r/LADating • • 10h ago

Green Flag 5'5 175 lb brown man seeking wealthy woman

29 Upvotes

Please see the tile. I am short, brown, hairy but have a winning personality. I am seeking a woman who will fund my lifestyle of travel and leisure in exchange for companionship and occasional 30 seconds of fun.

I occasionally work out. I like to sit for long periods of time. I enjoy watching Netflix. I cna cook but you will have to clean.

I dela with conflict via shutting down, avoiding and silent treatment. Seeing as you are wealthy and funding my lifestyle i will transform myself to appease and avoid conflict.

I cannot guarantee the 30 seconds or the fun.

Thanks in advance.


r/LADating • • 32m ago

Question plans for Halloween weekend

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does anybody want to make plans with me for Halloween weekend? we can go out drinking bar, hopping, clubbing, hookup parties, whatever you're down for I just need. I just want to do something for Halloween. I'm a male 29. I live in LA La on the east side by East LA Boyd heights and I am available I can drive. I'll pay for us to go and go into the bar or work. like I said even hook up for the Halloween weekend. whatever you guys are down for I'm also game I just want to do something.


r/LADating • • 9h ago

First Date 33mf4 looking for a date next week if you’re interested. I got an extra ticket to see Alanis Morissette at the YouTube theater on November 5th.

5 Upvotes

so as title says above. if you’re down to hit up YouTube theater next week dm me:) little about me, im a single dad to 11yo girl. im 6ft hisp but my spanish is barley functioning. I’m average body, go to the gym and run daily, more of an introvert but been going out a lot more often lately with people off la socials subreddits so that’s been cool. I’m past character limit now so yea if interested dm me and we can chat a bit and see what happens…


r/LADating • • 2h ago

Advice 25 f

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3 Upvotes

Wishing I had 420 friendly friends who could show me parts of Los Angeles I didn’t know existed. I love smoking and working out!!! 🏋️


r/LADating • • 15h ago

First Date 32 [M4F] - Long-term Relationship

7 Upvotes

There is a kind of quiet I have grown used to. It has been faithful company, and most days I am genuinely content on my own.

But, personally and based on life experiences, there is a difference between being comfortable alone and being at peace with the idea of never being truly known by someone.

I made a post here few weeks ago, but it didn't fetch me the gift I desired.

Lately, that feeling has grown quieter, and I have stopped arguing with the part of me that wants to share a life with someone.

I am already 32 years of age, 5"11 tall, more of African than American with no relationship history.

I do not say that with regret or embarrassment. It is simply the truth of how I have lived. I waited because I have always believed that giving a woman your heart should mean something. If I ever do, I want to do it fully, not out of curiosity or loneliness, but with the intention to build something lasting. I do not smoke, do not womanize and do not drink.

I was raised in a home that took character seriously, and I still carry those lessons with me.

Kindness, self control, honesty, and responsibility have never felt optional. Life has generally taught me how to listen, remain steady when things are difficult, and keep going when life asks more of me. I have also learned to understand that the past cannot be fixed because it's the past, hence the need to work on the future. I am also finishing my nursing degree because I want a life built around both purpose and family, and as well be responsible for the welfare of the family.

I am quiet by nature and find most of what I need in stillness, meaningful work, and a sense of purpose. I do not need constant excitement to feel alive, and I have come to value peace more than that chemistry that burns brightly and disappears just as quickly.

What I want is simple, even if I know it is rare. I want a woman who is genuine and steady, feminine without needing to perform it, ambitious without being restless, and clear about what she believes.

Someone who values marriage not just as an idea, but as a commitment worth protecting.

I picture a marriage that feels like shelter, a place where two people can tell each other the truth without fear, pray together, build a life together, and raise children who know what steady love looks like. I believe peace does not mean a life without difficulty. It means choosing kindness and understanding even when things are difficult.

I want the kind of love where we repair what is broken rather than walking away when things become uncomfortable, and where we wake up the next morning and choose each other again.

I do not expect perfection. I want a love that sees beyond verbal demonstration, but in practicality and expression. A love that sees beyond race, color, status but a love that's aligned with goals, purpose, foresight, believing that there's a future and hope.

I am looking for someone who is willing to understand, grow together, and remain committed when love requires patience. I am very pure in heart, soft in kindness.

If that sounds like the kind of life you are hoping for too, I would like to meet you.


r/LADating • • 10h ago

First Date 26 [M4F] #Inglewood / #SouthBay – Looking for a chill, low-pressure FWB

2 Upvotes

Hey! 26-year-old Asian guy based in Inglewood, looking to connect with a down-to-earth woman for a clean, respectful, and stress-free friends-with-benefits setup.

About me:
* Location: Inglewood (open to meeting nearby in the South Bay, Westside, or Central LA).
* Vibe: Clean, easygoing, respectful of boundaries, and values good communication.
* Interests: Into fitness, trying out good local spots, and keeping things low-pressure.

What I'm looking for:
* A reliable, like-minded woman interested in mutual chemistry without relationship pressure.
* Good hygiene, clear boundaries, and honest communication are musts.
* Down to grab a quick coffee or drink first to make sure we both feel comfortable and check the vibe.

Send a DM or chat if you're interested!


r/LADating • • 17h ago

Event Intentional Singles Mixer Ages 30+ Long Beach November 13th!

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Hope to see you there :)


r/LADating • • 2h ago

Advice 25 f

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Wishing I had 420 friendly friends who could show me parts of Los Angeles I didn’t know existed. I love smoking and working out!!! 🏋️


r/LADating • • 14h ago

First Date 23 [m4f] need someone cool to hang and go out with

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I'm 23 South Asian American and moved to LA beginning of the year for work. I want to explore, go places, and do things with someone. 420 friendly, good weed is probably the main pro to dating me, after that I'm kinda just shy. Don't know what to do with myself outside of work so I'm hoping I can find someone cool to hang out with and show me around.


r/LADating • • 1d ago

Discussion 29m [M4A] / [M4R] Looking for platonic friends

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I'm looking to meet with locals and chat over coffee or tea and see if we're good potential friends, I live in Little Tokyo so I would prefer to meet there. Please be safe, sane, clean and most important platonically minded. If we do match well I'm open to dating but I'm mostly looking for friends.


r/LADating • • 1d ago

First Date 39[M4F] LA dating - no games

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7 Upvotes

I am from Ukraine, I live in Los Angeles, and I am looking for a serious relationship.


r/LADating • • 1d ago

Question M 32 looking for Long-term

1 Upvotes

I’m a 32-year-old adventurous guy in Los Angeles looking for a woman who loves having fun, trying new things, and making unforgettable memories. I’m into photography, gaming, comics, concerts, and exploring new places. I’m hoping to meet someone with a great personality, a playful side, and a spark that could turn into something special. Look forward to hearing from you


r/LADating • • 22h ago

Discussion M 19- College student bored at work so I’m making this post feeling for shuts and giggles lowkey

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Anyways I’m college student and currently single (duh) I go to a pretty good college in LA and am not really expecting anything from this post. I’m just tryna cure my boredom a little bit. If you are serious and respond to this I’m definitely open to seeing where things go tho lol. About me a little more, I like board games, going out, a bit of arts and crafts, exploring parts of LA and just having a good time.


r/LADating • • 1d ago

Breakup 24[M4F]#West LA - Recently broken up. Need to hookup and looking for a mutual short term fun. Any girl in the same boat?

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Hey, so I recently broke up and want to feel good and have some fun. Strictly, short term and no strings attached. We can chat a bit to get more comfortable and discuss preferences. We can also grab food just to meet up once before we do anything.

I am 6ft tall, slim built, clean and easy to talk to. I can host or book a hotel. Hmu if you are down. Please be 18+.


r/LADating • • 2d ago

Question 38F — Where are people actually meeting someone in LA?

99 Upvotes

I'm 38F, educated, ambitious, have a good career, pretty attractive (at least I'd like to think so lol), and overall have a pretty good life. But seriously, where are people finding love these days?

I'm at a point where I genuinely want a relationship. Someone to enjoy life with, grow with, and just do life together. I don't think that's asking for too much, but dating nowadays feels exhausting.

I haven't been on dating apps in a while, and I'm wondering if that's still how people are meeting. Do people even approach each other in person anymore? Lol.

For those of you in your 30s and 40s, how's dating in LA been for you? Are the apps worth trying again? Where are you all meeting people?

Just a girl trying to figure out where the hell everyone is. 😂


r/LADating • • 2d ago

Advice 37M New to LA, how to date in your late 30’s?

9 Upvotes

So I’m new here. Basically staring a whole new life after accepting a job here. I’m originally from TX and dating was ok, but everyone knew each other so I never really could commit to the options available to me. Now it seems that I am overwhelmed by the choices but don’t really know where to start. I’m hoping to get out this weekend. Looking for women around my age or older. Where should I go? I’m in the Redondo Beach area.


r/LADating • • 2d ago

First Date 33yM4F Culver City/Greater LA area Looking to meet (no pen pals), vibe, chill, hit it off, go with the flow, have fun (consistently)

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Hi there .. tired of the apps, hardly any success lately (things do change when you hit your 30's on there) and thought I'd try my luck here .. just as the title reads, looking for some consistent fun with the right one. I'm 5'11 (for the height snobs out there lol) without shoes, longer wavy/curly hair, tatted, love alternative music/sub genres, bit of a 'psychonaut' (IYKYK), very chill energy/demeanor, love to hit the gym/lift/running/hiking etc., 420F .. Just hoping to find someone I can 'vibe' with, match chemistries, energies, vibrations with, and go from there . .

Feel free to send a chat if any of this catches your interest, hope to hear from you soon..


r/LADating • • 2d ago

First Date 33f in the valley

25 Upvotes

iso a partner who's ambitious, a great communicator, prioritize their health (gym dates), can take the lead, and is generous with the people he cares for. you’re someone whose exes actually have nice things to say about them

wya:)

about me: I’m petite and naturally tan. I love a balance of fun and play. new to LA and def want to to check out halloween parties with some friends, maybe you too. your photo gets mine.

tell me your favorite holiday in your into

edit. lmk age and which part of LA you’re in


r/LADating • • 2d ago

First Date 26M4M I’m in the LA area and open to anything, but mainly looking dates/hookups. It would be cool to have someone to go out with for cute dates, taking pictures, having fun 🙈☺️ Hit me up on IG also: adrian_montgomery

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r/LADating • • 2d ago

First Date 24 M 4 Relationship

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I’m a 24 year old straight male who lives in the South Bay. I’m looking to meet people roughly 21 - 27 in age and develop a relationship. I work in finance in DTLA so most of my day is spent working or studying. I feel as though I have a lot to offer someone as I genuinely love so hard. I’m extremely loyal and care so much about people. I don’t know where this is going to led me but I know I want to be in a relationship and if any of this sounds interesting to you, please PM me. I hope to hear from you soon.


r/LADating • • 2d ago

Green Flag 36 [M4F] west side - 6 foot, fit, fun, low key, respectful. Pic on profile. Open to connections

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I'm in analytics, work from home, and have realized I probably need to be a little more intentional about actually meeting people.

Pic on my profile is nsfw! But I'm nice

I like being active in pretty much any form.. going to the gym, heading to the beach, taking long walks, getting outside, etc. I also love reading, although I've fallen out of the habit a little lately and would like to get back into it. I enjoy traveling too, even if l've admittedly been more of a homebody recently.

As far as what I'm looking for, I think I'd rather start with something simple: a genuine connection and seeing where it goes. I'm open to making friends, grabbing drinks, hanging out, or something more serious if the chemistry is there and we both feel strongly about it. I don't really want to force anything into a category before we've even met.

One small disclaimer: my texts are generally going to be short. It's not a sign that I'm uninterested. If I'm continuing to text you back, I genuinely want to talk to you, I'm just much better once there's an actual conversations or we're hanging out in person.
Mostly, I'd just like to meet someone I click with and take it from there.


r/LADating • • 2d ago

First Date 41 [M4F] #Huntingtonbeach - Seeking younger woman for FWB. Southern California.

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I am looking for a FWB. I would love to go on fun dates like the beach since it's so close by or perhaps try out some restaurants that I have been wanting to try.

I was married before and am now divorced. My marriage overall was a pretty good experience, but getting married again isn't something I have my goals set toward. I would love to find someone to spend time with, to take a break from the everyday, and someone with a voracious sexual appetite. I have never been into one night stands or any of that, and would love to find an ongoing situation and would happily entertain something longer term with the right person.

When it comes to our dynamic, I very much believe in the male role of leadership. I have never once been in a fully 50/50 relationship and don't ever intend on being in one. I have always walked to my own beat, and people have always relied on me and not the other way around. Things like responsibility always fall on my shoulders and it's my duty to make sure that everything that needs to be handled is handled.

The kind of woman that I get along best with is one who respects masculine authority, The kind of woman who immediately falls into her submissive feminine energy when the kind of man I am speaking of is looking in her direction.

To me, mutual respect is of utmost importance and I feel we should always be kind to each other. I do not need to make you feel small to make myself feel big. I understand the physical power imbalance between the sexes and it is my duty to make sure you always feel safe in my presence.

When we are behind closed doors, I am very much a dominant. I will put you in a mindspace where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. This will be your opportunity to fully clear your mind and not worry about any of life's challenges. It is always my goal to make sure you are just as satisfied as I am.

I have a lot of lived experience, have led an interesting life, and can have conversations about most subjects especially those that involve the inner workings of how the world works and life in general.

I am 5'10 and weigh 160 lbs. I am white with brown hair with some grays peaking out and hazel eyes. I very much care about my health and how I look and have been working out for years. My body type is somewhere between fit and muscular and I am pretty lean overall.

STD free.


r/LADating • • 3d ago

First Date (F28) I’m New here in LA! HMU let’s get to know each other more better

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r/LADating • • 3d ago

First Date Looking for Something Real 💙🎮

5 Upvotes

Hey! I'm a laid back, loyal, and honest guy with a good sense of humor. I can be a little shy when first meeting someone, but once I'm comfortable, I open up and love joking around and having good conversations.

I'm into gaming, anime, horror movies, retro gaming, and Japanese culture. I enjoy everything from classic video games to discovering new ones, and I can definitely appreciate a good horror movie night!

I'm here because I'd like to meet someone special and build a genuine, long-term relationship. I'm looking for a woman who is kind, affectionate, honest, and comfortable being herself. Someone I can laugh with, share the little things in life with, support through the good and bad, and make lasting memories with.

I believe a good relationship is built on trust, communication, loyalty, and enjoying each other's company. You don't have to share all my interests, but it'd be nice to have a few things in common and maybe introduce each other to new ones.

I'd love to meet someone local in the Los Angeles area and start by getting to know each other, seeing how we connect, and letting things develop naturally.

If you're looking for something genuine and think we might get along, don't be afraid to say hi! 😊