r/GayBroTeens • u/SIMONASVAN • 17h ago
Question ❓ Boy problems SUCK💔💔💔
Update to my last post, which most of you probably didn't see, cuz I got paranoid and deleted a few hours later💔
Cuz tell me why my crush a week ago told me to get a tie so that he could put it on, retied it again, taught me how to tie it while the whole time I was blushing and he was smiling (blushing too maybe?) then squeezed my hand TWICE, BUTTT ever since then doesn't really reach out first/is dry.
Like you cannot do this to anyone💔
On top of everything, Im from Lithuania, where people usually take a while to open up, much less get comfortable enough to be in others very close personal space LIKE HE DID.
He still hasn't fully opened up, especially about certain stereotypical girlish things he does/likes, which is fine if youve been bullied (was he? idk), but Im getting close to the point of initiating and giving energy where it looks like I have little to no respect for myself and my time.
Im still meeting up with him and his friends this Halloween, which I am more scared of than excited (90% of his friends are stereotypical straight dudes, aka quite literally opposite of mine🥲✌️) idk how to talk to such guys without being awkward or just silent😭 would appreciate some help tbh🫶
What do you guys think? Kinda will go crazy if I stay like this for longer :3
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u/Darth_Malth 16h ago
Just act chill and stay calm bro :3
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u/SIMONASVAN 15h ago
Ive seen his chats w someone else and hes def used ":3" before, meaning HE IS A SILLY BOY. HE JUST DOESN'T OPEN UP TO MEEE😭😭😭
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u/Darth_Malth 15h ago
Then you could try opening up to him a little bit? :3
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u/SIMONASVAN 15h ago
Yea I know, Ive tried doing that, but the thing is you cant just drop a bomb like "I have an emotionally unavailable father UwU" so I do need to find the right chance😭
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u/trafalgar-chopper24 16h ago
Maybe he likes you? If i was you i would stay with hope vcz we never know. And for the straight stereotypical dudes just try to not show nerdy interests or "girl" thing nd everything should be fine!
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u/SIMONASVAN 15h ago
Thank you for the support :3
The thing is, when you like someone else, wouldn't you want to text/message them? Like, maybe some social cues are sliding right over my head, but talking to someone only when the other person initiates something isn't a very big sign of you wanting to talk w them🫠...
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u/IveGotQuestions66 13h ago
Not Always. Some people just don't initiate conversations or don't often invite someone to hang out. I think there Is a Chance that He actually likes you. +You never know what's going on in someone else's head. I Hope he'll be your christmas present :) Good luck
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u/SIMONASVAN 13h ago
Thank you♥️🥹
Soo what you're saying is that I still should hit him up tmrw, the day after, even if I was the one initiating convos? :3
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u/ThisNicknameGoesHard 15h ago
Just trying going with the flow, man. Focus on him and good luck, get him, tiger :P
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