r/rescuedogs • u/kissmytoplip • Aug 13 '26
Advice Unknowingly rescued an abused dog?
Hi all, I’ll try to not make this long.
upon scrolling a buy & sell website today I came across a dog (4 year old girl, border collie/ blue heller) for $250 needing to rehomed. The lady didn’t have time for her, said her other dog is unwell (her other animal had torn both of its ACLS) & she’s just way too timid.
Curiosity got the better of me and I asked if my partner and I could come meet her. They agreed instantly and we headed over.
Upon entering the house there was a bit going on, a lot of cats, a snake, a dog (unwell) in an extremely small crate.
This girl was outside, she hid INSTANTLY when we came out and wet herself, the lady said that she often does that.
The lady said she has had her since she was a puppy and she’s ALWAYS been timid, horrible with other dogs ( not aggressive just scared)
The dog would not come near us for around 45 mins where she eventually came around and would eat some kibble from our hand.
Upon questioning this lady just about the dogs day to day life, she spends all her time outside, she didn’t have grass available just dirt, she’s never been on a walk in her entire 4 years of being on this earth, never seen a beach, never been groomed and is apparently horrifically scared of water. (Being bathed)
The way the dog reacted to this lady just solidified it for me and she didn’t seem to care for the dog much and was practically begging us to take her.
I realised that this was going to be a HUGE job but I couldn’t leave her there, my heart was aching for her and I knew she needed more.
Getting her to the car was the easiest part, as soon as we put a leash on her she practically ran. She was extremely happy in the car, allowing small pats, we didn’t make a big fuss just let her do her thing.
Upon getting home, getting out of the car was hard, she wanted to stay in there so bad, she eventually let us take her out but had many accidents in this time, then hid under the car for an hour and half. We didn’t pressure her, just brought her food and water.
She eventually left the garage and wanted to walk around the house, she let us have a few pats but for the most part just so so so scared of us. And would go back under the car, didn’t want to out to our backyard.
She was covered in bugs (not fleas surprisingly) and actually let be bathe her!! She did AMAZING, she sat with me and even gave me a few licks when I was cleaning her, it was a massive task but she was not scared in that time at all.
Her hair was horrible and matted so close to her skin. It took 10 good shampoos to get her white.
She loved being brushed, dried, petted but when it was over it was back to a lot of anxiety and scared to be near us.
A few more accidents when getting overwhelmed but eventually ended the night in her crate ( which she is comfortable in) with her new comfy bed and is sleeping soundly.
Please tell me how to help this girl, I do not want to fail her. I want to help her so much. I know it’s going to take a lot of time but some advice would help. I cannot sleep as my stomach is in knots thinking about the life this girl must have had. It hurts me so much.