r/parrots • u/Dense_Network7667 • 10m ago
Should I get a younger(1-5yo) or older(10yo+) macaw? Advice please!
So my partner and I are planning on eventually getting a parrot. We’re first timers (although I grew up around birds) and we both understand that the birds we are wanting often are not the first choice for new owners. We are aware of this, and both of us are going to take at least 2-3 years of research and educating ourselves on how to properly care for one before getting one.
I’m leaning more towards a macaw while she is leaning more towards an African grey. I’m fine with either, but from the research I’ve done, I prefer a macaw because I have heard they often times form deep bonds with their caretakers and that is something I want from a parrot.
As I’ve been looking into it a little more, I’ve been seeing a lot of people say even if you get a macaw when it is young and impressionable, they can easily turn on you and never look back once they hit the teen stage. This is most certainly something I wouldn’t want or prefer.
The reason I was wanting a younger one, was so that I could be able to train it and teach it boundaries. Such as letting me clip its nails without too much hassle, teaching it to give kisses/affection in general, potty training, and on top of wanting to form a deep bond with one.
Although from everything I’ve heard, it seems that even if I do all of this, it could possibly be fruitless. So then I was considering getting an older one past its maturity, but would I be able to teach it the same things? Could it learn to love me and form a bond with me over time? I assumed it wouldn’t be able to considering ppl have said they form bonds with usually one person and that’s it.
I’m not opposed to giving an older baby all the time it needs to warm up to me, let me trim its nails, let me love on it, etc etc, and I especially wouldn’t mind giving it boundaries that it needs until then. I understand that my way of thinking is a little selfish, I shouldn’t just want a parrot to form a strong bond with and should love it even if it doesn’t give me that, but I really do prefer for it to love me at least a little bit of as much as I love it.