I (33F) ENTP/8w7 have had the absolute worst luck dating men in this field. I live in a major city where these guys are a big part of my dating pool, but every “talking stage” is ending horrifically, and I’m not experiencing that with others outside of this realm of work

Obviously INTJ/INFJs are in these roles a lot, and I haven’t been able to quiiite pinpoint type any of these men in our interactions, but I’m trying to put my finger on just why we are initially clicking but falling apart quickly

Are they taking my antics too much to heart and can’t comprehend the sexy jester’s spirit? Any insight is appreciated, it truly has been a strange pattern lol

I’m an ENFP, and the hardest function for me to understand is probably Fi (Introverted Feeling). I don’t get how people can have empathy for anyone other than themselves. I feel so deeply for myself because that’s all that matters to me, of course, but when it comes to other people, I genuinely don’t understand how they do it. Am I just an asshole? For example, when I hear about people being harmed physically or mentally, I always think to myself, Why should I care? It’s not happening to me, so we ball anyways.

(Is it them or is it me? Let me know.)

I created a typing test that works based on what you resonate with, it gives you a feed of cards with statements, quotes, scenario, and you select only the ones you resonate with, this way the cognitive load is very low, also the feed adapt to funnel down your type, you just select what you think is related to you.

I already asked on different subreddits including this one, for the version 1.3, 135 persons sent the report, it resulted with 70% accuracy, not that bad, I used this test session to improve it, I hope reaching 90% accuracy, maybe with this new version 1.5. About the last test session you have all the data analysis on the website.

At the end of the test, in the result page, you will have a frame that ask you to share your result, with a simple button. It will send me the informations I need in my database, it gives me all the cards you selected, the timeline of the guessing of your type, how the algorithm reacted, etc, it helps me to fine-tune the test.

I really feel that this method can work and be more accurate than anything that already exist.

Thank you in advance if you try it, and thank you again for the ones that already tried it, it helped me a lot improving the test.

https://www.mazwiz.com/

PS: I will share the findings in the result page like for the last test session.

Are we better paired with T or F people? I’m a woman btw and not sure if that matters. My issue with Feelers is that I feel like they wear me down and they need more maintenance than I’m willing to give. Like they really require too much emotional connection and it’s suffocating. But sometimes T people aren’t personable enough and I don’t always feel seen. Thoughts?

And love to hear about your experiences with S people too.

I notice that ENTPS are almost always mistyped. Men are often typed as ESTP or INTP. And women are mistyped as ENFx. I see this all the time with celebrities. It's like if we're not some directionless loser who jokes and argues all the time, then we're not ENTP.

What are the signs I should pay attention to??
Help your ESTP fellow!!y’all are not easy to read!! 😂