Most divorce discussions seem to be about dividing houses, investments and big retirement accounts. Our problem is almost the opposite. My husband and I are separating after eight years here in Fresno. We rent, have modest retirement savings and two paid-off older cars. But between credit cards, a personal loan and some medical bills, there's roughly $55k in debt.

Some of it was clearly household spending. Some cards are only in one person's name. There are also charges from the last year that we strongly disagree about. We don't have children, so custody isn't an issue.

We're mostly trying to leave the marriage without either person getting stuck with debt they didn't expect. Has anyone here used mediation for a divorce where debt was the main financial issue? Was it cheaper than each hiring a lawyer from the start?

I am looking for an allergy dr in the Fresno area. We have Anthem Blue Cross PPI so we can pretty much go anywhere. It is for my 18 year old college kiddo, who can never breath!

Hi guys! Are there any single mom groups nearby that we know of? I found the Facebook group but I’m not sure if they meet up. Looking for a community!

My gf is picky and wants good coffee. I am not a coffee drinker. She hates Starbucks and dutch bros because they're too sweet and she hates Kuppa Joy she says they have a bad brew of coffee. Anyone know a good coffee spot that might be up her alley?

EDIT: wow holy shit you guys are fast lol. Thank you all so much. As a non coffee drinker who knows no shops at all these suggestions are top knotch and I now have a few options to roll out. Appreciate you all Fresno!

Good morning yall,

I've recently purchased a hand forged dirk(a large single-edged Scottish knife for those who might not know) and while its very good quality, there are some minor imperfections in the edge of the blade, mostly rolling.

Does anyone have any recommendations for local places i could take it get a better edge on it?

I drove by St John’s Cathedral yesterday morning (around 10:30am) thinking I could just go in and sit for a few minutes but it was completely closed…does anyone know of any churches, preferably Catholic but any are ok really, that are open for the public without a mass going on?