r/predaddit • • 3d ago

Beyond Ecstatic

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My wife and I have been waiting almost 3 years for this moment. We struggled with infertility, went through two unsuccessful rounds of IVF that included a miscarriage, and I honestly gave up and didn’t want to do a third round. Last year my wife got a new job with amazing insurance and we gave it one more try. Our first embryo took, and she is now 8 weeks pregnant. I have never felt this kind of excitement before. I’m terrified, but so freaking stoked. I know my wife is going to be a rockstar mom, and I cannot wait to see her as one. Sonogram was from earlier this week, and the heart rate was 161. Hearing that sound was a magical thing, and I hope to be the best father that I can be. We find out the gender in a few weeks, and I cannot wait!

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u/CamThrowaway3 3d ago

CONGRATULATIONS! Wishing you all the very best.

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u/SeedyLemonPie 3d ago

This is awesome! Congratulations 🎉 as they say, I wish your wife a healthy and uneventful (in a good way!) pregnancy and birth. Good luck!

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u/ino_ohno 3d ago

Congrats! It’s a wonderful feeling. So happy for you two.

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u/SteelPenguin8 3d ago

Congrats man!

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u/Muchado_aboutnothing 3d ago

Beautiful heartbeat!! I am 20 weeks pregnant with an IVF baby myself ❤️. It’s not an easy road but I do believe it will all be worth it. Wishing all my best to you and your wife!

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u/Palatoglossus 3d ago

Sitting in the mother/baby unit waiting for discharge and I can tell you nothing prepared me for how amazing this feels. Enjoy it. You got this.

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u/SlowSwords 3d ago

I don’t know you but I am so happy for you!

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u/Icy_Banana_5850 3d ago

congratulations (: that is an amazing heart rate. My husband and i also dealt with 3 years of infertility, so i know how special this is to you guys. wishing you the healthiest and happiest pregnancy

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u/notsoeasypi 3d ago

Congratulations ❤️

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u/Elitetran 3d ago

This is just the beginning!!!! Wishing you nothing but the best journey though! It has been the greatest of my life!

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u/WordSpiritual1928 3d ago

Congrats! My daughter is 7 months now and I was just looking back at her ultrasound video. Crazy to believe that was her, and that the heartbeat we heard was hers. It’s everything man. Wishing you the best!

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u/tof32 3d ago

Congratulations, from a guy who was in your shoes but for 10 years. Good luck and wishing you a healthy pregnancy

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u/tatertot94 3d ago

Congratulations!!

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u/Upstairs_Taro4726 2d ago

That's awesome man! Congratulations to you both ❤️

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u/k_omei 1d ago

The best days of your life are just in front of you

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u/DiscoMama1989 1d ago

Oh the joy of a new baby. Congratulations! As a mom, I always really really love seeing new papas getting this excited. Be there for every appointment if you can, even the boring ones. 

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u/DefiantReplacement52 2d ago

Do not go for the 3D ultrasound later on… absolute nightmare fuel