r/therapists • • 1d ago

Discussion Thread AI Discussion Megathread

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Biweekly AI Megathread

Welcome to the r/therapists AI Megathread.

Due to the increasing number of posts about artificial intelligence and its impact on the field, we have created this space to keep those discussions centralized and easier for the community to engage with.

This thread will be posted biweekly on Tuesdays.

What This Thread Is For

Use this megathread for general discussion about AI and therapy, including:

  • Concerns about the future of AI and therapy
  • Questions about how AI might be used in practice
  • Experiences with clients using AI as a form of support or "therapy"
  • Discussion of AI tools or platforms
  • Personal experiences with AI tools
  • News stories related to AI and therapy (such as unusual or concerning interactions with AI systems)

If your post falls into one of these categories, it belongs here in the megathread rather than as a stand-alone post.

Posts that appear to be advertising, promotion, or marketing will be removed without warning.

Before posting, please use the search function to see if your question or topic has already been discussed.

Thanks for helping keep the community organized.

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r/therapists • • 3d ago

Weekly "vent your vibes" / Burn out

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Welcome to the weekly Vent your Vibes post! Feeling burn out, struggling with compassion fatigue, work environment really sucking right now? Share your feelings here to get support.

All other posts feeling something negative or wanting to vent will be redirected here.

This is the place for you to vent and complain WITHOUT JUDGEMENT about any stressful work situations going on at work and/or how much you are feeling burnt out doing this work.

Burn out making you want to change career? Check out this infographic by one of our community members (also found in sidebar) to consider your options.

Also we have a therapist/grad student only discord. Anyone who has earned their bachelor's degree and is in school working on their master's degree or has earned it, is welcome to join. Non-mental health professionals will be banned on site. :) https://discord.gg/RdZj8tABpc


r/therapists • • 2h ago

Wins / Success Mic drop moments in season

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I’m curious to hear your bold statements that had a purpose/positive impact.

As for me, I had a first session with a new client who 5 minutes in stated “this isn’t going to work, you’re too young for me and I have a lot of life experience” to which I replied “can you imagine if I had to be all the things my clients are in order to be helpful?”… they were bought in after that and scheduled recurring appointments.


r/therapists • • 2h ago

Discussion Thread Thoughts on You Can See Everything?

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My wife and I saw YCSE last week and while we both loved it (would recommend!) I found myself not loving it as much as her or seemingly most folks given what I've seen from others online in their reaction to the documentary. For the record, I would give it 3 out of 4 stars and think it was a fun/crazy/sad/interesting watch- but I feel there's definitely something I'm missing here!

The reason I'm posting this here is I wonder if part of the reason I don't seem to be as blown away by it as much as others is due to my work as a therapist. Maybe its due to having worked in addiction where I think you kind of develop a nose for bullshit, but I found myself being so unconvinced by her affect, rhetoric, and apparent confusion regarding her conviction and prison sentence.

My wife mentioned she found herself being pulled in by Holmes and was mentally building a case for her during the doc, which was interesting to me because really at no point did I ever have that feeling. I'm curious if that's due to working with people who often are either lying to themselves or others about their actions.

This is in no way meaning to dehumanize Elizabeth Holmes and not appreciate the difficulties and trauma she has endured. I think many things here can be true at the same time!

Curious as to other therapist's experience watching this doc.


r/therapists • • 12h ago

Rant - No advice wanted Therapists need to stop working for VC companies

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If you are a licensed therapist working for a VC company like headway, grow, alma or anything of the sort, you need to leave. Not only are you getting screwed over but you are screwing everyone else over. Private practice can be successful on our own and insurance companies are taking advantage of everyone! The only way that we can combat this is by working together. Everyone needs to stop taking insurance. Everyone needs to stop working for these companies. I know starting a private practice is scary, but it is so possible and it is not hard once it is started. Everyone is going to continue to complain about pay and what mental health services look like in the future until everyone stops people pleasing and sacrificing for the billionaires. Rant over 🙄


r/therapists • • 52m ago

Discussion Thread Why do patients request notes in their divorce?

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Hello.

I had a patient recently who unprompted told me that I’m going to “help him out with his divorce.” I’ll spare you the details but it sounds pretty contentious, a lot of mediation, court dates, he said/she said, etc etc.

Why does he think my notes will help him? Is this just a misunderstanding of what clinicians document? He does spend a ton of time talking about her and what she is doing “wrong” and he is doing “right” but our clinical goals (and my documentation) are more focused on his rigidity, boundaries, and unresolved childhood trauma.

Does he think I’m going to be “siding” with him in documentation? And that’s why he’d request them?

Just to be clear I have no problem with him pulling my notes. Just don’t understand why he’d need them. I work for the VA so they’d have to go through the medical records department anyway.


r/therapists • • 1h ago

Discussion Thread "Therapists are people you pay to be your friend"

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What would you say if someone had this stance about therapists? How would you explain the difference between friends and therapists?


r/therapists • • 14h ago

Theory / Technique Have you misdiagnosed a client with GAD instead of OCD?

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Hello all! I’m here to spread OCD awareness. I’m attaching an article and an excerpt below

https://www.centerforanxietydisorders.com/blog/adult-ocd-symptoms/

“Generalized Anxiety, Health Anxiety, and the ‘Just a Worrier’ Label
If a therapist ever told you that you have generalized anxiety disorder (GAD)and left it there, you are far from alone. It is one of the most common swaps clinicians make when OCD is not obvious 8.
The overlap makes sense on the surface. You worry a lot. Your worries feel excessive. You have trouble letting them go. That description fits GAD, and it also fits OCD, which is exactly the problem.
The difference lies in the texture. GAD worry tends to move across real-life concerns like money, family, or work deadlines. OCD worry sticks to a specific fear and demands a specific response. You do not just think about the stove; you go back and check it. Or you picture it, in your mind, until the image feels safe.
Health-focused OCD gets mislabeled as hypochondriasis or health anxiety even more often 8. Take the marketing director who has been told for years she is just a worrier about her health. She is not. She has a compulsion loop around body sensations, and no one has ever asked the follow-up question that would have caught it.”


r/therapists • • 15h ago

Rant - No advice wanted Things people dont understand about being a therapist.

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People will never understand the struggles of being a therapist unless they are one. The job choices are not very good and it has nothing to do with the clients and everything to do with the companies. The low pay, the high case load, some micromanment, hard to get jobs its ridiculous. I still love being a therapist but this year has been tough. Worked for a private practice with a beautiful office all management was virtual. It was good at first but the pay... omg it was one that only pays when the insurance pays. They were so supportive at first with good retention rates. But when going through some unexpected traumas then health issues they didnt care what the reason was then gave fewer and fewer clients until saying they ended my contract. My hemoglobin was dangerously low and had to get a blood transfusion but they did not care or try to understand. Then trying to get a job after this has not been easy i was also at a hospital but it closed down a few months before the private practice ended the contract. Finally got a job then the pay is low. Almost no job job is w2 and if it is the pay anywhere from $40 to about $50 per client. Then it takes forever to start seeing clients because of the insurance panels. You would think in a large city in Texas this wouldn't be the case but it is.** THIS POST IS NOT ABOUT DIFFERENT LICENSES DON'T KNOW HOW THAT STARTED. THIS IS JUST A RANT ON THE LOW PAY AND HOW IT CAN BE DIFFICULT TO ACTUALLY GET A JOB SOMETIME IN THIS job field**


r/therapists • • 10h ago

Rant - Advice wanted Headway documentation review follow up

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Has anyone else received this? I am quite irritated that they’re claiming I cleared their documentation review and still have to provide more. Every note for the next 30 days feels excessive and is definitely moving the needle more regarding leaving Headway (obviously in combination with the updated agreement fiasco).


r/therapists • • 36m ago

Discussion Thread Has anyone here ever unionized a CMH, or is part of a CMH with a union?

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Just this! How did it go? What were challenges, what was the company’s response, what would you do differently if you did it again? Share as much as you feel comfortable. My DMs are also open.


r/therapists • • 1h ago

Billing / Finance / Insurance Credentialing Independently when you're already on a "Platform"

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Hey peeps, i just wanted to share my experience of credentialing independently in light of all these VC backed platforms trying to race to the bottom.

I had already been part of a hospital based clinic and while I was working there, I submitted credentialing apps for a few insurances to see what I'd be paid out of curiosity. This ended up being great in terms of making the jump from agency to my private practice.

It actually took WAY shorter than normal, if I wasn't in the insurance panel already from the hospital, and one of the networks was "closed" in my area, but it was fine entering my ind. business because I was technically already in their panel.

If you're a part of one of these places like headway, alma, etc etc, you can go thru their credentialing steps sharing that your individual NPI/you as a clincian are already in network with a different tax ID number (i.e. the Platform youre on) and you'd like to add a new Tax ID number (i.e. your independent business TIN). It takes a lot shorter of a time and it's generally an easier process!!!


r/therapists • • 1h ago

Theory / Technique Healing from cptsd while using substances

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What are your experiences working on complex trauma in clients who are using substances regularly? (Even if in small doses). In the vast majority of clients I’ve helped long term, they were not using substances with any regularity. In noticing this, I’m also noticing the potential for a bias to form and wanting to be sure I’m not operating with a covert agenda that people need to be sober or mostly sober to heal. Interested in hearing your disconfirming experiences.


r/therapists • • 1h ago

Employment / Workplace Advice Starting IOP program

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Has anyone opened their own IOP program, what's it like? How did you get started? Pros and cons


r/therapists • • 15h ago

Rant - Advice wanted If you suspect a individual clients romantic partner might be abusive, how would you handle that? (Concerns about my own bias)

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Let's say the individual client is fairly new (less than 4 sessions) so you're still building rapport. They came to therapy to navigate the relational challenges they are experiencing (partner has complaints about them). When they start to describe the relationship history you hear stuff that sounds to you like love bombing, hoovering, cycles of idealization and devaluation, cheating, and emotional abuse -DARVO, double standards, lying/gaslighting, efforts to isolate client from friends.

Client doesn't use any clinical language like I have to describe these things nor have they ever said they think the partner could be abusive. Client overall seems like they are trying to present all the information in a balanced way and not trying to make the partner look like the bad guy.

Typically I think I would tread lightly and not be super direct about it at first since I don't have the rapport quite yet. I would probably focus on their own experience and what is healthy relationship dynamics and let them draw their own conclusions about the treatment they are receiving.

However there's another part of me that feels pulled to be more direct and to do that "faster" than I usually would. If it looks like a duck and sounds like a duck, why can't we just say hey I might be wrong but it seems like it could be a duck? I am also aware that my own bias or personal experience could be clouding my clinical judgement. It took me a really long time to name what I was experiencing as emotional abuse in my own relationship but once I finally did, that clarity in naming it was really important and helpful as far as me establishing boundaries etc.

Thank you for any feedback & 2 cents!


r/therapists • • 17h ago

Rant - Advice wanted Clinically lost

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I’ve been in practice for a couple of years and have been working a caseload of around 20 clients consistently - I’m certainly just a baby in this field and have been experimenting with lots of different modalities while trying to discover my clinical voice. I’ve always been told that the relationship is the most important thing and have worked hard to build good therapeutic alliances with my clients - I have a high retention rate, lots of positive transference and I genuinely feel we’re doing good work together, however, recently out of the blue, I have this unsettling feeling of wanting to push all my clients away - I have a strong counter transference about not wanting them to rely on me and I’ve recently gone into this problem solving/solutions oriented approach that seems to be a way of creating distance. I’m usually more relational/psychodynamically informed but lately I just don’t have the energy or desire to monitor my clients defenses, explore attachment wounds, hold space for processing and lend my nervous system to them. I feel like a mama bird desperate to push the babies out of the nest…I know this shift is a response to my counter transference but I’m wondering if it’s also a sign about what direction I should go in as a shrink…

I’m not the type of shrink to endlessly validate my clients while watching them repeatedly hit their head against a wall - I’m going to call out their defenses (gently of course) and help them see the parts of their pain and suffering they must take responsibility for if they want to heal…I don’t wish to stay in a stagnant dynamic where clients are regressed for years just for the pay check (too many shrinks are guilty of this).

I used to feel like I had an idea of what therapy was but I’m realizing I actually have no idea what it is, which im sure is playing into my counter transference…

My question is how to deal with this??

Anyone relate or have a name for this phenomenon?Burnout? Growing pains? Existential crisis?


r/therapists • • 4h ago

Discussion Thread What are the barriers you're facing to opening a private practice?

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Just curious.

Other than you truly don't want to, of course. I'm speaking more to the people that would like to open a practice.

(I fully understand not everyone wants to and in no way am I suggesting that everybody should)


r/therapists • • 18h ago

Billing / Finance / Insurance Lyra Engage - Next Steps

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It seems like many of us received the 2 week notice from Lyra today - where we are required to begin billing / documenting within their new EHR platform to work with their clients.

I feel strongly that this is an overreach on Lyra's part and would like to work collectively to respond via the appropriate channels with a unified 'no.' We don't need to immediately terminate, but I do think a large group of providers reflecting the same message on or around the same day would give us a greater chance of creating an alternative work flow where Engage use is not mandatory.

I did want to get collective feedback about what concerns they have. I would like this to focus primarily on where this requirement might violate 1099 contracts. So far, I have identified:

  1. I am an independent contractor and my contract explicitly agrees that Lyra cannot control the means or method by which I perform under this contract. (this is also an IRS definition, so they must comply with this) ETA: this is not as clear cut as I thought before my OG post!
  2. Mandating that I switch to Engage for record-keeping / billing impedes my control over HIPAA-compliant business operations, for which I hold 'exclusive liabiltiy' in the contract.

I am happy to hear others concerns to incorporate into a letter template!

Even if you don't have additional concerns, please comment / upvote if you are in support of a mass reply, so that others can more easily find this discussion. Thank you!


r/therapists • • 3h ago

Employment / Workplace Advice Alma, Tava...

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LCSW in NY here looking for just a few more clients. Licensed in NY, CT, VT, teletherapy only. Have tried ones that aren't paying well unless you hook yourself solid (Better Help for example). I just need 4-5 that can pay at Headway rates more or less. I do my own billing right now and take Medicare. Ideas?


r/therapists • • 18m ago

Ethics / Risk Are therapists required to explicitly state any in-network status on their private websites?

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I have a Q for therapists who are in-network with insurance through an Alma / Headway platform but want to build up a private-pay practice:

I'm an LPC in solo private practice and currently have some clients through Alma with insurance and some clients OON through SimplePractice. My long-term goal is to eventually transition to a fully private-pay/out-of-network model and leave the Alma platform. I am wondering:

- Are we contractually required to disclose our in-network plans on our independent practice websites? (I have a separate website that is geared more towards a private pay model of treatment)

- Is it okay to leave insurance / being on a platform off our websites and discuss in-network options during an initial consultation if a prospective client asks?

I'd love to hear from anyone who's looked into this or gotten clarification from Alma or know what's in the contracts! TIA!


r/therapists • • 42m ago

Discussion Thread How to leave the field

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I’m ready to close my chapter of being a therapist. I’ve discovered that it’s just not for me, and that’s okay. However, I’m wondering what everyone’s advice is for closing a private practice. If you have any experience with this: what was your timeline for closing, how and what did you tell your clients, how did your clients react, and what are some practical tips for closing you wish you knew back then. Advice from those who don’t have experience closing a private practice is also welcomed! Thank you :)


r/therapists • • 1d ago

Employment / Workplace Advice Are private practices struggling to get clients right now?

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I'm in my last year of a mental health counseling program and doing my internship at a private practice. It was my first choice, and I'm thrilled to be there; however, those of us who were placed at private practices are really struggling to get clients. Our faculty and site supervisors say this has never happened before.

My classmates who are at CMH sites and campus counseling centers are already maxed out on clients and expecting to end the semester with well over the required number of hours, while we're in danger of having to do an extra semester at a different site just to graduate (which I truly cannot afford to do; I'm already drowning financially just trying to afford gas and tolls to get to my current site). We're all offering pay-what-you-can sessions and seeing some clients at no cost, so it's not about money, and we can see telehealth clients anywhere in the state.

Is this a nationwide trend in the US? We're really trying to figure out what's going on, and everybody's panicking.


r/therapists • • 1h ago

Licensing Transferring Provisional Hours Across States- Need Advice

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I am moving across states while I am in the middle of accruing my provisional social work clinical hours. I have been on top of everything as much as possible- I hold the associate level license in both states, I have my supervisor verification form ready to go, my supervisor meets the requirements for the state I am moving to, I have logged my hours... I've done everything I can think to do in order to get my hours transferred instead of having to start over. I'm stressing now because I reached out to the Board of SW in the state I am moving to (not the first time doing so) and the person I reached out to seems to be very confused by my asking "Is there anything else I should send to the Board for approval on these hours?"

So, my question is, does anyone have experience transferring associate level hours across state lines? Do I not send the Board my outside of state hours before I accrue more hours in the new state? I am so confused because this is such different information than what I was told months ago. Any advice would be very appreciated.


r/therapists • • 16h ago

Discussion Thread Does anyone have contacts in national media and/or healthcare journalism?

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We need to keep the momentum going because we need Headway to stay in their place vs the exhausting cycle of outrage and acquiescence to the growing influence of venture capital on independent mental healthcare.

So no, we cannot afford to let this conversation die simply because Headway’s CEO apologized, paused the rollout of its proposed agreement, and suggested that clinicians had reasonably interpreted its provisions in ways the company never intended.

Holy gaslighting!

Then the CEO also disclosed that his wife had suffered a miscarriage that week and attributed his lack of oversight to that personal tragedy.

While his family’s loss deserves compassion, a tragedy occurring that week does not explain how an extensive legal agreement was drafted, reviewed, approved, and distributed in the first place.

And quite frankly has no place in this discussion.

Because as therapists, we should recognize the uncomfortable dynamic created when a deeply personal disclosure enters a conversation about institutional accountability.

Yes we can walk away but not before we cut them down to size by exposing their deplorable tactics.

We can extend empathy without allowing it to replace accountability.

So let’s be clear nothing has been resolved.

The October 19 coverage in Behavioral Health Business was a start.

But the story is much bigger than one contract or a $9.99 fee.

Here are the issues I believe deserve serious investigative attention:

  1. Independent practices being squeezed out. VC-backed platforms dominating paid search placements and competing with individual clinicians for Google visibility, Psychology Today traffic, and prospective clients.

How many small practices have lost revenue or closed as a result?

  1. The erosion of independent contractor status. Clinicians classified as 1099 contractors while facing increasingly restrictive documentation, administrative, and operational requirements.

At what point does this degree of control warrant worker-classification scrutiny?

  1. Patients and clinicians paying for platform mistakes.

Incorrect patient charges, billing errors, delayed reimbursements, denied claims, and financial consequences that fall on clinicians and patients rather than the companies responsible.

This practice allows Headway to actually get more money for those sessions than insurance would pay them. Multiple that across 80k clinicians and we can see why they won’t stop this practice when it’s their error.

  1. Contractual overreach. Headway attempting to secure sweeping rights to clinicians’ names, images, voices, and professional content, including rights that could survive termination.

  2. Financial liability being transferred onto clinicians. Insurance audits, extrapolated clawbacks, indemnification provisions, and potentially devastating repayment exposure while ever so quietly dismantling clawback protections.

  3. Loss of control over our own practices and patient relationships. Restrictive contractual provisions, barriers to changing platforms, patient portability concerns, and potential disruptions to continuity of care.

  4. The consolidation of power over mental healthcare. Venture-backed intermediaries gaining increasing influence over patient discovery, credentialing, billing, reimbursement, and access to insurance networks.

  5. The takeover of clinician search visibility and professional identities.

Independent clinicians are increasingly competing with heavily funded platforms across Google, Psychology Today, Zocdoc, and other search results for the very patients we are trying to reach. We’re being pushed toward dependence on companies that have the resources to outspend and outrank us.

These companies recruited us with promises of independence, better reimbursement, administrative freedom, and the ability to build sustainable practices.

Now we’re being asked to accept increasingly restrictive terms as the cost of accessing the very infrastructure we’ve become dependent upon making it a slow bait and switch.

At what point does a company that was supposed to support independent practice begin controlling it?

Headway did not pause its proposed agreement until WE pushed back.

We organized. We contacted leadership. We demanded answers. And the CEO acknowledged our concerns and reversed course.

Collective advocacy works.

But an apology is not contractual protection.

A paused rollout is not a permanent victory.

And a revised agreement is not necessarily better simply because it’s less objectionable than the one it replaces.

Because that may have been the plan all along.

Here’s my ask:

If you have contacts in national media, investigative journalism, healthcare law, professional associations, or legislative offices, please share them.

If you’ve experienced financial losses, billing failures, restrictive contracts, declining referrals, or threats to your practice’s independence, document your experience.

Contracts. Emails. Screenshots. Payment records. Financial impact.

We need evidence that journalists, regulators, and legislators can investigate.

Please protect patient confidentiality, and feel free to add other industry concerns in the comments.

I’m not interested in destroying companies.

I’m interested in ensuring that companies like Headway stay in their lane.

Because without us there is no them.

We can’t allow them to become so powerful that independent clinicians can no longer operate without them.

And if we don’t organize to change that system, we’ll spend the rest of our careers adapting to whatever terms it imposes on us.


r/therapists • • 2h ago

Discussion Thread How important is client willpower to actually bring any change? And how do you make your clients realize this?

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I work in a setup where I mostly see young people (late teens to young adults), the population which is not known to be very inflexible to change (at least theoretically). The organisation pays me so the service is free for these people.

One thing I have noticed in some of them (that doesn't happen in older clients or clients that pay you) is that these people are so resistant to change.

Firstly, they think that therapy is a quick-fix-miracle-drug. That they could come to me and tell me about things and I will fix it all.

Secondly, the concept of insight is lost on them. Whenever they learn about a pattern that we discover or bring to awareness in a session, their response is mostly, oh we kinda already knew that.

Thirdly, they rarely implement anything you suggest. Worksheets, regulation techniques, or just any suggestion of trying out a new thing or a different way or a lifestyle change is mostly seen as "what's that gonna achieve" response.

It has gotten to a point where I had to spell it out to some of them that you have to be an active participant in this process. Low mood needs to be brought up, emotions need to be regulated, relationships are something you need to work on. It all requires work and sometimes action needs to come before motivation. But it gets so frustrating at times because I feel like I'm putting more work than they are and I know it may lead to burnout.

Have any of you encountered it? How do you deal with it and what do you think is the reason? Keeping in mind that I come from a part of the world where the concept of therapy is quite different.