r/LGBTQpakistan • • 15h ago

Uni Is Wierd!

6 Upvotes

Hie so basically i shifted to Islamabad from a not very developed city (developed as in the mindsets of people)
for context im a male but ig i have a androgynous face and i like wearing accessories and secondly im doing an art major so my uni can be really weird sometimes the people there are hella judgemental i cant even roam around in peace i can feel the stares i hear the whispers its annoying no that im affected by it but still it is even tho i love my dpt and the people there as being art students they don’t judge much actually they are really cool and my class has a ratio of 95% girls and 5% guys so what do u expect obv ill roam w girls and even if i do how does it bother others in any way coming to isb i thought i might enjoy the people might be different but ig no khair i luv my frnds and my dpt to hell with the ppl 😻😻😻


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 8h ago

Another Failed Situationship

5 Upvotes

Fuck man I am so done with all this dating and relationship shit. I was talking to someone for 4 months and met 4 times (we were long distance) and after months they still weren’t ready to commit. I don’t know why I keep craving having a genuine honest life partner. I literally wanna find someone with whom I can do small things like going for walk or ordering pizza randomly 3am, watch a horror movie, go for long drive, travel together so I can rest my head on their shoulder when I feel tired…. To have someone who can hold my hand and tell me it’s gonna be okay when I am worried…But every single person I have ever dated literally has commitment issues. I am so done with everything! I wish I could live my life without needing someone but I can’t. I really wanna have someone with whom I can spend the rest of my life with. Is it too much to ask? I live in USA and it still is so freaking tough. I am so done with everything!


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 9h ago

Looking for long-term

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 👋🏻

I’m a 25M gay from Lahore, a doctor by profession, currently preparing for USMLE Step 2. I’m here hoping to find someone genuine for a long-term relationship built on trust, mutual respect, emotional maturity, and good communication.

It would be a bonus if you’re also in the USMLE journey or from a medical background, because sharing similar goals and understanding each other’s struggles can make the journey a little easier. But honestly, being a decent, kind-hearted, and genuine person matters more than anything else.

A little about me: I look more younger then my age ,I enjoy cooking (and would love to cook for someone special someday 😄), playing cricket, hiking, and having long conversations about literally anything and everything. I’m someone who appreciates the little things, meaningful connections, late-night talks, comfortable silence, and the kind of bond where you can be completely yourself without pretending to be someone else.

I believe the best relationships are built on friendship first, where two people support each other’s dreams, celebrate small wins, and make even ordinary days feel special. ❤️

If you’re looking for something genuine rather than something temporary, and feel we might vibe, feel free to approach. Let’s start with a good conversation and see where it goes. 😊


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 11h ago

Kinda depress right now,

5 Upvotes

Hey guys i am 24 f lesbian,
I actually have an habbit of self harming, i am feeling very heavy right now, so just posting here to distract myself , if it works, is anyone up to have chat normal, not men or gay, but
Ig yes,,, i don’t know i am just writing…. Feeling so heavy right now


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 13h ago

I need help picking gifts for my closeted nonbinary cousin

5 Upvotes

Ok so for context i found out my cousin was nonbinary last week and its their birthday in 3 days. My cousin wants to express themselves in a "feminine" way but they can't because they're amab and their family is pretty strict about stuff like this. I was previously thinking clear nail polish but idkkk i need ideas also i am Lowknuinely broke sooo diy recommends help!


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 9h ago

Where are all the Pakistani gay men? Posting for the third time now

3 Upvotes

Posting for the third time now bcuz I didn't get a single DM from a gay man last time. Straight men DMed me lying about being gay. I'm 21F from Karachi, facing abuse and intense marriage pressure. I need to find someone asap until they find someone themselves. I don't want to marry anyone genuinely and I don't want a relationship either, so I couldn't find any straight man who can help me without any such expectations.

I'm looking for a gay man(I want a sexless marriage) who can do nikkah with me in a masjid. There will be no functions or photos, he just has to act islamic and look committed. We can do online nikkah if you live in another country.

Not much family involvement needed, as after nikah I'll tell my family not to visit your parents, and you don't have to give their phone numbers to them either. Also great if you're from another city so they won't visit your parents, and you can make your parents talk from your phone.

I really don't have any other option. My family won't let me go without marriage. They will cause a huge scene wherever I go and blame my mother. Her life is already hell.

But if I'm married and my husband allows it, they won't be able to do anything. I can live in a hostel after nikkah.

They're making it intolerable for me to live with them to pressure me into marriage. I face physical abuse too.

If you know anyone who can help me, please connect me with him.

Any age, even 40.

I'll not be a financial burden on him; I'm trying to manage money for this. And I'll work after marriage.

Divorce in a few years.

I can explain everything to you step by step, how this is gonna work easily, and you won't even have to pressure my family. I couldn't find a single straight guy willing to marry without wanting a forever commitment or something sexual even after knowing my situation. And even if there are genuine people out there, I think they just avoid it cz I'm a complete stranger. Maybe they're hesitant bcuz they think it'll be too hard or cause drama, but my family will never do anything to my "husband". I don't have any male friends who can help me in this.


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 14h ago

25m living in UK looking for long term relationship (long distance)

3 Upvotes

Hello,

I am a 25 year old male that lives near London.

I was born in the UK and i am currently working.

I am looking for a long term relationship that will have to be long distance with someone loyal and trust worthy in Pakistan.

I travel to Pakistan yearly, but i have not been to Pakistan in the last 2 years, because of personal problems.

I would like to meet and talk online.. see where it goes.

I am Pakistani.

Message me if interested, but only if you are serious. If you are from the UK then also message. I just want a relationship in general, so why not…

Thank you.


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 17h ago

Share something good that happened to you recently

3 Upvotes

Life's been really weird and i dont want to be depressed so feel free to share something good about your day, hopefully it'll cheer me up.


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 17h ago

Anyone watched Dorothy on Netflix?

3 Upvotes

Such a beautiful film

Y'll should watch it


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 20h ago

Long term relationship not hookup

3 Upvotes

Hey I am 19M verse from Khi

Looking for a long term thing not js casual hookups

I am a student and I prefer educated, mature and sensible guys

I am a masculine guy and i prefer masc gay guys only not feminine

Hmu in dms if makes sense and you fit the description😭 hookup thing stay away

Sc noor.m6366 (Say that u are from reddit)


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 18h ago

Has it worked for anyone?

2 Upvotes

I see a lot of posts here about seeking a relationship, friendship or hang outs.. etc. just curious, has it ever worked out for anyone here and if yes, how did it go and also please share if things went south..


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 16h ago

Advice

1 Upvotes

How to find someone for a good relationship? I'm bi-asexual simply a gay without sexual thoughts or feelings... All of them i ever met r just shitty slaves of their sexual desire.