r/LGBTQpakistan • • 11h ago

Looking for long-term

7 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 👋🏻

I’m a 25M gay from Lahore, a doctor by profession, currently preparing for USMLE Step 2. I’m here hoping to find someone genuine for a long-term relationship built on trust, mutual respect, emotional maturity, and good communication.

It would be a bonus if you’re also in the USMLE journey or from a medical background, because sharing similar goals and understanding each other’s struggles can make the journey a little easier. But honestly, being a decent, kind-hearted, and genuine person matters more than anything else.

A little about me: I look more younger then my age ,I enjoy cooking (and would love to cook for someone special someday 😄), playing cricket, hiking, and having long conversations about literally anything and everything. I’m someone who appreciates the little things, meaningful connections, late-night talks, comfortable silence, and the kind of bond where you can be completely yourself without pretending to be someone else.

I believe the best relationships are built on friendship first, where two people support each other’s dreams, celebrate small wins, and make even ordinary days feel special. ❤️

If you’re looking for something genuine rather than something temporary, and feel we might vibe, feel free to approach. Let’s start with a good conversation and see where it goes. 😊


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 10h ago

Another Failed Situationship

5 Upvotes

Fuck man I am so done with all this dating and relationship shit. I was talking to someone for 4 months and met 4 times (we were long distance) and after months they still weren’t ready to commit. I don’t know why I keep craving having a genuine honest life partner. I literally wanna find someone with whom I can do small things like going for walk or ordering pizza randomly 3am, watch a horror movie, go for long drive, travel together so I can rest my head on their shoulder when I feel tired…. To have someone who can hold my hand and tell me it’s gonna be okay when I am worried…But every single person I have ever dated literally has commitment issues. I am so done with everything! I wish I could live my life without needing someone but I can’t. I really wanna have someone with whom I can spend the rest of my life with. Is it too much to ask? I live in USA and it still is so freaking tough. I am so done with everything!


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 10h ago

Where are all the Pakistani gay men? Posting for the third time now

3 Upvotes

Posting for the third time now bcuz I didn't get a single DM from a gay man last time. Straight men DMed me lying about being gay. I'm 21F from Karachi, facing abuse and intense marriage pressure. I need to find someone asap until they find someone themselves. I don't want to marry anyone genuinely and I don't want a relationship either, so I couldn't find any straight man who can help me without any such expectations.

I'm looking for a gay man(I want a sexless marriage) who can do nikkah with me in a masjid. There will be no functions or photos, he just has to act islamic and look committed. We can do online nikkah if you live in another country.

Not much family involvement needed, as after nikah I'll tell my family not to visit your parents, and you don't have to give their phone numbers to them either. Also great if you're from another city so they won't visit your parents, and you can make your parents talk from your phone.

I really don't have any other option. My family won't let me go without marriage. They will cause a huge scene wherever I go and blame my mother. Her life is already hell.

But if I'm married and my husband allows it, they won't be able to do anything. I can live in a hostel after nikkah.

They're making it intolerable for me to live with them to pressure me into marriage. I face physical abuse too.

If you know anyone who can help me, please connect me with him.

Any age, even 40.

I'll not be a financial burden on him; I'm trying to manage money for this. And I'll work after marriage.

Divorce in a few years.

I can explain everything to you step by step, how this is gonna work easily, and you won't even have to pressure my family. I couldn't find a single straight guy willing to marry without wanting a forever commitment or something sexual even after knowing my situation. And even if there are genuine people out there, I think they just avoid it cz I'm a complete stranger. Maybe they're hesitant bcuz they think it'll be too hard or cause drama, but my family will never do anything to my "husband". I don't have any male friends who can help me in this.


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 15h ago

I need help picking gifts for my closeted nonbinary cousin

5 Upvotes

Ok so for context i found out my cousin was nonbinary last week and its their birthday in 3 days. My cousin wants to express themselves in a "feminine" way but they can't because they're amab and their family is pretty strict about stuff like this. I was previously thinking clear nail polish but idkkk i need ideas also i am Lowknuinely broke sooo diy recommends help!


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 17h ago

Uni Is Wierd!

6 Upvotes

Hie so basically i shifted to Islamabad from a not very developed city (developed as in the mindsets of people)
for context im a male but ig i have a androgynous face and i like wearing accessories and secondly im doing an art major so my uni can be really weird sometimes the people there are hella judgemental i cant even roam around in peace i can feel the stares i hear the whispers its annoying no that im affected by it but still it is even tho i love my dpt and the people there as being art students they don’t judge much actually they are really cool and my class has a ratio of 95% girls and 5% guys so what do u expect obv ill roam w girls and even if i do how does it bother others in any way coming to isb i thought i might enjoy the people might be different but ig no khair i luv my frnds and my dpt to hell with the ppl 😻😻😻


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 19h ago

Share something good that happened to you recently

5 Upvotes

Life's been really weird and i dont want to be depressed so feel free to share something good about your day, hopefully it'll cheer me up.


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 16h ago

25m living in UK looking for long term relationship (long distance)

3 Upvotes

Hello,

I am a 25 year old male that lives near London.

I was born in the UK and i am currently working.

I am looking for a long term relationship that will have to be long distance with someone loyal and trust worthy in Pakistan.

I travel to Pakistan yearly, but i have not been to Pakistan in the last 2 years, because of personal problems.

I would like to meet and talk online.. see where it goes.

I am Pakistani.

Message me if interested, but only if you are serious. If you are from the UK then also message. I just want a relationship in general, so why not…

Thank you.


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 19h ago

Anyone watched Dorothy on Netflix?

3 Upvotes

Such a beautiful film

Y'll should watch it


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 1d ago

36 and gay, finally thinking of coming out. Should I??

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30 Upvotes

r/LGBTQpakistan • • 20h ago

Has it worked for anyone?

3 Upvotes

I see a lot of posts here about seeking a relationship, friendship or hang outs.. etc. just curious, has it ever worked out for anyone here and if yes, how did it go and also please share if things went south..


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 22h ago

Long term relationship not hookup

3 Upvotes

Hey I am 19M verse from Khi

Looking for a long term thing not js casual hookups

I am a student and I prefer educated, mature and sensible guys

I am a masculine guy and i prefer masc gay guys only not feminine

Hmu in dms if makes sense and you fit the description😭 hookup thing stay away

Sc noor.m6366 (Say that u are from reddit)


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 17h ago

Advice

1 Upvotes

How to find someone for a good relationship? I'm bi-asexual simply a gay without sexual thoughts or feelings... All of them i ever met r just shitty slaves of their sexual desire.


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 1d ago

20 [m4m] islamabad/lahore - looking for a long-term relationship

6 Upvotes

hey everyone!

i’m a 20-year-old sales development representative based in islamabad, often in lahore. i’m into café hopping, fine dining, indie films, photography, astrology, true crime, reality tv, house parties, and the occasional smoke or drink. 420-friendly.

i’m 6’3”, fuzzy, stocky with a cub build, a feminine-leaning voice, and masculine style. verse-leaning, but open to exploring bottoming.

i’m looking for someone warm, honest, affectionate, and emotionally available, with the intention of building a long-term relationship. communication, trust, physical touch, and mutual effort matter a lot to me.

i’m looking to connect with guys based in islamabad or lahore, and would love to meet in person if we click.

if you’re looking for something genuine too, hit me up and let’s see where it goes.

snapchat: @tipsylogic


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 1d ago

Koi naam na do

3 Upvotes

Anyone here watching or watched koi naam na do. An indian bl series on YouTube. It has 2 seasons. Please no spoilers. I loved it so much


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 2d ago

New to the community dont know anything

7 Upvotes

Am i even anything mind you highly religious but being around so many people mase me question my self ????
What us this


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 2d ago

INSTA GC FOR QUEER PEOPLE🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

4 Upvotes

🏳️‍🌈💋 ATTENTION QUEERS, THIS ONE’S FOR *YOU 💋🏳️‍🌈
hii gaysss 😭🫶🏻
making a queer gc for people who wanna make new friends, yap about literally anything, share memes, spill tea, and just exist without having to explain themselves all the time.
if you’re gay, bi, pan, questioning, or anywhere under the rainbow, you’re welcome here. 🌈
the vibe is chill, a little chaotic, lots of yapping, random late-night conversations, and hopefully making some genuine friendships along the way.
no pressure to be cool, no need to have a whole personality prepared, just be yourself lmao 😭
if that sounds like your kind of thing, come join usss 💋🖤
🔗 *
GC LINK BELOW — SEE YOU THERE!!
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r/LGBTQpakistan • • 3d ago

Finally got to take a vacation with my boyfriend for first time! ❤️🥰

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20 Upvotes

r/LGBTQpakistan • • 2d ago

Looking For Friends

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone i am 17 from Lhr doing A levels , i am looking forward to make some friends , especially nothing sexual or a hookup just some actual people who i can talk to about anything and maybe in the future be irl friends. Under 20 dms are open 😝🫶✌️


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 2d ago

m20 looking for a long term r/s

2 Upvotes

hi :) I’m from Karachi . gay guys from Karachi can hit me up if they are looking for a long term relationship.byebye


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 2d ago

need advice or guidance

3 Upvotes

hiiii! this post is for the girlies. I'm a sissy crossdresser and I have my birthday coming up next month. I'm planning on doing something wild and i need help with where could i get amazing party dresses/lingerie or women shoes but in larger sizes since i have big feet. And also, make up. i suck at it and could use any kind of assistance sith regard to it. I'm open to in person stores as ordering online at home seems to be difficult for me. I'm from Karachi.

Any kind of help would be great, Thanks!


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 3d ago

who up watching movies 🔥

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11 Upvotes

binge watched 3 movies in one sitting letsss gooo. guess what two movies i watched before this


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 3d ago

Does this sub have ppl above 40?

7 Upvotes

Just curious and wanted to know if this sub has active people who are above 40? And wanted to know what brought them here


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 3d ago

Long term relationship? Hit me up for sure!

8 Upvotes

Hello!

I’m Age: 20 (B) from Islamabad and new to all of this and I’m genuinely interested in finding a real, meaningful relationship. If you’re open to getting to know someone and seeing where things go, feel free to reach out. Let’s have a conversation and see how it develops.
Thank you :)


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 3d ago

Is my boyfriend right?

7 Upvotes

My boyfriend has went on Business trip, and im alone in city, im transgender I have office colleagues but I have no social circle, and on weekend im so bored and alone, today I went alone to some coffee shop when I told my boyfriend he got angry he always tell me not to travel alone in Islamabad its not safe, he keep telling not to go alone outside someone might harass you or harm you but I think so, I told him girls always travel and eat alone and enjoy in Islamabad but keep telling its a different story you might get hurt. What you all think is right? That I dont travel anywhere alone?


r/LGBTQpakistan • • 4d ago

People think asking if you are a bottom or a top is equivalent of asking your name lmfao

24 Upvotes

What a weird ass culture our community has developed. How are ya!? So are you a top or a bottom? I am like tf are you on.