r/FriendsOver40 • • 11h ago

41M - Here if you need a friend!

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Hey I know how hard nights can be. I’m just hanging out tonight. Could use an interesting conversation. I love meeting new people. If you’re looking for a friend or just need to vent, send me a message. You’re not alone!


r/FriendsOver40 • • 16h ago

Work from home and starving for real conversation. How do you all deal with it?

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I'm 45, in Canada, and work from home. Some days the only talking I do is work stuff on a screen, and honestly it's getting old.
I miss just talking to people. Everyday stuff like how your day went, deeper conversations that make you think, and the completely pointless banter that goes nowhere. I enjoy all of it.
For those of you who work remotely or don't have a big social circle, how did you meet people you actually click with as an adult? And what do you like talking about most with your friends?
I'm not after someone who replies "lol" and disappears. I like a conversation that keeps going, so that's what I'm hoping to find more of. Would love to hear what's worked for you.


r/FriendsOver40 • • 5m left

A 42 year old American man looking to meet new friends who share similar interests and enjoy having meaningful conversations

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Hi everyone! I’m 42 and enjoy working out, spending time outdoors, having a little whiskey now and then, and taking short weekend trips to explore nearby places. I also have about 10 years of investing experience, and I really enjoy chatting with people and exchanging ideas

I’m hoping to meet some new people, share thoughts and experiences, and hopefully build a few genuine friendships along the way. I’d love to connect with people who enjoy trying new things, sharing stories about their lives, and opening up about their personal experiences and relationships. I’m always happy to listen and learn from other people’s stories


r/FriendsOver40 • • 11h ago

42 M - always up for a chat

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Nothing too serious but nice to meet people and vent/share thoughts. Have a good night.


r/FriendsOver40 • • 4h ago

45M in New Zealand (and often somewhere else), looking for good friends

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Hi all. I'm 45, based in New Zealand, and my work has me traveling internationally a lot. I'd love to find people to chat with across time zones, and maybe grab a coffee or a beer when I'm passing through your city.

I'm also a widower. I lost my wife 18 months ago, and that's a big part of why I'm here. Making friends in your 40s is hard enough, and it's harder when your life has been turned upside down. I'm not looking for anyone to fix anything, just good conversation, shared laughs, and people who understand that life gets complicated.

A bit about me, I'm direct, I say what I mean, and I'd like to be the kind of friend who actually shows up. I love almost any kind of music, I'm a big football fan, and I'll happily go out of my way for a really good meal. Send me your favorite song, your team, or the best thing you've eaten lately and we'll probably have plenty to talk about.

If any of that sounds like you, or you live somewhere I travel to, say hi. Tell me about yourself and what you're into.


r/FriendsOver40 • • 23h ago

43m- hello

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Hi everyone 👋

​I’m a 43-year-old guy (with Asperger’s) looking to expand my social circle and chat with new people.

​A few of my main interests:

​Exercise (jogging, gym)

​Music & attending live concerts

​Books

​True crime documentaries & Netflix

​I’m a low-pressure, straightforward person looking for friendly chats. Whether you want to swap true crime doc recommendations or just need someone to talk to about your day, my DMs are open!


r/FriendsOver40 • • 5h ago

40/M looking for friends

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From europe and would love some international friends. I love beaches and wine, summer vibes and good food! Bit of a homebody in winter where I mostly watch tv and movies, podcasts and reading. I do like spending time in nature as well. Beaches are my happy place. I do like thrillers,horrors, true crime, paranormal while when it comes to reading i'm mostly into non-fiction and romance. I'm also bi.

Would love to share random pics from our days, mostly mine would be of nature and food, while looking forward to hear about your interests and anything you're up to.


r/FriendsOver40 • • 6h ago

Anyone want to be Strava friends?

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r/FriendsOver40 • • 12h ago

M47.. gf of 12 yrs just broke things off..

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Probably going to be up not sleeping for a while, would love some friendly banter to distract me.


r/FriendsOver40 • • 16h ago

What's something you've done completely out of character that you're glad you did?

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I think most of us get pretty comfortable with our routines as we get older. Work, family, the usual stuff.
Curious what people have done that was completely out of character for them. Could be something spontaneous, a random decision, or something you never thought you’d try.

Anything that turned out to be a great experience or changed how you look at things?


r/FriendsOver40 • • 21h ago

43M 🇨🇦-just learned about this part of Reddit

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Helloooo

Just learned about this part of Reddit and I’m very curious to see how it goes.

43M from Toronto with 2 little ones. Sarcastic occasionally. Dry sense of humour always.

I am (or more so, WAS) a huge travel bug. Love most types of music but prefer EDM.
Big sports fan but hate watching my hometown teams. Too much heartache!

As friends have moved away, the inner circle has gotten smaller and smaller.

Would love to offer membership into my own “cool kids group” to anyone who thinks their cool enough to apply.

I work with computers 🤓 so I’ve got a lot of easy down time on my hands.

If you’d like to waste some time with some banter, feel free to reply back 🙃


r/FriendsOver40 • • 19h ago

The day move slow when you work from home

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46 mom of two - working from home.
Fan of books ( in all their forms- electronic- paper-audio). Lover of podcasts- there’s just soooo many things to learn and my interests are multiple.
To move my body I run - box - lift heavy stuff and now take it on the mat (BJJ).
Beach over mountain (unless there’s no mosquitoes).
Savory over sweet.
Action movies over chick flick.
Got questions? Come down in my DM.


r/FriendsOver40 • • 13h ago

45M Hello fellow youths!!😂

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What up y'all!! I am a married dad who is happy to be friends with anybody and everybody!! United States EST, but I'm happy with any time zone😁

I love, Star Wars, Lego, coffee, and a whole bunch of other stuff! Feel free to message if you need a friend!


r/FriendsOver40 • • 14h ago

51 male from the Midwest looking for some genuine conversation. Down to earth and non judgmental. I have a wide variety of interests from the outdoors to the paranormal and much more in between. I know this is a very difficult quest, but I figured that I would give it another attempt.

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r/FriendsOver40 • • 51m ago

Hey! Good morning! ☀️ I’m new here and hoping to make some genuine friendships! Hope you’re having an amazing week! 😊 How’s your week going so far? I’d love to get to know you! ✨

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