Posting for the third time now bcuz I didn't get a single DM from a gay man last time. Straight men DMed me lying about being gay. I'm 21F from Karachi, facing abuse and intense marriage pressure. I need to find someone asap until they find someone themselves. I don't want to marry anyone genuinely and I don't want a relationship either, so I couldn't find any straight man who can help me without any such expectations.
I'm looking for a gay man(I want a sexless marriage) who can do nikkah with me in a masjid. There will be no functions or photos, he just has to act islamic and look committed. We can do online nikkah if you live in another country.
Not much family involvement needed, as after nikah I'll tell my family not to visit your parents, and you don't have to give their phone numbers to them either. Also great if you're from another city so they won't visit your parents, and you can make your parents talk from your phone.
I really don't have any other option. My family won't let me go without marriage. They will cause a huge scene wherever I go and blame my mother. Her life is already hell.
But if I'm married and my husband allows it, they won't be able to do anything. I can live in a hostel after nikkah.
They're making it intolerable for me to live with them to pressure me into marriage. I face physical abuse too.
If you know anyone who can help me, please connect me with him.
Any age, even 40.
I'll not be a financial burden on him; I'm trying to manage money for this. And I'll work after marriage.
Divorce in a few years.
I can explain everything to you step by step, how this is gonna work easily, and you won't even have to pressure my family. I couldn't find a single straight guy willing to marry without wanting a forever commitment or something sexual even after knowing my situation. And even if there are genuine people out there, I think they just avoid it cz I'm a complete stranger. Maybe they're hesitant bcuz they think it'll be too hard or cause drama, but my family will never do anything to my "husband". I don't have any male friends who can help me in this.