r/friendship • • 5h ago

looking for friendship 35/M off work, home and bored, let’s be friends?

7 Upvotes

Hello all, i hope everyone who reads this is doing well!

As the title says i have the night off and looking for some good convo, im horrible at talking about myself but i’ll give it a try

Im a huge nerd, i collect action figures, play video games, i watch anime from time to time

I love movies

And i do a bit of art too mostly drawing and some sculpting

I hope to see ya’ll in my DMs soon

Optional ice breaker: least and most favorite movie


r/friendship • • 5m ago

looking for friendship Looking for someone to chat with:)

• Upvotes

17F and have 2 free hours

My friend kinda ditched me and so now I'm sitting alone at a park with nothing to do for the next 2 hours so I'm kinda looking for someone to chat With xD I can talk abt anything really but I'd prefer if you liked anime or videogames and that's it.


r/friendship • • 7h ago

looking for friendship 20M anyone want to play or chat with me

6 Upvotes

I’m in college and pretty bored, so I figured I’d chat with random people. I love video games, movies, and TV shows and I like going on walks and study chem. 


r/friendship • • 14h ago

looking for friendship 23F | looking for my kind of people

12 Upvotes

23F from the US looking to meet some cool people and hopefully make a few genuine friends.

I’m into gaming, music, movies, anime, comics, writing, and basically anything I can get weirdly invested in. I love people who have a lot to say about the things they love, have unhinged movie takes, send random memes, and can turn literally anything into a conversation.

Looking for people I can text throughout the day, yap about whatever’s going on, share music with, talk about life, or randomly get way too invested in some completely unnecessary debate with. I want the kind of friendship where we can be idiots together but also have actual conversations.

US-based and preferably around my age. You don’t have to be insanely outgoing, just someone who actually wants to get to know each other.

Tell me what you’re obsessed with lately, your most controversial opinion, or something random about yourself. Please have more to say than just “hey” because I promise I will work with almost anything else.


r/friendship • • 7h ago

looking for friendship 23M Looking for long-term friendship

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm 23M from Hong Kong. For me, making friends in real life is not easy. So I'm looking for friendship on Reddit, hopefully meeting friends from all over the world. Let's see if we have similar interests and can get along!

My favourite hobbies and interests include travelling, watching movies and TV series, learning Japanese culture, cycling, watching and playing football, and going to the gym.

You can dm me anytime if you are interested in making a friend! We can talk about literally anything, from little things in life, your hobbies and interests, to your dreams and goals. Feel free to share!


r/friendship • • 8h ago

looking for friendship 17f looking for people i vibe with :]

2 Upvotes

hiiii im faith! im laying in bed listening to music and playing a game on my xbox but i would love to yap while i did i love music and baking/cooking i play a ton of video games erm i work a lot but i love crafty things when i have the time like bedazzling stuff and crocheting things i love aliens and fish and cats andddd yeah! im looking for more friends so if you wanna talk come hmu :D


r/friendship • • 11h ago

looking for friendship 18F. If you had 24 hours to do anything without consequences, what would you do?

4 Upvotes

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/friendship • • 13h ago

looking for friendship 28m looking for meaningful discussion and connection

4 Upvotes

I value most of all trying to build a connection where there's a mutual adoration for mind and heart. I adore people most when they're passionate, thoughtful, weird, and a bit unstable. Someone on here asked me for five words to describe myself, and I believe thoughtful, sentimental, fearful, earnest, and caring are apt. I struggle a lot with MDD and CPTSD among other issues.

My personal interests involve video games, tabletop games, animated shows, music, reading, and movies. I'd like to try writing more but I'm quite bad at that.

Lately I've been playing WoW Forever and Deadlock. I've been rewatching shows that I love, like Evangelion and Utena. I recently watched the film The Man Who Sleeps and next I'll watch Suspiria or Chloe from 5 to 7. I've been reading The Picture of Dorian Gray and Nausea. Bands I've been listening to most are Will Wood, Man Man, Sir Chloe, and Ramshackle Glory.

Since I want my connections to be long-lasting, I'd ideally want us to both live in the US. International connections feel doomed by distance in my experience. I also deeply value anarchist principles and I care a lot about personal rights so please don't reach out if you're a conservative in any way.


r/friendship • • 8h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

1 Upvotes

Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship • • 9h ago

looking for friendship 30M - Looking to make friends!

0 Upvotes

I’m from the East Coast, but I’m open to befriending anyone from anywhere! I enjoy traveling (usually for concerts or to visit attractions or restaurants), I’m a concertgoer and a moviegoer, a new hobby of mine is reading (currently reading “The Alchemist”), and I play video games whenever possible (usually on the PS5, Steam Deck, or Switch).

Some of my favorite anime/manga series are Attack On Titan, Death Note, Elfen Lied, Naruto, Tokyo Ghoul, etc.

I’ve recently watched “Clayface,” “Digger,” “Klara and the Sun,” “Resident Evil,” “Whalefall,” and “Wildwood.”

I mostly listen to deathcore, metalcore, and progressive metal, some reggaeton, and a bit of hip-hop/rap. Metal bands I currently have on repeat are Between The Buried And Me, Boundaries, Crown Magnetar, Darko US, Mental Cruelty, and Psycho-Frame. Reggaeton artists I listen to most are Bad Bunny, Karol G, Omar Courtz, and Rauw Alejandro.

Video games I usually play are Final Fantasy, Golden Sun, Kingdom Hearts, Mega Man Battle Network, Pokémon, and The Legend Of Zelda. Action/adventure, platformer, and RPG games are my go-to.

We don’t have to have the same interests, but I’m open to recommendations whether it comes to books, music, shows, etc. Feel free to message me!


r/friendship • • 20h ago

looking for friendship 31/F I'm still here to find someone special! I'm not Interested In conversations with people who are bored or horny! I'm here to find emotionally mature & friendless Introverts who value respect & honesty! I want my loneliness to come to an end 😔

6 Upvotes

(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.


r/friendship • • 10h ago

looking for friendship 23m kinda bored need some new friends

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Hey, 23m, from the uk and im in need of some friends. I get very bored and lonely recently because lots of my friends are working and at uni, so there hasn't been many plans, so id love people to talk to. Literally anybody, i like meeting all people from everywhere and learning about new people and things you know? Long or short term too i dont really mind id prefer long term but a nice chat for today is fun.

Anyway a little about, i like sports, videos games tv etc. My favourite sport to watch is football (soccer) but also love swimming and cricket, but honestly ill watch anything if im bored enough. Video games, i play all sorts, fps like fortnite, overwatch, rainbow six. Then strategy like hoi4, and civ6. I like city buildr type games too. Ive also currently been playing cyberpunk, i also like casual games and stuff like stardew valley. Tv shows, I mean a few things, I like sitcoms very rewatchable, I dont really like sitting in silence yk. Oooo I love music too mostly pop, kinda vanilla like that, but folk and other things.

Anyway thank you for reading this far, very nice of you. I hope you message but if you dont want too thats cool, have a nice night!!


r/friendship • • 13h ago

looking for friendship 20F, I'm looking to make friends with Sonic fans

1 Upvotes

I've been a Sonic fan for years, I've played the games, read the comics, and watched the series. I'd love to meet other Sonic fans! Have you ever created an original character? What's your favorite character? (Mine is Knuckles).

What are your favorite media? Have you seen that weird Sonic series? The one where Robotnik pulls a brick out of his eye? It's really bizarre, lol XD Send me a DM


r/friendship • • 13h ago

looking for friendship [19m] Looking for friends, esp if we can game (gta, fortnite and others) (read the entire thing and carefully please)

1 Upvotes

Hello there! I'm Faris, a Malaysian dude Living in New Zealand and I'm looking for friends (be 17+ pls) to make friends with, I game a lot so that can be something we can do. Games I play on PC include:

  • Fortnite
  • GTA Enhanced
  • Meccha Chameleon
  • Minecraft
  • REPO
  • SoT
  • Phasmo
  • RDR2
  • Roblox
  • Rivals
  • Battlefront II

Aside from gaming I am also interested in a lot of other typical nerd things like Star Wars. Marvel, DC, Pokémon, Harry Potter and some other medias like Anime etc. I absolutely love Lego especially the star wars and ninjago themes (I love the show to). I also do love the sport of Football and support the epl team Arsenal FC (hope they don't bottle this time), one little thing I am interested thing is exploring my childhood nostalgia, by that i mean Thomas and Friends as I absolutely loved it as a kid and still have some interest in it now. I also try working out at home to stay fit at least a little bit. Oh and I have 5 cats haha, just throwing that out there incase anyone want to see em

Now terms for friendship, I am more like likely to respond to you if you play Fortnite or GTA because I would eventually wanna play with you. If you are interested please dm me, if we click I can add you on discord or insta. For me to ensure that you have read the whole thing, please dm me with the following: Name, Age, Gender and Location, alongside games list (remember more likely to respond if you play GTA or Fortnite), platform (I can only play pc games or cross platformers) and other extra info abt u. If you list all of those in your intro DM then I will 100% respond, you miss one or two of em, your chances decrease, you miss all of em you will be ignored and it's your own fault. So please read carefully or else, anyways take care and have a good one, hope to see you respond.


r/friendship • • 14h ago

looking for friendship M24 Lonely Goth dude looking for nerdy or silly friends to yap with!

1 Upvotes

Hey there, hope you're well. My name is B or Bitter and as the title might let you know or warn you about, I'm looking for friends, particularly with those of the eccentric or dorky variety. I'll be straight with you, things haven't been so good lately and I could just really someone to talk to. Maybe about life or about random fixations or even about my OCs which I adore and love to gush over. In return I offer the exact same hehe. I like to think I'm good at both communication but also listening but that might not be true. Either way, I try. Besides the other stuff I might have mentioned I like video games, writing, goth music and aesthetic, anything weird or macabre, combat sports, fitness, cooking and probably more stuff. I'm really hoping to hear from you and hoping that you'll give me the time to get to know you too. See ya!


r/friendship • • 14h ago

looking for friendship 36M Chronically online and cringe 🥀 looking for a long term bond with someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together!!

0 Upvotes

Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but I don't reply to short/low effort messages, stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations. I also don't reply to people that don't have much in common with me, I would like to find someone that's similar to me and has similar interests and likes. I'm sorry but even if your message is long, if we don't have anything in common it's just not what I'm looking for. I'm also not interested in people that aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm honestly kind of a huge loser lmao. I've never been able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way cause to me, they're genuinely so cool and I wanna be like them jahshshdh

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive and I still don't understand my purpose in life.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Touching grass isn't for me 😭 Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TT and to watch long essay style videos on YT about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern AAA games, especially nowadays with how bad the video game industry is but I LOVE indie games!! Some of my favorites are indies like Spelunky my beloved 🖤 I also really like older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people, I hate I people in positions of power that use said power to affect other people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. when I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally, I'd like to reiterate that I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together! I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I'm looking for a very specific close bond with someone which I think I'll never honestly find but I'll keep trying cause I hate to give up!! And you honestly never know :)

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory or awful in anyway.

Also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!


r/friendship • • 1d ago

looking for friendship 34 f looking for creative friend

7 Upvotes

Hey there, bud!

I’d like a buddy who’s truly creative where we can share our daily projects and artistic endeavors.

I draw, paint, sculpt.. anything really.
If creativity keeps you alive, let’s chat.

I work overnights so my sleep schedule is a bit odd. No pressure on immediate replies - we all have lives to live.

I skate (mainly cruise around on my nickle board) and I also enjoy cozy pc games.
Dm me to see if we can click as buddies ✌🏼


r/friendship • • 16h ago

looking for friendship 16yo trans girl from the UK

1 Upvotes

pls be from europe or UK too, I dont want a massive timezone difference.

my interests:

I like to cook and bake (wouldn't say im the best cook/baker but im certainly alright at it)

I play roblox, minecraft, subnautica 2 and brawlstars

I like astronomy (mostly learning about planets/exoplanets)

I love walks, anywhere really, forests, beaches, cities but also especially at night.

I LOVE horror movies (and games), sometimes ill watch anime, scifi or comedy

Love thrifting and finding cute new clothes!!

Listening to music, my fav artist is lil peep

Got 2 cats and 1 dog, although, i've always wanted a bunny

Like listening to true crime


r/friendship • • 16h ago

looking for friendship 31M — Looking for good conversations and unexpected friendships

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 😊

I thought I’d give this a try and see if I can meet some new people to chat with and hopefully make a few genuine connections along the way.

A little about me: I’m into basketball, going to the gym, cooking, traveling, gaming, and watching movies and series. I’ve also been learning Japanese for a while and will be heading to Japan for the third time soon, which I’m really looking forward to!

I have a background in science and enjoy learning new things, exploring different topics, and understanding how things work. I’m happy talking about pretty much anything, whether it’s everyday life, hobbies, travel experiences, random shower thoughts, or something a little deeper. And as a random fun fact, I once appeared in a local Netflix show!

I’m pretty open-minded and enjoy getting to know people with different backgrounds and interests. Whether we end up having random conversations, exchanging memes, or talking about life for hours, I’m happy to see where things go.

If any of this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re into, or just start with a random question. 😊


r/friendship • • 17h ago

looking for friendship 24M Looking for friends

0 Upvotes

So, I currently love by myself and I moved to a new city where I have no friend around. For years, I have been working on project like rockets, drones, mechanics and software.

I like to teach some things new to my friends and loved ones. I like to share and talk and I am always open to discuss. I like having international friends and I would like to meet.

Dm or just write down


r/friendship • • 18h ago

advice What to do if you’ve outgrown a friendship?

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I’ve known my friend for a long time. We used to be able to connect on a deeply, and she has helped me through tough times.

But in the past years, I don’t feel safe enough to share my life stories or shameful secrets. Mainly because I feel so behind on certain aspects and I don’t want to rain on her parade. Hypothetically, it feels like celebrating your friend’s baby shower while you just had a miscarriage.

I’ve also suggested new things only to be shutdown. Yet after some time, she will say that she tried the same thing another friend recommended her and loved it. It sucks to know my opinions are not valued.

Regardless, I value the time we spent (or maybe it’s just sunk cost fallacy?). I also want to prove to myself I can maintain long terms friendships. But I’m left with a sour taste in my mouth or cry after we meet (and we meet only a few times a year). What to do?


r/friendship • • 18h ago

looking for friendship M26, im bored, youre bored, lets be casual flirty friends!

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Wussup everyone! Honestly just trying to find interesting people to converse with, so anyone and everyone PLEASE hit me up and let’s see where things go! I wanna dive into whatever YOU find interesting, yes YOU, person reading this, HIT MY DMS, we have much to discuss! No limits! no judgement! I’m here for YOU! Whether that be venting, explaining, theorizing, philosophizing, or anything else you can think of. What are you waiting for?? 21+ only please!!!


r/friendship • • 19h ago

looking for friendship Hi f20 looking for new friends

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Hii i would love to meet new ppl and make new friends, im someone with diverse interests and hobbies, my main ones tho are art (writing, drawing, painting tho i got into digital), cooking, swimming, video games(my first game was tomb raider when i was only3yo) and CATS(yeah i consider cats a hobby atp)

Hmm what else i would want someone around my age preferably someone who would introduce themselves not just say hi, and maybe someone who wants to become study partners


r/friendship • • 1d ago

looking for friendship Sitcoms really misled me on what adult friendships would be like

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Friends, Sinfield, How I met your Mother, growing up watching early 2000s sitcoms really misrepresented what friendships as an adult would be like. During college, I worked full-time and during grad school, I added assistantships to also working and there never was time to develop friendships. I moved states multiple times in my early career to chase advancements. By the time I had reached a comfortable place in my career, COVID happened. Now I’m established, comfortable, married with a child, but am really missing the social and friendship component in life. Not to sound like a kid, but I’d really like a best friend or a few.

I’m 40, male. I like going to baseball games, camping, hiking, playing board games and Lorcana. When I was in my early 20s I hung out with the LGBTQ crowd and am really comfortable there. I’d like to workout, but currently don’t. I’m pretty laid back and like to text throughout the day, so I’m also good for passing time that way. I’m just throwing myself out there and looking for anyone else who may be seeking the same thing.


r/friendship • • 21h ago

looking for friendship 26F, Who Am I? I Am a Joke, I Guess

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“Please introduce yourself.”

Probably one of the hardest questions during interviews. It’s easy to say, “I’m blah blah, 26, from somewhere in the world,” then list your achievements, skills, and experiences. Funny how that generic answer is already programmed in my head.

But if I ask myself who I really am, the answer gets a little harder. I’m a mess, but I’m a good daughter. Or at least, I’m trying to be. Am I a good person? I’d like to think so. Do I get angry? I do. Am I reasonable? Most of the time, probably not. I’m just one person among billions, trying to survive one day at a time.

Sometimes I wonder how everyone else is doing too. Did someone celebrate something today? Get a promotion? Or maybe simply enjoy their favorite food after a long day. Some people are at the top of the world, while others are barely holding on. We rarely know which is which. So, I guess, let’s be kind. Be the person we’d want to meet on a difficult day.

Anyway, that’s me. A 26 year old still figuring things out.

Nice to meet you.