luckily my mom was with me.

I heard of this issue before but did not understand the procedure and it all happened so fast. I cried a lot after finding out and while being admitted bc it was all so overwhelming but looking forward to protecting baby and hoping for a smooth procedure and recovery


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 6h ago

Hold or give birth already?

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Hi mommies!! Need your thoughts.

I have Cervical Insufficiency, was admitted when I was 29 weeks cause I have open cervix at 4cm. I was already given a medicine for lung maturity that time and got discharged after 5 days.

Was on bedrest after, also isox and progesterone.

Now Im 33 weeks and got admitted again cause yestersay I saw blood when I wiped my pee. Turned out I progressed to 7cm open. Here now at the hospital but I have little to less contractions. My OB said she will no longer hold. Been here 24 hours now in the labor and delivery room. A part of me wants this to be over but the biggest concern is whats the best for the baby. Though I was given another round of medicine for lung maturity now and some antibiotics to avoid bacteria when he come out. They’re not letting me eat anymore too, just had a light snack this morning.

Should I tell my baby to come out now? Or wait for another week/s. I know I cant control that but I have been telling this baby that I will say its time lol and I think that’s why he’s holding on. Our goal before with my doc is 35 weeks. Last time I was here our bill was 65k and that was for 5 days stay. I don’t think they will let me go home this time anymore 🥺 and honestly Im so tired, they won’t let me be in my room as well just here in L&D which is so draining for me. Any moms here who gave birth around 33weeks, how many days was your baby in NICU? He’s current weight per ultrasound is 1.960grams.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 14h ago

Emergency cerclage at 21 + 4, still funneling — positive stories?

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Last Friday at 21 + 4, I was unexpectedly diagnosed with cervical insufficiency. My cervix was 2 cm dilated with bulging membranes and funneling and I had an emergency rescue cerclage placed that same day.

Thankfully, surgery went well, my membranes were successfully pushed back in, and baby is doing great!

Two days later, my transvaginal ultrasound showed 3 cm total cervical length, with 1.9 cm closed and some remaining funneling. Thankfully, the funneling does not reach the stitch as of now.

I'm now on modified bed rest, and my doctor doesn't plan to check me again for two weeks, saying there's no real benefit to checking sooner.

Has anyone had funneling remain after their cerclage and gone on to have a successful pregnancy? Did your funneling stay the same or improve? How far did you make it?


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 18h ago

If you could say one thing to a mom who is terrified of trying again after a second-trimester loss, what would it be?

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I lost my baby at 21 weeks, and although I want to become a mom again so badly, the fear of going through the same heartbreak is overwhelming sometimes. A part of me is so hopeful, while another part is terrified.
I would love to hear your words of encouragement, advice, or personal experiences. If you have been through this and found the courage to try again, or are currently navigating another pregnancy after loss, please share your story.
Sometimes, hearing from someone who truly understands can make us feel a little less alone✨.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 21h ago

Pregnant again after 17-week loss due to cervical insufficiency. Bed rest vs. normal activity after cerclage?

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Hello everybody!

I previously suffered a 17-week loss, which was determined to be due to cervical insufficiency. I'm not entirely sure whether this diagnosis was reached by process of elimination, since infection and inflammation were ruled out, but that's what I was told by my doctors.

This was my first pregnancy. My miscarriage happened back in May, and I had to undergo a D&C afterward to remove the retained placenta. My physical recovery was relatively easy, but mentally I'm obviously still recovering.

Yesterday was actually my baby's due date, which was incredibly hard emotionally. But two days ago, I found out that I'm pregnant again!

After my miscarriage, my OB-GYN told me to start vaginal progesterone as soon as I found out I was pregnant again, which I started last night. She also told me that because of my history, I could come in for my first ultrasound earlier than usual. She mentioned that cardiac activity can sometimes be seen as early as around 5 weeks and 5 days, so I scheduled my first appointment for exactly 6 weeks, which is about two weeks from now.

We have also already discussed a preventative cerclage with both my OB-GYN and my MFM, who was involved in my previous pregnancy. The plan is to have it placed toward the end of the first trimester.

However, my OB-GYN and MFM seem to have somewhat different approaches when it comes to activity restrictions during my next pregnancy.

My OB-GYN is relatively young but seems to have a more conservative approach. When I was still in the hospital after my loss, she told me that in my next pregnancy we should consider bed rest. At the time, I didn't really know what that meant, so I just agreed that we would discuss it later. After doing some research, I realized that strict bed rest could mean spending most of the day lying down, which honestly doesn't sound good for me, physically or mentally.

My MFM, on the other hand, had almost the opposite approach. She told me that after cerclage, I should generally be able to continue living my normal life, perhaps with some modifications to the intensity of certain activities. She even joked that she wouldn't recommend running a marathon, but that running itself wouldn't necessarily be off limits. I specifically asked about lifting weights because I regularly go to the gym, and she said I could likely continue, perhaps with lighter weights or adjustments depending on how I feel and how the pregnancy progresses.

Obviously, I'm extremely anxious about this pregnancy, and I know that recommendations might change depending on cervical measurements, symptoms, and how everything progresses.

I have a desk job and will most likely be able to work from home if necessary, so I do have some flexibility. And of course, I want to be as cautious as possible. After losing my first baby, I would do absolutely anything within my control to avoid going through that again.

At the same time, I worry about the physical and mental effects of prolonged bed rest, especially after everything I've already been through.

So I would really love to hear from others who have been in a similar situation, particularly those who had a preventative cerclage after a second-trimester loss.

What did your doctors recommend regarding activity after cerclage? Were you placed on bed rest, told to limit certain activities, or encouraged to continue living normally? Did you continue working, walking, exercising, or even lifting weights? And how did your pregnancies progress? I know pelvic rest is a must so I am not even questioning that.

Thank you!


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 1d ago

Twins with shortening cervix on cerclage + pessary. Need positive stories :)

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Hi everyone. Early last year me and my wife had a 2nd trimester loss, she had a sudden PPROM during the 16th week. We went to see the doctor and was informed that there is little to no amniotic fluid left. As the baby heart is still strong my wife was admitted for monitoring hoping for a miracle. Unfortunately on the 17th week we had a cord prolapse and we loss our baby boy. We went into a period of depression and slowly recover. At this point there was suspicion of IC but the doctor said to wait until next pregnancy to confirm.

This year we we're greeted with the good news that we are expecting twins! However, the doctor found out that aside from the twins there is an ovarian cyst that kept growing until around 15cm. We decided to go for an op and during pre op assessment the doctor advised for us to get a preventative cerclage due to the previous loss. At this time the cervix was around 2.7cm. The cyst removal was done laparoscopically and the cerclage was inserted with no issue during week 14. My wife was put on 400mg per vaginal progesterone and the scan after cerclage show that cervix was around 3cm.

Last week during her 19th week scan the doctor noted the cervix has shortened to around 1.9cm with a small bit of funneling, still far from the stitch. She was then admitted and was offered to put on an arabin pessary as another preventative measure. Which was inserted.

Today is week21+1, the doctor did another scan and the cervix has further decrease to 1.1cm with the funneling remain the same, still above the stitch. Both the babies are fine and my wife are currently admitted for bedrest and monitoring. This pregnancy had been a roller coaster ride and today's scan result make us very anxious. My wife had been crying herself to sleep being reminded of what had happened to us last year. I am trying to hold on but I am also feeling more and more anxious. We are taking things slow day by day, for now the aim is to pass the 24 week viability as my country set the viability period after 24 week. But 24 weeks seem soo far away.

I am hoping if we can hear some positive stories of twin pregnancy with cerclage and funneling so I can show to my wife and give us some hope. Thank you :)


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 21h ago

Bacterial vaginosis

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I am 13 weeks pregnant had yellowish discharge for a week or so around week 11-12 ,so I decided to visit my doctor. She took vaginal swabs and wrote some tests for infection markers.
Mu culture came positive for gardenella vaginosis and crp was also raised (7mg/L). So she prescribed me a 7 day course of clindamycin vaginal tablets and called me back after 10 days.
Today she did pelvic exam to check for my cervical length or any other sign of infections. She told me that she could see some yellowish discharge stuck at the mouth of cervix and here and there in vaginal canal which she gently cleaned. She has started me on another antibiotic (metronidazole 400mg) for 7 days and called me back after 14 days for a scan and to decide about cerclage which was initially planned for my 14th week. Which she cancelled due to ongoing infection and said will decide about it after the scan.

I have a previous case of 21 week loss due to pprom. And now I am really scared.

Did any one of you have any infection in subsequent frequency. How did your doctor manage it and what was the outcome.
I am really scared. I just cannot have another loss .
I am really anxious and cant think about anything else.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 1d ago

I blame my OB

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I lost my baby at 17 weeks last September. (first pregnancy)

I cannot believe that this could have been prevented.

I had my checkup when I was 13 weeks which showed my cervix was closed and long at 3.1 cm but I was not checked on the 14-16 weeks.

I was being handled by an MFM.

She failed me.

CI was not discussed to me, was it because I did not have any history? Because this is my first pregnancy?

I am so angry now.

I am not supposed to be grieving for my baby!

Now, we don’t have him anymore. Everyday I fear waking up for the fact that I will be living a day of pain, regrets and grief.

THIS COULD HAVE BEEN PREVENTED.

I can’t believe this happened to me.

I can’t believe how empty I feel.

I can’t believe we lost him.

My pain is just growing as everyone moves on.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 20h ago

When did you get your periods back?

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I had a 19 week loss 2 months back and still have not got the period. But I am gettimg white discahrge

I consulted my OB , she said to wait for some more time .Has any one faced similar issue ?


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 18h ago

Help

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Anyone know of a woman that had a cervical cerclage? My doctor wants me to have one and one of the 10 plus doctors at UAB I seen is pushing for it. They risk are bad in my opinion and could kill JR. I am 22 weeks today. 24 weeks is supposed to be a better stage for JR. I am on the fence because God has made sure my cervical length has improved from 1.46 to 2.1 and I feel like God can handle it without the risk from the surgery.

I am 1 cm dilated and that is the main reason they want me to have the procedure which would mean I cannot work or lift my kid for a week or so.

Risks and Complications

• Infection: A small risk of uterine or cervical infection.

• Preterm Premature Rupture of Membranes (PPROM): The amniotic sac may rupture early.

• Bleeding or Spotting: Mild vaginal bleeding or cramping is common right after surgery, though heavy bleeding is a complication.

• Cervical Damage or Tearing: Potential tissue tearing if labor progresses while the stitches are still in place.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 1d ago

Help

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Hello, I have had an issue with a short cervix for 2 months. I am 5 and a half months today. I went yesterday for a check and my length went from 1.46 to 2.1. When they first discovered it, I was 1.46 and .5-1 cm dilated. With it improving, they took a cerclage off the table and gave me progrestrone. Well, now, they are wanting me to have the procedure done. I was told there is a high risk of it killing my son and it will only last 4-8 weeks. I have no idea what to do but I am scared.

Advice please. ​


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 1d ago

Cerclage in UK / any positive stories?

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My cervix is 27mm at 17.5 weeks and we are weighing up whether to have a cerclage fitted. The issue is I’m highly anxious and absolutely terrified of medical procedures. I have panic attacks in hospital environments and I’m just so so anxious about having one fitted and the spinal block they give you. Can anyone give me positive stories of how their cerclage fitting went? What is the operation process like on the day and for those under the nhs - can my husband come in the room with me during the procedure? Thank you 🙏🏽


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 1d ago

Opinions appreciated

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24F first pregnancy

Previous TV measurements
20w2d - 32mm
23w1d - 21mm
24w6d - between 31mm-35mm (today)
Nil funnelling and cervix closed on all scans

At 23w2d I started 100mg OD progesterone suppositories and pelvic rest, after a few days increased my dose to 200mg OD.

Following my scan today the OB phoned saying everything was alright and said I no longer needed to be on progesterone or pelvic rest. I requested to stay on 200mg for peace of mind which he agreed too. He also said I can now have intercourse and do moderate exercise.

From reading previous posts it seems as if measurements can fluctuate and depending on pressure can make the cervix length appear longer. My baby is breech and was kicking on my cervix today for the whole scan - cervix did take it really well and measurements weren’t altered by this.

I live in a rural town in New Zealand and getting a second opinion is near impossible. Does this sound right to be so casual after a short cervix measurement once? Any advice from others going through this would be much appreciated!


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 1d ago

Cerclage Questions and Concerns

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Hello,

I had a question for everyone.

I had a loss at 24 weeks back in 2024. I had an emergency cerclage placed at 20 weeks, but unfortunately my water broke and gave birth to my baby who passed away shortly after.

I recently found out i was pregnant and had questions for moms who have done this for the second time.

-At how many weeks did you have the cerclage placed?

-Did you have to stay in the hospital? Bedrest?

-How did you guys do it if bed rest was needed? Work wise ( Im based in Cali)

I have so many questions & concerns & just want to know what worked for everyone and want to know people’s experiences. I have read a lot on this group and have so much hope, but also so nervous and anxious.

Ah yes (currently 8 weeks pregnant) very early i know.

Thank you guys for taking the time to read my post today!


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 2d ago

Cerclage success!! My baby is here!!!

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Short but sweet!

Three years ago I had an miscarriage at 11weeks pregnant due to IC.

Fast forward to now, week 11 I did a cervical length check and it was 2.5 cm at just 11 weeks, had the cerclage done that same exact day!

Started contracting at 36 weeks but the cerclage was holding so well my doctor kept it in till 37 weeks, after removal I was 4cm dilated, delivered 5 hours later!

Oh I was on full bed rest.

My joy and my world thankful for this platform.

Good luck to all the cerclage moms.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 1d ago

Bed rest team: how are we preparing for labour?

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Hi everyone - I am 30 weeks today after being diagnosed with a short cervix at 19 weeks. I have been on modified bed rest since then and will be doing it until 34 weeks.

I am starting to think about birth and worry about stamina / endurance / tearing without prep. Obviously having been on bed rest for 4 months, by the time birth comes around I worry about having no muscle mass left and no endurance. Birth is a very physical process, so worried about not being equipped for it.

Any advice? Personal experiences?


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 2d ago

A prayer for all the mamas still waiting for their miracle✨.

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And to all the mamas still waiting for their miracle, I pray that one day you get to look back at these difficult days with tears of happiness in your eyes. May you get to buy those tiny clothes, hold those little hands, hear those precious giggles, and experience the moments your heart has been longing for. May your dreams come true in the most beautiful way, at the time that is best for you💗.
We may all be walking different paths, carrying different stories, and fighting battles that others cannot see, but every mama deserves kindness, love, and a little hope✨.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 2d ago

Diagnosed at 23+4 weeks, 20mm - keen to hear experiences with progesterone only

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Today I had a follow-up scan after a previous borderline measurement and have been told I now have a short cervix. It measured 20mm, last scan was 3 weeks ago and was borderline at 26mm. No funnelling or dynamic changes. I have only been taking progesterone for just over one week due to delays being prescribed.

My OB is not recommending cerclage due to being almost 24 weeks and my cervix not extremely short , the risks of infection and PPROM are greater than the benefits of putting the cerclage in place. She has suggested closer monitoring and increasing the dose of progesterone. I am comfortable with this approach.

I would love to hear experiences - both good and bad - from people who used progesterone only to manage their short cervix. Particularly from those people who had similar measurements to me or got diagnosed at a similar gestation.


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 1d ago

Lletz followed by preterm baby followed by 2nd lletz. Now considering second baby.

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Hi all,

My first time posting here so I’m hoping this is the right forum, and apologies if not!

I had a LLETZ procedure in 2023. Unfortunately minor cervical changes occurred again after this but this was very minor and I was told I would be fine to get pregnant, which I did in November 2024.

My pregnancy was very normal and I didn’t receive any additional checks or scans throughout as the medical team where I am really only consider this if I have had two or more LLETZ. Unfortunately, my son was born at 28 weeks - spontaneous labour with still no known cause. Thankfully he’s doing great!

When I went into labour initially I was checked and told that my cervix was closed so it was never thought that my previous LLETZ would have caused preterm labour, however ultimately they never found a true cause and couldn’t 100% rule it out.

Fast forward to now and unfortunately I need a second LLETZ which is happening tomorrow. We are also now considering whether we’d like another baby.

Given how early my son arrived, I’m so scared that this second procedure might mean that if I was to have another baby, they could potentially come even earlier. The Doctors have assured me that I would be monitored closely but I still have this fear.

Has anyone else had a similar experience at all and would be happy to share? Any advice would be really appreciated ☺️


r/ShortCervixSupport • • 2d ago

Did anyone else feel hopeful one minute and terrified the next?

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Since losing my baby at 21 weeks, I feel like I’m constantly caught between hope and fear. One moment, I’m imagining getting pregnant again and finally bringing my baby home, and the next, I’m terrified of going through the same heartbreak all over again.
I want to try again so badly, but sometimes my fear feels just as strong as my hope. I know I can’t predict the future, but after losing my baby, it’s hard not to worry about everything that could go wrong.
For those who have experienced pregnancy after loss, did you feel this way too? How did you cope with going from feeling hopeful to suddenly feeling terrified? Did it get easier with time, or did you learn to live with both feelings?
I would really love to hear your experiences. Sometimes, it helps to know we’re not alone in feeling this way💔.