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Hello r/enfj!

I've never had the occassion to come by much but I have recently started dating one of you so of course I will be lurking your sub from here on out (it is so quiet compared to the other subs fr!)

So anyways just wanted to say hi! Feel free to ask me stuff (about the relationship or otherwise) :D

I’m 34 and looking for a new career I can really commit to. I relate to both ENFP and ENFJ, and my Strong Interest Inventory results were highest in Artistic and Social, with Investigative and Enterprising almost tied.

My background is in hospitality, events, customer service and rental administration. I enjoy communicating, explaining things and working with people. Good income is my biggest priority, and I’m willing to retrain.

Career counselling has left me with an overwhelming list rather than a clear direction, so I’d love some real-world perspectives.

What career have you found both satisfying and financially worthwhile? What qualifications did you need, and what are the downsides? I know personality type can’t pick a career for me—I’m interested in hearing what has actually worked for you.