I had a run in with a semi-regular at my coffee shop and saw that he was reading Golden Son. I asked him how he liked it as I had just read Red Rising and I'm still struggling with moving forward with the series or not. Anyways he said I wouldn't like it because it is a "stupid boy book" when he asked how I felt about the first one.
First I'll say that I didn't bash the book outright just because he asked. I usually answer people honestly but with tact so they don't feel like I'm treating them like they're stupid for liking something. I just said the writing wasn't really my favorite but I like the ideas/concept.
Secondly, I am a woman and I personally do not look at books as though they're gendered. I think all books can be enjoyed by everyone if they're brave enough. That being said it felt like it was incredibly rude to assume I would only like, what? Stupid girl books?
My question is, am I right for being pissed just because I didn't like a book and someone tells me it's for boys?? I keep thinking about it and it's pissing me off more and more. It just felt rude after I was being very polite and interested in how he liked the book.
I'll stick to talking to my other regulars about books.