Yesterday I had an ambivalent moment in a sparring session. I was matched with this 40 year old uncle who began punching hard, which is okay but out of nowhere threw a jumping teep with all his might sending me close to some equipment.
I returned a hard but not 100% teep and told him to go lightly, which he completely ignored and threw another hail marry ducking overhand, which I warned him again to go lightly.
At that point I realised this guy had 0 technique and leaving openings left and right, he only repeated two more times the same duck-overhand combo which ended with his head in a headlock.
I remained in the round but just pushed him and threw some light jabs to keep him at bay. For a reason I decided to not attack back and contain my emotions as I didn’t want to participate in his BDSM experiment (he was blissful when he got hit) or risk injury for the other sparring rounds.
Part of me is proud for not losing my temper and felt like a mature fighting mindset (why hurt a guy that obviously cant defend himself yet properly). But another part felt like I acted too passively to not escalate and I should had punished him for his actions.
Have you guys/girls had similar situations and did I react good for the situation?
Cant help but feel a bit of a bitch for not doing him dirty as well.