r/books • u/Bulawayoland • 15h ago
All My Friends, by Marie NDiaye
I'm not sure what to say about this one. I'm becoming kind of an NDiaye addict. She seems to have moved literature forward about a hundred years, and I think the possibility is fairly high that generations to come, if the human race makes it, will refer to our age, in literary contexts, as NDiayean. As we refer to Shakespeare's time as Elizabethan, or Dickens' as Victorian.
Now, I do get carried away sometimes. It happens. I was sure I was going to want to re-read the first story in this collection after I had finished the book, and I did not. But it's dear to me! It has moved off the printed page and into my skull and there it sits, grinning at me in a rather skull-and-crossbones sort of way, and seeming to want me to guess what it's going to come up with next. Seeming to promise that I won't like it, but it will be interesting, and it knows I like THAT.
I did have to re-read the first couple of stories, just to figure out what was really going on. I think the reason is: she seems to light up the dull insanities we all live with, from day to day, as though they were just as pointless and random as they actually are, but special. It's true; they are special. There's something very truthful about all this, in spite of the fact that the stories themselves cannot be true. (And why do authors of fiction so often say they seek truthfulness? I do not know. Maybe that's just one of the common insanities?)
But it's the fact that they are insanities that makes them hard to follow or make sense of. And you have to somehow make sense of something if you're going to pull a story or a character out of it. With an insanity, obviously, it's a challenge.
Oh I love her characters though. A great teacher, in thrall to his worst student. A servant of servants, begging desperately -- and very plausibly -- to be allowed to become a slave. A woman who can no longer live with her son, who is the only one who understands her and whose understanding she needs, just to go on. It's a remarkable collection. Ave, ave, ave!
EDIT PS if you haven't seen White Material, the Claire Denis film, do that. I watched it yesterday or the day before and it's awesome. NDiaye co-wrote the screenplay, and I seem to see that it shows.