r/ABraThatFits • • 5h ago

Band fits, cups and whole front to narrow Spoiler

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Soooo let me begin by saying sorry, because I only use european measurements (too lazy to convert tbh)

My problem is, that the bandsize 85 fits optimally, but the cups (c) are all wrong. They absolute width is too narrow, the are set a bit to a lot (depending on the brand) to close together.

I tried sister sizes....90 bands are just too lose and with 80 D the cup problem gets even worse.

Has anyone got any idea here?


r/ABraThatFits • • 6h ago

Question Starting HRT, What size bralette do I need? Spoiler

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I am 3 months into HRT now, but still have a long way to go. Right now, my breasts are starting to come in, but are still relatively flat. I guess I fit in an XL shirt (male), so I was thinking that I need a XL bralette? But I am not too sure, I want something that will still be comfortable with my chest and protect it from various stuff. I can't say how many times I've accidentally hit my chest.

Thanks for the help


r/ABraThatFits • • 7h ago

Please help me find the right fit! Spoiler

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Please help me decide which bra size i should go with and recommend stores I can order from (based in Canada)

underbust: loose 35.5", snug 35", tight 34"

Standing bust 46", Leaning bust 51", Lying bust 45"

Result: Suggested Starting Size: 36H/HH UK, The sister size of 34HH/J may be more supportive


r/ABraThatFits • • 7h ago

Measurement Check [Measurement check] currently wearing 38C, but I’ve put on some weight and I need help finding a bra I can feel good in. Calculator said 38FF/G Spoiler

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Measurements -
1. 41”
2. 39”
3. 37”
4. 47.5”
5. 48”
6. 49”

Calculator says: 38FF/G

Shape: I think I’m projected, full on top, pendulous.
Current bra: 38C

I’ve put on weight lately and I need help finding a bra I can wear that both fits and makes me feel good. Hoping for bras with quick shipping because I’m going to Nashville with family in about a week and I want to wear cute outfits! Located in the US.


r/ABraThatFits • • 7h ago

Question Question (ice silk bra. Is the material comfy? Pelase lmk if anyone has tried em) Spoiler

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I have sensory issues. I'd be grateful to y'all. Please lmk


r/ABraThatFits • • 8h ago

Recommendations? [recommendation] what are some sites i can shop for a 28B/C? Spoiler

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so i measured myself two days ago and the calculator gave me a 28B/C. i really want prettier bras but honestly just anything now that i know my size, what are some good sites to shop at?


r/ABraThatFits • • 8h ago

Question [Question] How is it possible to be a 30 band if I currently wear a 34 and it's tight to close? Spoiler

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r/ABraThatFits • • 9h ago

Recommendations? Looking For Supportive Bra Recommendations Spoiler

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I’ve somewhat recently gained weight and also have worked a desk job for about 2 years. I’ve noticed myself having really bad posture and shoulder pain/nerve pain that I believe is being caused by my breasts. I took my measurements and used the calculator, and my correct size is a 34H, but I’ve been wearing a 34DDD.

I’m looking for recommendations that provide as much support/comfort as possible. I don’t care about looking “sexy” or the bra having lace or anything. Just something simple that will help with my shoulder and back pain. Maybe thicker straps as well to distribute the weight more evenly. Would prefer something $100 or less, but open to anything if it will help!

Thanks in advance!! :)


r/ABraThatFits • • 9h ago

Fit help - Gore still lifting up on 32M Spoiler

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Prior to pregnancy I was 32GG. I’m currently nursing and 6month postpartum. I used the calculator, but came out with 32HH/J - this did not sit right with me. These things are huge. I purchased 3 bras from Hot Milk 32M. I was so hopeful and excited for something to finally fit me- and here I am again, $200 and still not fitting right. The center gore continues to lift/pull away from my chest. My understanding is this indicates the cup is too small. I just don’t know how I could be so insanely sized that their largest cup still doesn’t fit me. Any suggestions???? Thank you fellow well-endowed ladies.

Loose Underbust: 32 inches
Snug Underbust: 31 inches
Tight Underbust: 30 inches
Standing Bust: 41.5 inches
Leaning Bust: 49 inches
Lying Bust: 43.5 inches


r/ABraThatFits • • 9h ago

Question [Question] can anyone tell me if my bra-math is correct? Spoiler

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Not adding my calculator measurements because this is a cheap Amazon bra that does not actually “fit” according to the calculator but it’s actually really close to what I’ve been searching for.

Basically, I tried on a bra my friend bought and couldn’t return. The bra is a 42DD. The cups fit PERFECTLY on my weird-shaped, post-mildly-botched-reduction breast tissue but the band fits only on the tightest row of hooks. I am interested in trying another size. Am I correct that since this is a matter of ratio, I should order a band size down and a cup size up?


r/ABraThatFits • • 9h ago

Recommendations? [Recommendations] Calculated 44H/I, I’ve been wearing too small sports bras for years and want an actual bra! Spoiler

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Hi y’all! The last time I had an actual bra that fit was a decade ago, since then I have gained weight, had a kid, etc. I’ve been living in sports bras that are far too small and dig in my rib cage and cut into my breasts as they spill out the top. I did the recommended calculator and came up with the following measurements (I did do this by myself and am pretty unconfident in the laying down number seeing as everyone’s is larger not smaller!)
Loose- 46
Snug- 44
Tight- 41.5
Standing- 53
Leaning- 58
Laying- 51
I am definitely a full on bottom or very full on bottom. My breasts are rather flat where they begin and all their weight hangs down like a tear drop. My unsupported cleavage is basically shaped like so
“ _) (_” they go out a diagonal and leave a lot of space in the middle. I am very much plus sized, but even leaning they do not touch. I am happy to answer any questions to the best of my ability! Looking for some bras to try and bonus points for an appropriate fitting sports bras rec too! Thank you 🖤


r/ABraThatFits • • 9h ago

Recommendations? Suggestions please for short, narrow gore plunges in 34j Spoiler

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Needing suggestions, Curvy Kate flare full plunge doesn't fit as well now I've lost weight, panache Ana too tall, wide and cups not a true J and that's the largest cup, does not fit like the below G cups. Sculptresse Roxie too tall and shallow, gore sits on tissue

Can barely fit a pinkie between breasts, nip position test suggests FoT to even, but very deflated and pendulous so tall cups definitely not good.

A tough ask I know :(

I'm in Australia so that limits things but local to Alexandra's Lingerie and can order online.

Today's measurements:

LUB 34

SUB 33

TUB 32.5

STB 47

LEB 50

LYB 45

34j, 32jj uk may be more supportive, but not planning on trying a 32 unless it's known to run loose.

TIA


r/ABraThatFits • • 10h ago

Will the calculator work properly if you have a cheat deformity? Spoiler

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I have pectus carinatum so my breastbone protrudes much further than normal. Bras have always been difficult to fit properly. My breasts are very wide set, though they look fairly normal in a bra.

I'm almost back to my ideal weight, so I want to get a few good fitting bras after I stabilize there. I like the look and support of underwire bras, but they are always painful either on my ribs or my breast bone. I'm not sure if that's due to my bone structure or sizing. I tend to stick to more flexible options without pressure points.

I recently started wearing a knix bra I picked up a couple years ago. It is fully adjustable with lots of hook options for the back and on the straps. It fits OK, has a lot of support but some gaping along the top edge. I don't think they even make the type I have anymore.

I picked up a new measuring tape the other day but wondering if the calculator would even work on someone with my issues. Thought I'd ask before trying. Thanks


r/ABraThatFits • • 10h ago

Recommendations? Looking for wireless bras that lift and separate big breasts (44F) Spoiler

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I'm tired of spending almost $100 on a wired bra and the wire snaps within a month or so ( I rotate them and each one snaps eventually).

I don't want to go back to sports bras that smush my breasts together and offer no lift.

Is there a middle option. Something that offers more support and lift than a sports bra without wires?

I wear 44F.

I've been buying bras from Lane Bryant. They're extremely comfortable until the wire snaps.


r/ABraThatFits • • 11h ago

Measurement Check I feel like I'm going crazy. Why is everything so hard to size? (Possibly 32I or J?) Spoiler

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I truly feel like I am going crazy while bra shopping. I have always had a larger bust and a smaller frame, but for some reason, it is getting increasingly hard for me to find a bra that fits.

For context, I am in the United States (Oklahoma).
Measurements:
Underbust: 30
Overbust: 39.5 - 40.5

EDIT:
I used the calculator before posting but provided general measurements in the post. The calculator tells me a size that doesn’t consistently work so I was hesitant to post it. Here are the measurements without a bra:

Under bust tight 29
Underbust snug 30
Underbust loose 31

Standing 39
Leaning 43
Laying 40

I have naturally low-sitting breast tissue that makes me look saggy, and I have fullness at the bottom. I mean, I do sag a bit, but it’s made more dramatic by where my chest actually sits on my torso.
All that to say… according to my measurements, I should be around a 30GG in UK sizing (or a 30J in US sizing), right?

Most of the time a 30 band feels too tight, but sometimes a 32 is too loose. Other times a 34 fits just right. I’ve had luck with an occasional 32H, but a 32I gives me immediate quad-boob. I also tried a Freya 32J which seems to accommodate the tissue, but the band is so loose I have to wear it on the tightest hook, and the side wires go all the way up into my armpits, making it incredibly uncomfortable.
I used to wear Chantelle and Freya until Chantelle discontinued my favorite bra. I then gained weight which increased my cup size dramatically (I was a 30G in US sizing before). I know there are different cup shapes, and I feel like my breast tissue fits one that protrudes a little more. Soft cups seem to accommodate my tissue better because there is a little more stretch, but I don’t love the shape they give me or the lack of nipple hiding and smoothing. 😅
I wish I could try stuff on in person, but local stores don’t carry anything that works. The constant buy, try, return, refund cycle is taxing—both mentally and financially—and I’m sure it looks suspicious as hell to my bank.

I wish I could just chop 'em off and go back to a modest US 32G cup 😂 (in all honesty, probably smaller), but surgery is not something I can afford, nor could I take care of myself right now during recovery.

I’m just done and ready to not settle for “good enough, I guess.” I’m tired of wanting to cry after bra shopping and hating my chest.

Any help, suggestions, input, or even “you’re not alone” messages are genuinely appreciated.


r/ABraThatFits • • 12h ago

Measurement Check Calculated 6F size seems incorrect Spoiler

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So I finally got around to using the calculator and it’s come back saying 6F-8E Aus sizing. My concern is that bras that size say the band is 58-67cm and my snug underbust measurement was 71cm.

I’m already wanting to move away from underwire bras because they feel uncomfortable on my underbust, so this recommendation seems like a step in the wrong direction.

Just seeking opinions on the accuracy of the fit from people of a similar size. For reference I’m 165cm and 53kg and currently wear a 12D.

*edited to add full measurements:
Loose underbust: 74cm
Snug underbust: 71cm
Tight underbust: 66cm
Standing: 87cm
Leaning: 92cm
Lying: 86cm

My tshirt size is anywhere from 8/XS to 12/Medium depending on the brand.


r/ABraThatFits • • 12h ago

Measurement Check I usually wear a 42F, site says that a 36K (US)/ 36H (UK) and wanted to see if it made sense Spoiler

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My main concern is that my chest gives me immense back + neck pain; bras either give me a 15 lb uniboob or if they’re compressed I straight up can’t breathe sometimes 😭 Loved ones have been urging me to get a bra for around the house but I can’t find any that truly fits. Redid my measurements today and got these results. Site says to size down for a better fit (34K/34HH) but I’m not sure.

Loose Underbust: 39
Snug Underbust: 36
Tight Underbust: 35
Standing Bust: 44
Leaning Bust: 52.5
Lying Bust: 48.5


r/ABraThatFits • • 13h ago

Measurement Check [Measurement Check] currently in 42DD, calculator says 40G, have questions about measurement and asymmetry Spoiler

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My only fitted bra is a UK 42DD (20DD in NZ). Cup is definitely too small, the underwire digs when I lean, and it causes back pain if I wear it all day. (I usually wear generic sized sports bras.)

Measurements:

Loose underbust: 103cm / 40.5in

Snug underbust: 100cm / 39.4in

Tight underbust: 96cm / 37.8in

Standing bust: 118cm / 46.4in

Leaning bust: 133cm / 52.3in

Lying bust: 126cm / 49.6in

The ABTF Calculator says 40G/GG UK (or 18H/HH NZ).

I'm projected, fuller on bottom and horizontal fullness is center full. For roots, I think wide and tall. I'm not 100% on that.

My breasts are asymmetrical. In my current bra, the left cup has a tiny bit of spillage, but the right side is overflowing... Like she's totally escaping. Is there a recommended way to measure the asymmetry? And then if I buy for the larger side, do I just tighten the strap on the other side?

This is probably a silly question, but for most online stores, the return policies says you can't return items that have been worn. Does that include wearing it once to see if it fits? I know not to remove tags. Finding 40G in New Zealand looks like it will be annoying, and I don't want to waste too much money. I live rurally too so I can't easily go to an in-person store.

Any and all advice is greatly appreciated.


r/ABraThatFits • • 14h ago

Recommendations? Currently Wearing 32D, not sure where to go from here Spoiler

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Loose Underbust: 33 inches

Snug Underbust: 32 inches

Tight Underbust: 31 inches

Standing Bust: 38 inches

Leaning Bust: 40.5 inches

Lying Bust: 37

Fuller on bottom

Teardrop shape

An inch/2 fingers width between the insides of both breasts

According to those measurements I'm a 32G/34DDD in US sizes. I have tried them and the only thing that works out of all of it is the 34 band. 32 bands are super tight and uncomfortable. G/DDD cups are huge on me from the brands I've tried. From what I've gathered balconettes will be what gives me the best shape when I find the right measurements. I'm very certain I did my measurements right, as I've taken them 3 times with my busbands help.


r/ABraThatFits • • 14h ago

Measurement Check Ive been wearing non-wired 36D, calculator says 34F, unsure if thats right Spoiler

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Does it make any difference that Ive given birth? I could only breastfeed for 1 day, but my boobs ballooned as Id been producing since my 2nd trimester and I lost a lot of volume/shape - this was years ago.

Recently Ive been mostly wearing H&M non-wired bras in a 36D as theyve been all I can bear to wear all day, but they dont give much shape.

Im not sure if Ive maybe measured wrong and should redo it as this seems a big difference, or maybe Im just clueless 😅

My measurements are:

Loose UB: 85cm

Snug UB: 84cm

Tight UB: 79cm

Standing B: 100cm

Leaning B: 106cm

Lying B: 101.5cm

In terms of shape: not much top volume. When leaning nipples point slightly down, and a bit to outer sides and about 11 fingers between nipples.

If it helps Im 5'4" and a UK size 12-14


r/ABraThatFits • • 14h ago

Measurement Check Found a bra that fits well but only on the tightest clasp - sizing down? Spoiler

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Hi! I used the calculator and got 40DDD/G (US) or 40E/F (UK). I ordered a bra from bravissimo's US website in 40E. I think it fits great, but it fits best/feels the most supportive on the tightest clasp. I was thinking about sizing down band-wise to a 38. If I do that, do I need to size up cup-wise? What would that be - 38F?


r/ABraThatFits • • 15h ago

Question Should I go to the gym without the right sports bra? Spoiler

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My back is hurting a lot these days. I was planning to finally hit the gym but i don't have a sports bra in my size, 30G acc to the calc. I wear a 32F cuz the 30 band bras are not available. I don't fill the 32F cup so idk if that is the right size.

Are there any cons of wearing the wrong size and working out? Will my back pain just get worse if I do this?

Please suggest a few exercises for back with bodyweight.

Measurements:

Loose underbust: 30 Snug underbust: 29.5 Tight underbust: 28.8 Standing overbust: 38.2 Leaning overbust: 39.5 Laying overbust: 38.5

I have firm tissue and a little gap in between, I feel more supported with high gore bras. I also have a little migrated tissue near my armpits.

Currently I'm in India.


r/ABraThatFits • • 16h ago

Discussion Finally found a bra that fits (Panache Heidi) but it has been discontinued. I'm so sad Spoiler

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I thought the Panache Heidi in 30E seemed to be a good fit, but the band is just a little too loose. 28F (with a non stretch extender) fixes the problem; I appear to be in-between 28 and 30.

28F seems to still be available in blue, but not red (my strongly preferred colour), and the size availability in general is quite limited everywhere I look. So I contacted Panache to ask about it, and they said the Heidi is a limited edition thing and they won't be restocking? :( https://postimg.cc/QHds3zvf

I hope it comes back at some point. Currently I'm just dealing with the 30E size issue by wearing it on the second hook, because I *really* love the red, but it still doesn't fit quite as nicely as the 28F, and of course it's not ideal in terms of longevity.

They did say it may come back through popular demand though if enough people contact them about it, and apparently many already have 👀 (this is my not so subtle request for others to ask Panache to bring the Heidi back lol)

(and here are my measurements in case anyone asks):

Loose underbust: 76cm/30 inches

Snug underbust: 74cm/29 inches

Tight underbust: 69cm/27 inches

Standing bust: 90cm/35.4 inches

Leaning bust: 103cm/40.5 inches

Lying bust: 90.5cm/35.63 inches


r/ABraThatFits • • 16h ago

Recommendations? Alternatives to boob tape for a bigger chest? Spoiler

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I'm a uk 30 J and have a graduation/prom event coming up in a few months, there aren't really any dress options that would allow for a bra, and strapless never seems to give me enough support or lift no matter what brand or shape I try, I have a pretty bad allergy to all adhesives so boob tape and pasties are pretty much out of the picture.... any ideas or am I just done for...


r/ABraThatFits • • 17h ago

Recommendations? Is there an UNLINED smooth bra that ONLY has extra padding on the nipple area? Spoiler

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My breasts are too large so I don’t want any padding, but my unlined bras all show my nipples. And I hate having to put those nipple covers on UNDER my bra. Does anyone know if anyone has ever made this type of bra?