r/McMaster • u/Impossible-Low-952 • 13d ago
Other I’m actually so lonely
idk I yearn for a relationship and honestly I’m just too boring it’s that simple. 21 years and not once have I been in a relationship i actually go home almost every night and cry and I’m sick of it. goodnight.
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u/SubtIeDeception 13d ago
Join the McMaster Climbing Club. Great group of guys and you’ll meet a lot of new people. Gotta start somewhere
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u/tequilalikescheese 13d ago edited 13d ago
honestly as someone that’s been in relationships, one was abusive and the other was just a creep. i promise you, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. and dating is hard, so fucking hard!!it will come to you eventually, patience is key
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u/DyeCyde 12d ago
Don’t live your life around the possibility of someone else fixing it.
Instead of going home to wallow, find something, you can’t even really support a relationship until you can be contempt with who you are without one.
Get a hobby, something artistic helps, music or painting. Find something to fill the void, then and only then will you be ready to welcome someone else into your life.
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u/SuccessSweaty3131 12d ago
Dating is important as it helps you learn about yourself even if things don’t work out.
If you’re having a hard time, you’re not the only one.
Practice gratitude, be friendly and outgoing, have boundaries and principles. Simply live and enjoy your life and the right person will come along your way.
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u/Legitimate-Trifle816 12d ago
this is the realest thing I’ve seen cause same. Prob doesn’t help that I’m on Reddit😭😭
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u/Capable-Ad-5183 12d ago
Honestly pick up a hobby. Something you actually enjoy and something that is social rather than something you do alone.
Usually those are always a great way to meet people in a more organic setting and could lead to relationships
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u/Electronic-Soup6028 8d ago
Go watch some youth campus romantic anime, trust me this is a good medicine. It can effectively cure your current loneliness.😊
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u/PhilosophyFormal7404 9d ago
Me too bro, 22m just got out of a long ass shitty relationship I lost all my friends over the years and life’s just blank text me I got you I wanna know more about you and maybe we can solve our issues together
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u/strawberryl0vr 12d ago
the best relationships are formed when you aren’t looking for it. try to find more activities or hobbies you can immerse yourself into and I promise you will meet people along the way
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u/Prudent_Ladder1774 11d ago
most privileged take ever
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u/TheAnonScroller17 11d ago
How the fuck is that privileged? 😂😂 even if this person had mental health issues. Guess what. A therapist would make attempts at having this person go through exposure therapy little by little as well as work out the issues.
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u/Prudent_Ladder1774 11d ago
did we read the same post? god forbid young adults want relationships
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u/TheAnonScroller17 11d ago
Yeah and how do you do that? By staying inside doing nothing? Lol. The more things you do the more people you meet the more people that are possibilities.
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u/wrgwrgkefgssehivsr 12d ago
Learn yourself! Be comfortable being single, make friends, do interesting things, fill your life with friendships and the right person who adds to your life will come
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u/ihearditsabird 13d ago
Honestly dude (or gal) I don't even date in university. I'm tryna get into grad school, and also I'm part of a few clubs and tryna have a better social life and I think I wouldn't really have the time for dating and/or it would just distract from everything else.