Bro, what are people even thinking on here??!?! I prefer twinks and college guys, but I will hookup with a daddy if hes hung and even remotely attractive and sane.

Talked to this guy, he said he was 53. That is about my limit but he had a few pics and he looked in shape, relatively good clear skin, and a MASSIVE cock. He also lived only 3 minutes away from me.

I swear, I show up to his house and he had to be ATLEAST 75. I shit you not, he came to the door WITH A WALKER. At first I was embarrassed cause I thought I had the wrong house and he goes "Hey Tyler, you got here quick".

I had no idea what to say. I just laughed and said something like "dude you cant be fucking serious". I got back in my car and left.

He had the nerve to message me and ask me if something came up. I confronted him and he said something along the lines of "I haven't updated my pics in awhile but I look the same."

Bro, no you don't. At all. I said atleast 75 but if he told someone he was in his late 80s, you would believe him.

Did he really think I was just gonna go along with it? I mean, I am trying not to be mean because we will all get old someday, but damn dude. Sorry I dont wanna blow someone who was alive during the Civil War.

he messaged me with a bunch of selfies and nudes, and i told him i wasnt interested and he... sent thise messages LMAO

Major cope

lately I’ve been coming across SO MANY accounts that state they want “ftm or cis females” im like ok cool everyone has a preference but these men get on with the intentions of seeing nothing but females on a GAY app.

theres always a lower percent of tops than bottoms & all the tops nowadays are seeking out woman for sex & its getting frustrating. majority of the time they have something rude in their bio like “no men I block instantly” like dude you know where you are right? sniffies has hella woman potraying to be ftm so I expected to see str8 men looking more over there but on grindr? not really.

I’ll simply j/o if I cant get any but the times when I really do want someone its always the same thing… “not into men or masc” even sometimes when I portray myself to be fem & wear lingerie (which I look very feminine in) they still seem hesitant.

WE NEED REAL TOPS BACK THAT LIKE POUNDING OTHER MEN!

Started chatting with a guy on Grindr and we were getting along great. I gave him my Google voice number so we could communicate easier. He thought I was some kind of scammer and deleted and blocked me. FML.

People that message you that show alot of interest, often love bombing, you hit it off well with this person then you never hear from them again even though you keep messaging them they've been online since.

And it's ALWAYS someone really attractive. At this point considering how often it happens and how soul crushing it is I genuinely believe they are fakes trying to ruin people's day, and I dont mean just a troll but someone actually out to make people suffer.

I feel like there’s so many more new weird scams on this app so maybe I’m paranoid or overly cautious, but is this a scam?

Just wondering if anyone else is dealing with glitches in the last week. After years on the app something changed 6 days ago. Can’t favorite. Can’t block. Once opening a profile many times I can’t go back. Have to close app and reopen. Checked App Store and nothing to update. Turned phone off and on multiple times. No improvement. Anyone else dealing with issues like this recently?

Just wondering if anyone else is dealing with glitches in the last week. After years on the app something changed 6 days ago. Can’t favorite. Can’t block. Once opening a profile many times I can’t go back. Have to close app and reopen. Checked App Store and nothing to update. Turned phone off and on multiple times. No improvement. Anyone else dealing with issues like this recently?

I’m quite surprised by the depth of Grindr penetration in rural Thailand, considering how unevenly distributed the population in the country is (Bangkok is usually considered one of the world’s most primate cities). Malaysia also has many more users than I expected.

Got so sick of the bots, scammers, women and all the rest that has made this app unusable so I pulled the trigger and deleted it. When it first started it was interesting and I had some pretty good connections even at my old age. Now, it has just become tiresome. I hope it gets better for those who stay. Good luck you guys!

For context, I've been mostly a top my entire adult life. Out of all my sexual encounters, I've topped in about 95% of them. So before anyone comes in here saying, "Just another bottom complaining," no, buddy. I've been a top for the majority of my life.

I've tried bottoming before, but it was always a painful experience. I would occasionally bottom maybe 3 - 4 times a year, usually in the heat of the moment. Sometimes it was okay, and sometimes it was the worst experience ever. However, as I'm nearing 30, I've finally gotten the hang of prepping and getting ready to bottom more. I've done my research, know what to do now, and actually enjoy it. I've even been told I have an amazing bubble butt lol.

But I find it to be the most miserable experience ever trying to transition to being an official vers. I used to have no problem finding sex as a top. My inbox would be full all the time, and even earlier this year, when I was still only topping, I had a lot of luck finding sex with little to no trouble. But when I tell you these past two months have been the worst experience of my life.

Not only do I get blocked instantly for trying to reach out to people, but I also sense this sort of hostility toward people who bottom or who aren't strict tops. What's up with that? I see full bottoms putting "NO VERS" in their profiles with exclamation marks. I occasionally get a message every now and then, but it will literally take me 4 - 5 days just to find one guy to top. Even now the bottoms don't want me no more LOL.

And for me, I'm not one of those people who's like, If you're vers, or a verse bottom, you can't top me. If you're vers and wanna top, I'm all for it. I actually encourage it because I feel like you gotta fight with so many vers bottoms to get them to top, and I say this because 2 years ago, I met someone who agreed to flip, I ended just topping lol. I mean I didn't mind because I didn't feel like bottoming anyways but he was the one that said we should btw so I'm confused lol. It's always an excuse why they can't lol. At that point, just change your position to bottom I guess.

Is this really the bottoming experience? How are there so many bottoms when this is what you have to deal with?

I still don't mind topping, and I'll occasionally have a guy send me some ass pics, and I'm all for topping if they do and I'm feeling it. But like I said, I've noticed my luck finding sex has dramatically decreased ever since I transitioned to being vers. I've done my part for the gay world being a top in a the land of bottoms but I ain't know it would be this hard to bottom, damn twin, now I'm treated like trash. 😪

Also, disclosure, no this wasn't written with AI. I wrote this all myself and asked it to proof read so you guys don't police me for my grammer and sentence structure lol.

I made my account at the age of 18 in NY USA, I git banned for being over aged, its been almost 2 years and and im still banned. I tried going through the process, so what are some mistakes that I could have made, any tips, new avenues. What can I do

People irritate me.

I don't send pics if I'm not meeting someone btw.

I've gotten a few messages in the same format. Anyone else get messages like this

So how do you all interpret it when you tap someone and they only tap back (rather than send some sort of message)? Does that indicate actual interest or is it more so just a thanks for recognizing me. When I’m interested in someone who taps me, I usually also send a message…

Scruff sub dead. I thought I was straight forward enough

Why do people not block guys they’re not interested in? For example, if you don’t like guys or a certain age- why not just block everyone that doesn’t fit your criteria instead of allowing them to communicate with you?

If someone messages me multiple times when I never respond, block. If there’s someone I’m DEFINITELY not interested in, block. If someone doesn’t respond to me after a first MAYBE a second attempt, block.

Why is this so hard for people? It’s helpful. The block button is helpful!

I'm in the UK. I do have valid ID that proves I'm an adult I just don't want to send that off to a random 3rd party. VPN worked for a bit but doesn't anymore. Anyone found a way around this?