I had sex with someone. His penis touched the hole of my vagina, but it didn't enter and he didn't ejaculate. he just rubbed his penis tip a few times to my vagina hole ; there was no ejaculation, but there might have been pre-cum. I took the Ella pill 70 hours after the event. Do you think there is a possibility of pregnancy? Please help.

So I suspect a guy I had on and off dealings with tampered with a condom /aka poked holes/ and the day after I confronted him and took a plan b (legal things is going to take place as well). I made him use a condom because the day we had sex was my most fertile peak. I guess he took that as an attempt. 💔 But, I’m over a certain weight. And I have a daughter already and I know how pregnancy feels, but, I think my anxiety is making me sick. I never have sore breasts during my ovulation week. Never. Last time was when I was pregnant. And one breast in particular (right side) is sore. And light cramping for some days. Starting the day after sex. Discharging fairly odd. Where it clear with a mix of like white. Bleachy smell but once it hits air, fishy smell. Nothing insane. So I know best thing is to wait. But did anyone have symptoms this early or it’s in my mind? I never been in this position before. Im in disbelief and as well just embarrassed by this whole thing. I just really need advice on anything. Im to scared to even tell my family. Im thinking be safe and go ahead and schedule with PPH. But I never had an abortion before. Im so petrified and emotionally up and down.

EDIT: Before anyone says anything about me being intimate with him, I trusted him 100%. This was the first time we had sex and his vibe was off and he was being so shifty. After we had sex he kept saying “I feel like I’ve done something unfavorable.” I never ever experienced him being this way.

Hi everyone! I’m really scared and looking for advice, so please no judgment. ❤️
I had unprotected sex Tuesday night around 11 p.m., and my partner ejaculated inside me. I absolutely do NOT want to get pregnant. I had my second C-section 16 months ago, and my delivery was traumatic. I lost a lot of blood and genuinely almost died. I cannot imagine going through another pregnancy right now.
Birth control in the past has also taken a toll on me. I’m at a higher body weight, and I’m worried I might be ovulating because of my discharge. I’ve read that Plan B and ella may be less effective at higher weights, and I’m panicking. I may not be able to get Plan B until Thursday night, but I’m trying to get ella prescribed.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? What did your doctor recommend? Should I ask about a copper IUD?

Hi everyone! I took a plan b for the first time last night and I was wondering what on earth to think in terms of ovulation because I have no idea what that would be in relation to my cycle and I’m stressed. Let me explain.

I take the Nikki off brand yaz combo pill and the most I’m ever “late” is a couple of hours (which I know is covered by it being a combo pill). My latest script was filled late so I started my pills a couple days late on my new pack by default. My withdrawal week from my previous pack started on the 16th after my last pill on the 13th and I resumed taking pills on the 20th (should have been the 18th). Anyways had unprotected sex (pulled out) now on the 24th thinking I had been covered on my next pill pack for a week (instead it was only 5 days). I didn’t come to this conclusion until last night and took a plan b around 68ish hours after the encounter. I have been taking my bc correctly since last Tuesday.

My question more so stems from is it possible to have ovulated in that time? I’m used to not from being on the pill and am unsure on how missing those two pills changed my cycle. Anyone have any similar experiences or advice?

Hi all!

So I had unprotected sex last Tuesday (7.5 days ago), both times he pulled out, the second time was 6 hours after the first. I have had quite an array of symptoms since I took plan b (1st time for me!!) and I am reading some horror stories here about insane cramping bleeding and pain months afterwards and am a little terrified.

Thursday (35-40 hrs after the first sex) I took a plan b - Postinor 2 little pills.
Friday: Cramping, severe fatigue and dissociation
Saturday: Diarrhea, severe fatigue and dissociation (started feeling very sick but sore throat maybe not related)
Sunday: Extreme hunger, Fatigued but feeling better, some back pain but nothing out of the ordinary
Monday: Extreme hunger, feeling much better, TIRED
Tuesday: Energy is coming back, very very hungry, back pain !
Wednesday: Energy is coming back, emotionally feeling slightly normal, side cramping at ovaries, lower back pain, SPOTTING bleeding brown and rust color DAY 1

Can someone share what I should expect for the rest? Will I be okay?

(Will update the rest as I go, I am worried I will bleed forever and my period will be super heavy AND SOME SORT OF ECTOPIC PREGNANCY ARISES)

Also - I think the chances of pregnancy are unlikely but I am quite an anxious person and am dating someone (not the person I slept with) (non-exclusively for now, but I think I may be ready to commit to something more serious soon - we don't live in the same country, but maybe soon). - and if anyone is curious it may have been the best ONS of my life so this stress will be worth it as long as the symptoms stay minimal.

Hello,

So, I’ll jump straight to it, we had sex with a condom on, I wasn’t that hard when i came, after i came, i pulled out and the condom got stuck, with maybe some semen dripping outside. The condom’s opening was on the outside of the lips, but worst case it was cum that got on the lips. We were concerned the next morning, so we took a plan b within 8 hrs.

She has PCOS, and the app showed it was her first day (sex happened at night, start of that day). After taking plan b, she didn’t have any symptoms, spotting etc. We are concerned, and don’t know what to expect. Please help!

So I took plan B around a month ago and I haven’t had my period and I’m terrified to take a pregnancy test any tips?🥲 Also to anyone that has taken Plan B, is it normal to feel full on the stomach as well as nausea? Pleasee help im terrified of ending pregnant

Hi, I never post on here but I genuinely need to ease my mind because I am absolutely petrified. I (18F) just started college where I met my boyfriend (18M) and we've been dating for 2 months now. I'm not on any type of birth control but we always use condoms. We did it on Oct. 10th, 21st, and 24th, using condoms on all these dates. I then got my period on Oct 21st and my last day was on the 25th. My cycle is pretty regular and usually around an estimated 28 days.

On the 27th we did it again but the condom broke and it wasn't until after he pulled out that he found a hole in the now significantly empty condom. Within 7-8 hours I took an Aftera / Plan B pill (I don’t know if brands make a difference). I feel nauseous and anxious but mostly terrified of getting pregnant which absolutely cannot happen at all costs. Please tell me what the chances are that I can get pregnant, and other precautions I can take to prevent it. This is literally my worst fear.

I also know these pills don't work when you're over a certain weight, I'm 5'8, around 135lbs/60kg. Please ease my mind. I just need to be told that there’s nothing to be worried about right now…

late period after plan b

i took a plan b (august 30th) there was no ejaculation i just took it because the condom broke and to be safe. (september)My period came on time but it was shorter than usual as well as lighter.
Some days afterwards I decided to take a pregnancy test because i was just overthinking the length of my period, and it came out as negative (this was 21+ days after last encounter so i would think it was reliable)
My period is 9 days late, 3 days in i took another pregnancy test, negative, on the one week mark of my period being late I took another one, negative as well.
I just want to know how long did it take for some of you guys?

I took Plan B exactly one week ago and the same day I had nausea, hot flashes and a panic attack. It’s been a week now and I have nausea usually at night but I have it now after lunch too. I also have hot flashes mostly at night too. How long will this last? My period is supposed to start on November 5th and obviously I’m freaking out.

Anyone experiencing prolonged spotting and bleeding after taking plan b ?

My boyfriend and I had sex, but unfortunately, the condom broke. He did not ejaculate during sex, although he had ejaculated about four hours earlier and thinks he urinated before we had sex.
During sex we saw that there was already precum in the condom. When we noticed that the condom had broken, he did not see any white fluid in my vagina, although we understand that this does not necessarily mean that no fluid entered it.

My menstrual cycle is usually around 29 days, and my period ended about six days before we had sex. According to my period-tracking app, I was approximately four days away from ovulation, although I know that the app cannot predict ovulation with complete accuracy.

Because we were worried about pregnancy, I took Plan B approximately 27 hours after sex. I understand that it works mainly by delaying ovulation and cannot guarantee that pregnancy will be prevented.

What is the likelihood that I could become pregnant in this situation?

Hello, i took plan B 2 days ago on the 13th day of my cycle, my cycle usually varies from 29 days to 33 days. I was having sx with my boyfriend and the condom broke, i took the pill 20 minutes after sex and i’ve been feeling good more than some cramps and dizziness, i’m 121 so i know im good but i have creamy white discharge to white discharge a little bit sticky, i was wondering if anyone could share their experience, my predicted ovulation date is supposed to be the 30th. PLEASE HELP

23F, So I made a naive and stupid decision this weekend by having sex without protection during my fertile window. For reference, I have a very regular cycle that lasts anywhere between 26-29 days, and my period lasts 6-7 days. I use the Flo app to track my cycle, however I have never tracked my ovulation using home tests before, so the estimates are purely from the app's algorithm.

My timeline for the month:
-- 10/10 period started
-- 10/16 period ended
-- 10/18-10/24 my predicted fertile window
-- 10/22 my predicted day of ovulation
-- 10/24 the day I had unprotected sex

First, we had sex without a condom until he finished on my stomach. He pulled out with enough time for nothing to end up inside of me at all. Then he went to the bathroom, peed, and washed himself off with soap and water and we took a break. Then we had sex a second time, except this time we put on a condom. However during the middle of it, the condom slipped off and got lost inside of me, and had to be fished out. He did not ejaculate at all the second time, so my main concern for this entire night is whether or not his precum can make me pregnant. I do believe I was still in my fertile window as I was plenty wet/had EWCM.

The morning after on 10/25, I took a plan B one step. It caused me to have some nausea and cramping but I feel completely normal since.

My main concern is whether or not I had been ovulating during the time I had sex. If I ovulated days before, and the egg had long disintegrated, then I had no risk to begin with. If I ovulated the day after having sex, then the plan B hopefully extended my ovulation long enough for any sperm inside me to die off. However, if I had sex during the 12-24 hour window of ovulation, then the plan B will not help at all and I could get pregnant.

I have no clue when I ovulated, so I'm afraid the plan B will just end up being useless. I have an appointment scheduled for tomorrow (4 days after sex) to get a copper IUD, however I'm also nervous that this too will be pointless. I'm probably done with ovulation by now as my discharge has dried up and I no longer feel horny/aroused as much, but that's just my guess.

I'm just so afraid that even after I go through the pain and potentially traumatic experience of getting the copper IUD that it will still be for nothing because my egg may have already been fertilized. Everything I've read online states that the copper IUD is not necessarily proven to prevent implantation, and that its main function is preventing fertilization. What if I'm already past that point?

I am completely torn apart over this and could use anyone's thoughts or guidance. I know that he never ejaculated in me at all, so my risk lies in whether or not his precum contained any sperm, so that hopefully helps my case. And I know I made such a stupid mistake that I never will again, but I need to know whether it will really be worth it to get this procedure tomorrow. I'm so afraid it's too late. Anyone with a similar experience that can share?

is my gf pregnant?

we had sex last oct 16. she drink pills (lady) and continuous drinking. her first drink is 4th of october which is also her first period. that day, i havent made into climax, which is also fetile week, but today my gf said she has a brown or dark discharge. is my gf pregnant?

so me and my bf have been having sex, and we'll do stuff for a bit without a condom and then he'll put one on and we'll continue. yes ik there's still a risk and sometimes I'm not perfect about my pills (if I miss one I'll take both the next day) should I be worried? thinking about taking a test tonight just to feel safe for a bit. and take a plan b after yesterday

Hi everyone, im 19F I’m crying right now and have never been so scared please help

My last period started on October 17 and my cycles are usually around 28–31 days. Then, today (27) the condom broke and he finished inside me, which has sent me into an absolute panic I feel so so uncertain
I went straight to the pharmacy and took NorLevo about 2 hours after it happened. I’m around cycle day 11 and my Flo app predicts I’ll ovulate on October 30, so I’m absolutely terrified that I’m too close to ovulation for the pill to work. I asked the pharmacist for EllaOne because I’d read it’s better closer to ovulation, but they told me NorLevo was fine?
I’ve genuinely been crying all afternoon and feel sick with anxiety. Idk how to calm down I’ve never been through this before.Please be kind, I’m already really scared and just looking for some honest advice or experiences.

Всім привіт, в нас був не захищений секс, все було чудово, но коли був вже третій заход я не встиг витягнути, я заспокоював себе тим що я до цього за два дня випив 1.1 літр водки, ще й утром 100 грам, і це должно було зменшити активність спермодозоїдів. Также в неї пройшла овуляція пару днів назад, цикл був стабільним, і їй залишалось почекати 10 днів до місячних. Но так як це був вечір і аптеки всі закрились, таблетки від екстреної контрацепції вона випила спустя тільки 13 часов 40 хв. Вже як 3 день жду та чекаю її місячні. Чи були у вас або ваших знайомі поході історії і що ви робили?

Long story short I let my boyfriend cum inside 😭😭 i’m 19 and not on birth control so it was literally the dumbest mistake ever. I had it within 12 hours after on sunday and it’s now tuesday. I have been in so much pain since then. Insane stomach cramps and nausea, i called in sick for work monday and today but i have to go into work tomorrow because i have no sick leave to use now. How long will i feel like this for? I’ve been so anxious since it all happened and my boyfriend has apologised profusely even though i told him to do it but i just keep on getting upset at him because i just feel like a mess. I’ve read posts on here that people have broken up because of this and that the pill affects them for months afterwards. I didn’t do much research on it before it happened and then when i did i was so upset with myself. I’m so worried it won’t work and im really regretting the whole thing.

I feel like I’m going crazy. My story is in the last post. I have unprotected penetration for a few strokes and panicked. Took a plan b. This was sept 25. Plane taken 12 hours later. I had what I think is withdrawal bleeding 4 days after taking the medication. I have taken a total of 5 at home pregnancy test due to symptoms of tender breasts, colics, decreased appetite and emotional… the 5th test taken today (30 days past the plan b) it was morning urine and it was negative. No period yet.

I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend broke up with me. I took plan b in late March and ever since that I changed. Before I took that I was always a happy motivated person, I loved myself I was happy with who I was. And ever since I took the pill I had the worst side affects. For about 2 months out of nowhere I was insecure about his past rls. And every night I’d accuse him of things with her and I don’t even know why. Because before I took it I seriously did not care about her. I started being mean to him and I started being interested in partying but I never actually acted on it. I was so severely depressed that I took things like that kind of nightlife lifestyle as a mask as to what would make me feel better and I have no idea why. I don’t know what happened to me because before that I did not care whatsoever about that kind of life I was actually really Christian and against it. I don’t know if I lost myself and started holding on to things to hide that I truly was lost and depressed. Because it happened again and I know I fucked up badly. I texted my cousin after my bf threatened to break up when I was sicidal because he was overwhelmed and I had to go into work crying it was a whole mess and I always resented him for that it was about a month ago and ever since I would not believe him when he said he’d changed he started getting distant and I stopped caring, I stopped asking for communication for him to go back to loving me like he used to I just stayed silent for a month. And that ruined me. I sound really selfish I don’t know I’m also only 17. So why were broken up is because he went through my phone and in the text with my cousin it said how I was making a plan with a guy to hang out. And that looks terrible I know, but the real situation was really dumb and I don’t know if it’s a mental issue or the plan b effects but what happened was we were talking at work and he brought up Roblox and him and my bf are type t1d, and this is important for later. So I was like really and we wanted to play Roblox together and I said he should play with my bf sometime because my bf has no diabetic friends and I wanted him to meet him and stuff. And I tried explaining that to my bf but he doesn’t want to believe me and I understand why. He believes I cheated but my point was when I get depressed since plan b I have like a brain shift and it’s like to deal with the pain I put up I either want to attempt like v*pe or something to help it or in that moment I thought pretending to my cousin that like I’m the shit or something that I’m doing good and had options like her would make something better I don’t even know I can’t explain it I just hate myself so much and now we’re done and I get why but I truly loved him and I’m
Not asking for sympathy but I’m asking if plan b really ruined me as a person because ever since it I’ve been depressed, unmotivated, bad thoughts constantly and it was from March so I have no idea. I’m willing to fix myself if it’s getting on pills therapy I don’t know but I just want him. I hate that I said something stupid and not the entire story I over exaggerated it for no reason.

so hi some context im 19F weighing around 125-130 pounds and i lost my virginity this last friday while i was on my period. my period ended yesterday and well today we were engaging in intercourse and after he finished he realized that the condom had broke. as soon as that happened we ran 2 walgreens and i took a plan b and ive just been freaking the freak out because i really cannot get pregnant. my flo app says i ovulate in 8 days and its been pretty accurate because i keep track of my period consistently so im honestly just scared. i also live in texas so there’s also that. i’ve read that plan b doesn’t work at times so im just really asking for advice and anyone’s experience with taking it.

i’ve been trying not to think about it but all i end up doing is cry LMFAOAO. i understand it’s my fault because i decided to have sex and i don’t know why i did it. i just dont know what to do

Okay so this is not my first time on the Ellaone pill I’m 168lbs . It been a time where I took it late on day 5… all I got to say Ella always worked even when I’m ovulating each every time … I end up having intercourse on the Sep 21st like around 12am so late at night. I didn’t know I was ovulating that day on the 21st. The Ella pill was literally out of stock in all CVS pharmacy locations in my area I literally had to wait till Monday to get it which is today the 26th. So I take it today I know I’m definitely out 120 hour window to take it (day 6) I’m calmly panicking… I used to be on the Nuvaring which I’m considering getting back on. I got off it because I was bleeding for a month. Anybody been in the same boat

Hii I’m sorry if someone else already responded these but I’m truly freaking out because I don’t know what to do

Me and my boyfriend had protected sex today at like 2 am , he came inside but when he pulled out he noticed the condom stayed inside of me (we took it out of course) I checked on my health app on my phone and apparently my fertile window ended yesterday, which we never know if it’s accurate to showing the right times of ovulating or anything but I still took a plan B like at 4 am (around an hour or two after the intercourse ) but I don’t know what to do, are there chances I could get pregnant? I also am just very scared of also having to get the copper method but as well of the waiting game… I would appreciate some help or if someone has been in this situation :(