r/smallbusiness • u/ChardonnayShawty • 17m left
I built and scaled a business, lost everything, and I’m trying to figure out my next move. Looking for advice from experienced entrepreneurs.
I’m posting this because I feel stuck, and I’d genuinely appreciate some perspective from people who have built successful businesses and created financial independence.
I’ve previously owned a company and successfully scaled it. I know what it takes to manage operations, solve problems, and grow a business. Unfortunately, I learned some very hard lessons along the way.
I didn’t come from money, and I didn’t have a financial safety net or an emergency fund behind the business. I invested my entire life savings into it because I believed in what I was building. When our equipment was essentially vandalized, the cost of repairs became so overwhelming that it ultimately put me out of business.
I lost the money I’d worked so hard to save, and rebuilding financially has been difficult. Looking back, I realize how important cash reserves, risk management, and protecting yourself against unexpected setbacks are. I learned those lessons the hard way.
Professionally, my background is primarily in operations, particularly dental practice management. I’ve also worked in commercial property management, and I’m currently working at a startup that is aiming to scale to $10 million within the next five years.
I want to build something meaningful again. I want to create real financial security for my family and eventually build wealth, but I feel like I’m at a crossroads. I have experience and ambition, but I’m struggling to identify the smartest path forward.
For those of you who have built substantial wealth or successfully scaled businesses:
If you were in my position, what would you focus on over the next three to five years?
Would you prioritize climbing the corporate ladder into executive operations, consulting, acquiring a business, or building another company?
How did you find mentors who genuinely helped you grow, both professionally and financially?
What do you wish someone had told you earlier in your entrepreneurial journey?
I’m not looking for a handout, an investment, or a get rich quick scheme. I’m looking for perspective from people who have been where I want to go and are willing to share what they’ve learned.
If you’ve experienced a major business setback and rebuilt your life afterward, I’d especially appreciate hearing your story.
I’m willing to learn, work hard, and take constructive criticism. I just want to make better decisions this time around.
Thank you to anyone willing to share their experience or advice.