Hi all. I'm 45, based in New Zealand, and my work has me traveling internationally a lot. I'd love to find people to chat with across time zones, and maybe grab a coffee or a beer when I'm passing through your city.
I'm also a widower. I lost my wife 18 months ago, and that's a big part of why I'm here. Making friends in your 40s is hard enough, and it's harder when your life has been turned upside down. I'm not looking for anyone to fix anything, just good conversation, shared laughs, and people who understand that life gets complicated.
A bit about me, I'm direct, I say what I mean, and I'd like to be the kind of friend who actually shows up. I love almost any kind of music, I'm a big football fan, and I'll happily go out of my way for a really good meal. Send me your favorite song, your team, or the best thing you've eaten lately and we'll probably have plenty to talk about.
If any of that sounds like you, or you live somewhere I travel to, say hi. Tell me about yourself and what you're into.