Hi everyone!
I um.. bought a expensive dress from an iconic scene in a movie.
It's my wife's childhood favourite movie and she once tipsily mentioned that all dresses she buys has been to chase the look and feel and this dress for the longest time. Anyway, it's impossible to get this dress and it appears like once every 6 months on the market and almost always get snatched up for an absurd price. I was down the Depop / Poshmark / Etsy rabbit hole for years, my ISO listings had over 2000+ likes and saves from others, offers and failure after failure to secure the thing, American PO boxes, routing blah. I've chased this thing for 4 years. My last window had me trying to surprise her for the wedding but the seller went MIA at the last second.
And here we are. Today is not the day I am left with only the mental anguish of this silent war I've been fighting BUT THE DAY WE MOVE to the NEXT STEP and our 1 year anniversary + her birthday is coming up.
Long story short, it's 3-4 sizes too big (Yes I record her 3 sizes, ring and shoes) and I need to alter this dress. No rush I still have over 2 months. I'm seeking help fellow Singaporeans, I need a recommendation for a tailor, I'm thinking wedding dress tailors or someone who can do sizing down of clothes that are slightly complex? Price wise the sky's the limit, I just need someone who can alter this thing confidently.
Thanks for reading my long story that I've not been able to tell anyone.
TLDR: I bought my wife a rare dress that requires sizing down, please recommend anyone who is skilled in alterations. TIA
Edit: Thank you so so much for your helpful responses, I will be checking in with some of these this week. As mentioned by many I may have to bring my partner in. I'm going to put that as the last resort so for now I'll just "borrow" a already altered piece of clothing I know she has and have the tailor work on the dress based on those measurements. If really cannot then I will have to ask her but I prefer to keep it a surprise for now.
Again, thank you everyone, the comments have been super super helpful.