r/r4rToronto_Clean • • Aug 07 '26

Meta Please turn on your Reddit chats

19 Upvotes

A lot of people have messaged us saying they can’t start a chat because the other person’s chats are turned off. If you’re posting and actually want someone to be able to message you, please make sure chat requests are enabled.

On the Reddit mobile app (iOS & Android)

  1. Tap your avatar (profile picture)
  2. Tap the hamburger menu (three lines) in the top right
  3. Tap Settings
  4. Tap your username under Account Settings
  5. Scroll down to Safety → Chat and messaging permissions
  6. Under Chat Requests, select Allow chat requests from
  7. Choose Everyone (or Accounts older than 30 days if you prefer)

Bonus tip: While you’re in Settings → your username → Manage notifications, turn Chat messages and Chat requests to All on so you actually see when someone reaches out.

That’s it. Now people can actually slide into your DMs instead of just staring at your post.

Happy connecting! ✨


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • Dec 07 '25

Warning to Redditors

53 Upvotes

Relaying the following message we received:

"User mapleleafy23 mapleleafs25 cncdowntown downtowncnc banned for sexual assault now misrepresenting himself and posting in clean r4r groups. Please take appropriate action to protect your subs users. Was banned from r4rtoronto."

"New is wingsofpastrami23 to watch for"


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 13m ago

Cuddle Buddy 27 F4M #Vaughan - Looking for cuddles

• Upvotes

Hi Latina here 5’7 light hair white skin light eyes piercings tatted arm I’m looking to chat with a tall Chilean guy you’re in your thirties white kind smart can put me in my place because I’m shy I’m only into white guys it’s just my type I’m not into younger guys or guys my age if you don’t match the description please don’t message me I just won’t answer you


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 9h ago

Relationship 34 [M4F] #GTA– 6'3" nerd seeking a long-term connection with marriage in mind

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​

Hey Toronto,

I'm looking for my lifelong best friend and snuggle buddy. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative. Think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies for example. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

Attracted to women with an edge whether that's goth/alt fashion, urban streetwear aesthetics, or subculture/nerdy styles.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with shorter/more petite builds. (I like to treat my partners like a teddy bear. Sue me. Lol) Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 12h ago

Relationship 33 [M4F] Looking for my fun girl

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Hello there!

I posted on this subreddit about 2 years ago and found a great match, unfortunately things ended and so here I am again. Reaching out to reddit gods to find someone again!

So, ill start with a little about myself. I am 33, 6'3", brown, 183 lbs. I like to play guitar, billiards and enjoy spending time with my friends. I am more extroverted and enjoy a good drive. I also like going to concerts, especially to rock and metal genre. On contrast, I also like to stay home. Usually spend time either cooking, watching a funny show or video games. I feel i am funny and generally fun to be with. My friends can attest to that!

About you: if you are a kind, gentle person, who likes to be cuddled, carry a conversation and ask about something you dont know, send a dm! Looking for someone younger or same age as me. Race and nationality is not an issue, just wanting some good company.

If you are looking for something fun, message me, lets see where it goes! I am based in Mississauga but can travel as I have a car. Willing to share pics early to see if we feel attracted.

Alright, see you soon!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 15h ago

Relationship 34 [M4F] #GTA - Nerdy Sasquatch Seeks Powerful Woman

1 Upvotes

Hello! My name is Kevin, and if I had to describe myself in one word, it would be bad at following directions. I have a black belt at saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. I’m big, hairy, and unintentionally loud. I’m hangry in the mornings and a cuddle powerhouse in the afternoon. I may look intimidating, but I’m actually a big softy on the inside. 

I give the best hugs, and 9/10 cats say I make a great cuddle partner. The tenth cat is a real jerk. I don’t like confrontation, but come after my people and I’m a force of nature. Napping is a top five favourite activity. Feed me and I’m loyal to you forever. Back scratches are accepted currency in my life. I have experienced the many flavors of abuse and trauma, and would rather die than have someone in my life go through similar experiences unsupported. I am fiercely protective of those in my circle!

I give off real “That is the nerdiest lumberjack I’ve ever seen” vibes. That, or I reignite belief in cryptids like Sasquatch & Bigfoot. It is what it is, hence the bear metaphor fitting nicely. I’m 6’4” and have a pretty well developed dad bod. I’d much rather be cold than hot, so bring on the winter weather! I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

This hairy goof is looking for a lovely woman to connect with, be it over the internet or in person. Long chats into the early morning hours, movie nights, fun outings, trying new restaurants or recipes, I’m all in. Let’s get cozy cuddling under some blankets or playing some games online and see where things go?

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

As for some other interests I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! I run an active tabletop gaming group every Sunday. I’m the kind of nerd that builds and paints models to escape from the world for a while. 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 17h ago

Cuddle Buddy 32M4F #Downtown - No prior experience

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Hi, as the title says i don’t have experience of any sort. I’m looking for someone who would be willing to teach me the basics lol.

I’m 32m, around 173cm with a sleek build.

If you’re interested then feel free to DM!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 17h ago

Friendship 28 M4F #GTA TATTOOED GIRLS?

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Hey! I’m a 6ft tall, tatted, fit and attractive guy. Soft skin, hygienic and smell good! I enjoy going to the gym, 5x a week.

I’m a tattoo artist. I’m entering my slower months now, after a crazy busy summer. So I have some time off now.

Would love to share drinks/food/active activities.

Looking for someone who’s into tattoos and loves to get them? I’ve got a bunch of designs I want to do, and for the right person. I’d do it for free.

TLDR, I’ll also eat you out and give you a tattoo hahah

You: fit/at least take care of yourself. Hygienic, and share a love for tattoos!

Message me if you’re interested !! ☺️


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 17h ago

Relationship 39 [M4F] #Toronto - Looking for someone who loves weirdness, deep conversation, obscure films, dreamy soundscapes, and astrology

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I’m looking for a woman who enjoys films that haunt you for days, has very niche playlists for her variety of moods, books that make you feel less insane about life, and conversations that start playful and naturally turn into late night confessionals.

Interests include: astrology, tarot, psychology (working towards becoming a therapist), spirituality (witchy or goth vibes are very appreciated), 420/psychedelics approached with intention, leftist politics, and photography.

If you have a dark or dry sense of humour and enjoy laughing at the absurdity of existence while still caring deeply about people, even better (too much cynicism will leave you dead inside).

I value emotional maturity, clear communication, accountability and effort. I’m not afraid of vulnerability, and I don’t ghost (hopefully the same applies to you).

Ideally, you’re intellectually curious, self-aware, and capable of both depth & having a sense of humour. You don’t need to have your life “figured out,” but you should be able to talk about your wants, dreams, desires & boundaries.

If this resonates, send me a message. Bonus points if you tell me:

• a recent favourite quote you found (or said yourself!)

• a film that changed you (for better or worse)


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 18h ago

Cuddle Buddy 24M4F Toronto/GTA European backpacker here

1 Upvotes

Hey! Unfortunately it’s my last week in Canada before I leave South and continue hitchhiking. Looking for a girl and lady to share evening with and share some of my stories


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 18h ago

Friendship 35 [M4F] #Toronto - I like giving foot rubs, any women out there with sore feet want a strictly platonic foot rub?

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(obligatory no men please)

If there's any women out there who like getting foot rubs, please hit me up as I love giving them. I'm posting this here because I really would prefer nothing beyond that if that's okay, I'd prefer we both stay fully clothed, so an ideal situation would you be studying/watching TV/playing on your phone and getting your feet rubbed.

I'm also happy to get special lotions or oils or whatever you might like, I wanna experiment and try to get even better at them over time.


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 23h ago

Relationship 41 [M4F] - #Downtown #Toronto - shy guy looking for a dominant partner to help correct food orders when eating out

1 Upvotes

I'm a quiet person who's looking for a loud woman who wants to be in charge of our romantic relationship. I'm single and living downtown with my cat, I'm skinny and decent looking, and I'm hoping to find a partner to spend time with as the weather grows cold and the news grows weirder

I can cook for you, I can clean, I can't dance but I can sing. I'm kink-friendly and am hoping to meet someone who enjoys moments of intimacy (either vanilla or a with a bit of a twist). Hopefully our friendship will last longer than a month or two, I'm looking for a partner who wants to spend a few years together at least

It might help if you didn't want any kids from me, and you should also be a fan of spicy food if you want to try my cooking. I do have a cat but I can deal with dogs as well, I'm more interested in taking care of you while we hang out and don't really care what pets you bring along


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 1d ago

Relationship 42M4F#Richmond Hill - Pothead gamer seeking connection

1 Upvotes

42 Canadian born Chinese seeking pothead gamer chick for fun times, smoking and chilling. Hoping to chat first and see if we click.

Single, never married, no kids, have a cat, pokemon collector, hoping to find someone who is interested in the same. Please be chill, not looking for drama.


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 1d ago

Friendship 29M-Fatherland at Tiff Lightbox on Fri?

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Hey! I’ll be catching Fatherland at TIFF Lightbox this Friday (Oct. 30) at 6:25 PM and thought I’d see if anyone else is going and would be up for some company. We could grab a drink or eat something together before the screening, or head somewhere afterward, totally flexible either way!

A bit about me: 29M Asian & film enthusiast. Pretty much into all sorts of cinema, with striking visual aesthetics and romantic themes, or those exploring human interaction, and psychological/historical/social/political topics. Always enjoy a good conversation about a film afterward, but equally happy to just hang out and get to know someone.

On a related note, In the Mood for Love is screening at Revue Cinema on Nov. 16 at 6:30 PM, which could be another fun outing for anyone who enjoys Wong Kar-wai’s films(attached my previous post fyi).
https://www.reddit.com/r/TorontoHangoutFriends/s/Luo5iVLOKm

Feel free to drop me a dm if you’re interested. Always nice to meet new people through a shared love of cinema!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 1d ago

Friendship 34 [M4F] #Downtown/GTA Looking for 420 company

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I know the title makes it sound like I'm a junkie, I swear I'm not (and hopefully your are not either 😄)!

Lately I've been experimenting with THC and exploring its effects, but doing it solo is a bit limited, so I'm trying to find some company for this highly productive activity. Ideally looking for something chill and relaxed.

I'm open to meet beforehand in a public space for a coffee or a walk.

About me, I'm 34, white, from France (moved here in 2021) and live downtown. I'm a regular gym-goer, so in pretty good shape, and I enjoy anything from art to going on a bike ride. My pic is in my bio.

Feel free to send me a DM if you want more info!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 1d ago

Relationship 29M4F - Long post, worth a read!

1 Upvotes

Turned 29 this year and I wanna get serious about finding a life partner. I’m ambitious, smart and looking for someone who wants to build together, go on holidays, buy a house, have kids and pets (the whole shebang). I can seem to have a straight face at times, so I’m looking for someone who has this golden retriever energy and is my yellow. I value empathy, humour and let’s figure this together attitude a lot! I’m a huge planner, you won’t have to worry about anything, I always figure it out, so if you’re spontaneous and are happy go lucky, we could have a great mix!

About me: Can cook your favourite meal, I work in finance (decent savings, great career), I LOVE trails and nature (I will always say yes to anything outdoors), love pets (run a dog rescue nonprofit with friends), love volunteering (spent a third of my life volunteering, open to joining you and support any of your causes), love photography (can go on photo walks), passionate about tech (I’m on Luma everyday looking for events to attend after work), enjoy music and concerts, travel (I averaged 28,000 steps over 7 days on my last trip to NYC and Boston). I speak all love languages.

I’m active and fit (can be fitter), I’m 5’6-5-‘7, understand if that’s doesn’t work. I have so much love to give, are you capable of receiving it? :) HMU!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 1d ago

Friendship 32M4F #Toronto or GTA - Low key guy looking for a Mermaid type girl for activities - Roller skating, food dates, movies, road trips

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Hoping to find an activity partner / dating partner 2-3 times a month.

No expectations just chill times. Open to any background / "race" etc. (I am spanish background but born in US and grew up in Canada).

Me:

Considered cute / good looking / handsome, tall, brown eyes, dark hair with bit of grey. No tattoos. Wear glasses. People sometimes think I'm in "late 20's".

I like music (making and also never ending playlists..), bicycles, handiwork, cooking, vintage / retro type aesthetics, walks, adventures, road trips.

Turn Ons:

-Smart / creative / artist types, relatively mature.

-Soft personalities (I can handle wild too but I prefer chill.)

-Homebody types.

Turn Offs: People who judge / put other people down. Too much negativity (venting is fine...). Poor hygiene / self care. News addicts. Too much drinking or smoking etc..

Please be 19+ of any age (yes older 30/40+ okay too!) and mature enough. I'm 420 friendly and don't mind drinking but no beer.

If all goes well I'll make you dinners and breakfast sometime.


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 1d ago

Cuddle Buddy 27M4F #Toronto - Get together with older woman anywhere in Ontario

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I'm in north york area but I can drive anywhere. I enjoy playing pickleball, lifting and like to keep healthy. I'm clean, organized, but relaxed. Always down to go for a drive, get food, dessert or whatever spontaneous activity.

I can host, drive, and take you wherever for drinks or anything.

If you’re confident, enjoy a bit of playful banter, and have a clear idea of what you’re after, we’ll probably hit it off.


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 1d ago

Relationship 40 [F4M] #Toronto, Canada — I’ll bring the banter. You bring the plot ✨

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Hello there!
I’m an introvert who enjoys playing extrovert, open, talkative, socially confident, and always up for texting, chatting, or voice calls. I’m currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My friends describe me as kind, caring, compassionate, and funny.
I work in healthcare and genuinely love what I do. I’m curious by nature and passionate about learning, with hopes of going back to school someday. I also strongly support mental health causes and women’s education and empowerment.
I love reading, cooking, hiking, people-watching, and traveling. Prague, Paris, and Grindelwald have been my favourites so far; Portugal and Italy are next! I can happily talk for hours about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology, and spirituality. I’m also learning breathwork and meditation.
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I’d love someone to talk to regularly about our days, interests, wishes, desires, books, music, travel, and the occasional looming existential crisis lol. If we click, I’m open to meeting. ☺️
I’m a feminist, pro-choice, LGBTQIA+ ally, and BLM supporter, so shared values matter.
If this resonates, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself please, more than just “Hi/Hello.” ✨


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 2d ago

Cuddle Buddy 38M4F #Mississauga - respectful and discreet male seeking cuddle buddy😍

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In need of a cuddle buddy!!! I’m really looking for 40+ female that’s lonely and misses the feeling of being wanted.

I’m in Mississauga, if you’re not too far we should hang out.

I’m 420 friendly so if you indulge that would be preferred.

Let’s see what this can materialize into. I have no particular type, but I do lile thicker women.

Hit me up if you’re bored and curious... I’m a working professional, discreet and always respectful!

Send me a dm if you’re interested to chat!


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 2d ago

Relationship 28 [M4F] #Downtown Looking for an actually genuine connection

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Hello /r4r! I don't know about you all, but last year has been a crazy ride for me. Heartbreak and happiness, letdowns and adventures, visiting loves ones and being alone. I ended up making a huge change of course in my life, got a new job, made new friends and lost many old ones. It's been a while since I've been this content with where I have ended up. Somehow, somewhere though, something feels a little amiss - I miss having someone to share everyday with. If that's you too, well maybe we can hit it off and see where it goes? 😊

Anyway, a little about me - I'm basically your friendly neighbourhood funny guy™ (mostly self proclaimed), that usually ends up in more funny situations than not. Like no seriously, the amount of stupid life stories I have is sometimes a little worrying (try me). I'm a little awkward around new people but once I warm up to you I'm mostly funny and witty, you just better hope you enjoy being assaulted with puns. If you like shitty jokes, you should message me your best (worst?) one!

I used to watch a ton of TV and movies, and I still try to keep up when I can - I watch pretty much anything and always looking for recommendations. Also, if you haven't seen the show Severance you should stop and go watch now. I'll wait. I always love talking / fangirling / discovering stupid fan theories about stuff, so if you want to talk about it, I'm all game! Book recommendations are also welcome - I reallly want to get back into reading as many books as I did as a kid. I love some science fiction, but I'll read anything interesting too!

Okay, let's see, hobbies? Oh god I have too many to list. I sometimes feel like I'm on an endless rotation between new and possibly pointless hobbies that I get into for a while and then completely abandon. Do I enjoy puzzles? You bet I do. Magic Tricks? Pick a card. Juggling? Actually no I hit my face with the ball and then stopped, but anyway. Photography? Been there snapped that. Am I particularly good at any of these? uhm... well, I'm fun at parties at least! Point is, I love learning new stuff, so if you've got a hobby you want to share with someone (or just want to learn something random together) you should most definitely count me in!


So what am I looking for? Mostly to meet cool people to do cool stuff with - road trips, travelling, 1am ice cream trips, or just making spontaneous plans - or just generally my person I guess. Maybe it'll lead to something more, or perhaps we'll just get a new friend out of it. I've got a group of friends I hang out with every so often, but honestly most of them tend to be flaky and it's just such a pain having to coordinate stuff with everyone all the time, sometimes I just want to grab someone and go do something in the moment, you know? Or jump on a discord call at the end of the day and rant about work or share a funny thing that happened that day. (Does anyone here still like talking on a call?!)

I work in tech and I'm very passionate about what I do, and love talking about it. I don't expect you to be in / familiar with any of it, but I would appreciate someone who doesn't mind me explaining and talking about stuff to them (and of course, be willing to share whatever they do / love with me in return). I feel like when something is such a big part of our lives, that's something you definitely need to be able to share with someone in some capacity.

I don't particularly care about where you're from / how tall you are / etc, all I care about is that we have some common interests and you're actually interested in meeting up and seeing where it goes! I'm honestly a little tired of the whole only talk online for a day or two and then get ghosted routine. I'm not the most physically attractive, so if that bothers you - well now you know.


Anyway, that's all from me, if any of this tickles your fancy, DM me with your best/favorite pun and perhaps a little introduction about you? I'm happy to share pictures / other social media / discord if you prefer talking there (I know I do). Either ways, if you've made it here I hope you have a great day :)


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 2d ago

Relationship 34 [M4F] #GTA– 6'3" nerd seeking a long-term connection with marriage in mind

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​

Hey Toronto,

I'm looking for my lifelong best friend and snuggle buddy. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative. Think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies for example. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

Attracted to women with an edge whether that's goth/alt fashion, urban streetwear aesthetics, or subculture/nerdy styles.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with shorter/more petite builds. (I like to treat my partners like a teddy bear. Sue me. Lol) Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)


r/r4rToronto_Clean • • 2d ago

Cuddle Buddy 30 [M4F] #Toronto - Stressed physician looking for someone unexpected

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Just dealing with a stressful period at work, but have a bit of free time. Lately, I’ve felt a bit burnt out and miss that feeling of someone who I feel excited by. I have had the desire to meet someone who catches me off guard for a while now. I crave that sense of losing control. Forgetting about everything else and just focussing on someone. Looking to meet IRL if we click.

I tend to be interested in people who are passionate, kind hearted and silly at times. It’s hard for me to define, but really it comes down to someone I find interesting, who I enjoy exploring and focussing on. I’m a big proponent of letting things develop naturally, and don’t have a “type” per se. The key is mutual trust and respect.

In terms of interests, I’m an aspiring fiction fantasy writer. I enjoy classical mythology and paleontology as an amateur. Animal facts are always fun.

I’m an avid runner, either a 10 K every other day or swimming a few K. I used to teach kickboxing, play football and swim competitively.

Engaging topics like psychology, philosophy or any new things are always a good time. But only if balanced with the driest possible humour. I enjoy fantasy and sci-fi TV/games. But can appreciate pretty much anything with strong writing, characters or lore.

If appearance matters I’m 6 ft with full black hair, broad shoulders and what has been described as a “capable” build. Generally considered attractive, I’m happy to trade pics if you’d like. Especially if you’re worried I’m an android, so I can prove I have no putrid organic components.

It feels like I’m monologuing so I’ll leave it at that. Don’t hesitate to reach out, low expectations besides being nice and having fun.