r/education • u/kipentok • 20h ago
What would you do?
So I work in education in Europe.
I teach maths in middle school. One of my classes is quite difficult to teach. To give you idea in my country the students get devided into classes based on their educational needs.
Unfortunately there are new rules in my country to always put children in more higher level then they might be capable of. So for a part of the class following this level of math is difficult.
One of my students has unmedicated adhd and the primary school has put him in a too high level of education then his school results at the primary school said that what he would be capable to do. So not only the education level is to high for him but he also has behaviour issues. In my lessons his behaviour was this tremendously bad that after 7 warnings I had to remove him from class as I had to choose for the rest of the class to focus. I tried to keep him in the class room by at first non-verbal warnings and the last warning was “you show this behaviour. I want you to show this behaviour. If you continue then I need to send you out of the classroom. Choose wisely” the student continued and I had to choose for the other pupils as no one could follow the lesson, ask questions or could focus. I had to remove him from the room but he became very angry and verbally abused me. One of my coworkers was working in the hallway as she knew i had difficulty with this class and she got an hour without lessons. She quickly took him out of the classroom. Otherwise I am afraid that the kid also would have threw a chair at me. She brought the kid to the class mentor and told him the removal was 1000% on point and that I should have let him being removed more earlier and that I was more patient then she would have been.
The class mentor came to me with the student and said that the student wouldn’t face any consequences of being removed and he didn’t need to hear my point of view as the student was in his right. I didn’t felt seen, heard or even felt any support from my coworker. I told my manager and had a talk with my coworker. But I feel like the entire class since then got a free pass to behave badly in my class. I felt and still feel very unsafe teaching that class and I also feel that I can put consequences on behaviour but that it got more escalated. I also have the idea that the student feel like “oh I can do everything in her classroom, because if something happens my mentor will defend me.”
I now have the rule. Is your name on the board then you will come back after school to my classroom to exercise in good behaviour and to write summary of the chapter. But if this doesn’t help…
What would you do next? I feel like this class and this situation is burning me out. And I don’t want to get into a burn out etc. But I also don’t feel any support from management. So what would you do?