This is not a post about "look what a decent person I am who cares", but truly a concern about our culture and where we're heading.
I understand that we all should pay a bus fare and nobody is entitled for a free ride etc etc. BUT my mood was entirely ruined when a bus driver didn't take a 70+ yo man in today who asked him for a ride for couple of stops and, apparently, forgot his free pass.
I didn't have a chance to go and press my card against the reader as the driver just said "No!", let him out and moved.
Do bus drivers get any directions on who to help out and take in such situations and who to ignore? Is it entirely on their own discretion or there're some rules? I often see very kind drivers who take people in without much explanation needed but some are just nasty.
If it was a young person who could walk 2-3 stops, I understand, it'd a different situation, but this older man was wearing a thick scarf and kept his mouth closed - obviously, a bit struggling and, possibly, cold!
Also, can't we just, sometimes, leave the rules and capitalism's restrictions aside and simply help and push the culture of kindness and care over greed and strict corporate handbook?
I come from a culture where older people are treated very, very kindly, we give them a sit, we never say rude things to them and we never argue with them and we are just patient with elderly back home. Here, I'm just culturally lost, sometimes. I'm not saying that my culture is better, I know that older people can exploit it and go too far, but I think, we can definitely give them a bigger discount.
I just wanted to share it here. Maybe, if you see the situation like this, just push your own card against the reader and let the older or very young person take that free ride, get that free coffee or bread or whatever they couldn't pay for that day. Let's push kindness against handbook rules which are, sometimes, totally unnecessary.
Sorry for an emotional post. My heart still aches and I feel very helpless, isolated and cold after seeing anything like this day to day.