r/MbtiTypeMe • • Mar 12 '25

Introduction & Guide to Writing a TypeMe Post

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Hello All!

This is a welcome post and guide to all those who want to make a TypeMe post or learn to accurately type others. Don't know your Myers-Briggs type? Create a text/video/audio post describing yourself, and the Reddit Gods will type you! Test results and relevant pictures may also be included, though the focus should be on self-description. Once you've found your type we encourage you to stick around, learn more about MBTI, and help type others. If you have sub improvement suggestions or are interesting becoming a mod, please comment or send us a modmail.

This is an updated welcome post replacing the old one which was created by a previous mod. We've included the link to the old post because some of the comments contain helpful information.

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Creating an MBTI TypeMe Post

Overview

Note, these are not rules, but will be helpful in getting insightful responses. In general, self descriptions might include your preferences, interests, hobbies, lifestyle, career/what you are studying, your values, your life goals, how you like to structure your day, how much social interaction you prefer, how you relate to others, how organized you are, how you tend you express yourself, etc.

Post structure

Here are a few guidelines on structuring your post:

  • Minimum-length: A good typing post should be at least a 1/2 page to receive an accurate typing. Remember, the more information you include, the easier you will be to type. However, keep in mind, posts with excessive length are less likely to be read in their entirety.
  • Elaborating on your answers is important. Try to answer questions with at least a couple sentences. Proper typings are based off of your thought processes rather than behaviors. If you're not elaborating, Typers can't tell much.
  • Please try to break up your post into paragraphs. Walls of text are often ignored.

Questionnaire

Although you don't need to use these questions when making a type-me post, they're here for anyone who needs a bit of a guide. No need to answer all of these questions either:

  • Give a general description of yourself. How old are you?
  • What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not? If you are not working, what kind of job do you want to do or what are you studying?
  • Describe your childhood/upbringing. Did it have any kind of ideological or structured influence? How did you respond to it? Did you have any significant negative experiences that may have affected how you think or behave?
  • Do you have any mental or physical health issues that might affect how think or choose to live? Provide a brief description.
  • If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
  • What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage?
  • How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?
  • Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?
  • Do you prefer hands on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities.
  • Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.
  • What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?
  • How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
  • Do you need logical consistency in your life?
  • How important is efficiency and productivity to you?
  • Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?
  • What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?
  • What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?
  • How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?
  • What's important to you and why?
  • What are your aspirations?
  • What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?
  • What do the "highs" in your life look like?
  • What do the "lows" in your life look like?
  • How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?
  • Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?
  • How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?
  • How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?
  • Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?
  • Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?
  • What is the ideal life, in your opinion?

As an FYI, we are working on improvements to the questionnaire so you may see changes in the future.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • Jul 27 '24

DISCUSSION Looking for new moderators

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Hello r/mbtitypeme, we are in need of new moderators. We are currently down to one active mod (me) and I’m chronically ill so cannot support the sub as much as it needs. I understand the sub could be better and I would very much like to make improvements, but given the current state of the team that is rather difficult.

If you are interested in becoming a mod please fill out the questionnaire below and send it to me via chat - u/aredhel304. Please don’t be intimidated by some of the questions if you are new to this - we are open to taking on some inexperienced mods if you check the other boxes. We do, however, expect that applicants are active members of the subreddit.

  1. Tell me a little about yourself. What are your interests/hobbies? What is your career? Or what are you studying?
  2. What are your strengths and weaknesses?
  3. What is your experience with MBTI?
  4. What is your skill set? What do you think you can add to the mod team?
  5. Any experience modding? If not do you understand what the role entails?
  6. What is your vision for the subreddit?

Thank you and looking forward to hearing from you all!

UPDATE (11/9/24) - We’re still looking for additional moderators so please reach out if you’re interested. While all are welcome to apply, I want to add that we do have a specific need for someone with more technical skills - someone willing to work with Automod and/or someone with a software background.

UPDATE (12/18/25) - We are once again looking for moderators with any skillset as long as they meet the criteria above and seem like a good fit for the team.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 10h ago

FOR FUN Type me :D

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My looks might deceived you at first, so stay tuned.

I’m very easy to talk to. Hell, I might just come straight to you and talk to you, especially at school and company.

“Work hard, play harder” & “What can kill you makes you stronger” is my motto. Why is it so true to me? Observation and self-reflection

Because I don’t like to giving much of the book’s hints, so, I’ll be detailed about my hobbies, thoughts, etc. I like to go out, listen to people that I love and care, talk to all sort of topics that related in academic, psychology, karaoke, and reading book if I was being by myself. I don’t like routine since it trapped my flows, and I’m bad at following one too lol, but I can easily produce an almost good result/product in a quick amount of time, idk why, but I just do it quick and do it good(just not the best).

Weird hobbies: obsessed with infrastructures, public transport system. Literally, feel orgasm looking at the Shinjuku’s metro station blueprint.

I will talk a lot when you work with me, and outsite of work, you will find the opposite of me, unless you get to know me more and I start trusting and opening my inner world to you. Because I could be tough outside, but my closed one are the one easily impact me, that’s why I have to be selective at this, a kind, knowlegable, morally good, love for improving is something that I’d adored of a person.

And how other people described me. Some said that I am the most reliable to play with, cheerful, helpful, warm, determined. Others said that I’m intimidating, blunt, arrogant, workaholic(working on improving all that). I do cry too, alone, when I got betrayed, realized that I’m getting taking for granted, when I burnout and my workloads burden me, I felt like a burden to everyone.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 8h ago

FOR FUN type me pls

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I am 22 years old, female, autistic and trying to find out my mbti, enneagram/wing and tritype. When I’m alone, I’m not sure what I think about(mainly cause I forget💀😭). It could be random things or ideas. My memory isn’t too good, but from what I can remember, I usually think about how I can become the kind of person I want to be, expressive, fun, loving, outgoing, a social butterfly and I sometimes imagine how parts of my life would be if I acted that way, the way I really want to be that could also help me have lots of friends and have this positive “main character energy”. I also think about my favorite characters, games or anime, hobbies I have (guitar, drawing, baking, singing) and I think about things I want to make or bake and I think about mbti a lot and wonder what I could be, like I think something and then think “this could be Ne/Fi etc.” and I think a lot about what my enneagram is because I’m still trying to figure it out. I’m not sure what I get excited about since my memory isn’t good but I think I usually get excited about getting better at my hobbies, getting new things like plushies art supplies, books or having my favorite foods, finding out things I like, going somewhere fun with my family, watching a movie with my family(especially if it’s something we all enjoy or something new that looks interesting). When my family plans a road trip together, I like to plan and search for multiple fun things I could do so I don’t get bored, even tho I could end up sleeping some of the time. I got really excited for new highlighters because I’ve been waiting to use them on my bible since they’re glittery and I LOVE glitter, I was excited for the new kittens we got from my grandparents because they were Siamese and I LOVE Siamese cats and they were so cute, we’ve been wanting some for a while. I get excited when I hear someone shredding on guitar or playing good riffs since it’s my favourite instrument and my dream to be good at playing and to able to play in front of church for worship one day but practice takes time and I lose motivation easily but listening to others play and thinking about my dream helps me try to stay motivated. I tried making it a daily routine so it could be something I’m used to and I won’t stop practicing once I stop feeling motivated. I don’t have that good of social skills but I’m trying my best to learn and try to figure out what I’m doing wrong. I found out not too long ago that I don’t have very good communication skills, and I haven’t really talked to many people outside of home. I get really excited after talking to people because I feel like I’m improving, especially since I haven’t talked to many people outside of home. I try to watch how other people communicate or watch videos on my favourite characters on whose personality I like so I can try to mimic them and understand what I have to change. I realize things like “maybe when I smile, I don’t look happy enough and people might be thinking I don’t look very approachable” or things like that. I also realized that even with my family, I don’t talk much and I’m trying to search up on google or watch videos on how I can become more talkative because I think that’s one of the reasons why people don’t talk to me much. At home or with my online friend, I don’t talk TOO much but I do like to joke around a lot, make references and I love being fun, funny and expressive. I make funny references from movies that remind me of whatever comes to mind at the moment. I talk about my interests like the games I play or I like to share funny things that happen. At church, when talking to friends, I’m pretty quiet but I try my best to be more talkative and expressive since I think those are what make people want to talk to you even more. I like meeting new people, I always feel really happy after talking to people or knowing that I’m doing better at communicating and trying to engage in conversations or also getting better at being more like myself with others and not being shy. I also think I investigate things in my head a lot or come up with ideas but don’t really do anything to follow through with them. Sometimes I’ll think of an idea or something and add to it more or change a few things about what I should do for an art video, guitar or as a post on my story based on a song I listen to or just a random thought and then I think if I should do it or not and if I choose that I want to, most of the time I forget almost right away, even if I think they’re good ideas that I really want to do. When I sad, jealous, disappointed, angry or anxious, I vent to a friend or family member and I might need some time alone. In my time alone, I like to watch videos of my favourite characters which usually makes me feel a lot better. Sometimes, I’ll watch videos that have sad music or videos where people relate to what I feel. When I’m embarrassed, I’ll try my best not to think about it or tell myself that it’s okay and they’ll forget about it and maybe it’s not a big of a deal as it is in my head and I’ll try to distract myself from thinking about it. When I’m jealous, if it’s because of someone doing a hobby and they’re better at it then I am, I’ll think something like “it’s fine, I’ll keep practicing and I’ll be good too” or I’m better at doing my kind of songs(on guitar) and they’re better at their kind of songs. If it’s jealousy because of my mom spending more time with my siblings or my sister talking more to my friends, I’ll try to push myself in more so that I’m in the conversations too and not left out. I overthink but I think about them a lot and I try to distract myself with other things. I withdraw a lot if it’s something with my friend and sometimes I can’t tell them what the problem is because I don’t want them to feel bad or upset or anything and they try to confront the problem because communication is important and try to make me tell them what it is. I try to even if I really can’t get myself to, which usually takes a minute. I like reassurance sometimes but sometimes I really really don’t want any. Sometimes reassurance doesn’t help and it feels like it’s a lie or I might be used to doing things on my own and don’t want help with my problems and I might sit with them in my head for a little while and then get distracted with other things we talk about and I’ll be good later. When I’m super annoyed and stressed, I want to isolate myself and be alone. If someone talks to me or anything, I’ll get super mad and annoyed and probably say a lot of bad things in my head. Like if someone asks me to do something and I randomly get in a bad mood, I’ll hurry up and do it and not really care much if it’ll hurt someone but I’ll just get what needs to be done done while being super mad and annoyed and I’ll leave to isolate myself. In friendships and relationships, I want real love and to be able to be my true, raw self. I feel close to someone when we share similar interests or when we don’t judge each other or help each other out and trust each other. What hurts me is when someone I trust makes fun of things I love or tells people my secrets that I trusted them with. I hate being ignored or disrespected or misunderstood or left out. When I feel ignored, misunderstood, left out or unimportant, if my friend was like that, I’d push them away as well and I’d stop talking to them and put sad things on my story. I’d show them signs that I’m not happy and that I’m hurt or I’d try showing them that I don’t care and I’ll put posts on my story about my favourite interests and that I’m using my time on things I love and not being sad over them because I don’t want them to know that they controlled my feelings as much as they did. It could change a lot and I won’t know which to choose based on what I’m thinking they’ll be thinking when they see my stories on instagram. It could change multiple times in a day honestly. I would love being a productive person, living my life always happy and excited and enjoying things like cleaning or fixing my bed with a smile all the time. I’d enjoy having fun things to look forward to every day and being able to practice my hobbies every day and have no anxiety or social anxiety at all and having my room looking all fun and cute and having lots of friends but only a few really close friends. I would enjoy being able to be the person I really want to be and not having any secrets and being able to share everything I like without having to be judged. My dreams are be able to talk to anyone at all without being nervous and just be able to talk to them like they’re a good friend even tho I don’t know the person. My dreams are also to have my own business, either merch using my art or bakery. I’m thinking maybe both or maybe start with one and add the other later so I can enjoy doing both as a job. People say that you shouldn’t choose doing something you love because it’ll feel like a job later but I want to try it for myself and I want to make cute things like other people do. I want to be able to love without fear or worry or anything. What usually keeps me from living the way I want is fear, or fear of judgment, not understanding how I can be how I dream of being, too much procrastination, fear of not being the way my parents want me to be. I procrastinate a lot. Since I do college, I plan what I have to do for each day so I can have a few days of free time, but instead of actually doing it, I end up playing games or searching up something I’ve been interested in, like mbti, art or guitar. It’s hard for me to keep up with routines, I can for a few days but end up being forgetful or being bored of routines and tired of them. I try to make routines and I go through with them for maybe a few days and then I either get tired of them or I just forget. It’s hard for me to be disciplined sometimes as well. When I start something new, like a drawing, a song to learn on guitar or a sewing project, I’ll sometimes be halfway done or I can see a bit of progress but I won’t actually finish it unless it’s something fast. I was working on an animation because I really wanted to become an animator before and I just couldn’t get myself to finish it because I just get tired of things that take long, which is also why I try to change my style into a more simple style so I can finish drawings faster and move onto the next one. Same thing with when I start a new anime or when I get hyperfixated on a hobby, I think about them a lot but I’ll almost never actually continue it because I guess I’ve already gotten bored after thinking about them for so long or something.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 5h ago

TEST RESULTS Blood type personality's and mbti 📚🩸

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r/MbtiTypeMe • • 12h ago

AM I MISTYPED what mbti am I?

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could possibly be mistyped i want to know just to be sure. I feel like i fit infp heavily.
I notice everything even the small details and patterns that nobody else could notice, I’m a quiet introverted kind of person, I tend to constantly be in my head thinking about new possibilities, I’m very empathetic and helpful without being asked, and im very kind to others, I get sometimes overwhelmed when things dont go my way, I am very authentic, for example if someone doesn’t have the same moral beliefs as me I get defensive. it taked me seconds to process my emotions, i almost instantly feel my emotions i am highly sensitive. i am a visual learner and if i dont see something physically i just dont understand it, sometimes if i dont know exactly what to do i just come up with different scenarios in my head of how things are going to play out, for example if i had a test and i knew none of the answers i would overthink every question and think there is something more to it that im missing


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 15h ago

AM I MISTYPED Help: ENFJ & ENTJ/ESTJ

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So I’ve been trying to figure out what my type is. I am also trying to learn more about cognitive functions as well but it’s still a little hard for me to grasp my head around what it is that I am. Nothing seems to resonate anymore after breaking huge patterns & lifestyle changes. I am a 28 years old & probably going through a quarter-life crisis.

For context, I was a ENFJ for the longest time. Now I’ve been consistently typed as ENTJ/ESTJ. I used to care a lot about what people thought about me and about themselves. I was your classic ENFJ that would prioritize group harmony & people’s feelings over everything. But I’ve completely burned out over the past 6 years. Most of my friends are stuck in their own misery because no one actually puts any action into personal development and/or their careers. All the advice that they come to me for are almost never taken, and they expect me to time and time again be the person they can go to for support. While I do understand that sometimes our friends just need me to play that role of support & encouragement— I don’t see a point in it. Nothing is going to change if they don’t try to be more introspective for themselves or work on things we talk about.

My friends and I come from a pretty traditional Asian daughter background, woman are expected to marry and settle down. After leaving two long term relationships, I’ve concluded that marriage is not for me. While we as human, are wired for connection, I just don’t think it’s something worth investing any more time into especially in this day and age. Maybe one day if someone manages to pique my interest or impress me though I highly doubt it.

I’ve become less emotionally available over the years and my entire life is spent around work, how to grow career wise, how to become more efficient & productive while struggling with ADHD. I’m really hard on myself because ADHD makes me feel incompetent and so I’m working really hard on helping myself & eventually getting the help I need especially because it affects my work. I am often late and work late because I have poor time management.

I still care and show up for my family, attend traditional family events (not because I am obligated but because I want to) and take care of my underage niece who is fully under my care. I prioritize work, family, & personal development.

Not sure if my MBTI & Enneagram has changed after all the things I’ve gone through or if I’m just an unhealthy ENFJ who’s leaning heavily in my Ti & Se functions hence why I am getting ENTJ/ESTJ. I can see ENFJ because that’s what I identified with for the longest time, but I also see ENTJ. However (maybe this is stereotypical) ENTJ doesn’t seem to resonate because I’m not that extreme about optimization.

What are your thoughts? Send me what free sites you use to figure out your type. I really enjoy MBTI quizzes and content but it’s hard for me to fully enjoy it sometimes with how confused I am about what I actually resonate with.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 9h ago

AM I MISTYPED I'm Sp5 but *think* I'm INFP, help type me

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Other than being Sp/Sx549 (wing e4) and being a LFEV(⁴⁴¹²), if I had to describe myself im pretty emotional n shit but nobody would be able to tell you that unless they are close to me, I'm pretty sure I come off to people as "stoic", considering I don't cry at funerals and when I'm pissed at someone I usually just go quiet.

If you were to ask my friends, they'd probably think I'm Sp4 wayy before Sp5 because of my very "loud" nature and futile attempts to take the room, I hate attention yet it hurts when I don't have any and so typically I tend to do things to get attention on me (unless it's not the right time), although I do have the ability to sit back and listen to my friends when they need me to, and I even offer some form of "advice".

When I'm scared, I tend to sort of resort to "Apologize and leave the room" because I feel like I'm going to be yelled at if I fight back, even if I want to.

And also, I'm a yapper if it wasn't obvious

Initially when typing myself using cognitive functions I thought I was TI-FE but when I realized that just wasn't possible I switched to NI-FE (or iei or INFP) and before this I just stuck to the label of "INTP" because of stereotypes, however personally I think INFP fits me now

The problem? I've heard many many people say that INFP simply doesn't work for Sp5 and is more of an Sx5 or E4 thing even though I'm know I'm not either (as a core), so am I mistyped, and if so what would be stuff that makes more sense? Feel free to ask me anything.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 10h ago

DISCUSSION It's that time of the week again, time to overshare with strangers on the internet 😭

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r/MbtiTypeMe • • 14h ago

AM I MISTYPED Am I really an ENTP?

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I posted a couple days ago something similar to this.

I don't really believe in tests but since the weaknesses and strengths are known I decided to give it a go.

I used to believe I was an INTJ then transitioned to INTP before landing at ENTP and now I'm confused.

Firstly, an ENTP's function stack is Ne - Ti - Fe - Si - Ni - Te - Fi - Se, keep that in mind.

If your familiar with POLR functions, ENTP's would be Fi.

If your not, a quick brief! In MBTI theory, the 7th function is widely considered the weakest due to it directly opposing the dominant function.

Anyway, in many tests like these I tend to rank significantly higher in Fe than Fi. However, as you can see my Ne is substantially high which makes this an anomaly. I acknowledge that there are 16 types and majority of people wouldn't acutely fit into a box, if anyone at all. But, if you're following you probably get the point, yes?

Now, I don't really know if I'm ENTP, INTP, INTJ, or ENFP but I feel disconnected to both Fe and Fi so having Fi as a second function seems bold to me. But, if ypu believe I'm an ENFP and you can genuinely prove that It's possible than I have no issue.

Also, some important information about myself is that I have AuDHD and alexithymia so my experience under MBTI is very nuanced I would say and hard to label.

But, if you have any questions, assumptions, anything to add, etc please do leave it in the comments and I'll try to respond to questions.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 15h ago

FOR FUN Guess my mbti

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I know my mbti and enneagram but I’m curious to see if you guys can get it. I’m the type of person when they see an opportunity to talk to someone, they will. I talk quite a bit but I can also be quiet at times since a lot of the time I just don’t have an idea on what to say, and I really don’t like repeating myself. So, I do best in group conversation with like 3 or 4 people since I can talk about something other than the little that’s in my head. I do think quite a bit though, and my thoughts are disconnected but I have these few topics that I go back to repeatedly but I view them somewhat through a different lens.

I love connecting with people and being present in an environment with others. I also love hearing new perspectives on things, especially ones I’ve never thought of. I have a lot of things I like to do, and I love doing new things, but the majority of the time I go to my comfort hobbies. I’ve been described as outgoing, a critical thinker, well grounded, engaging, warm, friendly, etc.

I like asking others for their advice and input on things, but sometimes I need to put my foot down and go by what I think on the things I truly value. I want to be liked as a person and I value this a lot, so when someone doesn’t call me back I think they hate me and I come up with a reason why, but I won’t fold on my major values for someone else. I get most of my morals from the outside world, and I can easily change my perspective, and when I make decisions when the group wants something else, I’ll compromise with the group so both me and the group will be happy.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 13h ago

AM I MISTYPED INTJ, or something else?

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Hi Reddit, first time posting but I’ve been into MBTI for years now, and have always identified as an INTJ, but I’ve never been 100% certain on it. My test results are always very close together, and always Ne/Ni > Ti/Te/Fi > Fe/Se/Si. I’ve attached a few different ones I’ve done (their decisions in order were ENFP, INTJ, ENTP and INTP), and also added up my results from each for an overview.

I’ve always been pretty rubbish at understanding how I come off to others, so I’d appreciate a bit of input! Here’s some of the questions from the list…

• Give a general description of yourself. How old are you?
23F from the UK! I find it so hard to describe myself haha but I’m an artist and writer, and I’m very into anything unusual, mysterious and creepy. I would generally consider myself alternative. I’m an animal lover and equestrian too, and I’m definitely better with animals than people. I think the most typical impression I give people is “odd, but nice enough”.

• What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not?
I recently got made redundant but I worked in business admin / support / PA sort of thing. I didn’t dislike it, I actually quite enjoyed the work itself and won a company award after a year but it wasn’t until I got made redundant that I realised it drained the life out of me. I don’t think I’m very suited to office environments, I can’t be asked with office politics and having to keep up a friendly corporate persona was soul destroying to the point where I felt like I didn’t know who I really was anymore. Previously, I worked in a tattoo studio which was great fun and very interesting but again, I didn’t quite fit in with the people there.
Having some time unemployed to actually be myself again and realising how different I am outside of strict environments is what’s prompted me to write all this!

• Describe your childhood/upbringing.
My childhood was pretty good really, my mum is lovely, and my dad’s… an ESTJ lmao. As a kid, I always had friends but was never “popular”, I got on with everyone but was always somewhere inbetween. I’ve always been socially competent but content to be alone, and usually had close friend groups of 2-4.
I loved art and writing as a kid and still do, I’d come up with whole universes, design all the characters and write and illustrate short stories about them (aged 6 onwards). I would start so many I didn’t often finish them but always had fun with them. I would also get incredibly frustrated if things weren’t perfect or if I wasn’t good at something.
I was always top of my class at school but lazy. Homework was always done but always last minute, and I would always finish my work as quickly as possible so I could sit and draw the rest of the lesson. I don’t think I’ve ever revised for an exam beyond skimming through a borrowed textbook half an hour before it.

• Do you have any mental or physical health issues that might affect how think or choose to live?
My general mental health as a teenager was… rough, but I’m doing fine now. Undiagnosed but I would not be surprised if I had ADHD or autism. Or both. Worth noting I first typed myself as a teenager as INTJ, but I was very unhealthy at the time hence why I’m unsure if it was a mistype.

• How curious are you? What are your curiosities about?
I’m incredibly curious (and just straight up nosey sometimes haha), I love to know things and I’m that friend who has a strange fact to share regardless of the situation, and I have no idea where or when I learnt said fact. I’m particularly interested in unsolved mysteries, paranormal events (even if I’m not exactly sold on ghosts, I just think it’s fun to consider what these things could be caused by), animals/nature, science.

• Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it?
I’ll only lead if no one else will. I’m more of a second in command type. I’m okay at it, but I’m definitely no Te dom. I’d hate an actual leadership position as a job.

• Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art?
I am! Probably a useful point is that whilst I am very creative in a literary sense, I’m not really in a visual or emotive one. I can come up with endless story plots and narratives, but my art only ever takes inspiration from my writing, or cool things I’ve seen and been inspired by aesthetically. I never draw from my feelings or personal experiences, I love art that does and I’ve tried but it just doesn’t work for me. I’m far better at putting those sorts of things into words than images.

• How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
I am generally helpful if I have the capacity for it, or if someone’s doing something so badly it’s annoying me enough that I’d rather do it myself haha. I genuinely don’t mind doing small favours or things I actually find interesting myself, but it’ll have to be someone very special for me to help with something boring or that eats a large chunk of my time.
I will go out of my way to help animals, though. I’m the person that’ll catch injured pigeons and loose dogs, feed the birds and hedgehogs, and move roadkill and dead or dying animals out of the way.

• How important is efficiency and productivity to you?
It depends on what I’m doing, but I prefer not to take excessively long amounts of time on things so I don’t get bored. I will admit I’m quite lazy, it takes me ages to get going with something, but once I start, I will do a good job and I’ll get it done quickly.

And just some general bits you mind find helpful…
I’m very intuitive to the point it freaks people out. I can read someone from quite literally the first time I make eye contact and have had some very strong and very accurate gut reactions. I can read tarot cards and whilst I am naturally quite sceptical, they’ve also never been wrong for me so I’m inclined to trust them. My pattern recognition abilities are also very good.

I can be wildly inconsistent with things. All of my drawers are organised with dividers and all of my stuff has a home, but I will also just leave a pile of washing sat on the side for three days instead of putting it away. People also seem to get very different impressions of me, some think I’m funny, bubbly and chatty, others find me quiet, awkward and off putting. Everyone thinks I’m a bit strange though and that’s fair haha.

I’m quite minimalistic, I don’t like having stuff everywhere or owning several of the same thing and I hate people buying me presents. I like fashion but I only have a small wardrobe and I don’t shop much. None of this stops me from bringing home an endless amount of cool rocks and random feathers.

I never really think about the past naturally, I have to consciously look back and analyse things and tend to do this through journalling or meditating. I’m naturally future driven but that’s gotten a bit depressing recently so I’ve been trying to live more in the present and short term future.

I get on best with INFJs and INTPs, they make up most of my friends, with my best friends both being INFJs. I like ENFPs a lot as well, and I do like INFPs but tend to accidentally offend them… oops.

I’m not an argumentative person and can be sensitive sometimes. I’ll speak up for myself and others when necessary, but I just cannot be bothered with genuinely arguing. I do enjoy a playful wind up and can be purposely annoying when I get going, but I never intend to be hurtful. I can take what I give, but I will genuinely get hurt by jokes or comments aimed at things I actually care about or am insecure about.

If you’re into astrology, I’m a Sagittarius sun, Pisces moon and Cancer rising. I don’t really believe in astrology, it’s just a bit of fun to me, but I do at least somewhat relate to my signs.

I think I’ve rambled enough there but any typing help is very appreciated! I’ve never had an outside perspective from anyone who understands MBTI so very interested to see what you guys think. Feel free to ask anything further. Thanks! :)


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 14h ago

CAN’T DECIDE MBTI seems...flawed? Or I am wrong?

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So supposedly it should all be IEIE or EIEI, and F and T can't have the same "direction" and N and S can't either.

So what's wrong with me?

HOW do people seem to slide effortlessly into that pattern when it's so impossible for me? (Yeah, I'm aware that I'm far from alone)

I'm getting really tired of this - no matter what angle I attack it from, I still don't fit.

I had peacefully decided to just be INFP and move on, but for some reason I can't accept this unless it makes sense and I can't make it do so. Is that evidence of being BAD at Ti and Ni? The fact that I can't spot the patterns in myself and narrow them down to match something?

Is, in fact, the very fact that I can't figure this out proof in itself that I am Fi-Ne?

The endless "but I don't fit this pattern" devolving into "either the theory is wrong, or I am" as well as asking others for input, might be Te?

I have tried. People told me to "learn the functions" but all I have so far understood is that Si can look like Ni, Fi confuses itself for Ti, and Te and Fe both care about the input from others regardless of if they are actually GOOD at picking them up or not.

Very confusing.

Help?


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 16h ago

CAN’T DECIDE Looking for input

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Recently found out about 6w5 enneagram and found that to be the most accurate in terms of the good and bad of the way I am. However my mbti as you can see is a bit all over the place. More often than not I test for INFJ while additionally testing for ISFJ, INTJ, ISTJ, and occasionally INTP. As a person I am typically quite grounded and calm. Im also pretty friendly and personable able to have empathy and care about people and loved ones but don’t always have good advice and understand other people’s emotions. My personable nature doesn’t mean I put that at the expense of what’s right, fair, and logical. Im a big over thinker going over the many points and outcomes of a situation while trying to condense them down into a singular sensible idea. Let me know what you guys think :)


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 1d ago

NEED CONFIRMATION A gothic girl is looking for her type

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Hi. I found a questionnaire in Russian, but I translated it into English because I hadn't seen it before and thought it was interesting. I'd be glad if someone could help me figure out what type I might be based on my answers and my way of thinking. I can say that I consider myself INXP, but I'm open to other interpretations.

1. How do you feel about political correctness? Explain your point of view.

Positively. Every person deserves respect and neutral treatment without negativity until they prove otherwise. And political correctness is exactly about respect for a person and their personality. Why insult and offend people if they haven't done anything to you? So it's logical to be polite and politically correct.

2. Find the odd one out among 4 words: potato, stool, laser, tape recorder. Suggest several options.

Potato, because it's the only edible item here. I can't really think of much else to remove. For every word I mentally remove, there's a "but" where you could remove something else by the same logic, not just that one word.

3. Suggest as many uses for a hair comb as possible.

Combing hair on your head, arms, legs, armpits. Smoothing out wrinkles on clothes if you try. Can't think of anything else.

4. How easily do you wake up in the morning?

Depends on what for and after what. If I know I have to get up and go to class where there's a Chinese dictation or a lecture with a stuffy and toxic woman, then of course, waking up and forcing myself to get up and open my eyes will be hard. But overall, on average, I wake up normally, immediately switching to pleasant stimulants from my phone and headphones on my head.

5. Is it easy for you to force yourself to do something if it's really necessary?

Hard. I generally don't like to strain myself or do a lot. I immediately become uncomfortable when a situation requires immediate action, mobilizing myself, my skills, and resources. I easily go into distraction from it, doing anything unimportant and smaller, but definitely not the hardest thing that requires attention. Mobilizing myself is hard; it's not that frequent when I pull myself together. But they do happen. Maybe when the situation is already really bad and I've run away from it for too long.

6. How necessary is freedom of speech in the modern world?

Freedom of speech is always necessary. There's this rebellious part inside me that constantly says everyone around is hypocritical, people arrange everything so it seems like everything is voluntary, like everything is fine, but in reality they don't let people speak. And I believe that freedom of speech is honesty in a world where everything is false.

7. In what cases do you think a human life can be sacrificed?

In cases where there's no other option. If one life will lead to saving a hundred. If this person threatens me or my loved ones, then their life is worth nothing. I'll admit honestly, if I personally don't like someone and they have some qualities or did something bad to me, then I'll also think they can be gotten rid of.

8. What is idle talk to you? What is a useless waste of time?

Idle talk is possibly even somewhat inherent in me. When you talk but don't do. Or when you say one thing but do another. And your words have no value. A useless waste of time is when you spend minutes, hours, days on something that essentially has no meaning for you and is probably just imposed on you from outside. It's something you don't need, doesn't bring joy or dopamine, but is just something you want to skip as fast as possible.

9. Can a cheerful person be evil? Could you be friends with someone who served time for a serious crime?

Yes, they can. Evil can wear clown shoes and a red nose. Look at the Joker. An evil action covered by a joke and a cheerful vibe — why not. Depends on what crime they committed. The most important thing in a person for me is loyalty, devotion, that they accept me. So if that's there, then that won't be as important to me. But I'll rightly be wary of this person if the crime worries me, because who knows if they'll want to repeat it. People are unpredictable.

10. Give 5 of the most positive and negative qualities in a person.

In theory, any quality can play out differently in a certain situation and with a specific person. So I wouldn't be so categorical. But I can't stand arrogant, haughty people who put themselves above me and treat me and others accordingly. I'm also not a fan of hypocrisy, obvious stupidity tied to stereotypes and unwillingness to understand or change one's point of view. So these three qualities are the most negative that come to mind, though sometimes it seems you can work with that, but most often I want to hit such people on the head with a plate.

11. How do you feel about the fact that borders of states change through wars?

I don't see the point in it because I'm not connected to politics in any way. Maybe if I were connected to it, I'd understand. But as it is, I don't care, however cynical that may sound to someone. As long as it doesn't affect my life, I'm not concerned.

12. If a person committed a serious crime, what punishment should they receive?

Depends on what the crime is. How we assess its severity, motives, context, and so on. If in my opinion someone committed something truly irreparable, then I'm not against the death penalty. For example, for pedophiles there's no other punishment but the electric chair. There's no point in keeping the dregs of society alive since they're potentially dangerous, and there are no resources to work with them; it's too tedious to rehabilitate those who won't be helped anyway after the crime has already been committed. And keeping them in prisons means spending food and money on it. For what? I consider it unnecessary and impractical.

13. If you could choose a superpower (teleportation, mind-reading, etc.), which one and why?

Mind-reading. Like Charles Xavier, for those who know Marvel. The main problem for me has always been people in life. I was angry at arrogant people who, because of their position of power, played with those who wouldn't fight back; I saw vile teenagers who asserted themselves at the expense of others and their humiliation. If I can read their minds, then I can control them, learn to use it over time. And if it's specifically Charles's abilities, then I could directly control my surroundings too, well, or the most unsafe of them.

14. What is an intelligent person? Do they have to be educated?

An intelligent person is someone who is able to skillfully and advantageously use all their knowledge, skills, abilities, and traits, even if they aren't the best according to society. Someone who knows how to truly think. Someone who can find a way even in a situation that seems like a dead end. They don't necessarily have to be educated. I'd say education is important but somewhat overrated now, given the level of education I see in my own studies. You can be smart in different ways; you just need to know something that will be useful specifically to you, not a bunch of general unnecessary crap, and be able to work with it.

15. Do you have a personal life philosophy?

Not sure about that. But something I constantly talk about when asked on related topics is my realistic or even negative attitude toward the world. Yes, I'm admired by the actions of other people when they save someone, act heroically, show courage, come together and fight for something important. However, I prefer not to believe in people, agreeing that by nature they are selfish, ready to kill another to save themselves. In a sense, I support this approach myself because in this world you really are on your own. You know, I sound like the Frontman from Squid Game, lol. So my philosophy is that I help in a moment that's safe for me, I don't harm others for no reason, because a lot can bite me in the back.

16. Do you have an "inner circle"? By what criteria do people get into it?

People come to me themselves. Not often, but I mean that I don't seek friendship, I'm comfortable as is. And people take the steps themselves. There are few of them. I currently have one best friend, and a couple of acquaintances with whom we play together on Discord, and my best friend introduced me to them. I don't have strict criteria for someone to be able to communicate with me or write to me, though for that, for getting closer, it takes a lot of time. But the closest people are those I'm open to, whom I trust, and who don't betray. Who never betray and are ready to accept me as I am, also helping me and often being more altruistic than I am.

17. Are there famous people you respect? For what?

I respect those famous people who aren't afraid to go against what they don't like, what doesn't align with common sense, those who have done a lot, who are professionals in their field. I respect those who have the courage to do and be what standard society doesn't approve of.

18. Describe your ideal leader.

Someone who doesn't comfort but changes the perception of the situation without denying the situation itself. Someone who won't punish for a mistake but will point out where the mistake is to teach you. Someone who leads by the hand without allowing themselves to turn into a tyrant. Who takes into account everyone's characteristics and treats everyone fairly instead of trying to make everyone the same. Someone who can understand rather than condemn.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 17h ago

AM I MISTYPED I'm confused

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I've thought for about a year that I was an infp. I've read a fair amount about the cognitive functions, but not any actual books, just things people have said and various descriptions on the internet. Fi dominant and Te inferior seemed to make sense but now I'm kind of questioning my understanding of each function. There have been a lot of descriptions of infj's and how Ni works that sound like me.

I took this test just for fun. I know tests can be a little unreliable. Especially because I was pretty sure which function each question was testing for so that probably skewed my results somewhat. I did try to answer honestly, but the questions were asking things that would probably change over time.

On most tests in the past I've gotten infp, but again, that could be very skewed. I tried to see which function was more like me, Fi or Ni, but I heavily relate to both. Idek about how well Fe or Ne work. Help? Feel free to ask additional questions.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 18h ago

CAN’T DECIDE What type would that be?

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I'm stuck among several types because I always get very high Ti and Fi but equally bad Fe and Te which makes me unsure of the axis. I'm mostly between INFP and INTP but many people have also considered ISTJ, INFJ, INTJ and ISFP for me back in the day. I also think that I'm quite perceptive to possibilities but I'm also quite prone to comfort and aesthetics. I'm still going back and forth betwen TiFe and FiTe axis. I do think that I lean towards SiNe axis over NiSe axis.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 18h ago

FIRST TYPING ATTEMPT A Lil bit unsure about my type. So im here for your thoughts. As recommended by this Sub I took the recommended top 3 tests + Truity + 16 personalities. Results are as follows

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  1. Truity - INTP

  2. 16personalities - INFP-A(Assertive)

  3. Similarminds - INTP (Ne 100 out of 100)

The main confusion starts here in Michael Caloz & Sakinorva.

I'm a little unsure about my personality type, so I'm here to hear your thoughts. So far, the results seem fairly consistent, with two tests suggesting INTP and one suggesting INFP. However, the real confusion begins with the Michael Caloz and Sakinorva tests, whose results seem to complicate things further. I'm not entirely sure how to interpret the cognitive function scores or how much weight I should give to the different results. I understand that online personality tests aren't always reliable and that answering questions based on how I see myself can sometimes lead to inconsistent results. Still, I'd like to get a clearer understanding of which type might fit me best. I've included screenshots of my Michael Caloz and Sakinorva results below. I'd appreciate it if you could interpret them, explain what the scores suggest about my cognitive functions, and help me understand whether I'm more likely to be an INTP, INFP, or possibly another type altogether. I'm particularly interested in understanding the reasoning behind your interpretation rather than simply receiving a four-letter type. Any insights, alternative perspectives, or suggestions for distinguishing between these types would be greatly appreciated.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 19h ago

CAN’T DECIDE Adding more info

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In other tests, it generally goes like INFP/INTP/ISFP/INFJ (16p). INFP/INTP(Sakinorva). ISFP (PDB test). ENFP/INFP (Biscuit) and got Fi>Te>Ni>Si... On mistype investigator, but all functions were around 50 percent

I consider myself more grounded in the present than in the past or future; however, my perception of my surroundings is quite poor. If someone asks me to grab a pencil from my pencil case, I might walk right past a pencil lying on the table, look into the case, and see nothing at all—I become so focused on the case itself that I lose sight of everything else.

When I think about the future, I tend to envision two or three likely possibilities, and in conversation, I often connect various ideas through rather tenuous links.

If something is working well, I don’t feel the need to change it just for the sake of change—though if I find an interesting alternative or if it makes sense to do so, I’ll make a change.

I’m also terrible with directions and locations; if I’m asked about places in my own city, I almost never know the answer.

My internal thoughts mostly revolve around situations that have occurred and my own opinions about them.

I don’t use lists all the time—usually, I just keep a mental note, like "I need to get this or that done today." But if I see that I have several tasks for the week, I’ll write them down in a list; otherwise, I’m likely to forget something. (I’ll probably rely on lists quite a bit once I start working.)

My daily life consists of doing what needs to be done, while spending my free time doing whatever I feel like doing.

My hobbies include playing video games—whether on a low-end PC, an Xbox 360, or my phone. My favorites are soccer games like FIFA and PES, *Danganronpa*, Kinect games, *Undertale/Deltarune*, and especially fighting games such as *Guilty Gear* (XX and Xrd) and *Street Fighter IV*. I enjoy plenty of other games, too.

I also like playing soccer and other sports. In school, we covered a variety of sports—including volleyball, basketball, and baseball—which I enjoyed, even though some are less popular. Volleyball is actually quite popular, but many people learned to play it well at schools other than the one I attended; my school used a curriculum that touched on a bit of everything, which is why we played such a diverse range of sports. As a result, I don’t have much experience with volleyball. I also play beach tennis with my aunt. Soccer remains my favorite, but my current physical condition isn't great, and I don’t have a group to play with (my friends generally aren't into sports). Beach tennis is the only sport I play with any regularity; as for soccer, I only get to play occasionally at school when there are enough people to form a team—which is pretty rare.

Lately, I’ve started participating in an RPG with my friends, and I’m really enjoying it.

Sticking with the topic of soccer, I’m quite interested in learning about formations and styles of play. When it comes to fighting games, I like looking into character archetypes (zoners, grapplers, etc.). Back when I played *Brawl Stars*, I also really enjoyed exploring the different brawler classes and figuring out which ones I played best with. Every weekend, I go out with my group of friends to grab a bite and chat. We’re total nerds and use internet slang like "larp," "mog," and things like that lol. Sometimes we play games, sometimes we go for a walk, but the main thing is the laughter and the conversation

Choosing a career was really difficult; the things I found interesting didn't seem worthwhile, and the things that were worthwhile didn't interest me. I automatically ruled out fields that didn't seem very stable (like performing arts), but I also excluded anything involving surgery or blood (the healthcare field)—everything else just felt... meh 😐. Then I came across Advertising; I took a look at the coursework and found it interesting, so that’s what I chose (I haven't started yet; I’m finishing high school this year). I often found myself thinking, "I’m not sure I could actually do this," and that was the case here, too—but this time, I felt, "Well, I’d be more willing to try and learn this material." I didn't want to kill myself working on something I didn't enjoy; I wanted something that would either come easily to me or be genuinely interesting. In this case, I think I made a good choice.

The high school I attended also included a technical program in agriculture. The coursework itself was tolerable, and it offers various future possibilities, but the people there were terrible—always trying to dominate one another. That’s where the bullying I mentioned took place. I used to think the problem was me, but in reality, those people only cared about status and being the "alpha male." Once I realized that, I sort of got used to it—though my social standing was so pathetic that there was no point in trying to change anything, so I’ve spent my days practically mute. In some conversations with my sociology teacher, he really hit the nail on the head regarding my experience; when I tried to claim that I now knew how to deal with those people, he said, "You’ve gotten used to it, but you haven’t adapted."

As a bonus, I’ll share an opinion from one of my friends. We were sharing our thoughts about each other to feed into an AI and compare them with characters lol (he hasn’t delved too deeply into MBTI, but he consistently tests as a quintessential INFJ—and I truly believe he is one). Anyway, here is his take:

* We’re in frequent contact; we like to have pretty direct conversations about games and all sorts of other things.

* He’s quite reserved and laid-back, usually keeping to himself while observing what’s happening around him.

* He seems to have a selective approach to socializing: when a topic interests him, he gets deeply involved in the conversation; when it doesn’t, he tends to be more indifferent.

* He has a diplomatic side and tries to avoid unnecessary conflict, preferring to resolve matters peacefully.

* He might come across as more serious or reserved at first, but once he’s comfortable, he shows a humorous—and sometimes even delightfully absurd—side.

* He seems to place a high value on friendship, tranquility, and a sense of security within his relationships.

* He has his own insecurities and vulnerabilities, but he handles them much better now than he used to.

* He’s capable of engaging in deep, analytical discussions, but he can just as easily jump into completely silly, nonsensical conversations without any issue at all, lol.

* In our friendship, one of the things we do most is analyze people, discuss personalities, and act like total idiots together—just saying whatever comes to mind and laughing about it.

* If I had to describe him in a few words, I’d say: reserved, diplomatic, curious, laid-back, and humorous.

I’m 18 years old and from Brazil. Also, i couldn't put photos here, maybe call me in dm if its that necessary? Thanks for reading and for your help! 😌.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 1d ago

TEST RESULTS Type me based on these results 😭

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Things about this me..

I have always enjoyed reading and learning, particularly when it comes to subjects that interest me. During my childhood, I was highly sociable and maintained a wide circle of friends. Although I could be somewhat shy initially, I was never naturally reserved or withdrawn. I was the one in the friend groul who was always defending my friends, and expressing my opinions, even when doing so meant challenging authority figures (and honestly I still do that as I'm very blunt)

I would frequently correct others when they made inaccurate statements (ESPECIALLY AS A CHILD 😭)

I often found myself in leadership positions, sometimes because teachers would appoint me to lead a group. However, I also consider leadership to be one of my natural strengths. People usually tell me that I behave and talk like a leader but I don't really see it that much.

Although I remained socially active to some extent during the pandemic, my circumstances eventually led me to become more isolated and reserved. Over time, I felt that I had lost some of my former social confidence and ability to interact as naturally as I once had. But later on I regained that confidence and became more comfortable expressing myself again, THANK GOD.

Although I enjoy reading, I generally retain information better when I can actively practise a skill and observe how it works in practice. My grandfather is someone who can see something be done and replicate it so easily I'm so jealous 😫

I benefit from repetition and doing things hands on. I often need to practise several times until I understand the sequence of actions and develop a natural sense of how everything fits together. I am also inclined to ask additional questions when an explanation is incomplete or when I need clarification about specific steps.

I would therefore describe my learning style as practical.

I AM VERY COMPETITIVE, as of rn I'm in a duolingo competition don't ask why.

My interests include martial arts, business, mathematics, chess, badminton, volleyball, and reading. I also enjoy dressing well and taking pride in my presentation. I try developing my abilities, performing well, and excelling in areas that matter to me.

In martial arts, I initially place considerable emphasis on technique, precision, and physical execution. I want to understand how to perform a movement correctly and develop the practical skill necessary to execute it effectively.

I am highly competitive, particularly among my peers. Academic achievement is important to me, but a 90 percent won't kill me.

I also have a strong preference for accuracy and factual consistency. When someone makes an objectively incorrect statement and refuses to reconsider it despite being presented with credible evidence, I can become particularly frustrated. , and building a successful future. I have previously considered several career paths, including business, finance, and healthcare.

At one point, I was particularly attracted to the idea of becoming financially successful through entrepreneurship or pursuing a career related to finance. I am drawn to opportunities that offer financial independence, stability, and the potential to build something of my own. I have also considered healthcare, which reflects an interest in exploring different professional fields rather than committing exclusively to one area.

Ultimately, I want a career that provides financial security, a comfortable standard of living, and a reasonable degree of autonomy. I am ambitious, but I do not want professional success to come at the expense of my entire life. I would prefer to establish financial stability relatively early, maintain flexibility, and avoid spending decades working without sufficient freedom or time for myself.

My goals are therefore not limited to earning money. I also want to feel secure, capable, accomplished, and in control of my future.

Emotional awareness is an area I find more difficult to navigate. I always struggle explaining how I feel, I envy those who can.

My usual tendency is to put my emotions aside and focus on whatever needs to be done.

I think that's it..


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 1d ago

TEST RESULTS Help me interpret my test results?

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What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not? If you are not working, what kind of job do you want to do or what are you studying?

I’m a Social and Community Services Worker. I work with DV Survivors and I’m passionate about women’s rights and I’m very much a feminist. I’m looking at moving into Counselling. I do enjoy my job most of the time but it does get tiring dealing with people on the daily.

Describe your childhood/upbringing. Did it have any kind of ideological or structured influence? How did you respond to it? Did you have any significant negative experiences that may have affected how you think or behave?

I grew up as the eldest daughter of a single mother. I did often take on parental responsibilities, such as making my brother and I lunch for school, getting us to school and back by walking to the bus stop, I’d do the dishes, clean the house, laundry and I’d open the garage just before my mum got home, so she could drive in. I grew up Greek Orthodox in a semi traditional Slavic household. I did experience some abuse and trauma as they were DV in my household (which likely led to my current career).

Do you have any mental or physical health issues that might affect how think or choose to live? Provide a brief description.

I have anxiety and depression. I did questionnaires with my GP. I’m not sure if it is a formal diagnosis or not? I have Ankylosing spondylitis which is a chronic, inflammatory form of arthritis that primarily targets the spine and the sacroiliac joints (where the base of the spine connects to the pelvis), leading to pain, stiffness, and the potential fusion of vertebrae over time. I’ll have this disease for the rest of my life and it is an autoimmune disease. I’m on immunosuppressants and I’m very conscious about keep my space clean by wiping down surfaces, etc.

If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage?

I usually spend the weekend alone with my husband, he and I are generally quite introverted and need to recharge over the work week. We enjoy movies, tv shows, video games, internet research, pop culture, etc. I generally dislike exercise and don’t enjoy sports. I don’t mind going to an outdoor event like a wedding but I’ll ditch as soon as it is appropriate to do so.

Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?

I have been an acting Team Leader multiple times and I also ran my own team. I enjoyed Team Leading and being each individual team members potential out so they could best support their clients. I think my team members felt comfortable with me and would often discuss their personal lives and matters with me and I’d support where I can.
Do you prefer hands on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities.

I enjoy arts and crafts but I’m clumsy and often mess up what I’m doing. I’ve done candle and soap making, etc.

What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?

I usually look to the future and what is coming next or what I’d like to do next. I’m usually not satisfied looking at the present and back to the past.

How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

If I can do what they ask, I’ll do it within reason. At work I can be a bit of a push over and people pleaser and go out of my way to help if I can. In my personal life, I’m not as much of a push over but I do feel pressure to people please or feel like I have an obligation to fulfil social requests like going to birthdays, weddings, etc.

Do you need logical consistency in your life?

Yes. I’m always asking if that is correct, right, if that makes sense, if not, why doesn’t it make sense?
How important is efficiency and productivity to you?

When I have a lot of tasks I need to do, I try to be as efficient as possible so I can get it all out of the way.

What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?

Watching movies, tv shows and playing video games. Pop culture, collecting figures, etc. Listening to music. Travel.

What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?

I usually like to read on the learning, have discussions about said learning, confirm the correct learning through discussion and also have someone physically show me how to do certain tasks.

How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?

I don’t think I’m good at strategizing but I do break tasks down into manageable tasks. I’m also terrible at winging it and I usually need a plan outlined on how to get to the goal or outcome I want.

What's important to you and why?

I want humanity and human rights to improve and progress. Those close to me are very important. My work is important.

What are your aspirations?

I wouldn’t mind going back into Team Leading or even Policy writing. I want to move closer to the city and travel more.

How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?

I wish reality was better. I wish humanity was better. I do often daydream about how reality, the world, and humanity should be.

How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?

I take awhile in general to make decisions, I usually try to talk out my thinking or how I got to that decision with someone close like my husband.

How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?

Sometimes I can explode but a lot of the time, I retreat in and try to figure out how I am feeling. Emotions and logic are important in my life.

Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?

It depends on the person and how well I know them.

Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?

I sometimes break the rules, I would say I bend the rules more than anything. It isn’t often though. I do think that authority at times should be challenged or else we will never get change.

I generally don’t like describing or talking about myself but hopefully the above information is helpful.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 1d ago

CAN’T DECIDE Mbti of my crush. Isfj vs isfp

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I think he's isfp, but i cant decide btw isfp or isfj

About him:

\- plays badminton (competitively) and guitar (leisurely). Passionate about sports.

\- very gentle and soft spoken in group settings with people he isnt close to

\- he's like the small kid among all the other boys, not because of his maturity but the way people hug/joke/treat him.

\- mature. He doesnt let his feelings get the better of him, thinks before he acts. Rarely has emotional outbursts too. Seems like a logical (thinking) kind of person.

\- smiley. Laughs easily.

\- i think he's self conscious? Like he hates being in the spotlight and wont go out of his way to do smth if others are watching

\-sucks at initiating convos but amazing at continuing it

\- seems to be okay with both small and deep talks but i think he prefers deep talk but he doesnt seem to be like the philsophical kind

\- not acts of service (idt he likes receiving and giving it)

\- more of a STEM person (he loves math) than a arts/humanities person. He told me he's more of a step by step person.


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 1d ago

FIRST TYPING ATTEMPT help with typing

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If you are going to attempt to type me, please make sure to thoroughly read. I will give some points with links to extensive docs after. Feel free to ask any questions and please explain why you came to your conclusion.

IN SHORT:
- i am most characterized by input in active discussions, sharing opinions (logical or feelings), explaining, correcting or informing others, coming up with solutions, advising, understanding.
- i constantly over-explain and have a lot to say
- i have intense emotions and are easily controlled by them.
- i can easily understand meanings, seeing how a situation will manifest, and i am passionate about knowing things thoroughly and cause and effect.
- i care about things making factual, logical sense. i try to always be realistic and never optimistic.
- want things done in the best way if i am doing something.
- i lay in my bed all day, anything i do is in my bed. i may read, talk, research, scroll (primarily), listen to music and daydream (primarily), but its all in my bed
- my boyfriend says i claim to hate everything or say everything is disgusting
- conserving time and energy, outputting thoughts and feelings.
- cannot sit with conflict and must resolve it immediately. i care a lot about eliminating misunderstandings and getting points across (resolutions).
\- i care less about the result and more about if the process makes sense
\- i fear the future a lot and try to avoid mistakes
\- i am silently competitive
\- i wish for a lot of things without any effort to attain them
\- need mental stimulation and love sharing ideas and being asked questions, have been told id make a good professor (i speak clearly as well)
\- get bored easily and need a lot of new things
\- hard to satisfy
\- have most fun in groups and seeing other’s reactions to me
\- chill with doing what others want in an environmental sense (e.g. choosing the restaurant or what to do/where to go) but stubborn in values
\- wants to know the secrets of everyone and can often get others to open up to me after a short amount of time. i promote openness
\- its hard for me to keep my feelings to myself and i feel the need to share them
\- highly squeamish and indolent yet highly stingy, possessive, and comfort-seeking
\- love being praised for my skills
\- enjoy making and sharing art and expression
\- enjoy making and sharing logical chains of reason
\- highly interested in how im perceived and other’s opinions on me (for no particular reason, just wanting to know)
\- i adore being able to talk about myself
\- often compare myself to others and fear being inferior (and frequently think i am). i tend to be very self-loathing
\- enjoys positions of administration; i like to direct others in the best course of action because i am cautious of others doing it in the best way.
- seek to influence others

IRL FRIEND DESCRIBES ME AS: not afraid to talk about dark things, attentive to how others feel, saying what i think, taking the path of least resistance subconsciously, lazy, having a lot of potential, very social and always talking to someone, admirable, expressive.
BOYFRIEND DESCRIBES ME AS: lazy, negative and prone to worry, very squeamish, very sensitive and hysterical, over-sharer, extraverted, rude and pretentious to others, stressed about flaws, compares myself to others, cares what others think, mental and not physical, attention-seeking, emotionally intense
TEACHER(S) DESCRIBES ME AS: very engaged, thoughtful, talkative, interacting with others, perfection in work, procrastinating, hard to start work, forgetful, well-informed, lazy, anxious, creative and artistic

FOR A LOT OF INFORMATION read the first link (even if it is made for psychosophy, it is highly detailed and extensive on myself)
[more info](https://docs.google.com/document/d/1NPrl-7_xlWEdkLyoH8Y15_cZJyovh0-4vL73y9DdQCs/edit?usp=drivesdk)
[more info](https://docs.google.com/document/d/16kLykOU758RNtJiA7B8W4HmB5cyQQv6z8urtVa8YkrY/edit?usp=drivesdk)
[more info](https://docs.google.com/document/d/12PTeMgsfNHSOrApyUQGx4Qb1wRfr9SNlS5fCpVvgK7s/edit?usp=drivesdk)


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 1d ago

CAN’T DECIDE Type me- 20f

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Type me

Someone suggested id add photos and interest so

Im into editing, like tv characters, i could say im prettyyy good , usually make the HOT ones only

I like katseye, spesifically megan

My education is middle school, I dropped out at 15 bc of mh, im 20 and still js at home all day

I have pots, limiting my energy extremley, bpd and conduct disorder which affects how strongly i feel or the fact rhat i dont have empathy for people

I can have sympathy for old people and empathy for animals only

I think imma work in kindergarten as a adult, set the goal when i was a kid, when im ready ill be working there, not cuz i like kids or like to help, simply because its the easiest job for me with decent pay w no education. Kids looks up to me

I have a girlfriend whos on the last picture, shes a infp 9w1, we r completely opossite in every way

Im very objective, logical, following proof, and very aware of details around me, how to solve stuff, efficient, but can have a hard time controlling anger, being disrespectfull etc, very startegic and at times a perfectionist within whatever i want, id say my emotions are my weak point, strong but a weakness, i can at times follow my feelings while being 100% aware im in the wrong if im mad enough

Ask questions if needed i really wanna find my type!


r/MbtiTypeMe • • 1d ago

CAN’T DECIDE Need Help

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I learn best when I’m given a general rule, which I then use to adapt to specific situations. For instance, I’m currently learning chess on Duolingo; I use concepts from the lessons—like pawn chains or placing knights in the center—as a foundation, and for the rest, I simply react to how the game unfolds. I focus on the immediate consequences of my moves rather than trying to plan four steps ahead.

I don’t have a strictly defined personal value system, but I tend to make judgments based on a humanistic perspective that comes from within. My primary guiding principle is, "don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to yourself." As situations arise, I evaluate them as good, bad, or neutral. I also feel genuinely bad if I do something I consider wrong or if I cause harm to someone without a valid reason.

I find it difficult to rely solely on my own intuition or internal thoughts, especially when I realize that my own reasoning might not be entirely reliable. While I generally prefer to have an external framework to lean on, I sometimes have to fall back on my own judgment when other sources aren't trustworthy.

Before experiencing bullying, I used to be deeply affected when people acted in morally wrong ways for no apparent reason. Since then, I’ve become much more detached—nothing surprises me anymore—and I find myself analyzing situations logically rather than reacting emotionally, its linda strange, like "I don't like this kind of people" and at the same time "it happens, people do that".

I always try to strike a balance between logic and emotion; I look for solutions that are both practical and personally satisfying. When I help someone, I make it a point to understand their feelings first, before offering concrete steps to assist them.

I don’t like being thrown into unfamiliar physical situations without knowing what to do; however, when it comes to games, websites, and things of that nature, I find it much easier to improvise.

I do care about what others think, to a certain extent—I don’t want to be judged or excluded over trivial matters like my style or haircut. I feel more comfortable when I at least meet basic social standards, though I also don’t want to come across as a total "NPC."

Furthermore, I rarely commit to any specific ideology or defend anything with great fervor. I operate under the assumption that no set of ideals is absolute and that I could always be wrong (partly because my knowledge of such topics is limited), so I often end up sitting on the fence regarding many issues.