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45 [M4A] Reminders on Sharing Personal Information and Photos

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We trust this message finds you in good spirits. With our community expanding (we're now more than 23,000! that's crazy), it's crucial to reinforce the principles of online safety and mindful interaction.

Lately, we've noticed instances of members reporting of sharing personal photos with newly acquainted individuals on either on Reddit chat or via messaging apps (Telegram/Viber). While we encourage social engagement, we strongly underscore the importance of caution, especially regarding the exchange of personal information.

Key Points to Remember:

**Privacy Matters:*\* Safeguard your privacy by refraining from sharing personal photos or sensitive information with strangers.
**Verify and Trust:*\* Invest time in getting to know the person you're communicating with before divulging any personal details.
**Report Suspicious Activity:*\* If you come across any suspicious behavior or receive unsolicited requests for personal information, promptly report it to the moderation team. However, please be aware that if personal information, including compromising photos, has already been shared, our capacity as moderators is limited. We can only block the individual from participating in the subreddit. For further assistance, consider reporting to Reddit directly.

Your safety is our foremost concern. Let's ensure r/phlgbtr4r remains a space where members connect responsibly. Should you have any concerns or queries, don't hesitate to reach out to the moderation team.

We appreciate your cooperation in making r/phlgbtr4r a secure and enjoyable community for everyone.

Warm regards,

Your Subreddit Moderation Team

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r/phlgbtr4r • u/[deleted] • Jul 01 '24

For All New Rule Announcement: Automatic Removal of Posts from New Users

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Hello, r/phlgbtr4r community!

To maintain the quality and safety of our subreddit, we have implemented a new rule: posts from new users will be automatically removed. This helps us ensure that our community remains a safe and supportive space for everyone.

If you are a new user, we encourage you to gain some karma from participating in other subreddits. Once you’ve accumulated enough karma and established yourself as a contributing member, you’ll be able to share posts with us.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation in helping us keep r/phlgbtr4r a welcoming place for all!

Best, The r/phlgbtr4r Moderation Team

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r/phlgbtr4r • u/appreciatingsanity • 6m ago

M4M 26 [M4M] To Cannibalize a Person

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I’ve always found it strangely natural to strike up a conversation, even with strangers, an effortless ease that sometimes surprises even me. It reminds me of the time I spoke with a painter's brother during an exhibit of her oeuvre. What started as a simple question turned into a deep conversation about the painter’s life and inspirations. By the time I circled back to the paintings, they felt entirely new, as if I were seeing them through the artist’s own eyes.

I used to be an occasional smoker; cigarettes became a clumsy excuse to edge into a circle, to overcome my own awkwardness and make conversation flow. Looking back, I’ve learned that it’s not the smoke or the setting, butp the desire to connect, to share, to be part of something bigger.

And so, here I am. No more awkward cigarettes, but still craving those moments where the world slows down, and it’s just you and me in a shared story. Maybe that story begins here. Maybe this is our chance encounter.

If this resonates, if you’ve ever found beauty in the little quirks of life, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s make the kind of memories that don’t need an excuse to linger.

172 cm | south | twunk