r/r4rSydney • • May 20 '21

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r/r4rSydney • • 2h ago

42 [M4F] Seeking..

2 Upvotes

Seeking someone fun, who is carefree and free of drama.

I’m 42, fit, caring and well educated. White collar job but have time to play on the jungle gym.

Please feel free to message to see how we click.


r/r4rSydney • • 1h ago

Eastern suburbs - 24M4F/NB/T

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Looking for connections, love to talk and hang out. Can’t often host anything often but looking for connections within the eastern suburbs around the 20-30 age range - open to occasional exceptions.

I mainly have female friends, however play games with a few blokey groups so if you’re into gaming let me know.

Most people I am friends with unfortunately are an hour+ travel to go an see, I’m looking for people within the eastern suburbs to city area who wouldn’t mind hanging out after campus, or just talking in general.


r/r4rSydney • • 9h ago

49 [M4F] Parramatta – Quiet guy, dark humour, kinky streak

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Hey there…

I’m finding myself back in the singles pool after many years, and admittedly floundering a little. While I’m not looking for anything serious right now, I do miss having someone to be close with. Ideally I’m after a casual/FWB sort of connection (and by that I mean equal parts F and B), where we can share some relaxed, date-like activities as well as get up to some NSFW mischief. If that grows into something more over time, great, but there’s no pressure either way.

A bit about me: I’m on the quieter side, considerate, and have a sense of humour that runs a little dark once I’m comfortable. I work in IT, no kids, and while I don’t have pets, I’ll happily make friends with yours. My weekends usually start at a coffee shop and drift into op shops and antique stores. From there I either head out for a hike or decide a lazy day in bed is the better plan. When I’ve got more time, I’m off diving, climbing, camping, or on a road trip, and in between there’s gym, gaming, films, and a music collection that’s all over the place.

On the NSFW side of things, I do have a kinky streak and can be very adventurous. I’m also 420 friendly, though I don’t partake often myself.

I’d love to meet someone who’s playfully curious, maybe an extroverted introvert who can hold her own in a conversation but also enjoys a quiet night in. If any of my interests sound like yours, that’s a bonus, but I’m just as keen to hear what you’re into.

For reference: Australian/Caucasian, 180cm, 70kg, clean shaven (though a little scruffy at times), 8 inches, DDF. I’m no model and don’t claim to be, but I keep active and look after myself.

If you’d like to grab a coffee and see if we click, drop me a line and tell me the last thing that made you laugh.

D


r/r4rSydney • • 10h ago

38 M4F Cheeky Photoshoot - Eastern Suburbs

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Part-time photographer here looking to do a cheeky photoshoot but I need to find my model. Nothing serious, and doesn’t have to be nude but that always makes it more fun. Could be lingerie or a tiny little bikini. I tend to shoot black and white. Let’s make some images. Happy for you to keep the photos and I can host since I have my camera gear and light here.


r/r4rSydney • • 13h ago

41[M4F] Sneakerhead looking for sole mate

1 Upvotes

Hey there!

First post ever so not super optimistic. Looking for chats about life, dreams, food. Live in the inner west but mainly looking for online just to pass the day away.

I like writing, cooking and sneakers. Also love a hike, so if you know any good spots I may not have heard of then I’d love to hear from you!

A


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

24 M4F Sydney Central / Strathfield / Kingsford | Active guy down for post-work coffee or drinks

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24, 6ft, and active with gym and sports across Sydney.

I keep a busy schedule, but I always love making time after work for great conversation and easygoing energy with a genuine woman.

My typical weekly schedule:

  • Monday: Underwater rugby at Central near USYD and UTS
  • Tuesday and Thursday: Gym session after work, then American football training in Kingsford
  • Wednesday: Around the Strathfield area
  • Friday: Gym or rest
  • Saturday: Competition around NSW
  • Sunday: Activities with friends

That post-work gap before my evening sessions is a great window to grab a coffee, catch a quick drink, or unwind together. I bring a grounded, respectful vibe and love connecting with active, open-minded people.

If you are around those areas and down to decompress, send a quick DM and let us see if we click.


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

31 M4F Sydney. Seeking slow paced conversations, quiet observation, and creative connections

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Hey,
I’ve always lived a fairly quiet introverted, independent life, but lately, I’ve been curious to connect with people who value intentional living. whether that means sharing good conversation or just enjoying a calm silence together.

What life looks like on my end:

I spend a lot of time behind a camera focusing on cinematic photography, reading, writing poetry, and taking time to cook good meals from scratch. Very serious about my hobbies

One of my favorite creative exercises is grabbing a bench in a public park or square during peak hour. I like observing the small cinematic details, hand gestures, footsteps, body language to study how people move through their day and handle the rush.

I try to follow a 5 day training routine (I've been running for 13 years), and I have a soft spot for classic 90s inspired menswear, vintage Casio watches, and timeless silhouettes over fast fashion.

Age or background doesn't matter to me as long as we align on mindset. I’m hoping to meet someone grounded, creative, or simply interested in slow living and thoughtful dialogue.

We could grab a coffee, brainstorm creative ideas, exchange perspectives on life, or collaborate on some photographic studies around the city. Or, if you prefer, we can just sit somewhere quiet and share space with zero pressure to perform.

If any of this resonates with how you see the world, feel free to drop a message with a short introduction.


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

18 [F4M] trying again - quiet girl looking for a 40 plus man

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Hey…I’ve posted before but didn’t really find what I was hoping for. Maybe if you saw the last ad and weren’t sure, take a chance?

And guys…sorry but I really do mean older. I’m sure some of the 22 year olds who messages are great guys…for some other girl.

About me: I’m 18, introverted, and proudly studious. If my weekend isn't spent buried in a book or testing out a new cooking recipe, you can find me out on a run or camped out at a local coffee shop with a notebook and a hot drink.

I’ve come to realise that I’m attracted to, and want a relationship with, older men. I’m looking to connect with a significantly older (40 plus), single man who is intellectually sharp, grounded, and values substance over small talk. I appreciate life experience, good conversation, and someone who is comfortable with quiet moments.

If you're well-read, know your way around a great coffee spot, and want to grab a cup and see where things go, drop me a message.

Z xx


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

41 [M4F] #sydney - Australian guy looking for connection

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41yo guy here in south west sydney seeking an asian ady around my age or older for friendship hopimg for connection and chemistry leading to more.

Im down to earth and easy going, attentive and a hopeless romantic seeking similar. Age and looks not so important just after someone genuine. Im an average guy decent looks 90kg 182cm tall.

Drop me a line if you would like to know more id love to hear from you