r/boating • u/No-Communication1543 • 15h ago
Bought my first boat at the end of August and I still white-knuckle every single docking. Does this ever get easier?
Picked up a 23 ft cuddy cabin with a single outboard at the end of August. I grew up around boats, but my dad was always the one driving, so this is my first time as the captain. Open water is honestly great. Getting back to the slip is where I lose my mind.
My marina has fairly tight slips and there's almost always some kind of crosswind in the afternoon. Last weekend I came in too hot, tried to correct, overcorrected, and ended up bouncing off a piling while a guy on the neighboring boat watched with a coffee in his hand. No damage except to my pride, but my wife and kids were on board and I could feel everyone holding their breath.
I've watched a bunch of videos on using bursts of throttle and keeping the boat slow, but when there's wind pushing me sideways and people on the dock watching, all of that goes out the window and I just panic-steer.
Is there a technique that actually works for a single engine in a crosswind, or does it just come down to hours of practice? Would it be worth paying someone for an hour or two of coaching, or is that overkill? And what do you do with the crew so they're actually helpful instead of just stressing me out?
For those who remember their first few months, how long did it take before docking felt normal?



