r/FlexinLesbians • • Feb 04 '25

‼️ ATTENTION, ATTENTION ‼️

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Ladies, gentlequeers, and stealthy lurkers—welcome to Flexin’ Lesbians! So glad y’all stumbled in here, whether by intention or via an algorithm-induced gay awakening.

It is time, once again, to update our pinned post. Especially since we now have over 40,000 members (holy flex, y’all are absolute units) and continue to grow. So let’s lay down some ground rules before things get too chaotic.

🏋️‍♀️ Who We Are🏋️‍♀️

This subreddit is for women who love women who love to flex. And by “women,” we mean anyone who identifies as such. We do not care what gender you were assigned at birth. Let me say it louder for the people in the back:

IF YOU IDENTIFY AS A WOMAN, YOU BELONG HERE.

Yes, the name is Flexin’ Lesbians, but we welcome all queer-identifying ladies.

  • Lesbian? Hell yeah!
  • Bisexual? Absolutely!
  • Pan? Get in here!
  • Any other glorious flavor of sapphic? You’re home, baby.

Oh, and if you’re not currently in a same-sex relationship? Still welcome. We’re not here to check your dating history like a lesbian IRS. If you’re part of the community, you belong—whether you’re dating a woman, single, or accidentally swiped right on a man that one time in 2016 (it happens).

If you love to flex and work out (or simply appreciate those who do), you are welcome here. This is not up for debate. If you think inclusivity is ruining your “lesbian space,” please take your concerns to a mountain, a cliff, or the nearest large rock—and go kick it.

🚨 Now, THE RULES! 🚨

1️⃣ Follow Reddit’s content policies. If you don’t, the Reddit overlords will smite you before we even get the chance.

2️⃣ Be cool or be gone.

  • No hateful, threatening, or creepy behavior. If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.
  • THIS INCLUDES TRANSPHOBIC COMMENTS.
  • If you’re about to argue semantics over who ‘counts’ as a woman, save your breath. This is a flexin’ sub, not a philosophy class.

(Exception: If someone is doing something dangerous in their workout, please notify a mod so we can handle it. We’re here to flex, not snap spines.)

3️⃣ No nudity.

  • This is NOT porn sub.
  • If your pic is on the spicy side, mark it NSFW. If it’s too spicy, it will be removed.

No accounts that post in NSFW subs, or pornographic photos, or advertise Sex work.

• ⁠Mods have the final say on tags and posts. Argue with us, and we’ll just add another plate to our deadlift.

4️⃣ Keep it flexy.

  • Your post must be related to working out or showing off those hard-earned gains. If it’s just you looking hot with zero gym context… flattering, but not the place.

5️⃣ No ads.

  • No promo posts for products or services unless a mod gives the green light. Your discount code for questionable protein powder is not welcome here.

6️⃣ No catfishing.

  • Post your own photos.
  • If you’re posting someone else’s (with permission), make it crystal clear in the title.

7️⃣ No minors. 18+ to post.

Breaking any of these rules may result in a temporary or permanent ban. Breaking Reddit’s policies? That’s getting reported faster than a gym bro curling in the squat rack.

🔥 Final Thoughts 🔥

  • Be kind.
  • Be safe.
  • Be smart.

Hype each other up! Comment, compliment, and support your fellow swole sisters, jacked gentlequeers, and beefy babes. We’re here to lift—both weights and each other.

This is the internet—people will look, upvote, downvote, and message you. If anyone harasses or threatens you, block them first and then let the mods know.

And finally: Mods have the final say. If we delete something, don’t fight us—we work out, too. Now, go forth and FLEX, YOU GLORIOUS AMAZONIAN WARRIORS!

🏆 This concludes my TED Talk. Thank you for coming, and don’t forget to stretch


r/FlexinLesbians • • 16h ago

Back Flex Best way take back pics 🗿🤭😇

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 9h ago

Arm Flex Figured My Korra Cosplay Would Fit Right In Here

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 15m ago

FLEXIN FIRE🔥🔥🧯🧯 Progress so far

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Just thought I'd show off my progress! Enjoy lol


r/FlexinLesbians • • 18h ago

FLEXIN FIRE🔥🔥🧯🧯 NEW BENCH PB!! 93.5kg at 75.2kg bodyweight!

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82 Upvotes

1.2x bodyweight


r/FlexinLesbians • • 14h ago

Mirror selfie at work

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29 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

AB FLEXXX Hi, now say it back

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796 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

AB FLEXXX ⌛️⌛️⌛️

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204 Upvotes

someone asked if this was my real body or if I was wearing a costume so i’ll take that as a win


r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

You can be disabled AND be a muscle mommy

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88 Upvotes

This is two years of progress made with a connective tissue disorder, chronic headaches, and a whole suite of other diagnoses. I've had a few injuries along the way, chronic lack of sleep from grad school, and have not tracked anything I've eaten. I can't push myself too hard at the gym otherwise I risk straining or snapping a tendon. I also have to have perfect technique or I risk hurting myself. I get to the gym probably 2-3x/week, sometimes more and sometimes less.

All this to say, you don't have to do everything perfectly to still make progress. I'm not some kind of 6-days-per-week, every-set-'til-failure, gym-is-life lady. I eat a lot of protein, lift weights up, and I put them back down. That last part is important. I always forget to put them back down. Anyway, I hope this post might help someone else with less-than-ideal circumstances who also has aspirations to be someone's muscle mommy.

Also, you likely don't need perfect form. My body is just dumb.

And mark my words, next year for Halloween: Rhea Ripley


r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

FLEXIN FIRE🔥🔥🧯🧯 A little chubby but still a good pump :) 185 5'11

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116 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Arm Flex 100% grass fed

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Leg Flex Leg Day

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92 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Arm Flex Are my biceps big enough

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Questions ¿Consejos para mejorar mi alimentación y bajar de peso?

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Hola, quería pedirles algunos consejos porque quiero empezar a bajar de peso y mejorar mis hábitos. Tengo 18 años, mido 1.50 y peso 67 kg. Me cuesta mucho dejar el azúcar y en general toda la comida chatarra.

Quisiera saber qué les ha funcionado para controlar los antojos, comer mejor, porque la verdad no sé muy bien por dónde empezar, hago ejercicio dos veces por semana pero de ahi en fuera, me cuesta.

Solo quiero aprender a tener mejores hábitos poco en poco. Agradecería mucho los consejos que me dejen!


r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Where To Get Sports Bra and Workout Tops When You're Heavy Chested?

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I'm a K cup and I have trouble finding anything that will fit me for working out. I'd like to start going to the gym soon, instead of just working out at home. Does any company make sports bras and gear for women with bigger chests?


r/FlexinLesbians • • 2d ago

Back and Bi Day Pump

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244 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Back Flex I think I'm starting to see progress on my back

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410 Upvotes

Still have no idea how to flex my back though 😅


r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Arm Flex armed and dangerous 💪

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

Back Flex backshots go crazy

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

Arm Flex Arm!

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91 Upvotes

First time posting, kinda nervous..


r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Questions Queer workout creators/fav workouts

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Hellooo,

i am starting up training again. I never really went to the gym before, so i have no idea where to start.

What are ur favorite queer workout influencers?

what exercises do you usually go for?

Do you use some kind of workout programm/app?

Just hit me with all you tips and tricks! I am excited to get shredded :)


r/FlexinLesbians • • 5d ago

Arm Flex still not wide enough

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 5d ago

Arm Flex Are my arms too big…?

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841 Upvotes

…because you haven’t seen my GOALS 😬

Edit : this was obviously a joke, I do not think my arms are too big, I’m aiming for bigger still 💪🏻


r/FlexinLesbians • • 5d ago

Started 2 months ago, not much to flex yet

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90 Upvotes

Mostly just impressed by all the insane muscles I see on here. I'm just getting started and it's hard getting a routine but I'm trying my best. Hope to do some real flex in a few months!


r/FlexinLesbians • • 6d ago

Arm Flex Now accepting steroid allegations

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209 Upvotes

Caption is a joke as I got my first juicing allegation yesterday, lol. Crazy work