r/lesbiangang • • 20h ago

Discussion Finding out an actress of a lesbian character is straight sucks lol

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Nothing more than that. Just found out the actress of Franky from Wentworth (yeah I'm behind on the times watching it, I know lol) is straight. Sigh. Feel like this is so common.

And don't get me wrong. Some straight actresses have done so well with lesbian characters. Kathryn Hahn is an incredible actress who did so well with Agatha Harkness and clearly respected the importance of her sexuality.

But...idk. Just wish we had more lesbians playing y'know...lesbians. lol


r/lesbiangang • • 14h ago

Trigger Warning I don’t know if this is acceptable to say

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There’s something really isolating about being born this way

I’m not saying what I am about to say is correct. I’m not expecting anyone to read this or agree with me, and I’m not really sure what the point here is. It’s a lingering feeling that’s been around for so long that it’s the only thing I feel, and I cannot even identify it.

On the main subreddits they flaunt how they flirt with and befriend anyone and everyone and how they jump and move on from person to person every other month. Something that seems to shallow and surface seems to be the deepest form of expression for a lot of people.

Nothing about my sexuality is a blessing to me. I remember making a post on here when I was about sixteen about how lonely I was. I did it every year and now I’m twenty. Maybe it is my fault, and I am not looking for pity, I just don’t want my thoughts to be silent forever.

It’s as if people managed to take what ruined my life and repackaged it as something with no real meaning that is supposed to be the greatest thing as you don’t say anything that will make them think too hard.

I wish I was out partying every weekend and had a big friend group and joked about girls kissing girls, but for many reasons, I’m not. I’m a complete freak to the people of the world and they only deny it when it’s convenient for them and they want to virtue signal. it’s only been a pain for me. It’s something bad rooted in me. For most overcome but only grows for people like me

But it is not only my sexuality. Though it is as if everything that seems to throw me apart from people stems partially from it like the root of a tree

I don’t talk to anyone. I wrote this post on an impulse and I silently cut off my friends a few months ago because if I pretended like I fit in for another day I think I would die

But the truth will kill me first


r/lesbiangang • • 10h ago

Question/Advice To bush or not to bush

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Hello ladies! I (F20), after a series of LDRs, decided to jump into the physical dating world.

Now, something that robs me of my sleep at night sometimes: What's your experience with your bush? Do you keep it natural? If so, does oral happen without major annoyances? Do you trim? If so, is scissoring/any other tribbing position uncomfortable because the hair isn't as soft? I'm curious about what has worked best for you and how y'all can find the sweet spot between all the choices.

Aand those are the questions of a blatantly inexperienced baby gay. Thanks in advance, and more general advice will be welcomed as well 💜


r/lesbiangang • • 10h ago

Venting Just Bitchin - Weekly Vent Thread

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Have an enraging tiktok that you can’t stop replaying in your mind? A rant that you’ve been dying to get off your chest? Send off your frustrations here!

(*Please keep in mind that the rules of this sub will still be enforced.)


r/lesbiangang • • 3h ago

Question/Advice I have the most outrageous crush on a straight girl with a boyfriend. Help me.

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I'm going to kill myself over this woman I swear.

She's gorgeous, funny, smart, a brilliant writer, sweet, kind, amazing taste in shows, thinks I'm beautiful, the list goes on.

Only problem is that she's straight and is dating this ugly piece of shit boy.

We text sometimes, always ending with her saying "goodnight gorgeous" or "goodnight beautiful." I got her to read my embarrassing lesbian erotica and she thoroughly enjoyed it and was very supportive, she doesn't care that I'm a lesbian at all nor is she uncomfortable by it. I just love her so much.

I fantasize about being with her multiple times a day, I've undressed her a million times in my head, made passionate love to her... fuck I wish she liked girls. AT LEAST she might be bisexual and just hasn't realized it... I'm holding onto hope desperately.

Has anyone been in a similar situation?? I'm squealing like a little girl over every text message... I want to die. I need her so bad.

I'm about to start the first episode of a show she likes so I can talk about it with her. I think I'm gonna arrange a hangout with her because I NEED to see her, feel her touch. When we worked together I would follow her like a puppy everywhere, making every excuse to be in her presence. I'm so down bad, I almost never have crushes and this one is severe.

I'm gonna get my heart broken, aren't I?