Hey guys, I'm kinda anxious right now and would appreciate some advice from people who have experienced something similar.
My girlfriend's average cycle is around 35–36 days, but it's pretty irregular. Her previous cycles were 43, 31, 35, 51, 32, 35, and 27 days.
We had unprotected sex on Day 21 of her current cycle. It was the only time we had sex this cycle. I inserted once and thrust around 4–5 times, then pulled out. I ejaculated outside, on the floor, nowhere near her vagina. I didn't notice any precum either, although I know that doesn't completely rule it out.
On Day 17, she felt really emotional and cried, which she says happens to her monthly. She also had creamy white discharge around that time, so we thought she might have ovulated then, but we didn't use ovulation tests or track her temperature.
Now she's on Day 32, around 11 days after sex. She had cramps around Day 30, has been feeling less sociable, and recently noticed clear, watery discharge with no smell. Her period hasn't arrived yet.
I'm worried about pregnancy. If she really ovulated on Day 17, would sex on Day 21 be outside her fertile window? And with the brief penetration and withdrawal, how concerned should I realistically be? Just looking for honest advice because I'm overthinking this. Thanks