Hi, I never post on here but I genuinely need to ease my mind because I am absolutely petrified. I (18F) just started college where I met my boyfriend (18M) and we've been dating for 2 months now. I'm not on any type of birth control but we always use condoms. We did it on Oct. 10th, 21st, and 24th, using condoms on all these dates. I then got my period on Oct 21st and my last day was on the 25th. My cycle is pretty regular and usually around an estimated 28 days, both trackers currently say I’m in my follicular phase and around 5-8 days away from ovulation.

On the 27th we did it again but the condom broke and it wasn't until after he pulled out that he found a hole in the significantly empty condom. Within 7-8 hours I took an Aftera / Plan B. I feel nauseous and anxious but mostly terrified of getting pregnant which absolutely cannot happen at all costs. Please tell me what the chances are that I can get pregnant, and other precautions I can take to prevent it. This is literally my worst fear.

I also know these pills don't work when you're over a certain weight, I'm 5'8, around 135lbs/60kg. Please ease my mind.

So my last unprotected sex was around september 23 (take note i did not know if i was ovulating that time) and we did it like 3 rounds then after that i went home and did the YUZPE method with trust pills. Few days later september 30, i got bleeding and i think it was period since it was mildly heavy and really red – it also lasted for about 1-2 days and now its october i still havent got my period. I talked to chatgpt about it and it told me my period should arrive around 28, its 28 now and still no period so im really anxious i still havent taken a pregnancy test yet since im broke. I also do not experience pregnancy symptoms such as morning sickness, breast tenderness, back pain, etc though im pretty much bloated rn but i think its because i havent been pooping for a while. Im really stressed i need reassurances that im not pregnant

Earlier today my bf told me his aunt asked if I was pregnant.. mind you I don’t think we’ve ever met in person. She doesn’t see me at all, but I guess she said bc his face looks chubbier (he’s skinny lol). It’s funny bc last month I told him he looks like he’s gaining something. He has abs and they’ve always been pretty crisp to me. I noticed they’re starting to smooth out a lil 😭 but we do eat out a lot, which is what he told his aunt. But for me, I have trouble getting pregnant and so lil stuff like this makes my mind go into overdrive 😵‍💫 is this one of those things where it’s like “If you dream about fish your pregnant” or your older relative just overthinking?

We have been on this journey trying to conceive. It is tough hearing people who we know were trying to conceive the same time as us getting pregnant, knowing we’d be almost 6 months had we been lucky with our first try, etc. Every day, it feels like we hear and see more pregnancies in our world and while we are so happy for everyone, it has really taken a toll on us. This cycle, currently on DPO9, BBT dropped below coverline on DPO8 and recovered and have been cramping last two days, which never have cramping symptoms pre/during period. Has this happened to anyone before? Really trying to stay positive here…

Probably already know the answer.. what would be the likelihood I could get pregnant? He only did it 3 times inserting it (inside me) for a quick second.. from what I know there wasn’t anything on him. But we stopped after we knew what we were doing is wrong! Should I go get a morning after pill?! 💊

So I’ve had my copper IUD for about a year and I’ve had intercourse with my ex boyfriend multiple times without a condom and everything was fine. Since coming to college, I’ve been through alot of stress because said boyfriend and I broke up, a lot of academic and life anxiety, and I’ve been gaining weight like crazy (around 15 pounds in the last 2 weeks)

But, I’m about 2 weeks late to my period and I’ve had sex 3 times since my last one, my periods are normally regular and usually come early, but my last period ended a lot earlier than normal which was strange because my periods are abnormally long due to my IUD.

I’m scared I’m pregnant but everything else added on top tells me my period is late due to stress and hormonal changes, I also smoke weed and drink on the weekends, should I still take a test?

hoy mismo tuve relaciones con mi novia, al revisar su calendario me doy cuenta que es su dia de ovulación, tuvimos relaciones sin proteccion, y no estamos tan asustados sabemos que en caso de que pase la desicion es abortar, me vine afuera, pero aún el susto. Alguien me da un consejo que debería hacer? porque si se toma la pastilla del dia despues, y ya esta fecundada pues no serviría de mucho 😓

A couple days ago me and my fwb had sex with a condom but before we did it i kept telling him to not put it in raw and he kept trying to and his tip was only in. Could i get pregnant from that? Im worried cus this dude alr got a kid and and im way younger than him and dont want to deal with this.

hi! i jus need an advice who had an unprotected sex after 2 weeks of mens.

i had an unprotected sex yesterday and accidentally he cummed inside me. i had my mens 2 weeks ago. is it possible to get pregnant? do i need to worry?

ty in advance :)

Had unprotected sex 1.5 day before ovulation and he ejaculated inside.. couldnt get the pill whats the possibility of becoming pregnant. It happend friday night says i ovulated on sunday period isnt till the 9th of November. A lil anxious.

What are the likeness of getting pregnant? Just ended her period on Sunday.

so me and my girlfriend were messing around and my penis accidently went into the opening of her vagina, I didn’t purposely put it in there, she said she didn’t feel it go in. for reference she’s about 5 days from her period, give or take. she said she’s not wanting to take plan b because there’s no point. mind you I can’t say for certain if I felt it go in, if it did it was a few secs ( like two )

My boyfriend and I had sex, but unfortunately, the condom broke. He did not ejaculate during sex, although he had ejaculated about four hours earlier and thinks he urinated before we had sex.
During sex we saw that there was already precum in the condom. When we noticed that the condom had broken, he did not see any white fluid in my vagina, although we understand that this does not necessarily mean that no fluid entered it.

My menstrual cycle is usually around 29 days, and my period ended about six days before we had sex. According to my period-tracking app, I was approximately four days away from ovulation, although I know that the app cannot predict ovulation with complete accuracy.

Because we were worried about pregnancy, I took Plan B approximately 27 hours after sex. I understand that it works mainly by delaying ovulation and cannot guarantee that pregnancy will be prevented.

What is the likelihood that I could become pregnant in this situation?

Hi everyone, I’m really anxious right now and could use some advice.
According to my Flo calendar, my recent periods started on July 26, August 18, September 6, and September 30. My period in September started on September 30 and ended on October 4.
The hearts on my Flo calendar mark the days I had unprotected sex: October 6, October 13, October 16, and October 23. My partner never ejaculated inside me during any of these encounters. He always pulled out before ejaculating.
The part that really scared me happened on October 13. He pulled out and ejaculated on one of my butt cheeks, and I felt some semen running downwards. I panicked and quickly touched the area with my finger, but I don’t know if any semen reached the vaginal opening or got inside my vagina. Ever since then, I’ve been terrified that I could get pregnant from that.
According to Flo, my predicted fertile window was October 6–12, with October 10 marked as the predicted ovulation day. The encounter that scared me the most happened on October 13, the day after the predicted ovulation date. I know Flo can’t confirm exactly when ovulation happens, but I keep wondering whether having sex the day after the predicted ovulation date makes pregnancy less likely.
I took an ultrasensitive pregnancy test on October 26, about 13 days after the October 13 encounter, and it was negative. Today is October 27, and my period still hasn’t started.
My average cycle length in Flo is 24 days, although my recent cycles have varied. What’s confusing me is that Flo keeps saying, “Your period may start today.” Every day, the prediction seems to move forward, but it doesn’t actually say that my period is late. I don’t know whether this is normal or whether I should be worried.
My breasts feel swollen and sore, and I have some lower back pain. Usually, before my period, I get pain in my lower back near my buttocks, but this time it feels a little different. I’ve also been feeling nauseous and extremely anxious.
I honestly wonder whether these symptoms could be PMS, pregnancy symptoms, or simply my anxiety making me hyperaware of every little sensation. I’m so stressed that I can barely stop thinking about this.
I’m scared that my negative test was a false negative because I took it too early. Should I test again on October 31, or would it be better to wait until November 3, when it will have been 21 days since October 13? Would a negative test at that point be reliable? Also, can Flo keep moving the predicted period date forward like this?
I know withdrawal isn’t completely reliable, and I’m not trying to ignore that. I’m just really scared and would appreciate honest advice from anyone who understands this situation. Thank you so much.

Hi, my gfs period is currently late by a day. She is currently experiencing mild cramps (milder than usual) and she is urinating much more often than usual.

Around two weeks ago, we had a condom break AGAINST but NOT IN her vagina. And we took emergency contraception two days later. Before and after this event in her cycle we’ve had normal protected sex

What do you think?

I’m 6 days late and have tested everyday I have been late and only had negative tests. My cycle is 99% of the time 28 days, and if not, only differs by a day or two. A couple mornings within the last week I’ve had to run out the room thinking I was going to be sick. I’ve had cramping the last 4 days, so I’ve been expecting my period to start but hasn’t. I had some pinkish streaked discharge yesterday which I occasionally get literally just before period starts but nothing. Husband and I aren’t ttc, but would be very happy if I was pregnant. We probably had sex twice during the time I think I would have ovulated and used condoms with no known issues. Could I still be pregnant? Is it possible to just test positive quite late?

23F, So I made a naive and stupid decision this weekend by having sex without protection during my fertile window. For reference, I have a very regular cycle that lasts anywhere between 26-29 days, and my period lasts 6-7 days. I use the Flo app to track my cycle, however I have never tracked my ovulation using home tests before, so the estimates are purely from the app's algorithm.

My timeline for the month:
-- 10/10 period started
-- 10/16 period ended
-- 10/18-10/24 my predicted fertile window
-- 10/22 my predicted day of ovulation
-- 10/24 the day I had unprotected sex

First, we had sex without a condom until he finished on my stomach. He pulled out with enough time for nothing to end up inside of me at all. Then he went to the bathroom, peed, and washed himself off with soap and water and we took a break. Then we had sex a second time, except this time we put on a condom. However during the middle of it, the condom slipped off and got lost inside of me, and had to be fished out. He did not ejaculate at all the second time, so my main concern for this entire night is whether or not his precum can make me pregnant. I do believe I was still in my fertile window as I was plenty wet/had EWCM.

The morning after on 10/25, I took a plan B one step. It caused me to have some nausea and cramping but I feel completely normal since.

My main concern is whether or not I had been ovulating during the time I had sex. If I ovulated days before, and the egg had long disintegrated, then I had no risk to begin with. If I ovulated the day after having sex, then the plan B hopefully extended my ovulation long enough for any sperm inside me to die off. However, if I had sex during the 12-24 hour window of ovulation, then the plan B will not help at all and I could get pregnant.

I have no clue when I ovulated, so I'm afraid the plan B will just end up being useless. I have an appointment scheduled for tomorrow (4 days after sex) to get a copper IUD, however I'm also nervous that this too will be pointless. I'm probably done with ovulation by now as my discharge has dried up and I no longer feel horny/aroused as much, but that's just my guess.

I'm just so afraid that even after I go through the pain and potentially traumatic experience of getting the copper IUD that it will still be for nothing because my egg may have already been fertilized. Everything I've read online states that the copper IUD is not necessarily proven to prevent implantation, and that its main function is preventing fertilization. What if I'm already past that point?

I am completely torn apart over this and could use anyone's thoughts or guidance. I know that he never ejaculated in me at all, so my risk lies in whether or not his precum contained any sperm, so that hopefully helps my case. And I know I made such a stupid mistake that I never will again, but I need to know whether it will really be worth it to get this procedure tomorrow. I'm so afraid it's too late. Anyone with a similar experience that can share?

Hey guys i need advice i am a beginner at this but i had unprotected sex with a girl whilest she was on her fertile days ,idk but i think i cummed abit in her and on her flo app it shows day 3/5 of fertile days now i gave her an emergency pill to take…we had sex on 2 days ago and her last period was 9/10 days ago…because i am new idk what to think i need advice

I hooked up w a guy a couple days ago, he tried to put it in raw multiple times which I wasn’t really messing with but I was too tight so it didn’t go in anyway, nevertheless it did almost happen. That wasn’t the only thing we did but is that possibility enough for me to potentially get pregnant? Ik people say stuff about precum and how it can get someone pregnant but I’m not sure if there was any or not. This is only my second time doing something remotely sexual with someone else so I’m paranoid af because I’m also cramping and having a bit of stomach pain. I want to get a pill but my friend told me not to worry.

My bf and i were messaging around and there was some hand stuff involved, i think i might have touched him after he came and then touched myself near the clit (not sure cause i don’t remember very well) but my periods are 20 days late and im not sure if it just cause of stress cause ive had the flu for a week with a lot of meds and a lot of mental stress due to college… is there even a slightest chance should i test?

im really nervous because like he used a condom and withdrawal method combined and the condom didnt break or slip, and my period was also expected to start 2 days after we had sex, but it never came, and now im 8 days late but like ive had cramps and gas? am i just stressing or like could i actually be pregnant? i dont have a test right now to use and like idk if its too early for one💔 it was my first time too and like hes worried bc he said theres a possibility there was like precm on his hand while changing the condom (bc he changed the condom twice).. idk if im just stressing and anxious or like if its diet bc i havent been eating as much since im anxious and stuff, someone helppp💔💔💔

I know, I know - initial thought is 'well you're not pregnant'. I dont know what it is about THIS particular cycle. I had a miscarriage at 7w in March. I didnt even test until 11 days after my missed period and it turned positive before I was done wiping. I have been using protection since then up until September. My period came September 21. My last 3 cycles had been exactly 29 days. As I said, idk what it is about this particular cycle but I've been symptom checking since 10/9. Something just feels off. Had sex on 10/2, 10/3, 10/4, 10/8, 10/15 and 10/19. I am now 7 days late and I am getting negative after negative. Even though we weren't trying to conceive, its driving me crazy that I keep getting negatives. Missing a period post-MC is doing something to my mental.

Has anyone had similar and was ACTUALLY pregnant? If so, was your pregnancy viable??

TLDR; 7 days late, multiple negative tests, MC in March, driving myself crazy testing, could I still be pregnant?